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friends being different
Posted Tuesday January 1 2008, 3:22 am
[im 13/f if this helps?]
Alright so i have this best freind and lately like mabey even this whole school year she has been a brat to me and many other friends of hers She will insult anyone to make herself look better. I really dont want to be her friend anymore. So how do I give her that hint and tell her?
Please give me adive you would do.
Thanks in advance
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taking advantage
Posted Tuesday January 1 2008, 1:46 am
ok so a friend of my sister and i came over for the holidays from college. and at the beginning she use to ask if she could enter or use the phone and stuff like that. my sis and i were raised to always be nice to guests and be very hospitable. and we have... thing is she stopped asking for stuff and she knows perfectly well that we won't say no. for example she calls about 7 times a day (i am not exaggerating) to her family internationally and long distance just to "chat"... i mean fine it was the holidays and she called her parents and sibs but HELLO just because my parents look like they pick money from a tree that they should pay this high expensive bills...
so.... what should i do? mt mom will kill me if i s...
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I think I love my best friend
Posted Tuesday January 1 2008, 12:50 am
I'm bisexual and I think I might have feelings for my best friend. I don't want to destroy our friendship by telling her how I feel and then having her reject me, but I don't know how much longer I can take her not knowing how I feel since I'm really terrible at lying to her. Please advise me!
P.S. - I just read the note that said to include my age and gender. 15, female, respectively.
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Ex best friend bringing drama with her.
Posted Monday December 31 2007, 10:58 pm
Ok, so for a while my friend has been really weird towards me. She likes a guy that used to like me, and she felt threatened or something. So she's been a bit bitchy towards me. This guy cannot stand me, we always fight.
So he obviously decided to have a bit of fun and screw up the friendship with this girl.
He told her I backstab her and all this crap (Please note, this guy lives on the other side of the country and he's some random on the internet) and she believed him. Heyy what happened to "Friends are forever boys are whatever" hey?
Anyway she decided to instantly believe him and not even ask my side and keeps sending me nasty emails and myspace comments. I'll delete and block her...
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I need poetry
Posted Monday December 31 2007, 3:40 pm
does anyone know a site with friendship poems poems like im sorry for hurting you friend or somthing like that and i need some secret admirer poems please anything is apreciated thanks
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loser friend
Posted Monday December 31 2007, 12:06 am
I grew up with this girl whom I always used to defend and then in middle school we parted ways, she dumped me but just for a year until she became like my stalker but i no longer want to be her friend. Shes always there and like all over me so i had my friend talk to her and it didnt work so i talked to her it didnt work so i have just plain asked her to leave me alone but it didnt work. wat do i do?
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this guy
Posted Monday December 31 2007, 12:01 am
my friend thought this guy was hott and stuff and so we were both like YAH HES REALLY HOTT! then we go to this party and he's asking her for something and he mixes up her name and calls her brianna..or something like that. I kinda caught that she looked all embarassed so the other day she goes who would you make out with this year and i say him, and she's like he's not that great or anything. Is she just mad because ONE guy doesn't pay attention to her. Now she like puts him down all the time. She has to get it through her head that all guys won't like her. is that the case? she just doesn't like him because he doesn't even know who she is?
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What should I say?
Posted Sunday December 30 2007, 11:43 pm
I added this kid on myspace that I saw at a party and that I know goes to my school but Ive never spoken to before. So... yeah, he accepted my request and I want to send him a mesage but I don't know what to say. What should I say? And, I didnt actually talk to him at the party... or ever.
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PLEASE HELP :[[[
Posted Sunday December 30 2007, 9:23 pm
ok here's the thing imm really sad right now :(
please dont get mad at me but could you actually give a real answer that you would do if you were in this position
ok since i was like 4 i was friends with this girl named britney. wen my family moved away from them we grew further apart
but wen i was like 12 and she was like 14 she started getting more friends then she stopped hanging out with me
but she still thinks everything is ok
i dont know why but its almost like i hate her
she just i guess wants to act mature and she always hangs out with my sister and doesnt even say anything to me
wenever we do talk she just asks about my sister and do...
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Loser Friends
Posted Sunday December 30 2007, 9:14 pm
A girl considers me her bff, but I haven't talked to her face to face in like 4 months. I use her for my own personal gain when i need her, because she doesn't like her current friends and tries to get in with my friends so she thinks it'll help but she's getting way too annoying and I would keep using her but I cant because she is seriously always there and too annoying, how do i get through to her?
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losing friendship
Posted Sunday December 30 2007, 7:44 pm
okay, let me just say this. i recently lost my best friend, over some complicantions. and now we are just friends. ever since my life had gone down into a sunken hole of a depression and i don't know what to do. lets just say, i was in love with himm and now we are just friends. though this only happened like a week and half ago. anyways, one of my friends went out with this one guy. i swore i would never like him, they dated for about 8 months on and off. all and all she hates him now. she got into a relationship a few months after that, and shes been in this relationship for an year almost in 2 weeks. anyways, she still hates her ex. she pretty much changed since she started dating her boyfriend whom at the time was her best friends broth...
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How to earn forgiveness?
Posted Sunday December 30 2007, 2:31 pm
Hello. I am 21 and male.
I met someone online, and we have been pretty good friends for a while now. We do not want to date or anything, because both of us are married... just friends. I just want to get that out there...
Recently, I have made a series of stupid mistakes and hurt her feelings pretty badly. I suffer from Bipolar Disorder, and am currently seeking help for it. I want her to forgive me for the things I have done, but I'm not sure how. I told her about the disorder before the fight.
I have tried apologizing to her, but I'm not sure if she forgives me or not. She will not talk to me, and only minimal responses are given when I initiate conversations with her.
I really e...
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Regret
Posted Saturday December 29 2007, 10:15 pm
I have a really good guy friend. I like him as more than a friend. He has a girlfriend. Me and him have been hanging out a lot, but the other day I was in a bad mood, and he didn't do anything wrong(actually, he was being amazingly sweet), but I guess I was stressed out about a lot of stuff, and I was tired of watching him be with another girl, so I said some mean things to him, and yet he was still nice, and then I got meaner. Then he kinda ignored me. Now we talked a little, and he says he's nit mad, but he's not talking to me much, and he doesn't seem to care about me like he did. I think he's still mad and I want to make it up to him. A friend thought New Years would be a good time for all of us to get together and have fun again.
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big deal?
Posted Saturday December 29 2007, 7:39 pm
i received a call yesterday from this girl that i didnt know.She was trying to get my ex bf's number.I found out that i knew her bf but she wanted to know if i knew anybody that would know my ex's number.I told her that i dont give out my friends number to people i dont know.Then she asked me if i couldd ask her bf if he was planning on breaking up with her.At first i sad no because im not about to get into somebody else's relationship but then i made a deal with her.She wouldnt give out the name of the girl who gave her my number so i made a deal with her so that she would.i told her i would ask her bf if she told me who gave her my number because i really dont appreiate somebody going around giving out my number.well it ended up being a f...
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I'm not sooo sure...((warning:This is a long Question!!!))
Posted Saturday December 29 2007, 1:22 am
((14/F))
Ok I've had something bugging me lately.I have a good friend he's creepy and odd but he's a very cool person to hang out with.Anyways,I went to a party on the day we got out for school for christmas break.Well, when I went to the party I talked to him at times when I suddenly got or just for fun and when I went inside my friends house,um, lets call her Holly.He went inside too after a few minutes I kept getting chips cause I was hungrey and he kept telling me that I was going to get fat and that my crush won't like me anymore if I got fat and all that crap.
Well,he kept bugging me about and would'ent shut up.Then a little later on I was outside sitting next to some friends he said he was going to hug m...
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Disappointment About Broken Plans
Posted Friday December 28 2007, 9:08 pm
16/f
So for my second year in a row, I have no plans for New Years. First I was supposed to have both of my best friends over for a sleepover. A few days after we made the plans, one of my friends admitted she had to stay home with her parents because they will have guests. Just a few moments ago, my other best friend told me that she can no longer come over either, she cannot get a ride home from her dad`s house and doesn`t feel like taking the bus. She doesn`t even sound disappointed, she will be with her cousin (her other best friend..). They just think I am whining when I say how disappointed I am. I can`t even make other plans due to extenuating circumstances with basically every other person I know. What do I do?
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AH! HELP! ASAP! PLEASE
Posted Friday December 28 2007, 7:12 pm
14/f
my boydfriends sister wants me & her to like bond tomorrow.(like go to the mall shopping)
But 2 of her friends are going with us.
i kinda dont like hanging out with them.
but i do want to hang out with his sister because she seems really cool.& i want to hang out with her more.
theyre all really skinny and i know this sounds wierd but i feel like im just going to break them whenever im near them.
should i cancel with her and tell her something came up? but then id have to tell my boyfriend. or should i go and just try to have a good time?
Thanks in advance.
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friend, or user?
Posted Friday December 28 2007, 7:12 pm
Well i used to be friends with the popular group, but i drifted away. We are still friendly, but not real friends. Well the group i joined had really nice and honest people, well, i thought. My mom never liked them. She thought that they would ditch me in a second, and they were sluts. Well that was 2 years ago, and one person, Hilary moved away, and she was bffls with Jess. Well Jess and i were amazingly close, until Hilary came to visit. Then Jess got weird, and disappeared when we were supposed to go out. She was out with Hilary every night this week, and i was home alone because i was supposed to hang out with them and they kept ditching me. What do i do? I cant leave this group now! I mean im in middle school, they are all i have!!! An...
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Drugs & Friendship =/
Posted Friday December 28 2007, 4:21 pm
My friend, Jayelle (16) is very into drugs and although I have been friends with her for three years, I'm way different than her. I'm not into that and no one can influence me to do so. However, she's ruining her life and she doesn't care and slowly she's trying to drag me with her.
Her parents don't know that she uses drugs and I don't see how. She's always high and she has drugs in her room. They're clueless. I don't feel comftrable being around her anymore and I have talked to her about it but it goes in one ear and out the other so I stoped trying.
She got upset with me because I did not want to hang out with her because of it and I honestly did not feel guilty for it.
Here's the problem. Bo...
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texting...?
Posted Friday December 28 2007, 2:17 pm
So there's this friend of mine, let's call him Joe. He goes to a different high school and I haven't hung out with him in a month. Sometimes, he texts me and, and I don't really know what to say. I'm really shy. I've never had a guy that I'm attracted to text me before. Last night, he texted me while he was in Puerto Rico,( which was really nice) and we talked for and hour and a half. I ended the conversation because I didn't know what to say, so I just told him that I had to go. What should I do?
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