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How do I get my parents to back off?
Posted Tuesday January 30 2018, 6:04 pm
So everyone is starting to get worried because I’m turning 20 this year and I’ve still never been in a relationship, never dated or anything etc. Especially my dad he’s always bothering my sister and I about “where’s my boyfriend?” Even though I told my dad multiple times I have self-esteem issues and nobody finds me attractive anyways. In high school no guy has given me attention, they always went towards my friends I’ve also been called ugly multiple times by different guys in my grade so you can see how that impacted my self-esteem. Even my first day of grade 9 this one girl was trying to find a girlfriend for their friend and one girl pointed at my and the girl said “eww not her” as if I couldn’t hear her. Another th...
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all these pet names?
Posted Monday January 29 2018, 7:04 pm
hi ya,
boyfriend of 4 months has started to call me a pet names such as darling, hun and baby but mainly darling and hun? we both are 23. just wondering if it's too early to use pet names? does hun has a same meaning as darling or is there any differences?
thanks
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Why do boyfriend say this?
Posted Monday January 29 2018, 8:59 am
What is the correct meaning of “go with the flow” mean in a relationship?? Could I get some simple explanation. He’s 28 and I’m 26. Dating for a few months. Cheers.
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Does this guy like me?
Posted Saturday January 27 2018, 9:56 pm
I know this is long and not many people like to read long questions, but I'd appreciate it. I'd especially like to hear from guys who can interpret what it means when a guy behaves this way, or girls who have been in a similar scenario.
I'm a 14 year old female. So there's this guy I see in Drama Club almost daily since we have rehearsals for our upcoming musical often. Let's call him J. I'll mention two other boys later, let's call them X and Y. I suspect he has feelings for me though he doesn't really express it directly. You see, I'm a very direct person; I say what I feel and what I think, but he doesn't seem to be like that.
What I notice about J that makes me think he likes me in a more than a frend way i...
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Posted Wednesday January 24 2018, 3:14 am
Right,
I say things whenever we argue or disagree and my boyfriend goes on and say why are you making an assumptions? Again with the assumptions? Maybe I’m saying things that it’s not going to happen even he gives me this impression. I maybe worry too much and say oh you’re going to do that even I don’t want you to and he replies why’re you making so much assumptions? Thanks. What do I think here? What’s he saying?
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confused
Posted Tuesday January 23 2018, 1:19 pm
can a guy love two girls at the same time and loves really both of the girls? why? what's he thinking? is it really possible and what to do in such situation? break up with him? could anyone eplain?
thank a million
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Does it sound like it's possible to make this relationship work?
Posted Sunday January 21 2018, 10:20 am
So I've known this guy for 2 and a half years. At the time we met he was married, but we became best friends, talking every day on the phone and occasionally going out for dinner.
His marriage was a green card marriage and his "wife" was dating other people, but she was extremely jealous of my friendly relationship with her husband.
Of course in the process, I wound up falling for him. It just seemed like we had so much in common and I could feel the sparks. However, I knew it wasn't good for me or them and I wound up telling him one day that I couldn't keep talking to him and exited his life as kindly as I could.
Well then about a week ago (its been 8 months since we talked) I ...
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I see my boyfriend once a month
Posted Sunday January 21 2018, 8:26 am
We are both 18 and we've been dating for close to seven months. My boyfriend lives about 50 miles away. As I still am not licensed to drive, and without a vehicle, he has to do the driving when we see each other, unless I catch a ride with my siblings when they spend the weekend with our father, who lives in the same area.
My boyfriend is a pretty busy guy. He typically works full time, 8-12 hour shifts 5 days a week, and he just started classes at the local tech school a few days ago. I'm proud of him, all of this is fine. However, I rarely get to talk with him. We always text good morning and typically good night, and we chat just a little through the day, when he's got a chance to look at his phone, but we never have a rea...
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Meaning of you’re special
Posted Friday January 19 2018, 9:55 pm
Hello, my boyfriend said you’re special. Asked him what’d he meant? He said you’re definitely special. I said oh ok I know, thank you. Any hidden meaning?
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LGBTQ+
Posted Thursday January 18 2018, 1:02 am
I’ve been wondering about what gender I like.
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Wife wants threesome with another guy
Posted Wednesday January 17 2018, 12:58 pm
My wife came to me with a request that's really worrying to me. She wants to have another guy join us for sex. We are in our late thirties and have been married since we were twenty. I am the only guy she's been with sexually. Apparently she got the idea from one of her friends who has done this. She already has a guy picked out from an adult dating site. She hasn't contacted him yet. She tells me she wants to see what it feels like to be with someone else. She still loves me and doesn't want to do anything beginning my back. She was in tears when she told me this so I believe her. I agreed to do it but I really don't want to. I'm afraid if I don't she will do it alone as this friend of hers would tell her to and she is very persuasive. It ...
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You deserve better?!
Posted Wednesday January 17 2018, 10:55 am
Wha does it mean when a boyfriend of months says, “you deserve better than me, as I’m terribly sad that I can’t correspond to you the way you want me to so and you’re a nice girl and deserve better than me.” We’re still together as we love each other but what’s he saying? Is that the way of him saying he wants out? Not sure. Thank you all.
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he calls himself as my boyfriend?
Posted Tuesday January 16 2018, 7:16 pm
Hi, we've been going out casually for about 4 months. we had a bit of a disagreement and I just ignored him but when I went up to him and apologised and he said oh am I your boyfriend again? the thing is we hardly say we're girlfriend and boyfriend but now he's just asked even though we rarely mention. so, do ask am I your boyfriend? I mean what does it mean? thanks
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dont know what to think! help
Posted Monday January 15 2018, 5:37 pm
Been dating for a few months but known each other just over a year. both late 20's. we went out for a meal few times and kissed and been going out but not in public but he has a girlfriend and a 2 year old boy. now please guys don't judge me, he was not entirely happy when we went out and crossed the line by kissing and I had just split with my boyfriend at the time. we have said I love you to each other and he did fall for me really hard and so was I. he replies he's not playing with me when I ask him. Now, I asked him this the other day by where are we heading to this relationship, does he see us in the future, is he happy with her and he said, you need to live on the present and think about the present because you think about the future ...
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Really into this girl
Posted Sunday January 14 2018, 8:06 pm
15 year old male. I've recently met this girl at my Highschool, a grade below me (I'm a sophmore and she's a Freshman). I don't even know how I ended up liking her, but here I am. She's smart as hell, funny, gorgeous and talented. She's also unafraid of anything, other people would let kids get bullied, but she stands up for them no matter who is doing the bullying. She's even a bit snarky and I'd hate that quality on anyone else but on her I love them.
She also has a very caring and sensitive side to her. I have had a very difficult life-my father is an alcoholic, and my parents have never really noticed me at all. I've been used to having my depressed attitude and suicidal thoughts ignored by everyone, but she hears. She ca...
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Scared of telling him how I really feel...
Posted Sunday January 14 2018, 6:02 pm
Hello, my name is Jess and i’m 21 years old. I’ve been talking to this guy who is 22 for 3 months now. We’ve been on a couple dates and have hungout like 6 times now. When we’re together it’s great, we laugh and I learn more about him each time we hangout. My issue is though is that I am insecure. And I really like him and want a relationship with him. I’m afraid though that i’m Wasting my time. I feel like he won’t want to be in a relationship with me because he’s someone who doesn’t really express his feelings towards me. He told me he liked me but that was it. I’m afraid to tell him that I really like him and that I want a relationship with him. And when he leaves after we hangout I miss him a lot. I just don’t wa...
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Crush on somebody who was only visiting, how to recover?
Posted Saturday January 13 2018, 10:16 pm
Long story short, they sent somebody to my workplace who's from out of state. I didn't like him at first, but over time I developed a crush on him and then found out the feeling was at least somewhat mutual when he started texting me and flirting with me.
I think as two adults we both realize it wouldn't work so we didn't actually make any moves, but I was still somewhat hopeful that maybe we could work something out. We made plans twice to spend time together outside of work, but both times one of us bailed...probably for the better.
Last week was supposed to be our last day scheduled together and he wanted to come over to my place, but I already had plans with my friend and he had made me somewhat angry with...
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Frustrated
Posted Friday January 12 2018, 9:00 pm
I am in my 20's and I have a very hard time meeting guys. When I do meet guys I like I feel like they aren't interested and guys that I am not interested same thing- I'm not interested. It's a never ending cycle.
A while back I met this guy and we've talked on and off for years. I am not sure if he likes me. But he doesn't always initiate conversation or hold it. We reconnected in the last couple of years. He has asked me what my type was, teased and asked if I liked girls. Asked to hang out at night to cuddle but I told him I had to get to know him first. He then respected that and didn't push it anymore.
I want to know if he likes me. He has also said we've talked on and off for years, it's nice but it...
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Is asking guys out useless? They'd initiate if they were interested, right?
Posted Friday January 12 2018, 12:19 pm
I have a huge crush on someone in my art class. I'm 25 and he's 33. This man is seriously everything.... not only is he handsome and brilliantly talented, he is by far one of the most interesting people I've ever met (very sensitive and unique spirit) and he's also just a very warm, generous guy. The level of detail in the work he brings in every week is inspiring to me, and I'm pretty overwhelmed by how incredible he is. Every time I see him, I become more and more attracted to him and it's reaching a point where I feel like I should probably do something about it. However, I'm feeling stuck because I don't know if making a move (me being female) is a very good idea. If I suddenly started texting or calling him in a social manner or asking...
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Boyfriend says you’re very raunchy!
Posted Monday January 8 2018, 8:46 pm
Hi my boyfriend of 4 months day, you’re very raunchy in bed and very loud in bed and I love it. What does he mean by that? Is that a good thing? I mean we do love each other and known for a year before we recently started to date also he talks dirty with a lot, says he’s trying to get me into positions that we’ve never tried before. Not me but he sends pictures and says do you like that I can do that for you to please you. He’s 29 and I’m 28. A very nice boy. So guys explain please what’s he saying. I mean we both love sex very much he loves it as much as I love it. Thank you all!
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