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Would You Freak Out If....
Posted Sunday November 25 2007, 4:45 am
Okay so my guy friend missed a call from his fiance today. He didnt realize it until he left my house. She totally freaked out on him and chewed him out because he didnt answer his phone when she called. It upset him because he didnt really see what the big deal was. It was an accident, and he got chewed out over it. I hate to see him upset, and I was just wondering if you all thought that was irrational of her. They kind of have been fighting off and on latley. A couple weeks ago they were arguing and she was all like "well maybe I should just give you the ring back and forget about getting married." (He had told me about his whole fight with her) When they had that fight it really tore him up. I have known him for awhile now and...
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i need to talk more in conversations
Posted Saturday November 24 2007, 9:57 pm
I am male in high school, sorry if this a bit long.
I have no trouble at all starting a conversation with someone or meeting someone new, but when I am in a conversation I often get stuck. If I have known the person for like 5 years I am usually perfect, but < 5 years and I soon have nothing to say and just smile and nod to the other person and agree with whatever they are saying.
Also for some reason everything I have to say just floats out of my head so I am also not funny and the conversaion is awkward. I am not nervous when I talk to anyone, new or old, but I have been told I sound unsure when I talk.
I would appreciate any advice at all on this subject and would be very grateful. Thanks!
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am i wrong?
Posted Saturday November 24 2007, 9:48 pm
So i've been strugglin drug use i was a big crack head but i havent smoked in 24 days. Well the reason i was doing that stuff was b/c my dad is kinda a asshole. well i told my friend and she was concerned and i promised her i wouldnt smoke her anymore. Anyway lately i've been gettin pain killas mostly OCs from my bf Dwight and my friend got mad at me 4 doin em and bein round dwight. The thing is tho i need the meds b/c i'm in so much pain from all the shit my dad does. And i dont c the big deal b/c its not like i'm usin crack again or nethin? Am i wrong for usin the meds?
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How can I help my friend?
Posted Saturday November 24 2007, 9:36 pm
I have a friend who's dad is a pric. He is a sick person who has done sadistic things to her. the thing is she hides it. She's been hiding it for years. I didn't know about it until recently and i've known for 6 years. Well she's been using drugs and she's been trying to stop so shee was in a lot of pain. Well i keep telling my friend that she needs help that she needs to go to the police or her dad will never stop hurting her but she's afraid to. Then she told me that she got help and i found that she lied about it. she just didn't want me to worry. I'm not mad at her i just dont know how to help her. I tried going to the school but they cant do anything until she wants to do something. i know she wants help she's just scared how can i convince her that she needs to get help?
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Why is my friend mad at me?
Posted Saturday November 24 2007, 8:28 pm
Ok, so i'm 19/f and i am strugglin with crack use. i had been smokin crack for 5 years but i stopped. i havent had it in 24 days and its the hardest thing i've done. i havent been able to stop thinkin bout it. i dream bout it...anyway recently i started takin OCs b/c i have been in so much pain. (i have two broken ribs that i havent gone to the doctors for) the thing is my friend found out and she's pissed at me for it now and i dont get why. its not like i'm smokin crack i'm takin pain killas cuz im in pain. i dont get why shes mad at me for this. I'm doin everything i can to just not smoke crack again and now she wants me to just do nothin bout the pain i'm in? Am i wrong or she overreacting?
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really weird lifestyle.
Posted Saturday November 24 2007, 1:07 pm
16/f. (might be wrong category..sorry) This could be very long and its sort of a rant. I need help. Please.
I'm a very introverted person. Sometimes I would be so extremely happy because I have nothing big due in school and because my social life is okay. Just okay. And other times, I'd just lock myself in my room, and have that stressful atmosphere weigh me down, while I, comforted by the quiet room, would do my homework in silence. Or read. Or just be on the computer. At moments like these, I'd just reject the entire world and act moody towards everything and anything that moves or talks. I don't have many friends, and the ones that I have provide no comfort or happiness to me. I have no boyfriend and never did. And I long for male...
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Friend or Foe?!?!? Is she really supportive??
Posted Saturday November 24 2007, 1:48 am
Well first of all I have this boyfriend and I like him a lot and My friend (one of the people that kinda hooked us up) is friends with him but is always saying she hates him to me and yeah it kinda puts me down because I want my best friend to like my boyfriend...I just don't know and yeah I know I need to talk to her about this I just don't know what to say and how to say it...Because she gets mad really fast at small things and yeah I just need to know how I can tell her that I don't like it when she says things like that about my boyfriend I don't think she is very supportive of me...I think she might be jealous because she can't find a guy that will stay with her for more than a week...Please help me!!! Thanx!!!!
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bad friends - under my level
Posted Saturday November 24 2007, 1:23 am
15/f
I don't like my friends anymore. Please pardon me if this sounds conceited.....But I'm just trying to make a point; I'm at a higher level than them. I consider myself to be, and I've been told I am. They always either put me down or just.....ignore and neglect me.
They never ask to do stuff with me. I'm the one who always has to ask.
They go somewhere with their other friends and don't even include me. They have parties, don't include me.
At other times, they talk to me only when they need homework help or when they're bored.
And these are my BEST friends. Like, I won't hang out with anyone else.
And they make me feel bad about myself....I know I'm prettier and smarter...
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best friendddds?
Posted Friday November 23 2007, 11:12 pm
okay well theres this girl. and shes one of my best friends..like we used to talk on the phone like every day and know everything about eachother and stuff. now it kinda seems like were more distant and stuff. like we always used to invite eachother when we hung out with our other friends. but then today she invited our friend to lunch and the girl she invited was like texting me and she was like did ___ invite you to lunch? and i was like no.. what are you talking about? and we both thought that was weird bc ___ always invites me. i think shes just mad though bc me and the other girl hung out a few days ago without her. but then i texted her jokingly and was like way to invite me to lunch... and she was with our another one of our friends ...
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I tried to lie
Posted Friday November 23 2007, 9:30 pm
okay so I hooked up with this guy one of my best friends has a thing for. I had no intention to and I have no feelings for him at all. when she asked me if I hooked up with him, I said no first but then I told her the truth 2 seconds later because I cant lie to my best friend. Now she is mad at me because i attempted to lie. what should i do?
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I Think Its Stupid.
Posted Friday November 23 2007, 10:51 am
15/f
Okay. so here it goes. i have a cousin and shes my best friend. The only problem with her is that i need to hide things from her. So she wouldnt get mad at me. im always scared shes going to get mad at me. So i always do everything her way. But this is the question. I was getting a new phone and i knew she liked this phone but i got the one that flips open and flips on the side and my mom was like make sure you get a phone you really like because your going to have it for two years. so i got it because it was the only phone i liekd. and now my cousin is ticked off at me because i got the phone she liked. one thing is that i always text alot so i would get more use out of it as for her she has texting blocked. and n...
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this boy
Posted Thursday November 22 2007, 8:14 pm
there is this boy and he is one of my bestfriends and i was the only one he used to talk to last year and now there is this girl who thinks she is perfect who came along and shes annoying and now he never talks to me anymore because her. help!
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Cake
Posted Thursday November 22 2007, 7:04 pm
What does "You can't want your cake and eat it too" mean?
Or if thast the wrong way to say it, how do you say it?
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Is it worth it?
Posted Thursday November 22 2007, 4:33 pm
There's this guy in my class and we were really good freidns which surprised me because i'm really anti-social and didn't think that i would make a lot of friends when I go to highschool, but i did.
And I always give him guna nd he's so nice but I ran out of money for two weeks and couldn't get gum anymore.
Then he's like "You're not my friend anymore" which REALLY hurt me!
Then I bougth him chocolate and he's like i love you again friend =]
Is it worth it? I don't know, i just don't liek it when someone doesnt' like me because i get hurt easily but he's so nice and everything. Is he a friend? or not?
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messed up
Posted Thursday November 22 2007, 11:45 am
i hooked up with my friends bf. yes it was stupid and i really regret it so dont tell me how bad it was. I feel terrible but i made a mistake. now everyone knows. what do i do. (we have the same freinds)
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Why don't I miss her?
Posted Thursday November 22 2007, 9:52 am
Me and my best friend of 4 years recently stopped talking because things got awkward between us when we started accusing each other of lying (which we both did). We havn't talked for 6 months to be exact - and here's the weird thing - i havn't missed her! I thought my life would end without this girl.. but it didn't? Was there something wrong with our friendship (I dont think so because we even got the best-friend award at our school cause we're always together, and have supported eachother through funerals, earthquakes, broken hearts and soo much more!)? Well she contacted me 4 days ago through text message asking me why we randomly stopped talking and if I want to be her friend anymore, and I dont know what to answer. Do I? I dont miss he...
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anyone good at ruining relationships?
Posted Thursday November 22 2007, 8:23 am
there's thei girl and she ruined my life. made all my fiends hate be by telling them lies. she made rumors about me and she even wrote a letter, sent it to my house so my mom would read it and the note said "i over heard your daughter in the bathrrom thursayd and she was telling one of ehr friends that she was having sex with her boyfriend and was trying to get pregnant just so she would make her mother mad" and she signed it with "a concerned friend" which if anyone here believe that i or anyone would ever do that is cazy. i never said that and my mom knows i would never. she didnt belive the letter but just the fact that she would write that is repulsive. now shes going out with my boyfriends best freind of 7 years and...
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What is he trying to do now?
Posted Wednesday November 21 2007, 4:30 pm
I have a guy friend and he wanted to have me as his gf but i just dont have that chemistry for him. So, we are settle for only a friendship not relationship but i know and everyone says he still has feelings for me, but he doesnt mention them because he knows I don't have them for him and he truly loves me as a sister but maybe a little more and everyone tells me it's just going to take some time to get all of the "more than a sister feelings gone. I accepted him to be my brother cuz my real brother never cares for me but i have said before for being just brother and sisters is not a forever thing sooner or later we would have our own separate paths to go.
Anyway, the other day he wrote me a poem saying Life is short:...
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friendship coming to an end?
Posted Wednesday November 21 2007, 10:21 am
the otehr day one of my best guy friends brother told me that he liked me, not the brother. my friend. we get along really good, and we easily talk to eachother. but, he doesnt come off to me as a guy i would date. i mean, we get along great but i like our friendship and i dont want that to get ruined but i also dont want to hurt his feelings.
don't answer this by saying, "tell him you admire our friendship and dont want to ruin it by going out" i've heard that too many times and don't need to hear it again. i just need things to do or say to make him relize that were better off friends.
thanks in advance.
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bestfriend has lied to me for 2 years,
Posted Tuesday November 20 2007, 11:32 pm
Ive been bestfriends with this girl for two years. We do everything together including work together i see her all the time. Well when i first met her she told me she doesnt smoke or do any kinda drugs. And i believed her and throughout the past two years she has said it many many many times that she doesnt do drugs. She even dropped a friend because they were saying she was doing drugs. Well yesterday i was hanging out with a girl i just started working with she has hung out with my friend a couple times and she told me that my bestfriend smoke weed all the time. She has came into work high as the sky. And i could never tell. I even asked my bestfriends brother if it was true and he said yes she smokes with me all the time.
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