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Nervous to file for child support
Posted Monday August 10 2015, 2:46 am
I had a boyfriend, got pregnant by him, and at 6 months pregnant I found out he was cheating on me with 2 other women when he was supposedly doing other things and I trusted him. I had my son, his name and my name are on the birth certificate and I gave him a chance to change his ways. HE moved in with ME and my family. So he paid no rent, no food expenses, no utilities, nothing besides baby needs. (The basics). We split up and after that, he started working 2 jobs and gave me money every week for my sons expenses. I wasn't so aware of child support and didn't have much knowledge about it until now. He and I got into arguments and I started to feel uncomfortable with him, so I want to put him on child support, so I won't have to be responsi...
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My dad dosnt want me around!
Posted Friday August 7 2015, 12:17 pm
i am a 26 year old female and I wrote on here a few times about how my cousins husbabd is like my dad . He use to always tell me that no natter what I do he would never be mad at me but he might be disapointed. But here lately our father daughter reltionship has changed and it seems like he is always pisses off me matter how hard I try and last night he made the comment he dosnt want to be here if iam here and went in his room and shut the door snd sleot the rest of the evening. I dont know what I did. I have always been honest with him about my mistakes it may havr took me a few months to tell him but I have never actually lied to him. He wont speak to me. How do,I fix things and get things bacm to the,way tgey were before when I dont eve...
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How Often Does Parents' and Grandparents' "Equal Love" Happen?
Posted Friday August 7 2015, 2:54 am
I want to apologize in advance if this writing makes it sound like I'm accusing any parents or grandparents on this site of anything. I'm very upset right now, so please excuse me if this seems a little hostile. I don't mean to be nor do I mean to cause any problems, but there's something I need to know. When people say that they love their kids and grandkids equally, how many of them actually mean it? I know that many of them do, but I feel like grandparents say it waaaaay too often and don't mean it at all? I mean, grandkids aren't the same as actual children. Is it just some meaningless platitude grandparents feel they HAVE to say? And why is everyone so convinced that it's normal and does no damage if you don't love them equally?
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Dad
Posted Friday August 7 2015, 1:05 am
HI !!
Well problem is that dad and I. We dont talk much. Infact i stopped talkin to my dad just cause he doesn't has a car. I havent even urged him to buy a car...and i can't even say..or tell him to buy a car..as I don't want him to try hard just for me and buy a car.
Likewise, my dad is arrogant too and he doesn't listen to others even if it's for a good cause.
I don't have a mom neither..and since me and dad don't talk much I feel my dad feels lonely and seeing him like that and not able to do anything I feel like a very very very very bad SON!!!
Ii don't know what should I do? should I die?
Damn writing all these makes me tear up for no reason...ik it might sound nonsense but i need your help please!!
Thank you,
Friend.
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I'm the Terrible Younger Sister, Who Accused Her Old Sister
Posted Tuesday August 4 2015, 7:08 pm
Me - 24/F
Boyfriend - 26/M
Sister - 30/F
I just jumped to conclusions and did something that I totally regret.
After I came home from my boyfriend's house yesterday my grandmother asked me the reason why I didn't have my period at the moment. I told her that sometimes my period is late. She then asked me tell me when you get it, then she told me that if I'm pregnant that it's the end of my college. That really hurt me because my family has always said things along the lines of, "A family should support a pregnant woman in her endeavors in raising her child," and that if my sister became pregnant they would help her.
I am a college senior, they would only need to assist m...
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My little sister's relationship with my girlfriend of 5 years is suffering
Posted Tuesday August 4 2015, 1:28 pm
Since my girlfriend was introduced to my younger sister, they've always had a real sisterly relationship (even though they're not related). My sister was overweight for a very long time, and my girlfriend (who played soccer in college) served as an inspiration for her to lose weight
But over the past year and a half, their relationship has gotten worse
Only a few noticeable things have happened during this time - My sister has lost a lot of weight and has become her high school's top female sprinter, which is quite an accomplishment. On the other hand, my girlfriend and I are hooked on a pastry shop that opened very close by, and so we've both put on a bit of weight (about 40 lbs each in the past year and a hal...
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Eloping
Posted Monday August 3 2015, 2:02 am
I have decided to elope with my long term boyfriend within the next year or two. I do not have a good relationship with my family (I was physically abused most of my childhood), I do not have money for a huge wedding and I also am more on the shy side, so eloping seemed like a good option. However, I knew from the get go that my dad would be upset if I eloped. So, in an effort to help my dad adjust to the idea, I told him in advance that we are planning on eloping. I also explained that I don't enjoy being around the family anyway because of what went on in the past, that weddings seem too expensive to me and that I would prefer something quiet. This was a huge mistake. I wish I had just kept it quiet like you are supposed to when you elope...
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Posted Monday August 3 2015, 1:30 am
I dont want to study Engineering so my parents r not agreeing
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Issues in the family with sister
Posted Sunday August 2 2015, 8:57 am
I have an elder sister who thinks that all of us in the sense my mother, my father and me hate her. She always thinks that my mother always shows partiality towards me and doesn't care for her at all when she does. All of a sudden
My sister acts kind of weird like a sadist and starts cursing my mom harassing all of us. She thinks that I am the reason behind all of her problems. she makes me want to feel like I ruined her life by being born. We can just find out how annoyed she is of me being in her life through her actions. I just want to die and forget that I was ever born in this family. Please someone help me out. And by the way I me and my sister are studious and dont want our studies to get disturbed. If anyone helps me in solv...
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Bi sexuality
Posted Saturday August 1 2015, 3:03 pm
I am 17 and I know that i am bi but how do i tell my family. i have already come out to my friends, but dont know how to come out to my family
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explaining to my mother
Posted Saturday August 1 2015, 12:22 pm
hi when I was younger my dad and mom split up and I lived with my mom over the past 2 years my dad married my step mom and has two children witch are my step sisters and since i was 8 I have been able to fly back and forth every summer to visit my sisters but now im 13 years old and my dad and my step mom got a divorce and I barely see my sisters anymore and I also have problems at my home with my mom problem is my moms boyfriend she has been with for 3 years wont stop drinking and coming home and yells at her now right now my mom has about been I think 13 weeks pregnant and her boyfriend still wont stop drinking and now that im becoming a adult I want to live with my sisters really bad and ive been in a lot of stress because I will miss my...
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Am I Paranoid or is My Mom Being Strangely Overly Nice
Posted Wednesday July 29 2015, 12:43 pm
I love my mom like crazy, more than anyone else in the world. She pretty much raised me herself and we get along great, but there are times when I can really piss her off. Although she's a wonderful person with a huge heart, she can be kind of a ball buster too. She treats me better than anyone else, until I piss her off and then she goes crazy on me. Please read this all, even though it's gonna be long and there might be times when you're like, "Alright, I get it." But I want to be thorough and not leave anything out that may be important.
Lately, she's seemed a little OVERLY nice, Which is great, but I'm worried about why she's being like that. There could be a number of reason, almost all of which are bad news. S...
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My grandfather just heard that my sis & I think that he's a lousy grandpa
Posted Tuesday July 28 2015, 12:04 am
I feel like a terrible granddaughter right now. My paternal grandfather is currently in the hospital. His mouth keeps on filling up with blood and it's making him gag. Judging from the last time that we spoke to him, the doctors have no idea what is going on.
For most of my life I was not close to him. In my opinion, he never really made much of an effort to be in my life. He was someone who never called and who I rarely saw. Honestly, I never thought that he loved me. My sister feels the same way.
There were times that he really hurt me. For example, when he did not attend my high school graduation dinner, after telling me that he would attend. Instead he chose to stay at home with his puppy when my godmothe...
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Starting over
Posted Thursday July 23 2015, 12:46 am
I met this guy who is a single dad of 3 boys and we have fell completely in love. We are getting ready to move in together alone with my 3 boys. His mom and I have got off on wrong foot and I want to make things right with her for myself and how I feel. She has helped my boyfriend raise his boys for 4 years cause their mom isn't around. She feels like I'm stepping in and taking her place and I'm not trying to at all. She is a sweet lady with a huge heart and I want her to know I would never try to take her place at all..
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Breast leaking
Posted Wednesday July 22 2015, 1:02 pm
So one day my mom had to rush off to work she told me to look after my baby brother. after finish washing my baby brother whose 5 months old and when I got him out of the tub we latched on to my breast because apparently he was hungry. But at the time I was wearing a tank top and no bra because I had just gotten up. So what happened was I pulled him off and I started uncontrollably leaking breast milk all over. I got him dressed and put him to sleep and for the next ten minutes I was trying to stop from leaking milk. When I finally got it to stop i changed my wet clothes and cleaned up. I thought everything was fine and that the baby had just somehow made my breasts start leaking. But the next day when I heard from crying for food my breast...
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Just found out my Sister is a Prostitute?
Posted Tuesday July 21 2015, 4:28 pm
Me and my Sister both live together, She's 20 and I'm 20. Yesterday she was out and I went on her laptop to check a few emails, And her email was still logged in, And a few subject lines caught my eye, When clicking on the email. And reading through emails, I discovered she's selling herself for money, Not only that she's doing Skype shows, And selling Videos of herself and pictures to other people. On Adult chat sites, Craigslist etc.
She has a job, Works 9-5, She's not on a low wage, But not high either. It kinda makes sense now when I found out,She has a new car, Buying new things, And having a whole lot more money in her purse.
I don't understand why she would do this? Is she lonely? She's never had a boy...
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Sister changes in front of me
Posted Tuesday July 21 2015, 6:53 am
it started when we were on vacation in 2014, she would just out of the blue say things like "don't mind me" or "hey i'm going to get naked in front of you, i'm sorry" obviously not naked but she would be wearing her panties... I'll say "oh thats ok i don't care".
She never use to be like that. She would always hide or be discrete like any normal girl. she has gone as far as wear short shorts, tank top thats etc thats what normal girls do when they walk around or bum around. she's only 18 so she dress flirty. hell i couldn't even see her in a towel!
starting to have a huge crush on her
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Dating my sister
Posted Monday July 20 2015, 4:06 pm
We're 14, dating for over 2 years, madly in love, fairly open about our love to. At least for someone in this situation.
I find it sad that us being related makes people sick that we love eachother, I guess I just came here to seek some approval
We cuddle, kiss, go out to dates, everything a regular couple does.
The part no one except my best friend and our other sister really knows about is that yes we have had sex before. A quite a few times. I'd imagine that'll be a turn off point for most people reading this.
We cuddle, kiss, go out to dates, everything a regular couple does.
The part no one except my best friend and our other sister really k...
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Controlling mother - boyfriend wants to break up because of her
Posted Saturday July 11 2015, 12:11 pm
I'm 20/f
My mother is very controlling. She trusts me and loves me and even likes my boyfriend.
But a few weeks ago when I wanted to go to my boyfriends house for a few hours she took offence. This was because she works all the time and was angry at me making plans on a weekend. I explained it was because I wanted to see my boyfriend but she said 'what about me'-me and my bf only see each other once a week (been together for two years)
So yes I've got another trip to see my boyfriend on a weekend due-been invited to a wedding. How do I make sure she doesn't get upset again? My boyfriend has said he's sick of not seeing enough of me and its because Im keeping my mum happy. She's nasty when she's upset. She'll leave me to...
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My dad had an affair
Posted Saturday July 11 2015, 12:49 am
Today has been a really big mess. My dad's mistress sent a text to my mom, it was a picture of my dad naked. He has been having an affair for a year. She wants him to leave us and move in with her. he says he's trying to end it with her and that she's been blackmailing him for months. I'm 19 but I still live at home, it is REALLY breaking my heart. My dad is my hero, the kindest most giving person ever. Finding out he has done this is just....devastating. I feel so bad for my mom. She doesn't know if she's going to leave him or not, and that's beside the point. I don't know how to think of him now? I feel so hurt whenever I look at him. He keeps saying when you lov esomeone you forgive them. It was a YEAR it wasn't a one time thing. He also...
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