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jealousy
Posted Friday December 28 2007, 2:17 am
is it wrong to hang out with my best friends boy friend when she is not there even though we were friends before they started going out...
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I'm moving...
Posted Thursday December 27 2007, 11:38 pm
14/F
Okay, in first grade, I made a really good friend. In fourth grade (four years ago), I moved to another state. Me and my friend (let's call her Kat) were stripped away from each other.
When I moved, I met a new girl (let's call her Amy). Amy and I became very very very very very close over four years.
Now I'm about to move back to Kat's state, and I regret it a lot, because I'm making Amy cry.
Amy is actually mentally dependent on me, she literally tells me everything, and if she doesn't I can tell she's not telling me something.
Though I know she'll get over it eventually. I've been trying to introduce her to new people to befriend, but she's still attached to me.
Long story short-i...
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my best friend & hers.
Posted Thursday December 27 2007, 6:04 pm
okay so this girl named jaslen is getting me mad she keeps on trying to steal my best friend erika & shes to nice that she goes along with it she cant say no. & they i got a pic comment from jaslen saying your to concieded i felt like screaming at her telling her that im not concieded im just prettier than herrrrr she cant get any guy! i wanted to scream and tell her the plain truth but i just wrote "no hun im not concieded trust me i would know / go get a life :)" & now im just waiting for a reply i dont mean to pick a fight with her but shes getting me madddddddd erika my best friend shes sleeping over her house again tonight and shes been selling me out a ton :/ can someone help me what do i do ?
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Help Me....Please???
Posted Thursday December 27 2007, 7:32 am
Ive got a problem. I really lke my neighbor. Im 20, hes 27. I have known him for about 2 years now. The problem though, is he is engaged and very much in love with this fiance. I realize that, and would never do anything that would ruin his realtionship with her, but I still cant quit thinking about him. Im writing to see if anyone could give me ideas on how to get past my feelings for him. I dont think I could just up and quit talking to him, as I realy value the friendship that we have and we come to eachother for support or advice when we need it. I think I feel the way I do for him because we spend a lot of time together, seeing that his finace does not live with him, and he gets bored living in a house by himself. Just today we went an...
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losing them
Posted Wednesday December 26 2007, 9:56 am
15/f
This school year, my parent pulled me out of public school into catholic school. Freshman year so far has been great, except my old public school friends are starting to not understand me. They get mad everytime I hang out with school friends, and whenever I can't be with them they feel like they're completely losing me. But the thing is, they're not! I love them to death and they're my BEST FRIENDS but they don't really understand that. How can I fix our relationship? I don't know what to do with myself if I lose them. And everytime I tell them this they don't find it genuine. Please give me some tips on how to make our relationship better, and to make that best friends forever promise stay forever?
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ME=UNPOPULAR.
Posted Tuesday December 25 2007, 6:34 pm
Im fine with being un-popular , I am .
Buut , I don't know .
I used to hang out with this popular girl before , And it was only when her friends were mad at her .
We didn't hang out for like a year .
Now , She still continues to be popular .
And keeps asking to hang out .
She's not even in a fight with a friend .
Help , Is she using me ?
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helping a friend
Posted Monday December 24 2007, 11:55 pm
First of all, I'm a girl and my friend is a guy. We're both in high school. I like him, and he knows it, but we are still really good friends, even though it did hold us down for a while. Anyway, there are several things I need help on. 1 is that he has a girlfriend, which he says he loves, but he is always depressed and afraid of being hurt, and thinks she doesn't care enough about him, which might be true, but he's always telling me about how sad he is, and I care about him a lot, but I don't know how to help him. I want him to feel better. I want to be there for him when he needs me. 2 is that I really like him. A lot. I wish there was away I could show him that I care more than he'll ever know, and I'm the one he needs. When he describ...
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best friends?
Posted Monday December 24 2007, 4:49 pm
my (best) friends are annoying. my friends are immature. my friends are despirate. my friends only want to talk about themself. i cant deal with them. i always find myself talking about everyone else and helping them. always. i say something about myself and the conversation immediatly switches back to themself. i like my camp friends, but they live kind of far away to be seeing them a lot. i have one good friend at home, but she can get annoying. yesterday i had plans with all of them. it was a train wreck. when my friends were pissing me off, i stood up to them for like the first time. they dont care. it didnt effect them. i dont know what to do with myself. ive been crying alot lately. i was crying in front of my friends, which like nev...
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How can I help my friend??
Posted Monday December 24 2007, 12:13 am
13/f.My friend can't hear herself sing.She gets bad grades and she's quite DUMB to say one thing.She has no like particular good "talent" except maybe art which she is good at but not really good..She's also kinda ugly,short, and very overweight.She really wants to be popular,skinny,pretty and all but she is lazy and in my opinion,doesn't try very hard.She likes music,and wanted to be a singer(found out a month ago and convinced her or at least I hope I convinced her)that it isn't the thing for her.I recommended a guitarist(not really) and an artist,but i don't think it'll happen.She is always teased by boys and other girls and she is always saying "I hate (whoever whoever that gossips about her) or I hate myself or I wanna d...
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ditch old friends
Posted Sunday December 23 2007, 10:25 pm
how do i ditch old friends that never make me feel that great and get better new friends? like cause our school has a lot of cliques so how to you like join a clique? or how do you like make friends with people that arent that new.. cause you see them a lot but it would kinda be weird since they already have their friends.. so like would they want me as well? and thanks. 13/f
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Outcast
Posted Sunday December 23 2007, 4:29 pm
I don't have many friends at all, I'm an attractive 15 year old female. I'm involved at school to try to make new friends but most of the time people won't get to know me because they've heard rumors that I'm a bitch. I used to be involved with the popular crowd but I got out of that so people would get to know the real me. I'm friendly, I compliment people, I make them laugh, I try to be sweet. Nothing ever works, no one makes me a priority in life. If I hang out with people, I'm the one who makes all the plans.
I have two friends that hang out with me.
The rest are history. I want to have friends,
I want to belong. Help.
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no christmas present?
Posted Sunday December 23 2007, 11:30 am
so one of my good friends was like OMG I WANT SOMETHING FROM AMERICAN EAGLE and she was like im getting you that scarf that you really wanted so i kind of made my mom go to the mall for her to buy her mittens and gloves from american eagle, which my mom didnt really want to but i was like "mom shes getting me a expensive scarf that i really wanted" next day all i find in my locker is a card...it just said "merry christmas" my mom has been asking, can i see the scarf? is it nice? and i've been having to say i didnt get it yet because it didnt come in the mail yet, cause if my mom found out she didnt get me anything she'd flip, what should i do about this?
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Losing friends and feeling unloved
Posted Saturday December 22 2007, 9:11 pm
(Sorry, this is long) Well I'm going through a tough time right now. I feel like I've lost MANY friends that I've once loved. It seems like they've left me and they don't even care about me anymore. I only have like a lil true friends, and the one that was probably the truest has left me and I miss her. I dunno what happened, how, and why. It's too much to explain, but I can't help but to feel depressed a lot. So the main point is that I've lost like a lot of friends and even though I have some true friends, I can't stand them sometimes. My one friend that was like my bestest friend ever has moved on, and I just don't get why. Some of my friends I don't get to see that much anymore, and I don't hang out with people like I used to last year...
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friends song
Posted Saturday December 22 2007, 8:22 pm
what was the song played on "Friends" season 8 finale when rachel thought that joey proposed to her then ross comes with lilies on his hands to her room and thats where it ends for season eight...
i am CRYING coz i cant figure it out.. im so mad i wanna know the song its like a soft romantic slow.. with piano o my gosh i need to know! please help me out! thanks so much!
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i love everyone but sometimes i feel a little used...
Posted Saturday December 22 2007, 4:55 pm
i love everyone i dispise Racism and shallowness i love people for who they are not how they look, BUT since september i joined a 6th form at my school (i went back for further education) and in that time i fallen out bad time wth one of freinds (she stole my new 70 quid hoody and was freekin freezin that day) but yeh any way i try to be unlike other men by trying to actually be freinds with some one before i ask them out (ime 16 btw) but i am in a 6th form art and photography group with 9 othr girls they hardly take notice of me although of the things i do for them like i am good with electronics so i plug in and charge all the cameras fix computer errors with the camera's and only one person in that whole group noticed because she nominat...
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Should I or not?
Posted Saturday December 22 2007, 3:06 pm
Me and my bff have been friends for four years now and we also have a bff who weve known for three years. Well two of those years were fine but Bff 1's other bestfriends started picking on me and threatening to beat me up. When i told her she ignored me and said i probally deserved it but when i talked about them she got super pissed off and stopped talking to me for days. Then we graduated middle school and my bff 2 got put into foster care and then it got super worse with bff 1. She would invite our other bff over for a huge slumber party and not me even though our friend lives three hours away and i barely get to see her as it is. Then my friend started getting mean and rude, usually she was so picked on in middle school i thought she wa...
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Posted Saturday December 22 2007, 11:29 am
me and my friend brandi are bored on a saturday afternoon. i want to take pictures for my myspace but idk what angles where to take them or anything. i dont have any good ideas. can someone help me ?
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gah.
Posted Friday December 21 2007, 7:17 pm
<small> so my bestfriend is reallly shy,
not when she's around people that she's really close to.. but around everyone else she is.
she has no opinions. she has nothing really to call her own. she coppies everythingg i do, agrees with everything i say. she's even got to the point where she coppies my myspace aoout me's to sound just like mine. she's very preppy and i'm not really. and these past few months she's been buying alll the kind of clothes that i wear.
i feel like i have nothing to call my own.
nothing original, and nothing unique because she coppies everything i do.
i've confronted her a few times but things never seem to change,
is there anything i could do...
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How do I not let it get to me?
Posted Thursday December 20 2007, 5:07 pm
Alright. Very long story short--a girl that has been one of my best friends for about a year has turned extremely sour towards me. I've tried very hard to rectify the situation. It's not going to get fixed. I've accepted this. I'm not looking for advice on how to fix it.
Here's my problem: Not only do we go to a tiny boarding school in the middle of nowhere and live in the same building together, we share one of our really good friends. (In fact, it used to be that the three of us were really good friends.) We'll call the sour friend "Sarah" and the mutual friend "Anna".
Anna and I are roomates. Sarah does this thing where she'll come into the room and start chatting amicably with Anna and...
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3rd Shift Friends
Posted Thursday December 20 2007, 2:02 pm
I currently live on a 3rd shift schedule to be with my husband during his work week. I've been on the same schedule since I moved to my current place of residence. The two year mark has almost gone by and I don't have any friends. It seems impossible to socialize this way. Anyone have any suggestions on how to find 3rd shift pals, or to socialize while living this lifestyle?
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