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How do I get my coworker to back off?
Posted Wednesday September 6 2006, 11:10 pm
Hi. I work in a drop in centre for people with mental and physical disabilities. Recently we hired a new girl to work in a seperate job employment program, funded by the centre, but not really being involved with it. My own employer, before she left for her maternity leave, made it clear that I was in charge of the drop in program.
However- this person does not have anyone to work with in her own program, and apparantly has decided to horn in on mine. When I am working with the members, she buts in, telling them what to do and how to do it. Several times she has forced people (who may not be willing/may be unable) to do work like washing dishes. Once she was incredibly pushy towards a person who was suffering a petite mal se...
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keeping a guy... i have no problem getting their attention..
Posted Wednesday September 6 2006, 8:09 pm
ok... so guys tell me what im doing wrong... so ill get a guy interested in me... but then after a hanging out a couple times.. he looses interest... how do i get him to keep liking me... what really turns you on? what should i do at school to make him think... DAMN!!!
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Boy problems...!
Posted Wednesday September 6 2006, 7:01 pm
ok well, iv been likeing this guy and iv heard that hes been liking me...my friend is always asking him during class and he says that my crush is always saying that he likes me and stuff like that. then one day during school everything went crazy!!! everyone has been spreading the rumor that he was going to ask me out, but on that same day i got lunch detention (FOR CHEWING GUM-LOL) and so i didnt see nuthing that happend! my friend said that he was pissed off and was gettin mad and stuff. and so after that day i got mad at my friend for telling the WHOLE frikin school...but i also talked to my crush on the computer and he wouldnt answer me! like its either hes not there or he just doesnt talk to me. but befor this all happend he always tal...
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Where to find a good therapist
Posted Wednesday September 6 2006, 12:39 am
I'm the same person who put up the last advice question on how to deal with the masturbation rumor going around grad school. The truth is my reputation is so severely damaged that everyday, approximately two or three times a day, I have to hear, "C said she was masturbating in the library." This really bothers me because the rumor has gone on for almost a year now, and the majority of people I know actually believe the (false) rumor because it comes down to a she-said, she-said thing, and this woman, C, has been spreading it around to so many people while I just completely ignored the rumor, acted like I didn't hear anything, and just completely ignored it when some girls said mean things to me--Two women, both grad students, actu...
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Grad student seeking advice on how to handle false rumor
Posted Wednesday September 6 2006, 12:20 am
In high school, I was picked on a lot for being a little nerdier (big glasses), less well-dressed, and also less affluent than most of my peers. Now, I'm of grad-school age and I'm the subject of a false rumor that sounds pretty bad and has been quite damaging to my reputation. (In high school, I ignored the rumors and just concentrated on my studies. People just dropped the rumors about me because i deliberately isolated myself from them and seemed not to care.) NOW, during grad school, i'm the subject of new rumor(s), I've ignored the rumors for about eight months or so, but they have not died down. Instead, they have escalated, and more and more people are talking about it.
The rumor going around school is that "X gi...
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Is it okay to date guys who have Asperger's syndrome?
Posted Tuesday September 5 2006, 10:09 pm
A really nice guy is hitting on me right now. He's very complimentary. The only thing that worries me is that he says he has Asperger's Syndrome. Does anyone know anything about this syndrome? Is it dangerous to be around/date people who have it? I don't have any type of mental problem. I want to go out with him but I'm a little scared of what he might do... (not sexually) He also says that he has a photographic memory and he cannot think in words. Is this going to be a problem in our relationship?
please give me advice.
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Posted Tuesday September 5 2006, 3:38 pm
I want to meet some nice, cute guys this year. How do I put myself out there to meet them and become closer with them? Answer this and if you give good advice IM me on CandyCaynex33.
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Should be un-categorized because it's like...everything. I n
Posted Tuesday September 5 2006, 2:39 pm
How can I make this school year go by really fast? I'm already getting very worn out from school and homework and stuff. And every day just feels like soooo long!! Plus I'll be getting a part-time job soon. How can I keep myself really really busy and make this year go by pretty quickly? By the way, I'm a pretty independent person. Like, I've got some friends but spend most of my time outside of school alone. Thanks.
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I like him, does he really like me?
Posted Monday September 4 2006, 10:09 pm
I like this guy at work. I really like him. I want to tell him how much I like him, but I am not sure how to go about it. He told two of my female coworker friends that he likes me and that he wants to ask me out. I wish he would. Most of the time when I am around him, he acts soo far away and indifferent, that I can never find the appropriate time to ask him. Some days he is really talkative, whistles at me, asks for hugs and flirts with me. Other days it seems he is ten miles away. He is 27 and he has a kid and an ex-girlfriend ( the kid's mom ), who broke up with him five months ago after spending all the money he got from an auto accident insurance settlement. He talks about her alot, and I know he misses her. I got to meet her -- she i...
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bullies
Posted Monday September 4 2006, 7:32 pm
hey iam 17 and in the 11th grade and there's this girl at school who's constantly picking on me she's always picking on me about my clothes and i havn't talked to her about it yet and I don't know what to do iam sick of what should I do please help me?
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Homecoming dance october 13th
Posted Monday September 4 2006, 7:21 pm
14/F
ok...well....the homecoming dance is coming up in october and I'm afraid I won't get asked...should I ask someone? If I don't get asked I'm goin to go anyway but I really want to have a date...
Please help...
thanks...
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Boy At School.haha.
Posted Monday September 4 2006, 5:22 pm
Hello. Well tommarow is my first day of school! I'm so excited!! I have first period with this boy..I don't like him like him, but he is really cute and I want to sit next to him, but I don't want like him to come in and then me be like hey! cxome sit next to me! you know? Does anyone have any seggustions as to how I can get him to sit next to me. Or me to sit next to him? Please answer back before 7 tommarow morning. Thank you :)
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oomg! <3 friiken nervous.
Posted Monday September 4 2006, 1:35 pm
ii`m soo nervous for hiigh school. <3 iim startiing tommorrow. how can ii calm my nerves? <3 x0 candyce.
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Attractiveness
Posted Sunday September 3 2006, 11:17 pm
Quite frankly people, I am an advisor here, but I can not give myself advice...ha, so here is my question, I am a lonely man, and I feel it time to get another relationship going, but I'm not at all good looking...and I don't know how to approach a girl...any advice?
-JT
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Highschool Love?
Posted Sunday September 3 2006, 5:28 pm
Alright so. I'm in my first year of highschool, and this highschool is three different schoools combined, and I'm from one of them. There's these twins, really really adorable and nice and everything, but they seem like really shy. One of them is in all of my classes and the other is in all of my best friend's classes, so we're trying to hook up with them before homecoming LOL. Neither have had a real girlfriend, but the one I like has had like one for 2 days. They're at our lunch and we really want to sit with them but we don't know what to say. Have any good conversation starters, or something that we could say to them that won't make us look like idiots? Or just anything that could help us? Thanks so much!
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helppppp !
Posted Sunday September 3 2006, 3:44 pm
i start high school in 2 days! im nervous but excited. any advice about the first day, or high school in general? also, i was thinking of just carrying around a binder with a folder, paper and pens/pencils in it for the first day and seeing what i need after that. is that a good idea? also i dont really play any sports anymore although i wish i stuck with some, but what kind of clubs might there be that i could join as a freshman?
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Math teacher
Posted Sunday September 3 2006, 1:07 pm
I got put into algebra 1 and passed the test to stay in there. But honesty, I'm no good at math so I dont know how I got in there. I had Fs only because of low test scores. The quiz had so much on it and I kept forgetting everything.
So obviously, I'm retaking the class. But my teacher isn't helping at all.
She keeps giving us homework, we do it and in class, she goes over it. Row by row, somebody answers and if that somebody gets it wrong... they go up and do the problem. Nobody can hear what's being explained and I'm all confused.
There is no NOTES or warm up problems that we go over. I can't get out of my class because it will mess up my whole scedule and I need those classes at those times [o...
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haha ya, another person asking bout homecoming
Posted Sunday September 3 2006, 1:21 am
So I'm a freshman and this will be my first homecoming (duh). What do people normally wear to homecoming? I don't want to go there and be over dressed. Do nearly all girls wear dresses? A rough percentage of girls that wear dresses to homecoming would be nice. So would pictures of what most of the dresses would be like (to help me determine how casual homecoming is.) I RATE!!!!
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Bullying
Posted Saturday September 2 2006, 2:47 pm
There's this girl... and last year she bothered me/ called me names ALL year (she was in 3 of my classes). And the other day I was at my highschool for preseason soccer (we haven't started school yet) and she happened to be there for school pictures. She comes up to me and says, "Hey you ugly a** b****!" I was kinda mortified, if you know what I mean. And I really don't want my 4 high school years to be filled with being bullied around. I mean I'm tired of it and not really sure what to do or who to talk to...
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Iam being bullied at school by this black girl
Posted Saturday September 2 2006, 1:34 pm
Hey my name is rachel and iam 17 years old and there's this girl at school shatara she's a senior and iam a junior we are both in the same special ed class at school and she's always talking bad about my clothes like she asks me why don't i ever match my clothes and then she usually calls me a bitch or whore afterwords and then she asked me why didn't I have any brand named shoes then she calls me a m fin bitch and then when then mrs.hope wrote me up and I got suspended for 2 weeks becouse I slapped her in the face I know I shouldn't have done it,but I was just so sick and tired of her ass and mrs.hope didn't even writer her up I think they are both prejudice becouse they are both black and iam whithe oh and by the way iam the only white gi...
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