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Friendship
Friendship is a beautiful thing that can get messy sometimes. Ask your question here.


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she's a bad friend, but i miss her


Posted Tuesday January 8 2008, 8:52 pm

my best friend kylie and i recently got into an argument, and i decided to end the friendship.

what happened was that i found out somebody was passing around naked pictures of her. like giving them to her friends and shit. she wasn't supposed to know because only a small group of kids knew about it. the person that i found out from made me promise not to tell kylie. i promised. i wasn't going to tell kylie until i thought about it. i felt like withholding that kind of information from her was being a bad best friend. better to hear it from me than some stranger, right? so i told her. i pleaded with her not to tell anyone, that it would make me look bad, like a big mouth. she promised not to tell anybody.

to mak...

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quotes/ lyrics


Posted Tuesday January 8 2008, 8:28 pm

does anyone have quotes or lyrics that explain a long friendship that got ruined because they were hard headed and denied everything?

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ugh


Posted Tuesday January 8 2008, 6:45 pm

So, this might be a little long and confusing. Basically my best friend, who've I've known since 2nd grade is getting really annoying. She's turning really fake [getting into the whole hollister thing, uggs, shirts that are too small for her, etc (though I dont' really have anything against that, its just not like the kind of person she is)]. She always pretends that she worries soo much about different things, when she really doesn't. No offense to her, but she always talks about how she wants to go to a top name college, but she doesn't really have any chance in getting into it. She's just become really annoying, and fake. She says OMG and what the frick in this really annoying, complaining voice. I've NEVER talked behind her back before,...

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Physical Comfort.


Posted Tuesday January 8 2008, 4:07 pm

I've never been the type of person to hug every individual. Most of the comfort I recieve is through eye contact or word usage, yet I know what's missing...I need to be comforted physically. How can I go about hugging the ones I care about without doubting myself?
Also, what makes for a good hug?

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fake


Posted Tuesday January 8 2008, 7:00 am

one of my best friends has a girlfriend that i think is fake. He wont answer any questions about her like if i say "How did you guys meet?" hell say "Bee quiet!" or if i say "I think i know her whats her last name?" hell say "NOne of your business shes form out of town". and you get the picture, i dont understand were really good friends. Also he hsant told any of his other friends about this. except me, so i dont know if hes lying or not. Because every time i bring her up, he either snaps at me, doesn't answer me, or changes the subject. Im really confused here. I know him, if he really had a girlfriend, everyone whould know about it!!
Tell me your theories

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this boy is a really good friend


Posted Monday January 7 2008, 9:59 pm

ok so my friend is this boy named dustin i dont like him let me get that strait but he does like my sister and i encorege him to ask her out and stuff but when he finnaly did she said no and now its been 3 weeks since then and he hasent emailed me and he wasent at school today and i just wonder if its because she said no and he might be really hurt about it i will admit he is extremly cute and his sister said that no girl has ever told him no what do you guys think do you think he is grouded or sick or somthing or do you think its because he is just so sad about my sister he talks about her all the time and i think its safe to say that he likes my sister more than any other girl he has liked before i just want to know what you guys think

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Problems


Posted Monday January 7 2008, 6:14 pm

Ok I have 3 friends and I love them all but here is the deal. One friend named S always says she has problems with me and C. I love S because she is so funny and smart but she is always saying bad things about us. Sometimes at lunch she will list the problems about C and some things C does do but I am just like watever. C also talks about S and says somethings that are true. I love C too because she lives close to me and we hang out a lot and she is funny and caring. Now H always sides with S and I feel like I am just stuck in the middle and all I hear about is crap about the other friend. I love them all and I still want to be friends with all of them but how do i get these problems to stop with still being friends?

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me or him?


Posted Sunday January 6 2008, 10:44 pm

so my "best friend" of 3 years is amazing.
but when shes around anyone but me she sometimes ignores me.and its not like i need her all the time to be right there i mean.. its kinda hard to explain. and when she's around her boyfriend ooh man! she always flirts with our(yes our)ex and i do like him and i think she likes him too. but she says she doesnt and that she loves her new boyfriend and stuff; but idk. she just makes me so frustrated when she ignores me and stuff for guys. i mean ill always be here and they most likely wont. so how do i stay calm and not flipp out on her. i know its partly jealousy but still the other part of it is frustration.

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need advice from a girls point of view


Posted Sunday January 6 2008, 5:13 pm

ok, this is embarasing but here goes... A while ago i got caught by my neighbor peeking in her window when she had some friends over for a sleepover. i was on her back porch peeking in her window when 1 of her friends came out and said what are you doing??? i was like.. o my god... i was so embarased. so she told the other girls wat i was doing and they all talked and then 1 of them came to me and said they wouldnt tell on me if i did wat they said. she said that to be fair they should get to see me naked and that I should strip naked for them. otherwize they would tell my mom that i was a pervert and a peeping tom. anyway, i did it. i took off all my clothes and let them all see me. they looked and giggled and stuff for a long tim...

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my friend is obsessed


Posted Sunday January 6 2008, 2:06 pm

ok I have a best friend who really likes this guy. She talks about him all the time. I think he likes her too because he flirts a lot with her. But he is kind of shy and I don't think he would ask her out. I really think she shuold ask him out but she says no and she doesn't think he will say yes. But I said give it a try because she is like obsessed with him. What should she do?

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my best friend on this whole planet


Posted Sunday January 6 2008, 10:42 am

my best friend ever is a black boy named even and no one knows that he is my best friend on earth im afriad to tell my parents about him because they dont really like black people and i love him like my own brother please help i want to tell people about him but i dont know how please help and thanks

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mix signals?


Posted Saturday January 5 2008, 9:52 pm

okay, my best friend and i. well, lets just say as any other boy/girl best friend relationship one always ends up liking the other. and so.. i end up liking him, and we are open about it, so i admitted it to him. anyways yeah...so time goes on and he apparently liked this girl and wanted to go out with her since august, though didn't because he knew i'd would get hurt. he told me he never put me as first priority, though apparently he did. early september we talked and i told him i no longer liked him, though a month before that i told him that i loved him, and im not that expierenced with relationships unlike him, so he didn't believe me, so i wasn't gonna go and say i loved him..since if he didn't believe me the first time around. anyways...

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Presents


Posted Saturday January 5 2008, 9:32 pm

A lot of my friends birthdays are coming up and I'm not wanting to buy them like a huge gift. I was wanting to make something little and creative. Really anything, just something for a birthday like a little cake.. and a creative card? Some ideas would be all the most helpful. thanks :)

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Posted Saturday January 5 2008, 9:14 pm

15f so I dont know if my friend likes me or not.
He likes to bother me..though it doesnt. He always says my name..loves to say it.
Asks me tons of questions in class..in a row. Or right after i turn around he'll say my name again to ask me another question. It didnt occur to me for a while that maybe he likes me. I just thought wow is he this dumb to have soo many damn questions. He's always saying funny things. He'll pretend he's mad at me sometimes. Or if i ask whats the matter he'll say nothing but keep acting like there is something wrong and smile at the same time. He talks about girls around me, like who he might go out with but doesnt like them anyway. There might of been one or two times he might of thought maybe ...

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how do i know if he still likes me more then a friend?


Posted Saturday January 5 2008, 8:39 pm

I'm 16 and a girl and need a little help...This 1 boy asked me out by a note and i didnt know what to say especially since i only liked him as a friend and nothing more. i would feel really bad if i told him no so i just didnt respond. now this year when he sees me he'll look at me and smile at me and i just dont know if he still likes me like that and if he does, what should i do?hes nice and sweet and stuff but i only want to be friends.

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this boy im helping


Posted Saturday January 5 2008, 1:05 pm

ok so im helping my sisters brother with alot of things i even told him if he liked my sister that he should ask her out and he did and now he wants to be a skater boy or whatever and he isnt he trys to be cool but he just isnt and he counts on me to answer his quistions im really proud of him for taking my advice all the time and making the right choces but i want advice to give him on being cool and acheving the skater boy postion thanks in advance

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Bad Friend Blues


Posted Saturday January 5 2008, 4:43 am

15/F

so some of my friends ive had a while,some not as long but ive resently been though a disaster which i think has made me see things not differently-just more clearly-things that have always been there just i haven't noticed until resently.I have noticed that they are extremly self-centered.some more qualitys and such but ive noticed that to be a major one in all of them.i seem to be getting more than im recieving.Dont get me wrong i dont mind im a pretty giving person but i can only take to an extent.bottom line i just dont think they are very good friends.But one of them are younger(but seem older and pretty mature) and very influental.Shes pretty much a follower and will do anything to fit in,and im afraid i might hav...

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STUPID FRIEND!!!


Posted Friday January 4 2008, 9:45 pm

ughh okay i absolutly hate my friend
okay so me and her have been friends for about 3 years..and not only friends BEST FRIENDS...we tell each other everything...we can be on the phone do absolutly nothing and stil have fun...but lately she's been acting very gay/stupid/retarded..like i'll tell her something and she'll just nod her head...it's soooo annoying...UGHHHH so annoying i can't stand it!!
like and i've tried talking to her but that's all she'll do
and so i stoped talking to her b/c i got tired of it
and then one day she texted me and was like are you mad at me?..wat did i do??
but i did'nt text back..and it's not like i can avoid her b/c i have 3 periods with her...and i used to walk with her betwe...

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at summer camp


Posted Friday January 4 2008, 8:09 pm

at summer camp my friend was the most popular one in our cabin i didnt know how she did it she is ssssssssssssoooooooooooooooooo tom boyish i dont know why she was so popular yes she is one of my best friends i just want to know how she was so popular so i can be like her next year

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Feelings...


Posted Friday January 4 2008, 1:21 am

I've always had a 6th sense for detecting peoples body lang. and things like that. I also get these feelings that I have to protect someone...

I'm a 15/m and I feel like I have to protect this guy. And I don't know why or how or when b/c he barely talks to me. His life is not the best and I think that's why I have to 'take care of him', kinda like a brother... but the guy won't talk to me and it's very hard for him to trust people b/c of family issues... idk what to do... normally I would just let it go right? ... WRONG!!!

I can't stop thinking about him... and it's not like I like the guy... I just can't stop wondering if he's ok today, or if he's smiling and happy. I feel like I have to play the part of fathe...

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