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What Should I Do
Posted Thursday November 8 2007, 10:55 pm
Here is my problem ok well I really liked this one guy lets call him M in middle school and high school he never really talked to me but he knew that I liked him. I think he was one of those boys that wouldn't go out with someone unless his friends approved or the girls he would go out with was always jocks or blondes. But the thing is it has been a few years since we had any contact with each other you see I would write to him notes and letters but he never responded. He was told that I liked him and once I had one of my cousins call him and ask if he liked me back and he said "yeah I think she's pretty". Now years later I found him on MySpace and he accepted me as a friend and we have been getting along but he doesn't reall cont...
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a chance for a friend
Posted Thursday November 8 2007, 6:12 pm
I have a lot of friends. Friends that I can party with, friends that I can hang with, friends I can shop with, etc. But I have no friend that I can just do anything with, a friend that I can always count on to hang out with any time, who won't double-cross me. I haven't lived where I've lived since I was born, so I don't have a childhood treasured cradle-mate. I really want to be ultra close with one of my friends, but I feel like I'm the odd one out who matters, but isn't included in any real group. I just don't know what to do. In my classes, people have partners. Like Jane will always hang out with and pair up with Sally. I'm always the second choice, the girl someone picks if their first pick isn't there. What do I do to matter more to ...
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Should I tell her?
Posted Thursday November 8 2007, 6:00 pm
Hi,
I really need some advice!
I met Claire two years ago, we became really good friends! We both had problems with our partners at the time (hers much, much worse than mine) so we confided each other and helped each other through it.
My boyfriend at the time really idolized her Husband (he's famous in the motor industry)I actually contacted them when I found out that he lived down the street. My boyfriend told me weeks before he'd seen this guy round town and was really star struck by him. I wrote a letter inviting them to a surprise birthday party for my boyfriend and left a present for their child. As I posted the letter they turned up and friendships were made from there................................
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I dont like him like that, let alone even like him.
Posted Thursday November 8 2007, 4:01 pm
There is this guy that I work with, and he's like 19, 20? And I'm sixteen, he always flirts with me and even asked me out once, I dont like him. I pretend to be atleast, "nice" as in friend nice, to him at work. But I cant stand him, he's disgusting, I would never date him. And I have no interest whatsoever in him, not even being friends with him, he's like obsessed he keeps trying to add me on facebook, but I dont accept. He's a moron. He thinks hes so cool, he's not even going to college, and thats his own problem. But I like boys that persue education and learning. and thats not even the point.
How,.. do I .. get rid of him?
to stop bugging me and flirting, I dont flirt back either.
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when do I step in?
Posted Thursday November 8 2007, 10:12 am
15/F
sorry for the length.
please, just read and respond.
Here's the deal. This isn't one of those stories where I ask advice for my friend. It really is him. Alright, well a little while ago I went to my cousins house and I met his neighbor whom I clicked with immedietly. We had this instant atraction that was werid because Iusualy wouldn't go for guys like him. I'm a good girl, because of the choices I make, and he's more of the bad boy who's been through alot. So we liked eachother a little bit, but he lives about an hour away and I have a boyfriend, and he had a girlfriend.The feelings faded how I wanted them too. When we got to know eachother, he told me that he cuts. I got him to stop and he promied me th...
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a best friend
Posted Wednesday November 7 2007, 8:35 pm
so i have the worst time with having like friends , well i mean not " friends " but their more like just people i talk to ya know ? im in high school now & i want a bestfriend so bad , i mean ofcourse my boyfriend of 8 months is deffinatly my bestfriend but i miss the girley conversations ya know just the girl stuff , shopping , talkin about this and that . its so hard to go like to girl places and talk about " certain " stuff . every single time i get like close to a friend and think i can trust them , they always screw me over or tell my secrets are just stop being best friends , its stupid . how do i know or find one because nothing works ''/
thnaks -
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My guy friend likes me?
Posted Wednesday November 7 2007, 8:19 pm
I know he wants a gf but I told him i'm only settle down for a friendship because i dont have that chemistry for him. We hungout at the mall and went into a store and he wanted to buy me something but i said no you dont have to. I feel bad but he said no its not bad i just want to buy you something like a friend would buy a gift to a friend. I got confused whether he wants to buy me something shows he cheerish our friendhship or he is trying to get me while we're at a friend's stage. I know that he concern about other guy's comment on my facebook like he asked me who is that guy who comment you on facebook? Where you met him?
I can't believe he called you yo make up girl
that is rude of him and he actually message that guy an...
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I really don`t like her, but I want to help her.
Posted Wednesday November 7 2007, 7:46 pm
There`s this girl that I was best friends with all last year, but to make a long story short, she didn`t alot of things and started alot of rumors about me. So, I tried to gradually break away from her, but I learned something about her today. Her brother is one of my best friends and he`s not the type to break down crying over nothing. In school today, he started crying and put his head on his desk, so I asked him what was wrong. According to him, his parents have been beating them since around September. I remember the girl calling me in September when her brother had start crying (this was the first time it had happened) and I had asked her about it. She told me it was because her father had hit him, but then the next day she called and ...
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ex's vs. me,myself and I
Posted Wednesday November 7 2007, 2:40 pm
hello,
ok i've been friends with this boy for a year now..and since May we've been actting like best friends...alot of people ask if were dating.He's amazing. Cute,smart and funny. But like all good things theres a down fall. He's a bit of a flirt and still has many of he's ex-girlfriends in his life. Which isn't a bad thing. I mean i still have ex-boyfriends who i'm cool with...but he acts as if he likes them.All of them.It's like at football games he's all over them...taking myspace pics and so on. Then when were alone he shows how much he cares. He'll give me flowers..and leave a vociemail of the 'Great Escape' by BoyslikeGirls. He says it's "our" song..He'll say things that hit my heart. But i can't tell him how i feel...
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Do you guys feel the same?
Posted Wednesday November 7 2007, 9:30 am
I always hate it when my friends meet my other friends because i'm scared they'll start liking them more than me and then they'll start hanging out with each other, leaving me alne and having even less friends.
Is there any way to fix this? This always happens.
If you don't have advice but this happens to you, please say that and share your feelings and opinions on this
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need some good advice for a very hard and touchy issue
Posted Wednesday November 7 2007, 4:19 am
I have known someone for 11 years, i considdered them my best friend, upon meeting meeting someone that i really wanted to get to know and start a relationship with i decided to tell my friend about this, my friend freaked out and threatened to kill themself, they say that they have known me for 11 years and i should spend more time with them they also want to know where i am at all times, who i am talking to, and they try and keep me isolated from my family and other friends, they have "coerced" me into doing sexual things with them and have lied and minipulated my emotions to get what they want, i know that this is abuse and i know that i need to stop it, i just dont know how without my best friend killing themself, I also feel ...
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weird attraction
Posted Tuesday November 6 2007, 9:26 pm
ok i have a boyfriend who i LOVE ! last year i met this guy who was new to school and talked to him a few times in class. recently, ive gotten back in touch with him and weve been talkin on myspace. i hardly ever see him in school anymore but i did today. i had this weird attraction to him. i dont think hes that hott, hes not ugly but idk just not my style in guys looks-wise, but hes cool! how can i get over the weird attraction? hes one of my friends so i dont wanna avoid him. and dont say 'oh just think of your boyfriend instead and how much you love him!', because its not that im falling for this guy, im just attracted. but it feels weird. any advice??
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Growing Apart "I need Advice!!"
Posted Tuesday November 6 2007, 8:58 pm
I have been "best" friends with these three girls for a long time. One I've known since 2nd grade but friends since 6th,(lets call her tibby.) one I've known since the sixth and only been good friends for a about a year, (lets call her lena)and one I've been friends with since 5th grade.(lets call her bee)yes i know that all of these name are form the sisterhood of the traveling pants. I was in the 6th grade when i read that book and i always kinda liked to think of us as the girls of the sisterhood.
but in the last year I have relized that our priorites are not the same. I don't mean just on interests, but on our friendship. for the last 4 years i always have tryed to live up to the sisterhood trying to be the bes...
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A Very Good Friend, Moving across the country.
Posted Tuesday November 6 2007, 7:24 pm
MY friend is moving NJ to CA. He's already really upset. We haven't known each other very long. I'm a grade above him. We became really good friends and stuff. I want to give him something. Something creative. Any ideas?
Greatly appreciated.
Thanks.
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best friend..
Posted Tuesday November 6 2007, 6:18 pm
alright so me and this girl are really tight and we spent basically the whole summer together and we just get along so well and we were just complete best friends. now she's always hanging out with this other girl, let's call her jillian, and she blows me off to hang out with jillian, which i ask her if she wants to do something first but then right after jillian asks her if she wants to do something and she says yes. we never hang out anymore and i try to make days in my schedule were we can hang out but then she says "no sorry i cant, im 'babysitting'" but then i see her away message and stuff and its like "hanging out with jillian" its just really annoying. i have nothing against jillian, she's a cool girl we're kind ...
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How to make friends.
Posted Tuesday November 6 2007, 4:49 pm
I have a problem making friends. Whenever I think I found a group of friends that like me and I could be friends with for a while, it turns out they none of them like me. I try SO hard to be nice to everyone. I don't like it when anyone hates me, so I try to not cause anything. I had a group of best friends over the summer, but most of them went to college, and we all hardly talk anymore. I want that one friend that I can go to for anything and trust, but I can NEVER trust anyone because once I think I can, they turn around and tell someone else. I already try and be nice to people, and I try to hang out with people that have the same interests in me. I had people from my Cross Country team, but now that Cross Country is over, we don't re...
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not invited. this really sucks :(
Posted Tuesday November 6 2007, 4:31 pm
okay well there is this guy named joe, and he is one of my friends. hes having a party over the weekend (for his b-day) but i wasnt invited :(
we are friends and we talk and everything, but i dont understand why he didnt invite me. it makes it even worse that he invited a WHOLE BUNCH of people, and not me. what do i do? (and i cant just do something else with my friends that night, because all of them are going to his party)
his girlfriend (one of my close friends) asked me if i was going and i told her that i wasnt invited to it & she was also surprised that i wasnt invited. she said that she was going to ask him why/if he invited me... if he does end up inviting me, wont it be like a pity invite?
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My friend always copies me!
Posted Tuesday November 6 2007, 7:20 am
I am female and 13 and i have been friends with this girl for about 3 years. She copies everything I do, like fashion etc. This is surprising cause she is really outgoing, and everybody thinks she is coming up wiht all of this stuff! I don't know what to do!
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umm talking to people
Posted Monday November 5 2007, 5:53 pm
15/f
okay so when im listening to someone thats close to me like a friend or teacher or something i get really self conscious to look them in the eye, my eyes kinda mist over and i stop making eye contact (shifty eyes) then i get really uncomfortable and i cant wait for them to stop talking, and i think it reflects in my body language because i can hear the other person getting kind of uncomfortable too.
this is weird cause i never used to experience this problem until this school year.
what things should i do/think to stop this? and what is the usual pattern that the eyes follow when listening to someone?
thanks!
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Girl problems
Posted Sunday November 4 2007, 10:53 pm
This is a really long message, My name is Dylan and im 15. Ok about 3 weeks ago, i was on myspace and i had a friends request from someone i didn't know but they were the same age as me and had some of the same friends as me so i accepted and we have no classes with eachother but go to the same school, so we started talking alot a few days after that, i asked if she wanted to go do something at the movies, she said yes and gave me her number and i gave her mine. We each sent about 1,000 texts to eachother and we had planned on going the movies that next Saturday, and early on just incase she didn't know i said i didn't want to be strung along or get the wrong message . So it was Saturday and she had to cancel because of her dad and i believ...
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