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popularity
Posted Sunday August 27 2006, 12:10 pm
heyy im not a geek but im not popular at the middle school im at now, because i'm shy and because of the people i hang out with. im iin 8th grade right now, so i want to make a fresh start for highschool next year. andi want to be popular, and i want to be the leader of the group, or the queen b or whatever. but if thats impossible, then i at least just want to be like the 2nd most popular or just in the popular group. any tips??
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school dance and the random guy.
Posted Sunday August 27 2006, 11:52 am
I'm 14/f and a freshman in Highschool. I was my first highschool dance the other night and tons of seniors wanted to grind with me. I didn't really mind cause I wasn't overdoing it. The first guy I danced with though eventually asked me when we were dancing "Do you want to go somewhere else?" and I really didn't want to have sex (I'm a virgin) so I said 'no'. Then he said "okay it was nice to meet you.", he shook my hand, and walked away. I have no idea why, but all night I felt really bad for him. I know it's dumb cause it's like 'I feel bad because I didn't have sex with him like he wanted'. Do you know why I feel this way? What do you think I would have ended up doing if I did? (blowjob, just sex, fingering, ect.)
Thanks so much. I RATE!
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Can I get him to notice me???
Posted Friday August 25 2006, 1:09 am
I really like this guy that I used to work for. I've known him for almost two years, and was originally just friends with him. In about the last six months my feelings have changed. He was my supervisor, but since June, he has not been. I still talk to him at the least almost weekly, but don't really see him all that much, and there's really no reason for me to as he is no longer my supervisor. I'm not entirely sure of his age because he is a closed off type of guy, but he could be more than ten years older than me (if so, not much more than that as we are POSITIVE he is in his thirties) (that's how closed off he is, people who have known him for more than ten years aren't sure of his exact age) Anyway, I'm pretty sure the whole crush is ho...
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Gossip--receiving end
Posted Friday August 25 2006, 12:35 am
I am a grad student at an ivy where people are quite snobby. Some women started the (false) rumor that I was masturbating in the library. I didn't do anything to these women, I didn't even speak to them ever, and I don't understand why they started this rumor. How I've dealt with it: Rather than defending myself, I just ignored it and focused on my studies, hoping that most people would recognize that it's so preposterous that it must be untrue. Now, my reputation is totally ruined and everyone (except a few of my friends) believes it, and everyone believes that this is true because I've been a workaholic and I've kept to myself for an entire year in order to keep up my grades. Now, whenever people pass by me, they call me "the girl wh...
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What does come before part b?
Posted Thursday August 24 2006, 11:26 pm
hey im a 13/f
what should i do for my birthday party??
i dont have a pool or a trampoline or anything and i just need some ah-mazing ideas please and thankyou!
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Harrassment Out Of Control
Posted Thursday August 24 2006, 5:55 pm
Does anyone know if theres a way I can have voicemails from my cell phone traced to find out who left them? I want to ask the police but im not sure if they can do that. Also, is there any way I can have IMs traced back? Or to get the people who own the screen names in trouble? The harrassment is out of control. Thank you :)
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Hurtful untrue rumors
Posted Wednesday August 23 2006, 10:11 pm
Im going into my sophmore year of High School, and for some reason, this past year I have been getting really harassing phone calls/voicemails, messages on myspace, and IM's from screen names I dont know. I never did anything to deserve it, but people keep calling me a slut and a whore. I dont understand why they are calling me that, and I dont know how to stop it. Its so unfair :(
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Posted Wednesday August 23 2006, 7:49 pm
picture day is coming up. what kind of shirt should i wear. i have light skin dark hair and dark eyes. how should i do my makeup also? thank you for any help.
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OMG!
Posted Wednesday August 23 2006, 7:02 pm
There is this dance and I am going to go with this guy, the dance is in 2 days, and I said yes to him yesterday, today he gave me a hug, do you think he thinks we are going out?? Also, he is a wigger and that is not my type, and he is on my nerves...WHAT TO DO!!?!?!?!
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whore or not?
Posted Wednesday August 23 2006, 4:52 pm
16/f
is it possible to be a "whore/slut" and still be a good kid?
okay. i seriously think i have a problem...like i do not know when to say no. If i get asked to do something or anything of that nature i just dont know how to say no. I'll just do what ever he asks.
and i know its not true, but i feel like all the guys i like and spend time with and get to know will stop liking me if i dont do something for them...
how do i shake this image??
thanks.
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Posted Wednesday August 23 2006, 11:33 am
Do people tend to make more guy friends in high school?
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parties
Posted Wednesday August 23 2006, 12:57 am
ok i need help i cant decide between 2 parties, both are this saturday & i know its my decision & all but i just need input
ok so Party A:: the girls whos throwin it i mean we both know each other but weve never talked to each other but shes 2 of my other friend's friend too. i kno a buncha people that are going to this, its gonna be like one of those big blow out my-super-sweet-16 kinda deals. i got invited to this one first. the down side is i need a semi-formal dress haha
Party B:: one of my friends from last semester is havin it. its a pool party and i only kno like 3 people that are goin. i wasnt invited to this one till i had pretty much already decided i was goin to the 1st one [although i hadnt ...
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Shy Guy???
Posted Tuesday August 22 2006, 8:35 pm
Hi I am 15/f
Like typical teen girl, I have a boy problem. Lets say this guy's name is Conrad. I think I like him, I mean I always thought he was cute ever since last year but never really talked to him because
1. he is super shy
2. we never had a same class
so I just let it go, because he is not extremely cute. In fact my friends think I'm kind of weird that I like him because he's just not that type of a guy that girls go after. Which by the way are guys that I am attracted to a lot. Those guys who aren't good looking at all, to all other people, but whatever, because I think they are cute but getting back to the point.
So the 9th grade passed by, and then 10th grade start...
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cute guy:]?
Posted Tuesday August 22 2006, 5:01 pm
K so there's this reallly cute guy in my school.. the other day I was walking with my friend and I saw him, so I threw my books out in front of him and he didnt even notice.. but then I was walking with another friend, and I told him how I thought he was so cute.. and I guess he knew him and he told him right in front of me that i thought he was cute, and then he left us walking by ourselves.. he didnt say much, and my class was right there so I told him I'd see him later. Today I saw him and he kinda looked\winked at me, but then I saw him again and he looked straight at me and just kept walking, what should I do to make him notice me???? please help.
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school project
Posted Tuesday August 22 2006, 4:16 pm
Hey iam a 17 female and Iam doing a project where we have to create a room and we are working in teams and my group decided to design an entertainment room and we have a budget of $5,000 we can spend and I was wondering if you could give me the names of some sites where I can find how much these items below cost.
The things iam going to put in the room:
1.tile
2.t.v.
3.dvd player
4.computer/computer table
5.sofa's
6.a mini fridge
7.beanbags
8.stereo system
9.playstation
10.pingpong table
11.pool table
I need the names of these sites by tomorrow the sooner the better thank you!
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one year.
Posted Sunday August 20 2006, 4:25 pm
ok. so my boyfreind and i have been dating...well for one year on saturday. and yeah this isnt that much time. but still...i really want to come up with a good idea for something that will really surprise him. I have a swim meet in the morning at 10 and then we are going to the kenny chesney concert at 4:30...so there isnt really that much time. so basically what im asking is what is a good surprise for him...girls what have you done...and guys what do you like?
<33 thanks.
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mom wont let me date
Posted Sunday August 20 2006, 1:18 pm
hey im 13/f
my mom says if i ever get a boyfriend and she knows about it, shell be really pissed cuz im not aloud to be dating yet. i really like this guy and theres a rumor going around that hes gonna ask me out. well my best friend said and these are her words.."ill make sure your mom knows." i cant not tell my best friend that i have a boyfriend and even if i dont, itll get around. i just dont know what to do.
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confused?
Posted Saturday August 19 2006, 2:43 pm
So I like this boy Kyle. But I don`t know if he likes me. He's really good friends with my cousin. When hes around me and my cousins not there, hes very nice. He like jokes around and says nice stuff and we talk on the phone for hours. Okay but hes completely different around me when my cousin is there. He says like mean stuff and like I know hes joking kinda but he just acts so different. Is maybe he being shy because he doesnt want my cousin to know he likes me or that were good friends? I know some guys are like that when theyre shy. Any help or advice would be great.
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i dont wanna loose him
Posted Saturday August 19 2006, 8:09 am
well..im 14,and im losin ma BEST FRIEND!!!!!well..hes a guy...hes 18..a lot older than i am but we really loooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooove each other!!well..he couldnt find a real gf and so...and Gosh...hes sooo kind and everything...but he was sick of bein so kind 2 people n people arent 2 him!!so ...there are these three gurls he knows...he used 2 like em as jss friends and sis...u know...and 2 break his kindness 2 ppl and jss be like all of the guyz around him ...hell tell a gal of em 2 be his gf ...the 3 of em want him 2 b their bf...so he was like let me try how it feels and do as all the other guyz do and let me pick one of em and play with her and stuff...jss not 2feel bored..and he told me and stuff..and we...
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all of the studden, hes a different person
Posted Friday August 18 2006, 11:08 pm
ive sort of got this thing for one of the guys i go to school with, at camp this summer we hung out and he was really sweet and we like flirted and stuff. I'm and athetic trainer which basically means i go to football practices and pass out water for hours and during class i learn sports medicine. I have his team ( hes a fish and im a sophmore) and when ever i see him at practice which is every day i have it he just looks at me, he doesnt even say hi and when he uses the waterbottles he throws them in the mud, then i have to clean them up. it so weird, at camp you would have thought he liked me, and now, well...im not so sure anymore...can someone please tell me whats going on? i dont care that hes younger or anything i just think its weird hes changed so much. thanks!
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