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no more grief plz!!
Posted Tuesday September 19 2006, 3:38 pm
f/14
my brother died about four years ago on a motorcycle accident
i still get sad over it and i dont like it i dont feel like being sad all the time i know it happened a long time ago but sometimes like at night i start to think abbout things that we used to do and he used to do and i just start crying
at times ive been up crying up till 5in the morning on school nights
im sick of crying myself to sleep every night
plz help or just say something !!!
anything !!!
keep it zen !!!
thanx !!!
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what should I tell my family about me being gay
Posted Monday September 18 2006, 9:39 pm
well, im living with my dad and my grandmother because I went in to a mental hospital because I couldnt tell my family about it because my familys are christian so you see I would be cast out and they wont except me for me so im stuck on a bit of a perdictament and its just that my grandmas both dont want me to be gay please email me ASAP
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mother
Posted Monday September 18 2006, 3:31 pm
I have a mom tht is a control/protect freak she always wants things her way. I have to have my room the way she wants it my computer has to face the way she wants it and she always says when im with her im on her time and the problem is tht she always wants me to do her stuff. I run to the car, get the mail, take out the garbage(sumtimes), and do everything to care of my dog and she still doesn't appreciate me. She is way over protective. She doesn't like me goin places without her or my dad even tho i end up goin it usually takes hours of fighting and begging and crying. I am tired of her controling my life especially my room. I want my room to be MY room not hers. I like my room messy cuz then it feels like i actually live in it. What sho...
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favored sister
Posted Sunday September 17 2006, 7:21 pm
my sister has a horse, which is really expensive. the up front price of the horse was over 20,000 dollars. then there's room and board, horse shoes, food, vet (each appointment is $800), and horse shows which are easilly over $1000 dollars each. my dad says that the horse costs about 10,000 dollars per year. did i mention that this is her SECOND horse? i don't horseback ride, i play tennis instead which is not expensive at all!!! but my sister gets just a little less for christmas than i do...i don't think this is fair at all. like not to sound spoiled, but my parents usually spend about $1000 dollars on me at christmas and just a hundred dollars less on her....i just think i'm getting the worst deal ever for me because she gets soo much mo...
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my mom doesnt understand me
Posted Thursday September 14 2006, 10:58 pm
i have a great relationship with my family, but my mom lately has been driving me absolutely crazy! Every day her and my dad come home in a not so good mood and same with my sister so i have to be happy even when ive had a bad day too. my sister and i do chores and ive been doing everything lately. i bring it up with my mom but she just gets ticked off and says my sister is struggling with school and all this other stuff. shes 19 and im 15 but we seem closer in age. She doesnt get that im working so hard to try to get all A's to make everyone happy, she keeps over looking it.I'm struggling in some of my PAP classes and i try not to talk about it because i dont like to complain about school. she says she understands how i think but i KNOW sh...
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Impossible to please mom
Posted Wednesday September 13 2006, 3:05 pm
I am at breaking point with my mom. She does not accept the woman I love, with whom I have two sons. This problem is damaging the lives of my family as well as my father and brothers. She twists events to the point of complete fiction and twists them in such a way that we are terribly victimizing her. In truth, knowing her condition, we have taken great care into our dealings with her and have always welcomed her in our lives. Somehow, my partner seems to sit in the wrong way, not greet her in such a way as to appease her, not call enough, not come from a nice enough family - the list is infinite. She doesn't believe that our intentions are pure. My partner has continued to try, despite the fact that she will never be accepted and th...
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A misscarriage?
Posted Wednesday September 13 2006, 12:21 pm
I didn't know exactly where to go to ask my question, but i found this site. I've been having cramping/bleeding/small blood clots and I'm pregnant. I was at the hospital the other night and they said that either I'm having a misscarriage or it's too early to see my baby on ultersound because they saw nothing. I'm suppose to be going back to get more blood taken from me to check my pregnancy level, see if it doubles or not but, I've been reading on other internet sites that sometimes bleeding/cramping doesn't mean misscarriage. I just really want to know if it could be something else, and how is it to early to see my baby? I mean how early could I be?
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persuading my parents!! =[
Posted Tuesday September 12 2006, 7:12 pm
hey guys. k so im in this special program for smarter people, also known as IB and we are already into it for 2 weeks now. im in grade 10 and this is my second year doing it. last year i didnt do this bad but the 2 assignments we got in history and english i got 59% and 50%. my dad especially thinks that im just not trying hard enough when i really am. watever i say he makes up an excuse for why im doing so bad. he wont beleive that IM JUST NOT SMART ENOUGH FOR IT! how can i let him know this or say something or something.. please help!!
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Vacation
Posted Tuesday September 12 2006, 5:35 pm
So i go down south a lot (i live in illinois) and one of the times is always during the school year...i need sone tips on things i could say to my parents to persuade them more to let me go..like "I'll be out of your way for a whole week!" and stuff! :) thanks in advance
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Problems with Mom
Posted Tuesday September 12 2006, 4:54 pm
When me and my husband married, i moved out of my mom's house and about 30 minutes away.
My husband's parents took it well but my mom cant seem to get used to me not being there. She calls AAAALLL the time and e-mails and texts me a lot. She calls round a lot and then is never there when I actually need her.
I just don't know what to do any more. I feel like my Mom is obsessed with me. I know it sounds weird but she wont leave me and my husband alone! She's even taken to calling him if she can't reach me!
I've tried reasoning with her over this, so has my Dad and my Nanna but she doesn't get it. This is OUR time now, my husband and I and we need time to find ourselves.
How can ...
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hateful
Posted Sunday September 10 2006, 2:35 pm
ok soo i hate mi cuzin but she wont leave me alone wat do i do? F/13
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Why Wont They Talk To Me?
Posted Sunday September 10 2006, 3:04 am
ok well my parents have split and my dad wont takl to me.He said that it would be best if we didn't talk Bu thow am i supost to life without talking to the one other person who gave me life?
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Mother&DaughterRelationships
Posted Friday September 8 2006, 12:59 am
My mother and I dont get along. & No matter what I do I try soo hard to get along with her but its too hard. I'm 14 and born and raised in America. But she was born in the Philippines so she has a different out look on everything...
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To be annoyed or not to be!
Posted Thursday September 7 2006, 8:09 pm
I have this friend who i consider a best friend but sometimes she annoys me like really bad and i ask myself y im friends with this weirdo and there are other times when i want to hang out with her all the time. Oh and when im annoyed with her its not b/c its "that time of the month" so why do i do that? thanks
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Posted Thursday September 7 2006, 1:16 am
15/f
I have always heard opposites attract but is this true? And do relationships between very different people often work out? What should you be careful of?
The situation:
I have felt VERY comfortable being friends with this guy, Nick, since we met this summer. We hung out a lot and he is SO nice to be and we have gotten along amazingly. Since, one night, we hung out until 8:30 AM, we know eachother quite well. We sit beside eachother in one class and possibly will in more. I have recently realized I like him as more than a friend but I am wondering if it would ever work out between us. We are both 15 by the way.
Nick - stoner, pretty low grades, eyebrow/nipple piercing, VERY ugl...
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Convincing The Evil Mother...
Posted Wednesday September 6 2006, 11:29 pm
Hey everyone. I'm back. With another problem concerning this Italy trip. Incase you dont know the story, my history teacher is taking a few students on a trip to italy possibly during spring break but my mom will NOT hear of it. When I asked her why she said because we would be leaving the country. Plus with the things going on with teachers now-a-days. She thinks my teacher is like..some pyschotic rapist. She doesn't even want to hear what I have to say. She doesnt even want to give it a CHANCE! It's just an automatic NO. I understand leaving the country and going near the middle east is probably not the best or smartest idea right now. But i dont see what the issue is. We'll be in Italy and Greece. I dont know what i can do to change her ...
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Posted Wednesday September 6 2006, 10:49 pm
hi. ok. well i'm not sure which category to put this under, but this is the case.
there's this school, we'll call it: pink
another one, we'll call it: orange
there's this school, which we'll call pink, that has this big dance every year at the beginning of the school year. this is like the way everyone kicks off the school year. Everyone from here goes to to this because it's this big begging of the year party. pink, the school hosting this dance is the school that this *boy* goes to. now, i met this boy in seventh grade. i'm a sophmore. and i've liked him since i met him. he's just the most amazing guy ever. but, he has a gf. and well, even though i'm like crazy over him, i'm not too worried about it. b...
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how do i get a 56 year old a good bf
Posted Wednesday September 6 2006, 10:35 pm
same up there....my mom really needs a real love in her life..she never even got married...she me and my brother..and i think shes loney and needs a man in her life..two people can make a stronger hold than one...any ideas for her..thanks!!
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moving
Posted Wednesday September 6 2006, 8:22 pm
ok well my dad isn't getting enough money here so he wants me and my brothers to come with him and my mom to saskatchewan and cheak out some greenhouses(thats were he works) and if he likes them we might move and if he doesn't like them then we don't move(yay) but if he does like them what do i do tell him i don't want to move and im not gonna or what
HELP PLZ!!!!! thanx
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I wanna have a baby!
Posted Wednesday September 6 2006, 10:30 am
28/f
My husband and I have been married now for 7 years. I have an 8 year old son from a previous relationship, whom he has legally adopted.
When my husband was a baby, he had kidney cancer and went through so much chemotherapy and radiation that he is unable to have his own children. (He is perfectly normal and healthy now)
We considered adoption, but my husband has already done that with my son. Plus, I really want to be pregnant.
I know that our only option is to use a donor. I was wondering if anyone out there has been through a similar situtation and could offer us some advice.
Where do we go? How much does it cost? How long does it take? What should we w...
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