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Does he like me?
Posted Saturday October 21 2006, 11:42 am
15,f missouri
there is this guy that i like, we go to the same school and we hang out alot, he knows that like him, and he says that he likes me, but he isn't doing anything about it. My dad said that i can't ask out a guy, it is forward and unapporpriate. So my question to you is how do i convince him that it is ok to ask me out. he flerts w/ me all the time, and i flert back, but i don't know, any help is appriciated. Thanks in advance
~Ash
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my ex-bestfriend and i
Posted Friday October 20 2006, 4:25 pm
Months ago my ex-bestfriend (was my best friend) started a fight with me, (to make the story short), and ever since that we haven't spoke to each other, which has been now 4 months.
I am currently hanging out with a new crowd of people. Some I have known for awhile before my ex-friend and I am happily getting along with them, and never think about my old friendship. I feel confident that I don't need her and I feel like I am much stronger without her.
However, every time she walks by I get this "adrenaline-rushed" feeling that she might go up to me and go off on me, because she is the kind of person that would. I don't know why I get that way, when I feel soo much better without her, and that when she...
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Being the BEST
Posted Thursday October 19 2006, 9:46 pm
I am really involved in my school. I participate in most of the sports, choir, band, a lot of things. But, i want to be the best at SOMETHING. i'm not that athletic, i mostly just go out for sports to stay fit. I'm really good at singing but there are 2 other girls that always beat me. I take voice lessons and everything..i'm just not the best. Band...i hate. My mom makes me doit so i really dont care if i'm the best at that or not. But really i just want all the attention to be on JUST ME for once. I always have to share it, or get 3rd best part or something like that. I dont even know why it's that important. But everyone seems to have something they are the best at except me. I dont really even know what my question is, i'm just looking ...
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when a guy says...
Posted Thursday October 19 2006, 7:42 pm
what does it mean when a guy says "i would give it to you good"?
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16/m/virgin Junior year in High School/ lonely
Posted Tuesday October 17 2006, 10:45 pm
:Hey, im a m/16 virgin, Junior in High School
-i have never had a serious relationship, at all. When i was in 8th/9th grade or so i had a few "intimate" moments but nothing worth mentioning. Right now im quite lonely. betrayed by a few of my close friends (not really there fault, just time takes it toll) I tend to be a "friend" of many people. never have I once gotten sexually close or even talked about this to anyone.
At this point I am deperate for a sincere relationship. I am the type of person that would ask a girl out, as long as it was a 50% chance or higher I would get a "yes". But at this point I am pretty sure that not one girl would even consider me.
I'm ...
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A girl loves me but I'm not sure
Posted Tuesday October 17 2006, 3:52 pm
Hi, a girl in another school likes me alot but I'm not sure. I like her as a friend but not romantically.
When she first told me I said I maybe in the future but recently I said I'd think about it.
I really dont want to hurt her but I dont love her back. Is there anyway I can say so gently without hurting her or damaging our friendship??
I am 15 years old and a male.
Thanks in advance :)
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eh
Posted Monday October 16 2006, 8:03 pm
Are there times in a relationship where a partner may have doubts? I mean I love my boyfriend very much. But I dunno today I just didn't feel good and I just thought he was soo annoying and too touchy and I didn't want to hug him. I'm fine now though and I very much want him to be at my house with me.. Is it just me?
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attracted to my teacher
Posted Monday October 16 2006, 4:28 pm
Im a 26 y/o female and in nursing school and i have a problem . I am very attracted to my male meacher and im pretty sure he likes me too. I am white and 98% of the students and teachers are african including my teacher. He is always talking about me in class saying he has never met a white woman so comfortable around africans and he is always staring at me . So what do i do tell him how i feel ? am i misenterpreting his comments about me? there is only 3 weeks of school left and i need some advice.
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First kiss
Posted Sunday October 15 2006, 3:37 pm
I am eighteen an never had my first kiss (never even close). . . . . .nor have i even had a boyfriend. . . i know. . . . . is there something wrong?
18, Female
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party
Posted Saturday October 14 2006, 11:30 pm
alright so me and my friend are having a black and white dance for our sweet 16. we invited our whole grade and are sophmores and i was looking for any suggestions to make it really fun im wicked nervous..i know all kids dont like dances too. pllllease any suggestions lemme know! thank you alot.
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Self harm
Posted Saturday October 14 2006, 12:10 pm
In class yesterday I was sitting next to a girl who I don't really know, and she rolled her sleeve up and I saw she had cuts all up her arm, and that some of them were bleeding. She didn't know that I saw. Now I don't know this girl at all, but I do know one of her flatmates a bit. Should I speak to her flatmate and see if she knows this girl is cutting herself? Cos I think her flatmate could help her much more than I could.
Thanks!
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I didn't make this up...I need advice.
Posted Friday October 13 2006, 11:24 am
Re: masturbating in library rumor. I was the person who originally posted the question about how to deal with being the masturbating in library rumor. I didn't make this up, and i'm not trying to get attention. Actually, i'm trying to find ways of getting the attention _away_ from me. That's why i posted on here.
And i'm not crazy. I spoke to a school counselor to address this specific issue, and she told me the best way to deal with the rumor is IGNORE it and it will go away.
The problem is, seven months later, that the rumor has not gone away, and I have to hear the rumor repeated on a daily basis by the people, predominantly women, that I live in the same neigborhood as, who still talk about me.
Seriously. I'm not m...
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Do you earn love?
Posted Friday October 13 2006, 3:56 am
Is it worth it, to be with a girl together after you have done everything for her? What I mean to say is that it is good too fight for money. It means you earned them. But if you work hard for a relatioship it just means that the other person did not want you in the beginning and you squeezed yourself in their heart if you know what I mean.
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my x boyfriend
Posted Thursday October 12 2006, 8:39 pm
ok well my exboyfriend and i have been writing alot of notes to eachother and we were cool but someone told him that i was saying shit about him and i wasn't and now even his friends are being mean to me and they're saying stuff like im ugly and they're just being mean to me.. and i never even said anything about him so what should i do?
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how to
Posted Thursday October 12 2006, 4:12 pm
how do i stand up for myself at school .. im the type of person that keeps it all inside until i freak out because i get so mad.
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How to deal with the masturbation in library rumor
Posted Thursday October 12 2006, 3:04 am
Hi, it's me again. I'm the woman who was studying in the Columbia law school library (and this student, cynthia, told everyone that she saw me masturbating in the library).
Obviously, I wasn't masturbating in public, and the situation is really embarassing because it has gotten out of hand--literally, it seems that about one-half of the law school students in this city think that I was masturbating in the library and believe her.
I haven't confronted her or any of the dozens of women whom I have heard repeating this rumor (because I live in the area of columbia, I have to run into law students on a daily basis, unfortunately).
Today, while I was riding the subway from the gym to my apartment, I overheard a girl telling ...
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This may sound kind of on the stupid side, but sorry!
Posted Wednesday October 11 2006, 8:05 pm
I'm very shy. I'm so shy that I don't even want to get up to go turn in my paper because people stare at me. I don't even raise my hand to answer questions in class because I'm scared that I will get the wrong answer and people will make fun of me. If a person is shy (like me), are they always going to be shy for their whole life or do you eventually stop being shy? If so, how?
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new school next year
Posted Wednesday October 11 2006, 5:27 pm
16/f
when i was in 8th grade i went to a private all girls school and i hate my high school im a junior at a technical school and i hate my shop and i want to switch back to the private school senior year but im torn. please help!!
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No help what so ever
Posted Tuesday October 10 2006, 6:25 pm
In english class, I have to work with this one guy because my teacher counted off my 6's and I got stuck with him. He happens to be my best friends closest guy friend and he ALWAYS finds out SOME way to make fun of me. So in class, he thinks that he can take advantage of me and sit there and tells me what to do. And I am a person who tries their hardest and does all the work when it's needed to be done. So he's yelling at me that he can't read my handwriting, and that my e and f are to spread out and that I should work harder. I almost wanted to kill him because he does this to me every day. I mean, I don't wanna tell the teacher but its a big project and he doesn't do anything... i'm just not sure...
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how do i kno if he's hinting that i should go with him? <33
Posted Tuesday October 10 2006, 5:42 pm
14/f
This is a reallyyy long story. sorry =/
Basically, i wanna know if the guy i've liked for FOREVER is hinting that I should go with him & his friends to the fright-whatever-thing at six flags. [ the haunted house or whatever it is..]
Well, here's the deal. i really, really like this guy. have for at least a year now, on & off. back in May '06, when we were just acquaintences, some gossip went around that i wanted to go out with him, but he didnt really pay that much attention. so, nothing like that ever happened between us. this year in school we're much closer and i could pretty much call him one of my good friends even though we havent hung out outside of school at all. well im star...
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