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My relationship makes my parents scared.
Posted Sunday October 22 2006, 6:10 pm
I'm 14 and I've been with my boyfriend since I was in 5th grade. They used to think that our relationship was cute, but now they're both annoyed and scared. They're annoyed because they didn't think I would end up really liking him and that I'm too young to have a boyfriend. They're scared because they think that I'm going to do something with him that I'll regret, but I know what's right and what's wrong. And they always tell me how responsable I am and that I've got a good head on my shoulders, but they don't seem to want to get to know him or talk to him. Am I in the wrong or should my parents try to get to know him?
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my mother doesn't know the harm she's doing to me
Posted Sunday October 22 2006, 2:26 pm
my mother and her big mouth. i'm a sophmore in high school and this has been going on since fourth grade. since then, i've just been fighting this about her as hard as i possibly could, but i don't know how to fight it anymore, because i've run out of ways to do this, i just can't deal with it. when i was little, she use to be one of those really nice moms. also those that would wear a lot of makeup and perfume and she was always so glamorous and happy, despite that she had just gotten a divorce. but i absolutely adored her. an amazing woman, however, she's not that lady anymore. She is in menopause, so she is always, always in a bad mood. Since menopause, that is when the divorce actually hit her. It did not really hit her before because I...
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Why is my dad such a psycho!
Posted Saturday October 21 2006, 9:28 pm
My dad is such a psycho !and im really tired of it!.Im a good girl!!and im getting tired of being one and don't getting what Im suposed to!.My school likes to throw parties at different places!!and my dad neves lets me go!.Today was one of them!and I beg him to go and he din't let me!I really feel mad,sad and depressed cuz im a good girl and Im just asking him to have a little fun!and hes not letting me!.I told him that he could stay in the car until the party was finish and he said no!and tried everything and his answer is a NO!.What can I do to make my daddy see that im not his little girl anymore! im a teen..ps:im 15
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potential marriage and some questions
Posted Friday October 20 2006, 5:17 pm
ello all. i am,hopefully, going to be getting married to this wonderful guy. i am muslim and i have a few questions about an islamic marriage. i am 17 and i am still in high school, and he would want me to move to his home which is in Doha,Qatar..they have a great school there but very expensive. would he be resposible for paying for my tuition? i know this sounds strange, but plz help if you can. also is it true that he must have my consent before he can take another wife? okay fank you. take care
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How do I gain my parents respect after I've messed up
Posted Friday October 20 2006, 1:54 pm
Ok, last night I went over to my neighbor's house for a birthday party. I ended up getting shit faced and came home at 9:30. I've already messed up and have been recently arrested with possesion of Marijuana and I had court on wednesday for that reason. Well... I came home, and my step-dad told me I was drunk. I refused to admit that I was intoxicated and my mom just told me to go in my room in sleep it off. For some reason which I don't know, I refused and started getting violent. I started hitting him in the face and my mom just kept saying stop it. They went outside and my step-dad went over to the place to see if they were the one's that supplied me with alcohol. I guess I came outside and jumped on his back and started clawing him beca...
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My Dad treats me like I'm a maid
Posted Thursday October 19 2006, 8:00 pm
I'm a 15 year old girl from Ks. Ok, so my mom is gone on business for 2 months, and I am left at home with my 3 lazy bros. My dad always tells ME to do everything. I'm always the one to clean, cook, do the laundry etc. Any advice on what to say WITHOUT sounding disrespectful? I need advice ASAP!
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Posted Thursday October 19 2006, 4:20 pm
my mum is really annoying!! like shes ALWAYS make little sarcastic comments, like i do use sarcasm but not ones that get people really annoyed like look at this wot she said on msn (bcoz we have our own computers we talk on msn):
me:
when r u going out?
my mum:
in a bit
me:
how long?
my mum:
bout 12inches
my mum:
LOL
me:
seriously how long
my mum:
in a bit
me:
how long is a bit?
my mum:
hang on ill get a ruler
my mum:
LOL
me:
how long??!??
my mum:
bout 10 minz
nd it really gets on my nerves!! bcoz its every since she met her boyfriend nd he's even worse ...
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My dad
Posted Wednesday October 18 2006, 8:40 pm
14/f I asked my dad like a year and a half ago who he loved more me or his girlfriend(ho/gold digger) and he said I can't answer that..He should have said me right? since I'm his daughter and all and I've been around him while much more than that ho of his it still bothers me I can't forgive him for saying that. Or was that a right answer he said.. what do you think?
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wow, im such a bad daughter =[
Posted Wednesday October 18 2006, 4:27 am
help me please! i want to kill myself, i have a severe depression, and im messing up my moms life because of it.
my mom is the type of persn who's never really been happy, i mean she thanks God for everything everyday, she claims she's totally happy, and I'm sure she's satisfied..but come on! this woman has struggled her whole life to get where she is, studying, helping out her parents and sibling..and never done anything bad. Then we she finally gets her dream, good work and a husband. her husband uses her as a verbal punchbag and makes her cry, and her workmates ae rasists. Not only that, her biggest wish is for me to be happy.. but im so selfish that all i want is sympathy.. that im making her feel like's she'sa failed and...
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car crash
Posted Tuesday October 17 2006, 9:36 pm
My brother and i were in a car accident recently and i was driving and totaled my brand new escalade. he told the police and our parents that he was the one driving so i wouldnt get in trouble since i only had my license for a few months and he has had his for about 6 years. i feel horrible about the whole thing tho and i cant figure out what to do. should i tell my parents the truth of just let it be?
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mom's bday
Posted Monday October 16 2006, 7:37 pm
i need advice quick! wed. is my mom's bday and she's really sensitive about these things. she doesn't like when we make her cards the day of cuz it makes her feel like she's not special enough to plan ahead. however, her bday is wed and today is mon. i need something special to either get or make her. i need ideas! i don't have a lot of time due to school so it will have to take thirty mins or less. of course a card will be made, but what else can i do? what is something i can pick up quickly? i have no car but my friend is giving me ar ide tomorrow and can stop by a store or something quickly. i can also make something using stuff i have. please HELP! for my moms sake
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my Parents why dont they understand
Posted Monday October 16 2006, 1:07 am
i really love my boyfriend and i know we will last were really in love but my parents always put me down saying im ugly, or he's the only guy i could ever get. well me and him communicate through note about what we like or dont like about each other or something we do. and today my dad found a note where he wrote to me what he likes that i do when we have partial intercourse and got all pissed and my mom says he's disrespecting me,Is it disrespectfull? and how can i make my parents see let alone try to exsplain to them how much i love him?
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twinn =[
Posted Sunday October 15 2006, 6:11 pm
how do i get my twin to stop treating me like shit and giving me attitude with everything. its not fair and im fed up. she takes everything out on me .. tells my parents my secrets and tries to get me in trouble. 16/f
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My Parents
Posted Saturday October 14 2006, 7:58 pm
Ive been having a lot of family troubles lately and my parents havent been getting along well. i try to stay away from it and not get in the middle. but somehow i always get dragged into it and it sucks..do you know what i could say to either of them to get them to leave me out of their problems. to tell you the truth im quite sick of being the middle-man. im 15 and im a girl. pleasee helpp
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parents.
Posted Friday October 13 2006, 6:44 pm
my parents are so retarded. they let me go out with people they don't know like super incredibly well some days and then others I'm not allowed to go anywhere with them. how can I get them to trust me and let me go out with my friends?
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ughhh so stressed
Posted Thursday October 12 2006, 3:51 pm
ok well for school we're having a fieldtrip to camp tamarack and its for 2 nights and 3 days and i reallyyy want to go.. plus all my friends are going. but the only problem is my parents.. they said NO. they say no to everything ! there soo overproctive. last year we had a fieldtrip to chicago and i couldnt go of course. its not because of the money, they say because they dont want me away from home sleeping some where else. i told them that its secure but they still say no. its also only 1 hour away!! chicago was like 5 hours away. i tried EVERYTHING but they don't listen. i try talking to my mom and does that work? no. i try talking to my dad but does that work? no. please help me, i'm basically desperate! they don't let me sleep ANYWHERE...
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Posted Thursday October 12 2006, 12:09 pm
i just found out that my nan might be moving to spain soon bcoz shes just been made redundent. anyway my mum wants me my brother and my step dad to move out there, but i dont want to move there bcoz i just got settled in2 my school, i have loads of mates nd everything, nd im really happy living here, plus i wont be able 2 see my dad that often and its my mums dream 2 live in spain.
i dont really want 2 talk 2 her bcoz she'll be all upset and will blame everything on me and i dont want her 2 be like that!! please help!!!!
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True self.
Posted Wednesday October 11 2006, 8:37 pm
I've been questioning my gender identity(whether i am male or female)(i'm physically male, 15) I'm wondering how to tell my parents, if i decide I want a sex change.
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My family is so screwed up 13/f
Posted Tuesday October 10 2006, 9:08 pm
I'm so depressed now a days. I just started this new school that I like so far yesterday. I've made a lot of new friends already and have been getting along great.
A bit about my family: My parents are divorced but now are living together. Not for sex or anything, we just needed some where to live so my dad let us stay with him. I just moved to Orlando, Florida from ATL, Georgia about 2 weeks ago.
Okay, so, I'm in the bathroom straightening my hair and my dad is in the living room talking on the phone. My mom's out, and she won't tell me where she's going.
I hear him talking to a realtor because the landlords are kicking us out December 1st because someone is moving in. He's talking about how she's all messed u...
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playing favorites
Posted Tuesday October 10 2006, 4:31 pm
im a twin and i feel as if my dad treats my sister differently than me .. she snuck out of the house and got caught and she didnt even get grounded while me on the other hand didnt tell my dad all the details about my friends sweet sixteen and i was grounded from my boyfriend for a week .. does anyone know what i can do?
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