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If you're a virgin, what are your reasons and how do you feel about it?
Posted Thursday May 20 2010, 9:52 am
16 and 17 year old girls, what are your opinions on and experiences of sex?
Being a 16 year old girl turning 17 in two months, and still a virgin, and also the kind of girl people assume have had sex, I'm definitely not comfortable with my lack of experience, and can't come up with any reasons why I havn't had sex except for, well, it just hasn't HAPPENED.
So I'm interested to know what other girls my age think. Have you had sex or are you a virgin? If you're a virgin, what are your reasons and how do you feel about it? If you've had sex, how did you lose your virginity, what is your sex life like now and how do you feel about it?
A lot of detail (though obviously I'm not asking for anything too...
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turned on easily = inexperienced? :(
Posted Tuesday April 20 2010, 1:56 pm
18f.
i'm very inexperienced .. the farthest i've gone with a boy was him going down my pants but he didn't finger me or anything. the problem is, i get turned on by everything and get really wet.
even if a guy is texting me and talking dirty i'll get turned on .. my question is .. if i'm messing around with a guy i will obviously be really wet since i get turned on so easily but will this show that i'm very inexperienced?
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NO hair down there.
Posted Wednesday April 7 2010, 8:50 pm
18-female.
Soo I'm still a virgin but I still do shave down there because I am sexually active - just not sex. I always feel like I have to be completely smooth down there and even the tiniest bit of hair will creep a guy out. Shaving every day would just be painful .. but if things ever do start to get intimate with a guy and I haven't shaved for like 3 days, I'll stop because I feel self-conscious about the hair. Is this normal, would a guy care? I've heard they dont but for me, I just can't let myself go when I have any hair down there.
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How to tell a guy is a virgin?
Posted Friday March 5 2010, 7:37 pm
So I am ready to begin a relationship with a new boy after getting out of a bad relationship. What was so bad about it? Well, I am a virgin. The boy I was dating said he was a virgin. The six girls he has had sex with say otherwise. :-(
So let me ask you this: how do you tell if a guy is a virgin? I mean for real is there some kind of test? I don't intend to give my virginity to somebody who's going to load me up with a bunch of STDs so I am waiting till marriage. I guess your wedding night would be a really bad time to find out that your husband isn't a virgin and lied to you the whole time you have been together.
I know some of you are probably thinking that I just need to trust that the guy is a virgin becau...
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How do I tell my boyfriend that I'm NOT a virgin?
Posted Sunday February 21 2010, 12:51 am
I've been with my boyfriend for almost a year now and we haven't had sex yet. We get along GREAT and I'm so happy to be with him. The problem is that when we first met I told him that I was a virgin. I'm sad to say that I cheated on my boyfriend with another guy for about a month and the other guy took my virginity. My boyfriend still has no idea it happened.
I've recently told my boyfriend that I really, really want to have sex and he said that we can start doing it. He told me how excited he was to be with me since we're both virgins. :(
How do I tell him that I'm not a virgin anymore? I really want to tell him so he knows but I don't know how to without really hurting his feelings. I can't just prete...
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bleeding during getting fingered?!
Posted Sunday January 31 2010, 7:42 pm
so last week my boyfriend was fingering me and afterwards i realized i was bleeding. this was not the first time he had fingered me and im not a virgin either. however this is the first time i bled during it. this past weekend though, we had sex and everything was fine i didnt bleed or anything. later in the night though he fingered me, and i did start to bleed, kind of alot. is this normal?? someone please help me im not sure if something is wrong or not..
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Are guys attracted to virgins?
Posted Friday January 29 2010, 9:49 pm
I feel wierd even asking this cause I think I already know the answer but are guys attracted to virgins? I am one and I don't know but I feel like it is a turn off so I want to lose it so a guy will think I have "experience." Has anyone else ever felt like this? Are there any guys here that can answer this too please?
Why would a guy want a virgin instead of a girl that has been with a bunch of guys and knows what she is doing for sex?
I feel stupid. 13/f
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virgins want to have sex
Posted Sunday January 10 2010, 10:17 am
My boyfriend & I want to have sex for the first time soon.
We're both virgins, so I'd like to know what I should be expecting. (Of course we're goign to use protection.) I've heard that the girl's gonna be in pain & the guy's not going to last very long. If this is true, elaborate please? Like how much pain, what will it feel like, abotu how long will he 'last'?
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how can i tell ig i have a septate hymen ?
Posted Thursday December 17 2009, 8:29 pm
i am 17 and have tried and failed to use tampons. i assumed it was because i am a virgin and my hymen is still intact, but because im curious and Googled it, i found out that there are different types of hymens and i was wondering if there was a way to tell if you have a septate hymen without going to see a doctor.
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can he tell if you've been fingered before?
Posted Sunday November 29 2009, 7:15 pm
18/female.
i'm still a virgin. never been fingered or anything. when a guy fingers me .. obviously he will realize i'm tight but will he then know that i've never been fingered before?
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fingering=pain ?
Posted Friday November 27 2009, 1:08 pm
17/f
so ive never done anything further than making out before but my boyfriend fingered me for the first time last night. it felt alright at first but then it started to hurt. he told me if it hurt that bad, we prob shouldnt have sex but ive always heard that it hurts the first time. was this a bad sign or is it normal ?
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What to do before getting eaten out
Posted Saturday November 21 2009, 9:59 am
16/f
Okay my boyfriend has pretty much been hinting that he'd give me oral. And I want it but I'm kind of self conscience about my "down there" region. I don't smell funny or have a bad odor down there but what if he thinks I do. And what about taste, I've never had a girl's "down there" region in my mouth (considering I'm straight) but it doesn't seem like it tastes good. What are some ways I can make it smell and taste good? Btw I have like 5 hours until he comes over. Any help would be useful.
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How to make yourself tight again?
Posted Tuesday November 17 2009, 9:09 pm
Can someone tell me how to make myself tight "down there" again? It used to be hard for him to get in when we started and now he can pretty much just slide it right in with a little lube. I feel bad and I am afraid he will leave me for someone younger and tighter. Please help me!
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What is ths least painful way to take virginity?
Posted Tuesday November 17 2009, 1:07 am
We are going to have sex soon and we really need to know the least painful way to take virginity. Can anyone help us make this a better experience or do we just do it and hope for the best?
Thank you!
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what's considered a small penis?
Posted Wednesday November 11 2009, 4:56 pm
I had a kinda embarrassing moment with my new girlfriend. She said something about howher other boyfriends were bigger than me and stuff. :(
So what is considered a small penis anyway?
Mostly I think I need a girlfriend with some manners. lol!
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ways to make losing your virginity hurt less?
Posted Wednesday November 11 2009, 3:04 pm
16/f
I'm worried about my first time hurting, If I'm wet I can easily fit three fingers inside my vagina, will being able to do this mean it'll hurt less?
What else could I do?
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can you definately pop your cherry by masterbating?
Posted Tuesday November 10 2009, 1:13 am
Is anyone here sure about that? Has anyone actually done this or knows a girl who did this? can you definately pop your cherry by masterbating or is someone just telling me this because...?
Thank you!
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Can you break your hymen by masterbation
Posted Thursday November 5 2009, 11:38 pm
A month ago I was masterbating and I started to bleed some. I thought my period came so I wore a pad but I didn't keep bleeding. I have never had sex or anything and it was my first time trying to masterbate. I heard about masturbation a lot and thought that it might be good but it was kind of so-so, I guess. Anyway, I told my friend about the blood and she told me that I probably popped my cherry. Can you really break your hymen by masterbation though?
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what is the order of sex
Posted Saturday October 31 2009, 11:48 am
what is the order of sex? like does a guy have to be hard to have sex? when a guy is hard do you have to give him a blowjob? should a blowjob happen before sex?
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dangling hymen hanging down from my vagina?
Posted Monday October 26 2009, 4:18 am
Is it my dangling hymen hanging down from my vagina? How would having sex make that "pop" I don't get it??
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