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Friendship
Friendship is a beautiful thing that can get messy sometimes. Ask your question here.


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friend troubles


Posted Thursday November 1 2007, 11:16 am

I was good friends with these girls freshman year, they kinda put me in the middle of a fight making me have to choose between their group and the other 2 girls in the group..i unfortunately chose the other 2 girls cause we were in a youth group together so i thought we'd get close. We stopped hanging out last year, and the original other girls started getting closer and closer. Now I have 3 classes with 2 of the girls and it's like akward like we talk and stuff but im not friends with them and I really really want to be. I keep asking them to hang out but they always say no and i mean we have such a past together!! ahh help me!

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how do I get rid of him?


Posted Tuesday October 30 2007, 7:43 pm

16/f.
i've been talking to this guy (19yo) online because i was bored. yes, stupid, i know. i met him on a forum and we've talked on msn for a year and some months.
he used to be nice, and i used to like him. but now, i think he's disgusting. he's perverted, makes the most GROSSEST jokes, and never even talks to me when i sign on. he's honestly a waste of time.
but we're still pretty close. if i were to delete him, like..i wouldn't care. whatever. i hate him anyways. but he would start stalking me on my e-mail and stuff and bothering me. and it just really creeps me out that he likes me in 'that way'.

do i just delete him? like that? he's really gross. and i'm even scared that he could be a pedophile (i can see it being possible :/)

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Annoying girl.


Posted Tuesday October 30 2007, 6:57 pm

Kay well theres this girl and I've known her since I moved to my town when i was like 6. and she's always been annoying and really bossy and controling and thought she was always right. she still is that way, 7 years later (we're in 8th grade). it was only once in 2nd grade where she realized to not be so mean and she could actually make friends. well theres this younger girl in our neighborhood.. and she always follows what that annoying girl says or tells her to do. like when we were younger and even now she'd like make her and some other young kids like follow her lead.. like she'd give them spelling homework and stuff.. and im like. your not their teacher. and she'd MAKE them do it. and whenever we played games outside, like her, me, an...

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ive been sad and my bestfriend......


Posted Tuesday October 30 2007, 5:29 pm

so the last couple of days i have felt really sad and i dnt understadn why, i think it may have something to do with, something that i honestly shouldnnt care about, and its her life so.... anyways so my bestfriend basically fell in love with this guy for like a year straight she basically obsessed over him the ywent out for like a month but didnt do anything they looked like they were just friends i mean i have a relationship better with my friends the nthey did going out you couldnt even tell they liked eachother.....so she broke up with him, after a while she forgot about him but that was after a year and a half, and she moved on you know everything was good the entire summer last couple months of school first couple months of school thi...

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Drinking Underage


Posted Monday October 29 2007, 10:03 pm

hi im 15 years old and i got an MIC or in other words minor in consumption. I live in Overland Park Kansas and was obviously illegaly drinking. I was at a movie theatre and was caught because i was stumbling and wreaked of vodka. I weigh 93 pounds and had 3 shots of Smirrnoff. I blew a 1.0 and was maybe also charged with obstruction of justice because I would not say who got me the achohol or who I was with. How much trouble do you think I will be in? Is there a possiblity i will not be put on diversion because it was my first offense? I rate high, so please HELP!

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homecoming.


Posted Monday October 29 2007, 7:05 pm

so im going to homecoming with one of my friends, as friends. only he's not one of my really good friends but hes a friend. the only problem is he likes me and i dont like him. im afraid of the awkwardness. I wanna have the time of my life at homecoming but idk i think it'll be weird, especially if he follows me around. I do understand that since were going together i have to slow dance with him. but i dont really want to slow dance every dance with him. so im thinking maybe once or twice? but what do i say if he asks me again after that? Or what if he expects were together if i keep slow dancing with him? I also feel that it will be an awkward drive on the way to the dance. we havent really coordinated that stuff yet but we are going to a ...

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Friend hates the boyfriend.


Posted Monday October 29 2007, 7:56 am

So a few hours my friend asked me out and I said yes.

Except he and my best friend have never gotten along. That's all fine and stuff, and even he doesn't care I'm friends with her.

But she's getting really pissed off. In those short few hours she's been getting a bit narky with me, and she actually said to me when he goes overseas she wants him to find another another girl to be 'her problem'

I think she also may be jealous I found a guy and she hasn't.

What the HELL do I say to her to get her to pull her head out of her ass?

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i dont want my bff to end up like me


Posted Sunday October 28 2007, 3:56 pm

one of my bffs grandpa died. his grandpa was the only person he could really trust. i know how it is because i cant trust anybody because i only wanted my grandpa and he died. and my bff cried his eyes out on the bus. ive never seen him cry before. he left in the middle of school to go across the country to his grandpas funeral. my family got a big thing of flowers for him to be givin to them at the funeral home. i just dont know what to do. i dont want him to end up like me. i lost all i could ever trust and now he did and when i did i went straight downhill. cutting depression i changed my friends and clothes and music. he cant stand when i dress like that but hes ok with it. on the bus he would only talk to me and our friend. we talked ...

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the big 1-6


Posted Sunday October 28 2007, 12:29 am

ok well im turning 16 soon and im gonna have a party. I'm just gonna have a few girls come over and my boyfriend. so i need things like games and stuff we can do cuz im completely stumped this is gonna be my first birthday party. Please help out i need games/activities fun things to do.

ASAP!? please

and as many ideas as you can think of i need tons :)

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why do people always say that they are bored?


Posted Saturday October 27 2007, 8:21 pm

why do some people always say that they are bored when they are hanging out with you? isnt that offensive.. doesnt it mean that theyre the boring person bc if they want something to be unboring they should make it fun

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Blown Off??


Posted Saturday October 27 2007, 3:14 pm

My Friend and i have been planing to go to this party for a while. But my one friend whos house i was gonna go to cancled on me because her wrist hurt!! i dont really think she wanted to go in the first place but she invited me over and every thing and just blew me off!!! Shes done this be for!! Should I be mad??

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best friend is "bored"


Posted Saturday October 27 2007, 12:51 pm

k soo im 15/f, sophomore, and i have these 2 best friends. yesterday after school we went to one's house..but..my best friend,"A", decided to leave at around 5:00. because she was BORED. and "tired". ok, so we were watching america's next top model..it was raining outside..we couldnt think of anything else to do. but she wanted to go home. k so youre probably like,whats wrong with that? she ALWAYS does it! the week before we were at my house and she left at 9:00 or something , while my other friend stayed till 10. and she even made her sister go home just because she wanted to go home. her 11 year old sister would stay out later than her! it's pathetic and we're 15 almost 16! i know our town is pretty boring, most of the...

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what should i dooo?


Posted Saturday October 27 2007, 11:47 am

Okay so like last night I was hanging with my friends, lets call them.. Hannah, Leslie and George

And george was gonna invite all of us over for a scary movie night for tonight and we all were like YAY YES WE CAN COMMEE!!
and the last night i slept at hannah's and this morning she was lile, "I wanna have alot of people over tonight" And then I was like "Well we are going to George's" And then Leslie was like "Yeah lets just tell him we all cant come though"

But i was like "no we can't do that thats mean we are practically ditching him"

And then we all go in this whole arugement and now we are pretty mad at eachother.

Hannah Said im sti...

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looking for overseas msn friend


Posted Saturday October 27 2007, 4:15 am

hey im 13/f and live in australia.i skate,i play guitar,im a tom-boy, i have a great sense of humer ,im fun and im looking for someone with the same intrests as me,male or female, to talk to on msn. i love meeting new people.even if u dont have the same intrests as me it would be great talking to some1 from another country.also if you live in australia and have the same intrests as me i wouldnt mind talking to you aswell.just leave your msn addy on the answer thing.

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16th!


Posted Friday October 26 2007, 11:39 pm

ok well my 16th b-day is comming up thats right sweet 16. this is gonna be my first party. Im gonna have a small maybe 5-10 people come over. Problem is i dont know what to do when they get here there isnt gonna be much. there will prolly be snow on the ground, i have a hottub and music i can play and video games if things get lame
lol.
please give me ideas of things to do and THEMES!! need both expecially things to do please i dont wanna bore people to death.

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self-centered friend


Posted Friday October 26 2007, 9:57 pm

16/f
okay i have a friend who's 16 too, we've known each other since last year. she's a junior and im a sophomore but we're in the same lunch and the same math class so we spend a lot of time together during the day. we also have a lot in common like we both play a (different) sport and we're both smart and we're both totally into dressing up for school.

her flaw is..SHES SO SELF CENTERRED! she never takes interest in me. she doesnt know what type of music i like, she never asks about my games, or takes any interest in anything i do, even though i do. she always talks about herself all the time. sometimes when im sharing something shell just zone out and suddenly say something completely offtopic from what im saying. t...

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I just can't stand her ANYMORE


Posted Friday October 26 2007, 8:17 pm

O.k well what can i say. My "friend" is a bich. she caused my bf to break up with me(long LONG story) and she is such a winey baby.

Like she "hurt" her jaw(don't ask me how) but somehow she "hurt" it. and know she talks with her teeth like tottaly stuck together(i KNOW FOR A FACT that she is faking)she is such an attention junkie. she also flirts with EVERYONE(guys). that's how my bf left me(he was annoyed with her) and she also is abosolutly the MOST ANNOYING person in the WORLD....

You probly think that i am being harsh or mean or that i am somehow possibly jealous of her.....but i am not. she is that way. even my other friends think we should "dump her" as a friend.

WHAT do i do????

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halloween "gathering" ideas


Posted Friday October 26 2007, 6:08 pm

hey! soo my two bestest friends in the whole wide world are coming over on halloween. one has a little sister and shes going trick-er-treating with her bff in my neighborhood and my other friends little brother is disabled and is going to dress up and come over for a little to drop off my friend. the one with the little brother is dressing as a NUN (dont ask why.. shes crazy like that! thats why i lover her!)!! and we were planning on watching halloween movies and stuff but we dont like scary movies. we were also going to eat smores and popcorn and stuff but i wanted to make it more "halloweenish". also, i have to hand out candy so idk what to where..
well i was wondering if you had any ideas on what we should eat, where, w...

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a boy who is my friend


Posted Thursday October 25 2007, 11:31 pm

ok..so... theres this boy at my school and i really like him...but theres a problem...were really good friends and its cool like this and all but i want more....last year i liked him to and he thought i only liked him cause he gave me attention..so i was mad at him for a long time and were now really good freinds again and the other day he found out i liked him again some how i have no idea how he found out!! and so im afraid hes going to think something like that again. im so confused i really like him but i dont know what to do can you please help me?

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Corwin, no believe


Posted Thursday October 25 2007, 5:03 pm

13/F

I was talkign about dating Corwin. He and i are just friends now... Well... Were. He came up to me and my friends saying we were being really loud. Then, he walked away from us down the hall and disappeared. Well, my friends started saying rude things, I told them yea, whatever, just hush. Well, it turns out. He must have super hearing because heard the other girls. Now, he thinks we aren't his friends. He says it's all an act. I tired to tell him we're still friends, but he doesn't believe us. It makes me sad. Corwin is really cool and all, but I dont' want him to be alone again. What do I do???

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