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Friendship
Friendship is a beautiful thing that can get messy sometimes. Ask your question here.


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TOGETHER OR NOT???


Posted Tuesday December 11 2007, 7:46 pm

Okay, so im 15/f. Ive known a girl named...lets call her Jane. So Jane has been like, one of my best friends since third grade. But then we were in a fight, for like a half a year and then I said sorry but I didn't really do anything in the first place, she was the one who got into the fight. Well I said sorry and she said, "Well ,it's taken you a long time to say sorry." and I thought, BUT I SHOULDNT EVEN BE SAYING SORRY! JANE SHOULD BE THE ONE APOLOGIZING!! So then later that day she calls me and says, "Well, I forgive you. and I said okay,... and she didn't even say sorry for what she had done!!So now I am still kinda angry at her for that, and now when we pass each other in the hallway, we kinda give each other a strange ...

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Boyfriend/Friend Problem


Posted Tuesday December 11 2007, 5:55 pm

Okay so i have a boyfriend. And he's so cute and funny and i like him soo much. He is sarcastically mean to people but he's joking all the time about things that he says and i don't think that people know that. Like i know that he's joking but everyone's like wow he's so mean but he's not! My friends always say he treats me like crap but he doesn't! I think its because i only told them when we used to get in fights..but we havn't gotten in a fight in a long time. My one friend has been spreading rumors about him and saying all this stuff and she wont stop no matter what i say. She's my best friend and i'm not sure if she's like trying to get us to break up cause she doesn't like him? It makes it so hard to want to hang out with my friends when i know they'll just bash on him.

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attempting to become friends with an ex


Posted Monday December 10 2007, 7:13 pm

I want to become friends with my ex again. But, there are several problems. First of all, we haven't talked in about 9 months. Secondly, I have a boyfriend now who might become jealous if I were to become friends with the ex again. Also, I don't really know how I'd start a conversation with the ex. He and I have 1 class together and actually have several friends in common. Help, please?

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Christmas?


Posted Monday December 10 2007, 12:57 pm

Okay
so i have got my friend an A3 photoframe and put picutures in it for christmas
is this too little?
if it is what else can i get her?
xox

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'friendship"


Posted Sunday December 9 2007, 7:08 pm

so, there was this boy i saw in 06, at a show, and we had this.. i dont know, unspoken understanding of each other. it was like, mutual, smiling, laughing, not very much talking, he left before the show ended (it was in a small coffee shop), I never thought I'd see him again. speed up 07, i saw him the other day, talked to him even, he didnt remember me. But i wouldnt expect him to... haha, but now I know where he works. I dont even know if he has a girlfriend, but how do I casually like.. I want to hang out with him or something.. ahhh.

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How do I ask?


Posted Saturday December 8 2007, 11:31 pm

Sophmore/f

I know this sounds really dumb, but when you guys ask people to hang out for the first time, what do you say? How friendly do you prefer to be with someone before you ask them, please give examples (e.g. friendly enough to talk about personal stuff, friendly enough to have inside jokes, only talk in class sometimes, etc.) What kinds of things would you ask them to do? Would you want to go in a group or just you and that person?
Thanx

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friends`


Posted Saturday December 8 2007, 10:24 pm

my best friend has changed a lot since we started high school well more about a year ago when she started going out with this kid who i dont like but whatever, my other best friend plays softball and is always at practice or hanging out with her team so that kinda leaves me with one other person dont get me wrong i love my friends but i want to find other friends, branch out so i know i will always have some where to go on weekends, but since im in high school most people are already in groups (my school isnt very catty like typical high schoools, were all get along for the most part) i just dont know how to break into the groups without people talking about it saying (oh look shes trying to be friends with them) im not like loserish or anything either

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What should i give to my bestfriend for christmas


Posted Saturday December 8 2007, 10:17 pm


In an coincidence, i pick the name of my best friend
in our exchange gift( on Christmas party)

I know that my best friend like volleyball and likes Beyonce. So i plan to give a Ball(volleyball) and if i can still afford another gift, i could also add a Cd that contains Beyonce songs.And i could give a letter inside the Cd case.
Is this a good idea to give to my friend?

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mad+sad=derpressed


Posted Friday December 7 2007, 7:25 pm

13/f

okay so 3 people r in my problem.
me,w, and c

k.
me and w go to the same school but dont have n e classes together. last year she was new, i was her first friend. i only c her in the halls.
last year we were best friends this year we r struggling. me and c have always been good friends but not best friends. all of a sudden w and c start being best friends. then we all 3 r best friends. c doesn't go to our school n e more.

but lately w and c have been hanging out with each other a lot.
some times with me, mostly not.
yesterday i saw w in the hall way and asked her if she wanted to do sumthing tonight/weekend.
she said idk.
she said she would ca...

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alcohol = better friends


Posted Friday December 7 2007, 6:25 pm

ok lately I've been feeling more and mroe left out cause my friends all go out partying together and of course they always invite me (But my parents dont let me go) + i dont drink (which is obligatory if your out partyying where i live) and at first i just thought i didnt fit in, but last night when i went out with them for the first time (my parents were away) i noticed how close you get and how much more you like each other after one night of partying together.. what hsould i do? how do i get my parents who would dig my grave if the word party ever came out of my mouths to let me freaking party? and should i even do it? heeellp

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FRIENDS


Posted Thursday December 6 2007, 4:52 pm

Okay, well i am a 13 year old girl. I wanna meet people to talk to, but not like date. I wanna find friends online and places. Where can i do this?

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christmas present for the best friend.


Posted Thursday December 6 2007, 2:20 pm

i don't know what do give one of my good friends for christmas. i want to get her something good cause she's been there for me 6 years, what should i get her?

15/f

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Writing a Christmas Card


Posted Thursday December 6 2007, 11:28 am

I'm 20/F.

This summer while I was working across the country from home, I became friends with a wonderful 68 year old man. He's kind of like the grandfather I never had. Of course, I'd like to keep in contact, but he doesn't use e-mail. So, I'm sending him a Christmas card.

Here's the problem: being newly introduced into adulthood, I've never sent a card in which I actually included an update on my life.

What sort of things do you write about in a Christmas card update? I'm already planning to mention my engagement, but other than that and school...

Sorry, I know I sound really stupid, but this is a new thing for me.

Thanks!

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Attitude Adjustment.


Posted Thursday December 6 2007, 7:34 am

I'm normally a ridiculously happy person, but during a class trip I was really downing the vibe. Everything and everyone was beginning to frustrate me and it's not because I'm moody; these people were simply being annoying...
My question is:
despite all the annoyances I may be presented with, what is a good way to overlook them and be a ray of sunshine?

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Myspace Top Friends...


Posted Thursday December 6 2007, 12:02 am

16,f
There is a girl at school, she seems nice. So recently she got a myspace. She tells me "Oh you're on my top so I better be on yours!" so of course that means for me to put her on my top. I'm a nice person, so I did. Now I find out she is not the best person. She FAST in other words. And I do NOT want to be associated with people like that. I want to take her off my page, but what do I say if she asks what happened in the most polite way?? THANKS!

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party


Posted Wednesday December 5 2007, 9:48 pm

K so i just found out that a friend of mine is inviting some people to hang out with her on friday. even my two sisters were invited! but i wasnt invited though. we are best friends so i dont no why i wasnt invited but im upset about it. i no she isnt mad at me but i still dont no why.

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doe's she like me?


Posted Wednesday December 5 2007, 7:13 pm

Theres this girl that talks to me ALOT when ever i see her she says hi and talks. Then in gym today she ask if i wanted to play football and stuff. I like her alot. But she alerdy has a boyfriend. So does she like me?

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rumours


Posted Wednesday December 5 2007, 11:34 am

i used to be best friends with this group of girls. the main girl in this group was very controlling and two of my closest friends broke away from us. the main leader of our group then starrting to say some rude and nasty things about them, and i felt that i should had told them so i did. then she accussed me of lying to her which was untrue. so we broke up and now me and my other friends watch out for each other. a week later i find out that she is spreading rumours about me and acting like she is innocent. she is now in control of a new group of friends and i want to warn them what she is capable of but im unsure of how to go about it? please help before she ruins more peoples lives.

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I need advise! its complicated...!


Posted Wednesday December 5 2007, 7:01 am

I'm a 29 yr old female. Don’t know how to explain this, but I have a friend, actually "friends with benefits" sorta thing, whom I used to hangout with all the time, dance with, go clubbing, hang out with his friends, so we were like buddies…and YES we have been “physical”.
Lately he has been acting weird (cold, nasty attitude, careless...) and he simply stopped calling me or ask me to join him/his group for no reason and no explanation whatsoever! But he's still hanging out with his other friends & enjoying his life...while I am left out, boiling with rage…feeling dumped, used, and humiliated. My pride couldn’t let me call him to question him about his weird behavior.He’s a reckless bastard, and has many o...

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everyone keeps saying how hot my BF is


Posted Wednesday December 5 2007, 12:51 am

OK so I have been with my boyfriend for nearly a year now and i always thought he was super good looking but I kinda got used to it.

He always compliments me and says i am the hot one, but lately i have come to realise that he is actually way better looking than me. I took him to a party and i had 3 seperate people comment to me on how good looking he is, and then the next day someone else did.

Just now I was talking to a friend of his on msn and she said something along the lines of, i am not surprised you enjoy showing him off, he is HOT!

I suddenly feel like everyone is looking at us and wondering what the hell he is doing with me??
Especially it also doesnt help that he has a more p...

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