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umm i got in trouble
Posted Friday July 7 2006, 10:47 am
hey everyone... well the other day i got in trouble... well it all started a yr ago... i met this guy named ryan gellar...he was a lifeguard at this pool... well i was at the pool with my friend milan... and he told me that he had a sister named hannah.. and when me and my friend went back to her house we found his sister in our yearbook because she went to the same junior high as us... we loke her up in the directory and then i called ryan... i told him that i was the girl he met at the pool...he strated talking to me... and he said all these weird things to me.. and then he told me that he was ohorny and wanted to leave me vociemails for him and moan...so i did.. and then in november i told him i would do stuff with him when we met up at ...
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mom
Posted Thursday July 6 2006, 11:27 pm
Okay, tonight, my mom got really mad at me. Like REALLY mad. And it was all over this stupid box of macaroni that she asked me to make for dinner. I read the instructions wrong, and thought that you had to let the water boil for 10 minutes before putting in the macaraoni. So anyway, she flipped out on me. And started screaming. And she slapped me twice. And i really wanted to hit her, but i didn't, i just grabbed her wrist's really hard. So she flipped out on me contiunously, and after i made dinner, she went on to say "i dont even like this crap anyway" and didn't eat all of it.
This isn't the first time she's done stuff like this and i dont know how to deal with it. what do i do?
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Mom trouble..
Posted Thursday July 6 2006, 6:32 pm
okay..
Basicly my mom has anger problems..
Her anger is causing many problems, and her relationships with the family are at stake.
She has LOTS of anger and I think the anger management classes would be a waste for her, because she needs to know whats bothering her. If i try to tell her, she'll start yelling and slamming things around saying why do you think i'm crazy..i don't need those fucking therapists telling me whats wrong..blahblahblah.
Are there any ways to MAKE her go to therapy?
so maybe someone could help me out?
i'm pretty tired of living with this.
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So scared!
Posted Thursday July 6 2006, 5:34 pm
AHH Please help me anyone!! My dad just started smoking and I'm sorry but I hate smoking and cigarettes and lighters and the smell I just hate every single part of it, plus I didn't want my dad to start smoking...so when he came home, I snuck into his car, and there is this little compartment where he puts his cigarettes and lighter, so I put this note to him that shows him all the bad points of smoking, and how it can effect you..and then I stole his lighter and it's hidden in my sock drawer!! But I am sooooo SCARED because he gets really mean sometimes (but he never abuses me or anything.) so I'm really scared for what he is going to do!! Was this a good idea?! I think he smokes every night outside from like 8:30 to 9:00 ( he doesnt think...
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it's just kinda weird. long, but please read
Posted Thursday July 6 2006, 5:29 pm
i feel like my mom is running my love life. when i was 13, i met this boy. i fell madly in love with him and to this day, 2/3 years later, i'm still crazy about him. he liked me a lot. i think he still does but he's just hurt about all of this that's been going on. my mom ADORED his best friend. she told me that if i was going to like anybody that it could only be his best friend and her mind was set. she said that the other guy was ugly and stupid. so, i pretended to like his best friend infront of her. she was so happy and every time i might have hinted that there was something for the other guy, she would get soo pissed. so, i told my best friend about what was going on, and she was the only one that knew. but, then in 8th grade, my mom ...
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Unwanted House Guests
Posted Wednesday July 5 2006, 4:09 pm
Myself and my fiance are 26 and I have a 2 1/2 year old from a previous relationship. We have been together for 1 1/2 years and engaged for 1. Last week my fiance had a couple of friends that were looking for an apartment to live in. They are supposed to be moving into the ones where we live. Without asking me, Josh invited them to stay with us until their apartment is ready. It has been almost a week now since they came to stay. It made me really angry that he did not ask me if I cared if they stayed, he just invited them and told me they were staying. I'm upset because I am the one paying all the bills right now because he just finished college and has not found a job yet. Our apartment is really small and was cramped with just our stuff ...
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Lonley
Posted Wednesday July 5 2006, 4:30 am
I am the oldest chid in my family. I have 2 little annoying brothers they annyoy me so much i always scream and lock my self in my room. I really need a sister but my mum says no more kids
Help me i feel so lonley at home
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i need help
Posted Monday July 3 2006, 11:25 pm
so me n this guy basically broke up. which made me feel pretty shitty about myself. then my mom decides shes gunna ground me for the rest of the summer for sneaking out and going over my cell phone bill. AND then call me selfish self centered manpiulative and basically a disgrace for a daughter. which makes me feel even MORE shitty about myself. ive cried and cried and cried and now im to the point i feel so shitty i can even like..care. i cant see my friends .. THE ONLY PEOPLE IN THE WORLD WHO CAN MAKE ME FEEL BETTER cause im grounded. i want to get away from my family but again im grounded. my mom has 4 other kids my oldest ones BOB n SALLY and she treats them like GODs. like BOB had a crud load of drugs n his drawers and my mom didnt eve...
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help
Posted Sunday July 2 2006, 3:36 pm
my name is Rachel and iam 17 years old and my mom and I have never really been close,but it seems like we are drifting even further apart than we use to be like yesterday we were fighting about how to cut my hair even though I was paying for it my mom told me I had to get it trimmed becouse I couldn't handle styling it,but I was paying for it so I should have been able to get it like how I wanted so I got it trimmed just becouse she wanted me to to keep from starting an argument.Then like when I broke up with my boyfriend jesse she asked me how could I break that poor boys heart like she was taking his side of the situation.The other day it got so bad that I ranaway to my aunt's house and now my mom dosn't truest me anymore what should I do?
please help me!
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controlled
Posted Sunday July 2 2006, 7:19 am
My mum is the type who loves to have control over everything, she makes all my choices for me. "i know what's good for you" I don't have any say in anything anymore, i'm ending up not seeing my friends on the holidays. I can't make any academic decisions like what classes to choose. She doesn't trust me at all with anything important. I tried talking to her about it, but she doesn't listen. I'm going to fail some subjects she chose. because i can't do them. And i'm in year 10. She treats me exactly the same as my 9 year old sister. I just want some control of my life. She pushes me in everything, if i get 97% in an exam and the top score, it's not good enough.
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younger sister
Posted Saturday July 1 2006, 9:14 pm
okay i love my sister sooo much & we are extremly close, but 1 thing bothers me about her. she is almost 15 years old & i am 17, but everybody thinks she is older then me when they meet us! i do not look young for my age, but she has much bigger boobs then me (which is fine she's like a c or d & i am a b) & she's a little bigger then me in general. neither of us is ugly & i don't care that i happen to be smaller, but it just bothers me that everyone always thinks i am the younger one. what can i do to meither make them think i am the older sister or at leats stop it from bothering me?!
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My very troubled brother
Posted Saturday July 1 2006, 5:30 pm
My brother is 17-years-old, just graduated high school, has a job, got a F150 for his 16th birthday, wrecked it twice, got a different car a few months after his 2 wreck, has crazy high insurance which he doesn't pay for and he makes $900 dollars a month.
His current car isn't working because he messed up the engine somehow and claims that he can fix it himself so meanwhile he drives either my dad's F250 or my dad's 240 which do NOT have insurance on them (because my dad doesn't drive them anymore and wants to sell them).
He just got into another accident with my dad's F250 (he tapped a guy's van and it barely made a mark on the guy's van but nonetheless, still went to my brother's insurance). ...
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Posted Saturday July 1 2006, 2:49 pm
Do you know if they have those new tanning beds? Protected from UV rays. I heard something about it but im not sure. UV protectant tanning beds.
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My Mom & I
Posted Saturday July 1 2006, 2:39 pm
My mom and I used to have a great relationship. This might be long. I'm sorry, but I need advice. 13/f.
I was never embarrased when she would come and have lunch with me, including hugging and kissing me in public. Now, over a period of time, I feel like we're slowly drifting apart. One minute, we can be laughing, the other, we'll be arguing over something like clothes. I'll give you a scenario. We're at the store and I like this shirt, so my mom buys it. A couple weeks later, I'm wearing an older shirt that I had before the new shirt to a restaurant, and my mom completely flips out and tells me that I should wear the new shirt that I bought. Now, I have two problems. I can be selfish at times, and I will say 'Mom, I don't wa...
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permit
Posted Saturday July 1 2006, 1:34 am
in our state we have to be 16 to get your permit..and im 16 and i didnt get it yet. because my parents think 16 is too young and my sister wreck her car in 3 hours of having her liscense at 18 and my other sister hit the neighbors car 3 days after at 18..so now they dont trust me even more..and i know about 7 people who are 16 and have their permits and my friend just turned 16 yesterday and got her permit. and going out driving today..and its annoying me because everyone always asks why i dont have my permit or why i cant drive till 18..and they cant understand that every parent has different rules.
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dad watches porn
Posted Friday June 30 2006, 10:42 pm
My dad is watching porn right now. He does every night because we have lots of channels and at night theres porn. I know for SURE because Ive walked in on him before. And I can see from here. He thinks hes hiding it but hes not. Should I tell my mom my dad watches porn?! what do i do. Ive never told anyone, because its awkward and i dont want my friends to not want to come over my house because they feel weird around my dad. hes a really nice dad/man! I WONT confront him about it, so if you say do that Ill give you a 1..sorry.
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My mom thinks I'm on birth control!!
Posted Friday June 30 2006, 5:23 pm
I was looking up birth control, for a friend. & I left it on there. & she saw it. Now, I don't know what to say. Because she doesn't believe me, & thinks I'm sexually active. Which I'm not. I'm only 13 for heavensake. What do I say to make her believe me???
Please help me.
Thanks!
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i miss her
Posted Friday June 30 2006, 4:46 pm
dear susan,
i have this problem. my problem is 14 years old. i worry about her everyday. she used to be my sweet little beanpole but now all she cares about is her boyfriend and school and her mom.she pretty much forgot i even existed.i dont know what to do! please help me get my little sister back!!
love,
anonymous
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How I can ask my husband to divorce me.
Posted Friday June 30 2006, 12:02 am
My husband migrated to Toronto Canada 6 years ago. He abandoned me and found a new love. I found out that he already has a daughter with the girl who is living in Manila Philippines, where I am. He cancelled my immigrant sponsorship 2 years ago, took my money, and sponsored the girl as a common law wife to migrate to Canada to stay with him. How can I ask him to divorce/annul our marriage if he is avoiding me?
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i get blamed for everything.
Posted Thursday June 29 2006, 11:16 pm
Okay let me start out by saying that im 13 and the middle child in my family. Well, my mom and me used to get along all the time..like she used to be my best friend and ever since i turned 13 everything my sister (7) does..gets blamed on me. When my sister once called 911 to see what would happen when i was in the shower, the police came to my house when i was babysitting her, and i got blamed for "not watching her." When duh she should know better not to do it. i hate getting blamed for everything. what can i do to help the relationship between me and my mom..and not get blamed for everything?
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