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Help Consoling My Freinds with Grieving
Posted Tuesday December 4 2007, 10:56 pm
How do you help sumone grieving or preparing to say good bye to a loved one. My bff just lost a girl she used to know at her school and its been really hard for her. I keep telling her its ok and to let herself grieve but then heal and help her school heal cause they are all grieving. and telling her all of our prayers are here and stuff. i think shes getting to be ok. but now my bgf who well we both love each other romantically but arent dating yet. but we are close enough we practically are. anyways he just told me they are going to see his uncle and say bye cause he has stage 4 cancer and its getting pretty serious. he almost never shows a lot of emotion but today he just wanted to talk. sumtimes we didnt even say anything he just wanted...
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Would it be too weird...?
Posted Tuesday December 4 2007, 8:51 pm
Mm'kays, so I like a guy, and we were so much closer last year...his best friend likes me but he's an ass about it, so there's no way I'd go out with him AND be happy. So, not happening.
So, with the guy I like, we're both shy, but I've gotten over that, and I'm very outgoing now and such. But like, arrg, now that I'm not shy towards him anymore--he's completely shy towards me!(I so said "shy" a lot right there) So, I swallow the butterflies and I finally start of conversations, but they fall limp and he's usually nervously looking around and...yeah..awkward situation. But it's not that I feel that he doesn't like me anymore...I often see him looking at me, and smiling when I catch him. There's many instances throug...
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what makes someone a prep......
Posted Monday December 3 2007, 7:02 pm
is there anything someone needs to know how to be preppy, u know like if your emo you cut yourself, adn if your goth you dress in black, if youre redneck you where boots and huge belt buckles....etc.........whats the thing with the preps.......what makes a prep a prep?!?
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Communication Needed
Posted Monday December 3 2007, 6:02 pm
I have this friend, who I want to be more than friends with, but can't at the moment for multiple reasons. Our age difference [I'm 15 and he is 17], havent gotten my mothers approval yet, and I need to pick my grades up in school before I date are some of the reasons. Even through all this, I still have feelings for him. The thing is, we both have pretty busy lives. How do I keep the friendship strong and the relationship growing? Better put, how do I keep in touch?
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Christmas Gift Ideas
Posted Monday December 3 2007, 3:40 pm
16/f
What are some cool gifts that I could get my friends (female)? $10-20.
Things that you would want to get... more specific that just "clothes" or "candy".
Not money or gift cards.
Thanks.
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no best friend =(
Posted Monday December 3 2007, 1:43 am
I just realized something. I have a really crappy social life. I dont have any close friends, and Im not even talking about best friends. I used to have a best friend but she changed a lot so we dont talk as much anymore.
I have friends, dont get me wrong, but theyre just friends, and we never hang out outside of ___. We dont talk on the phone, just talk and stuff at ___.
Ive been really lonely lately, and Ive been going through some tough times and I really need someone I can talk to, and someone who will listen to me and CARE. I need someone I can depend on, but I just dont know who. I dont see any of my friends becoming a best friend, and believe me I tried to get closer to some of them, but it didnt work, I...
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hard situations
Posted Monday December 3 2007, 1:12 am
ok so one of my best friends that ive known for like 3 years, yeah his grandmother has cancer. and shes basically dying :/
he visits her in the hospital and he did today actually and he said she was really "weak" and he was really quiet and didnt really talk much. hes like that a lot lately and im pretty sure its because of his grandmother.
he lost his grandfather like 2 years ago and that pretty much devastated him, he just slept around all day for weeks and i know that thats what he'll do if his grandmother (who hes extremely close to) dies.
now, hes a guy so of course he never ever talks about his feelings.
so..what am i supposed to say? i want to get his mind off of it but its like impossibl...
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Secret Santa -- crazy funny ... RANDOMMMM
Posted Sunday December 2 2007, 7:15 pm
Okay, well i am in this secret santa thing with my friends. I got my friend Alyssa, but im not that close with her. We are doing somethnig silly, funny random and stuff like that. This girl is crazy and i want to get something good. Not like "oh...thanks. =\" I want like "AHA I LOVE IT!!!! =D". What would be good? It has to be within $20-$30. Where would i get it? Thanks <3
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is it okay?
Posted Sunday December 2 2007, 6:54 pm
is it okay that i only have like one or two close friends? i have like one best friend and then like two good friends and people i just talk too. i feel like everyone always has more close friends than me though. i mean i talk to people but not like to the point where we'd hang out together a lot. i don't know sometimes i feel like somethings missing or wrong with it? i don't know any advice would be mucho appreciated
14.f.freshman
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i want to put an end to our friendship.
Posted Sunday December 2 2007, 11:04 am
so there's this guy. i used to like him. i used to actually consider him one of my closest friends and advisors. he's 4 years older than me.
he's a jerk now. he gives shitty advice.
example:
me: I'm so sad.
him: heh. don't be sad then.
and that is the kind of advice he generally gives.
he makes fun of me with other people and then he tells me about it and laughs at me. he thinks of himself so highly that he hurts me in the process. overall: he's an a-hole.
basically, i want to put an end to our friendship. i want it to die down. he's perverted and mentally sick and can ruin my day in a flash. he ignores me and goes on to talk about himself whilst complaining wh...
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Posted Saturday December 1 2007, 2:15 pm
I have bought a new coat, i dont no wether to wear it to school or not on monday or wait until after xmas because my friends will go out and get it one very simalar which is very annoying as its really nice and different! I shouldnt have to not wear it on monday just because my friends will copy it as they usually do but I dont know what other way there is? Sounds very lame but its also exstremly annoying when your friends copy you, also when people compliment them on how lovely they look when you got if first grr?
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Birthday party things to do!?
Posted Saturday December 1 2007, 10:23 am
15/f gonna be 16/f :D
ok well im having a birthday in a couple weeks and i dont know what we can do.
Im gonna get some movies i dont know what kind yet...i was thinking scarey
its just gonna be me and 4 other girls
i need fun things to do...please help!
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Basketball
Posted Friday November 30 2007, 10:14 pm
Ok so my grade had a school tryout all this week for basketball. At the end, I made the team but my best friend didn't make it. He did good and obviously should have made it. He is very upset and I don't know how to cheer him up. It was clearly a BS decision by the coach and everybody knows it. Please help.
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stressed about friends' alliances
Posted Friday November 30 2007, 7:41 pm
13/f
I LOVE being with my friends. I just love to be comfortable and included and feel like I'm important. I just really stress over mistakes that I make around them. Like today I accidentally hit my friend in the jaw with a medicine ball, and I apologized and everything, but I feel really awful that she won't want to be with me or anything anymore. I don't know why. I just feel this awful pit in my stomach. I know that friend I hit gets really serious with talking trash about people she doesn't like, and every time I see her my stomach flips. I also feel like when I'm around some of my friends sometimes I feel this sense of annoyance, like they don't like me or don't want to talk to me, but they don't express it in actions or words....
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friend might blame everything on me
Posted Friday November 30 2007, 12:32 am
hey well me and my friend went up to the library at our school last week and my friend was stealing things from peoples bags and i was just standing there and i was too scared to say anything to her about it because she would bash me but now she got caught and the deputy principal was asking me about information and i told him everything but since i was there with her i might get suspended from school! i dont know what to do please help me :(
thanksss
x
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my best friend flirts with all of my guys!
Posted Thursday November 29 2007, 10:23 pm
Okay, well first off I should probably clarify - I don't really have a lot of guys. I have more like three, and I don't HAVE any of them. But I like all three of them, and I know at least two like me back - but that's not my problem. My problem is my best friend. She's always been a flirty person. It's just who she is and it doesn't really bother me - until lately. She isn't even friends with the boys I am, which is partially why we're such good friends, because we don't go around stealing each other's boys [by we I mean her, I couldn't steal a boy if even if I tried]. But lately, she's been around when I'm with them and she's been talking to them and flirting like crazy. And what bothers me the most is that she has at least ten guys wantin...
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To be or not to be
Posted Thursday November 29 2007, 7:05 pm
Going up another grade means going to another school which means another mix of schools which means another mix of teens. So there are these girls from another school at my school who I started talking to then theres this other girl who has not that many friends and TRIES to hangwith us at lunch. I feel sorry for her because she doesn't realize it but those girls kinda get tired of her. I try to be nice to everyone so I start talking to her and being nice. She really likes talking to one of the girls thats nice but doesn't show her that she is annoyed. Tommorrow at school we have this thing where we go eat our lunch in a different room where different snacks are served. They told me to come to a certain room and don't tell that girl. I feel...
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my friends frustrate me
Posted Thursday November 29 2007, 5:04 pm
Okay two best friends (ill try to keep this short)
Best friend one (Liz we'll call her): Liz is a controlling spoiled rotten selfish brat. She is so much fun to be around but puts me down in the process. Dont say find someone new because everytime I've tried I always go back to her no matter how many times I've gotten stepped on in the past. Its something that I cannot help and I dont know what to do
Best friend two (Kim well call her): Kim is smart and nice. She plays soccer with us and we get along. Sometimes she is too into her boyfriend but that isnt even half it. She gets everything too, but by this i mean recognition... we both got nominated for an honors society... I take much harder classes and do...
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TRUST ISSUE!!!!
Posted Thursday November 29 2007, 2:41 pm
sooo after my last question, everyone told me i should take my chance with Jay, so i did. and we've been together for 3 days i think. and two days ago he said he loved me and cared about me more than anyone. my last bf said that, too. and he swore he would never hurt me. emotionally, i mean. and he still did. and i let him say he loves me and i believed him so i started loving him too and then it scarred me for life after he broke it off. now i dont know if i should trust Jay with my heart, or if the glue is still drying. (talking metaphorically here, sorry) how will i know that hes not going to hurt me? how will i know who to trust with my love?
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My friends always copy me
Posted Wednesday November 28 2007, 3:00 pm
My friends are constantly copying me i dont know how anyone can take it as a compliment its exstremly annoying! If i get a new top everyone will ask where i got it from and then ..guess what..the next week they have got it or something similar. The worst thing is when they get complimented on it by someone else, sooooooo annoying.. when you got it first!! Everyone probably thinks i copy them aaaargh?
How do i stop them from copying me?
without telling them or hinting iv already tryed it!
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