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Group Outing Posted Friday September 22 2006, 4:36 pm
I'm 19/F, in my first year in college. My program is 4 years, and it's very small (30 or so people) so I thought that it might be a good idea to get a group outing together so that we can all get to know each other outside of school.
Does anybody have any ideas for fun things for a bunch of college students to do that doesn't involve drinking (because most of my classmates are underage)?
Some ideas I've come up with are a dinner out or bowling.
Thank you!
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Please Help Me Posted Thursday September 21 2006, 4:03 pm
I don't know what to do and I can't cope so please help me if you can...
The truth is...nobody likes me. I'm not saying that in a 'feeling sorry for myself' way. It's fact. I work in an office where I overhear people bitching about me, where people lie about me and where they arrange nights out and I'm the only one not invited.
I can't do anything about it really because none of it can be proven and my Manager already believes the lies that have gone round about me because he's confronted me about them. There's nobody above him I can go to and I can't leave because I need the money and having looked around, I know I can't get the same anywhere else.
I can't seem to do anything right. Work is bad ...
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David. Posted Thursday September 21 2006, 3:37 pm
ohk, i work at Taco Bell and i admit that i work with alot of HOT guys. but the only guy i really care about is David. he is always so nice to me and is really cute. i want to be able to hang out with him outside of work but i don't know how to like ask him. any ideas on how i might do that? please help me.
Chelsea
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Friend zone Posted Thursday September 21 2006, 2:25 am
I'm really close friends with alot of girls...but im close friends. And I really want to go out with someone but nobody like like's me because im like..."one of them.
How could I stop this without leaving my friends?
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Why won't he ask me Posted Wednesday September 20 2006, 9:00 pm
i mean i know he likes me but why won't he ask me to the dance.
It's sooo obviouse that he likes me but he won't ask me out.
why won't he?
help please!
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help me i like a guy how do i acked around him? Posted Wednesday September 20 2006, 8:07 pm
please help i like a guy so confused what should i do or acked around him
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Ex guy Posted Wednesday September 20 2006, 12:14 pm
Ok, ex guy of mine. He and I are cool. Except, I don't know how I really think of him. I think of him more now than I did when I went with him. It's awkward to even look at him and I can barely stand his presence.I know he cheated on me and that doesn't make things too bad b/c I know why he did it. My fault really b/c he couldn't see me outside school, but it was his fault too. And why does he sit behind me talking to a girl that he's interested in. Not my business, yet can he at least have the respect to do that somewhere else. And why when I rolled my eyes at him, did he feel the need to ask me if we are cool when that thing rolled his eyes at me and said things to me that I didn't like when I accidentally said something or looked at him....
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Friendship worse than on the Rocks Posted Wednesday September 20 2006, 12:07 pm
Dear Advice columnists,
I'm going to get right to it. Ok, last year, I became really good friends with this guy that I met in my freshman year. He's like a cousin to me, and he's almost literally apart of our family (although he isn't related to us as I thought). Anyway, we used to wrestle, talk on the phone like a lot, and we used to be so close. And this year, my sophmore year, it's like I don't even exist. I know his new girlfriend and she wouldn't tell him to behave this way. My question, what's his problem. I've even asked him what his problem is and I've given him space. I've even helped that jerk on a project and he continues to act like a pain. I was sitting alone and he just didn't say a word to me. Others did but he di...
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Homecoming VS Dating Posted Tuesday September 19 2006, 10:50 pm
So...a guy asked the girl i liked to homecoming, but they're not currently dating...is it wrong to ask her out and start dating her before homecoming? or do i need to wait until after homecoming to ask her out?
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... Posted Tuesday September 19 2006, 7:05 pm
Pete and I talk, and he's a pretty decent guy. He always tells me I'm hot and sexy, but he's also cool to talk to. The only problem is, he smokes pot. I would never do pot, and he knows that. I don't know if I should stop talking to him because of that or what. I also know my friends would think he was a druggie and would tell me to stop talking to him. Help?
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He loves me, He loves me not... Posted Monday September 18 2006, 7:24 pm
15/f
I just don't know i mean i think he likes me but i'm not sure.
I had gotten mad at him the other day because he was teasin me about this boy who like me but i don't like him.
so i stopped talking to the guy i like lets call him D and today he was all like i publicly apologize i'm sorry infront of half the class to me.
then he started singing don't cha by pussy cat dolls but changed the lyrics
Don't cha wish ya girlfriend hott as her to me!
i thought it was cute but does he like me or was he being nice?
i would LOVE some guys' help on this Thanks!
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TOO SHY!!!!! Posted Monday September 18 2006, 5:34 pm
I am 13 years old and have been going out w/ him for @ least 8 months and we've maybe had a good converastion twice (and that was in the begining of the relationship) I REALLY wish we could talk more. I think the reason we dont talk is because we never were friends before we started going out. I think our relationship could be totally changed around so that we would talk but my friends arent hepling and I'm geting desprit...
PLS help.
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Work Posted Monday September 18 2006, 2:03 pm
My boyfriend and i leave together.When we come back from work/school e.t.che just sits there and i do the housechores even when am tired.I want him to know that am sometime too tired to work and need help around the house.I wish he would help without being pushed to,how do i tell this to him politely without hurting him and at the saame time convincingly?
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Two Girlfriends? Posted Monday September 18 2006, 1:56 am
17/M
so yeah, this os probably going to end up being really long so you can just leave now if you want...so yeah, some little background.
...so up untill like the beginning of this year (senior year of highschool) i have always been reeeaalllly shy. i only had a few best friends (granted, they were mostly girls) but no one that ever LIKED me. then, as soon as i hit senior year, i changed, a LOT. its like my whole outlook on life changed completely, i figured that this is my last year in highschool so i might as well go all out. ive gotten really involved in school clubs and all that, im a LOT more confident, ican actually talk to my peers without being too shy...and i think people are starting to notice it...s...
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Bullying Posted Saturday September 16 2006, 5:14 pm
There's this girl... and she bothers me... all the time. She trips me in the hallway, and swears at me and stuff. It's getting really old and I'm kinda tired of it. Last year at my middle school (I'm a frosh at high school this year), she bothered me so i went to the school guidnace counsler. Instead of this girl getting in trouble, I did for no reason. This girl was his daughters friend so he didn't do anything about, which really sucked. I really hate her picking on me and her calling me an an ugly bitch and stuff like that. Actually, it's just embarrasing for kids to make fun of you when ur 14. I'm just not sure what 2 do...
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How to get a friend i've known for 4 years to like me Posted Saturday September 16 2006, 4:33 pm
Well here's the thing there's this guy i've known for 4 years. Ever since the first time I saw him I had a crush on him. He's not the best looking guy but i like him because he has a good heart and he always helps me with all my problems. I thought he really liked me until a new girl came to our school this year and he asked her to the dance.I got soo mad because i'm soo much prettier than her and me and him are soo much alike. Everyone says we'd make the cutest couple. The dance is in 2 weeks soo pleeeeeeeaaaaase help me!!!
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how do i talk to him Posted Wednesday September 13 2006, 7:41 pm
ok im 15/f :) my best friend and i ride the bus. she met her boyfriend on the bus and now shes trying to set me up with her boyfriends best friend. she made sure that i sat next to him while her and her boyfriend were right beside us. she kept telling me to talk to him and i was like i dont even know him. so i asked him a few questions like his name and grade and some stuff. he seemed pretty nice. and hes pretty cute! but i didnt want to seem like an idiot. the rest of the way home tho i ran out of things to say and it was so awkward...how do i \"talk\" with him without seeming weird like because we dont even know eachother. and how do i talk to him casually so he wont think im crushing on him! im pretty sure my best friend and he...
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shyyy guyyy Posted Wednesday September 13 2006, 4:49 pm
theres this guy, "jake". jake & i talk alot online and stuffff and he's completley normal and fine when we talk online. but then in school, when i see him or we talk, he acts really shy. why is he doing this? and how do i make him feel more comfortable around me?
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"My favorite place in the world" (my crush will be there!) Posted Wednesday September 13 2006, 3:08 pm
hey people =D
kay, so the assignment is "pick a favorite place, and talk about it for 5 minutes (minimum).. and its not allowed to be your house, room.. hometown etc.
BUT I HAVE NOTHING! I have no place that's really special to me that i can describe, so my friends told me to just make up something.. problem! my imagination isnt all that great!
so help me find something that's easy to talk about, and would make it funny to listen to (because my crush is in that class, so i would like to impress hiim.. or make him interested in talking to me!9 so what can i talk about??
thanks folks ;D
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Hm. Posted Wednesday September 13 2006, 1:44 pm
So I'm a nice person, I get a long with people. A lot of the time, if I'm mad at someone, its for a real reason. Other than that I'm really down to earth, and I love everyone. But sometimes, I feel like I don't look as if I'm nice. Sometimes people tell me I look stuck up. Which I do. I don't concentrate on my facial expressions..but they always make me look rude or annoyed with someone. Haha. I don't get it. And that's why sometimes people don't talk to me, because it looks like I'm stuck up. But I'm not! I don't know what to do..help?
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