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How can a boy tell if a girl is loose or tight?
Posted Saturday October 23 2010, 11:18 pm
There is this guy I've been talking to and he's really open about stuff. He's had sex with a bunch of girls now and I've only had sex with like 6 guys total. He asked me about it and then was like telling me he thought I was tight down there. I asked him why he thought my vagina was tight and he said he just knew it was by the way I walked in school. Is that true? Can boys tell if a girl is loose by the way she walks?
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My girlfriend told me she was a virgin but she wasn't and lied to me
Posted Wednesday October 20 2010, 6:08 pm
I am dating this one girl and have been for like 2 years now. She's been a good girl and I love her a lot. The problem is that when we first had sex like 6 months into the relationship she told me she was a virgin. It was and is important to me. And then today I was kidding around with her about she ended up saying she had gave a few guys head and had anal once or twice before me and her got together. Now to me that means she wasn't a complete virgin and it makes me really upset. Im so hurt. I really don't know what to do. I was a virgin before her and it was important to me that she be one too. I know I can't change her past but she flat out lied to me. She knew what I meant by asking if she was a virgin and she kept it from me. Should i b...
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Am I still a virgin if I've had oral, been fingered, and did anal?
Posted Sunday October 10 2010, 7:24 pm
My boyfriend asked me tonight if I was a virgin because he is and has never done anything at all. We've been dating on a couple weeks and I didn't know how to answer it though. This is why:
I've gave a few guys head
I've been fingered A LOT
I had anal twice
I masturbate like once a day
I never had like...sex sex, you know? Like the making babies kind LOL. You know what I mean. Does that mean I'm a virgin?
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fingering can pop your cherry
Posted Sunday October 3 2010, 5:20 pm
i was wondering if a guy can pop your cherry just by fingering you? is that possible?
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can a virgin be a slut??????????
Posted Wednesday September 15 2010, 6:27 pm
First off, I just turned 14 and Im a virgin. Im trying to stay a virgin. Its not a religious thing. I just heard its better for girls to be virgins because its easier to find a husband that way. Like Im afraid if Im not a virgin, future men wont like me. When I ask guys about it, they tell me it doesnt matter and that the more sex you have now, the better Ill be at it later which makes sense but I dont know who to believe anymore.
I sort of went through puberty early so Ive dated a few guys especially older guys. When I was younger and we would kiss it was nice but I never wanted more. They would want me to kiss or touch their dick but I would always so no. When I was 12, one of my boyfriends kissed my breast which fe...
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Where exactly is your hymen?
Posted Friday September 10 2010, 8:32 pm
I was thinking of having sex and read something about how the guy is going to have to break my hymen but most people just say it's popping thier cherry. So, like, where is the hymen? Is it like up inside my vagina some place? I use tampons and never hit anything in there that I would think a boy would have to break to have sex with me. And does the guy break it with his hands or fingers first or what? I mean, obviously if it's something that you have to break before you can have sex then I'd have to tell him so he knew what to do right?
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What is the least painful way to have sex for the first time?
Posted Monday September 6 2010, 1:46 am
I am losing my virginity this weekend and I know it's going to hurt a lot. I don't want it to because my boyfriend thinks I've had sex before. I've NEVER been fingered and NEVER masturbated. I never even wore a tampon. It'll really be my first time having sex in any way so it's a big deal for me to not sound like it hurts. My boyfriend already had sex with 4 girls before so he knows what to expect from somebody who isn't a virgin.
My question is what would be the least painful way to lose virginity. Like should he be on top then so he doesn't notice or is there an exercise I can do or what? Is there something I can put on me down there that will numb my vagina?
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VIRGIN ..turn on??
Posted Monday August 9 2010, 2:27 pm
20 ..female.
I'm beginning to be quite confused about most guys being turned on about a girl being a virgin.
In my mind, a guy would be turned off because you're not experienced. And everyone says, a guy would looove to take a virginity from a girl but I would see it the exact opposite. Wouldn't a guy be afraid to take a girls virginity because he would think the girl would then become attached, and maybe even annoying/obsessive? That is, if he's not you're boyfriend.
I don't know maybe I look at it wrong. But everytime I tell a guy i'm a virgin i'm always thinking they're like .. "this girl can't get any?" or she's not experienced ..definitely doesn't know what shes doing. And i'm a pr...
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Nobody ever believes i'm a virgin..
Posted Sunday August 1 2010, 5:41 pm
20F.
So before things start getting all hot and heavy with a guy, I'd thought I'd be nice and warn them that I'm a virgin. Well ..no guy ever believes me! They're all like ..yeah right your lying! I don't believe that one bit.
It's not like I come off as a slut, I carry myself well but I think it's because how I look. I'm a pretty girl, I know guys are interested in me which probably doesn't do me well. I don't know how to feel about this, should I be pissed that no guy believes I'm a virgin? I don't know what to do about the situation I guess.
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rough fingering
Posted Sunday August 1 2010, 1:40 am
18f.
Last night things got pretty crazy at this party and me and this guy started hooking up. it all started when we were making out in the hot tub, then we went inside and he started fingering me. i'm still a virgin -he knew that. nobody has ever fingered me ..they've been down there but haven't actually done it. well it hurt at first and i didn't know if it was suppose to because i was so tight down there, or if it was because he was being too rough? i don't even know how many fingers he used to be honest. well after a little bit ..i was like you have to be gentle with me okaay?? and he was then because it was still hurting after a while. is this normal for the first time being fingered? now today, i'm a little sore down th...
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losing his virginity to me
Posted Thursday July 29 2010, 10:46 pm
my best friend who is now my boyfriend wants to lose his virginity to me. not any time soon and hes not pushing it, just saying in general. he had a girlfriend of 9 months before and they never had sex cause she wasnt ready to. i know he was close to being in love with her.. but anyway weve been each others lives since the beginning of the last school year (late 09) and its mid '10, and weve been together for a few months romantically. he wants to lose it to me, the best friend hes ever had, & a girl hes liked since he met.
if he did lose it to me (im not a virgin, he wouldnt be my first so im REALLY concerned about his virginity), do you think itd be a mistake? that he shouldve waited for.... somebody else?
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Can you become a virgin again if you don't have sex for awhile?
Posted Wednesday July 21 2010, 3:06 am
My granny is a really nice lady but I think she's losing it. I told her today that I was having sex with my boyfriend. I just felt like I needed to have one of those conversations with her where I really spilled my guts to her. She told me I should stop doing it right away, obviously...so that I could be a virgin again for my future wedding night!
Now, Granny is up there in age. I told her that once you lose your virginity that it's just gone. She kept saying she didn't believe that and that after not having sex for 10 years straight that you become a virgin again. She says that SHE is a virgin. My grandma had like 14 kids or something incredible so I tried explaining that to her.
Well, I'm kind of curious if s...
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do you lose your virginity (hymen) if you use a tampon?
Posted Tuesday July 20 2010, 9:51 pm
do u lose your virginity if you use a tampon?
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Can I use a cucumber?
Posted Saturday July 17 2010, 11:29 pm
i am 14 female and this is embarrassing but i want to use a cucumber as a dildo because i finger myself sometimes but only for like 5 mins. and it feels good but not really good, so i want to use a cucumber. first of all, can i get a disease from it? and how do you disinfect the cucumber to use it? and i can't fit more than one finger in my vagina (im a virgin) and the cucumber is much larger. will it hurt really bad? will it stretch me out? please answer thank you :)
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Septate Hymen
Posted Saturday July 10 2010, 11:32 pm
I recently (as in an hour ago) discovered a have a septate hymen. I would like to get it remove to prevent it ripping durig sex and to make using tampons easier (for 2-3 days I have to use super and it's very painful to remove it.) My question is, how do I talk to my mom about it?
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Orgasms
Posted Tuesday July 6 2010, 3:40 am
Is masterbating and having an orgasm yourself comsinderd having sex? And can a gyna-pussy doctor tell if you have ever had an orgasm?
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Is mutual masturbation considered sexually active?
Posted Wednesday June 16 2010, 10:44 pm
I am going to the doctor for my first check up and I was reading online for what to expect during a papsmear. I saw a few of the questions they might ask you and one of them was about sexual activity.
My boyfriend and I aren't having real sex yet. I mean, he hasn't gone inside me like that. He has fingered me and I've given him a handjobs and blowjobs though (and we do this pretty frequently).
Now, is that considered sexually active? Because I read that it was really important to tell them the truth about this sort of thing. I don't want to be lying to them but I'm just not sure if this counts. Am I sexually active?
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Really wet! Will it gross him out?
Posted Saturday June 12 2010, 3:33 am
Hey 18/F
Me and my boyfriend have been dating a while and lately have been talking bout exploring things more sexually. We have been taking it slow but think it's time. My question is if he fingers me or something will he be freaked out about how wet I am? He turns me on a lot and I really can't help it but I get really really wet and want to know if that will freak him out or be a turn off since we are both very inexperienced and it would be our first time with anything like this. Thanks!!
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what do guys think of virgins?
Posted Wednesday June 9 2010, 9:52 am
this is really intended to be for guys 20+ but anyone could answer i guess.
what do you think about girls waiting until marriage? like say if you're engaged to a girl and she tells you she's a virgin and has been waiting for you, is that a turn-on? any comments on it is great
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How to tell your boyfriend you're a virgin
Posted Wednesday June 2 2010, 11:23 pm
I am a virgin but I'm still pretty young (16). My boyfriend has had sex before and he's a little older than me (18). He asked recently if we can start having sex. I love him a lot but he doesn't know I'm still a virgin. I don't want to be embarrassed and tell him about it but I heard that if we have sex then I will bleed on him. That sounds a lot more embarrassing to me.
So, I want to tell him that I haven't had sex yet. How do I tell him this without making him mad, upset, or afraid? I do want to have sex with him and I love him a lot so I know he deserves to know but I don't want to scare him off or make him mad that I haven't told him sooner.
What are the right words?
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