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Posted Wednesday August 9 2023, 12:28 am
If a guy acts like he likes me some days but then the next second he may be hard to read what should I do
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Dates for First Kiss
Posted Tuesday August 1 2023, 7:02 am
Hello, I'm a 34 year old male. I've been with my girlfriend for 5 dates now, and they have all gone very well. We get along well, and there's never been the awkward silence of dread. However, we have not kissed yet. Is it normal to go this long without one? And should it be the girl to ask for one, or the guy to ask for one after seeing a girl's nonverbal cues? She hasn't made any nonverbal cues yet, btw.
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Maybe he's just not ready for a commitment ..
Posted Sunday July 30 2023, 3:01 am
I've been with him for almost 3 years now, 1st year was amazing 2nd year was full of break-ups and 3rd party was involved, he cheated on me, but somehow we overcome the issue and decided to continue and we are still working on the relationship, sometimes i feel alone, i can't seem to find him all in, anyway we travelled so many countries and finally last month we went to Peru, his hometown where we stayed with his family for 2 weeks and to be honest it was so great.
2 days ago we were out with some friends, and somehow the commitment issue was on the table and everyone was just talking about how good/bad is the marriage and how happiness and commitment has nothing to do with each other, somehow i got the idea that he's not ready to t...
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Catching feelings
Posted Tuesday June 6 2023, 5:08 pm
Ever since I started school I've noticed this guy that kept staring at me. Like one time I was at a function and I saw him looking at me from across the room, and he never broke eye contact with me. Or even sometimes when I passed him in the hallway he'd continue looking at me almost as if he wanted to say something to me (but at the time we didn't know each other yet). Anyways as time went on I started noticing myself thinking about him and finding him attractive. Fast forward to today, fate happened and we got paired up to work together for an entire school at the dental clinic. He's been very communicative through text about managing our patients together and he'll often come to my cubicle and talk to me after I'm done with the appointme...
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about how he thinks
Posted Friday May 26 2023, 12:43 pm
so, there is this guy at school i joined this school this year and now its only a month left but i've had a crush on his since half the year he's 11th nd im 10th and once i noticed him i looked at him and when i do he almost always looks back or i sometimes catch him looking at me even while he's talking to his friends and i have no idea if he like me because he doesn't smile while looking at me, well neither do i but that's because im nervous thinking he might not smile back and well people tell me im pretty but gosh i have no idea if he'll ever approach shoukd i follow him on instagram, should i approach and how? i really like him
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Am I wrong and how do I trust?
Posted Sunday April 30 2023, 7:33 am
I started dating a married man, we where both in bad marriages. I planned on leaving and he fell in love then lied to me saying he was in process of leaving. I found out the truth that he was having trouble leaving but now assures me he is and wants to give me proof in 1 week. Am I wrong for this? Then again how could I ever believe anything he says now?
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I can’t seem to pull the trigger on my divorce
Posted Thursday April 13 2023, 4:43 pm
My husband (36M) and I (35F) will be together 13 years, married for 10 years this summer. I have thought about divorcing him everyday for the past 8. We have a daughter (8F) together.
We we’re always fine until we moved to his hometown 8 years ago. Before that I was in the service and he was in construction. Once we got near his family- EVERYTHING changed.
His family, specifically his dad, is always around- every day - all day. I wake up and his truck is in my driveway. His other family members- mom, sister, uncle’s, grandparents are constantly here too. There is no peace. To the point where I cry (to myself) from frustration and now so does my daughter. We’re just like, “GO AWAY!”. They are all good ...
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Meeting my boyfriends daughter!
Posted Friday April 7 2023, 12:02 pm
I a 34 year old female with no kids of my own and never been married. I will have been dating this awesome guy for 6 months on April 27th that I am am in love with . His daughter from a previous marriage who lives in California to Georgia where we live for a visit for the whole summer in July. I am concerned she won't like me . I am really excited about meeting her , but I also nervous because I've never been around any kids besides family and don't want to do or say the wrong thing to make the 6 year old not like me . He wanted me to go Disney world with them for her birthday,but I politely declined because I feel like that should be a trip with just her and her dad and I don't want to intrude to early in the relationship. I was wondering ...
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Getting married and on disability!
Posted Tuesday March 14 2023, 3:23 pm
I am 33 years old and have always wanted to get married and I currently have been dating this wonderful guy for almost 5 months and I totally in love him and want to marry him one day ,but the thing that is getting in the way is everyone keeps telling me we should just live together because if we get married I will lose my disability check and insurance , I just don't feel right about doing that for one I am a Christian and it is against both of our religious beliefs to do so and for another I feel like that's cheating the government. I just wouldn't be able to afford my medicine and my medicine is over $4,000 and I just don't know what to do please give my advice any advice is greatly appreciated. Thank you!
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Going to club
Posted Saturday March 11 2023, 6:52 pm
So my niece is 21 and is getting a divorce and I am 33 never been married so I don't know if this ok or not . She wants me to go the club with her next weekend,but I am in a steady relationship with someone we have been dating for almost 5 months . I really don't want my niece at a club by herself ,but my niece is in a different town than my boyfriend. I am supposed to bending the with her. Do I need to tell my boyfriend about my plans and see if he is ok it because I know my niece will go by herself if I don't go with her . Please help !
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How to address a breakup if you work together
Posted Tuesday February 28 2023, 2:56 pm
Dated my co-worker in secret for the past 3 years. She never wanted to come out for fear of repercussions at work. We talked about a future together and I fell hard. Now she broke it off and wants space. I am in love and want some advice on dealing with it since I see her every day at work.
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How can I fix this?
Posted Sunday December 4 2022, 9:22 pm
Hi there, I hope you're doing well. First, I want to ask for no judgment when reading this because I am not proud of this at all, and I will do anything to fix this. So this Halloweekend, I went to my friend's college to party with her and some of our other friends. We had drank a little in the beginning before heading over. When we met up with our friends, there was a guy with them and I thought he was really attractive, but I was a little tipsy and while at the party, everyone was drinking so naturally I started dancing in front of him and got really close with him and even started feeling his chest dancing with him, but he didn't seem to mind. I even asked him many times, 'Is this okay'', 'Please let me know if this makes you uncomfortab...
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Should I tell my family that i have a bf when they told me I can't yet?
Posted Tuesday November 22 2022, 8:30 pm
I am a younger person, my family says i can't date till I'm am 16 (i have a few years to go still), but I have a boyfriend and i love him with all my heart I haven't meet him in real life yet but i know what he looks like. I wouldn't say my family is strict but I'm just worried if i tell them about our relationship they will make us brake up.
Should I tell my family?
(his family knows about us and is happy for him)
I wouldn't like to say my age but I am female.
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jumbled feelings
Posted Wednesday November 16 2022, 12:14 am
okay so lost my virginity last month with a tinder man after only knowing him for about 2 hours this is not how i would have liked to do that not really bc it was my first time more of i just didn’t know the guy at all and to make things worse my cherry popped and it was a whole thing prior to all this the man laid things out really clearly that there are really 3 options on how things go with new people 1 relationship 2 friends but more 3 fuck buddies i understood 2 as friends that could turn into more but after the night of i came to realize that it was more of friends with benefits so i said 2 is how i would like to go about things and then he mentioned that he had no time for a relationship and 2 would work better for him anyways but ...
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What do you do when physical therapist is turning you on?
Posted Tuesday October 18 2022, 3:56 pm
Hi. My first name is Tanner. I injured my right shoulder in a fall trying to do parkour on some concrete structures and I am obviously not as good as I thought. I had other injuries but the shoulder is the big deal. It sucks because I do play baseball, but at least I have lots of time to recover before next summer. So right now I am doing physical therapy for one hour 4 x week for 8 weeks and maybe longer depending on progress. After my PT they let me use one of the treadmills and I usually run for about 30 to 60 minutes. My post today is about the attractive female therapist I have been assigned.
I started with a guy but another patient who was way obese needed his help so he switched with this freaking cute as hell female th...
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Stuck between my ex and my fiancee
Posted Monday October 17 2022, 12:04 am
I have been asking myself a lot lately if I still want my ex back, but I am very happy in my relationship with my fiance. But when I ended up finding out that my ex was talking to somebody I flipped out, I got very upset and felt like I was losing something.. I just don't know what.
I have been with my fiance almost 3 years, and in the last 3 years it's been some down and up days.. mainly up days. I don't know if I'm afraid of losing my ex because he's talking to somebody new or I'm afraid of moving on from my ex because I was with him for 12 years and we have three kids together. I just really don't know what to do, I feel like some days I just want to cry another days I just want to just scream why me.. because I don't want...
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My side chick gives silent treatment almost every other day
Posted Saturday October 15 2022, 12:23 pm
I'm 48, and from Nigeria. I'm married without kids. I have a side chick, who is not married but has a 5-year-old son out of wedlock. She is my subordinate in my place of work. (I got her the job there). She knows I'm married, knows my wife and my wife knows her as my subordinate at work. My side chick and I love each other. She finds it hard to get a boyfriend because she has some toxic tendencies; she picks a fight at almost everything. We quarrel almost every other day over flimsy issues, and she gives me the silent treatment every now and then until I strive to get us back on talking terms. This has been going on for about 7 months now. Each time she stops talking to me, I want to leave her, but I start to miss her so much that I end up ...
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My SO came out as trans and we plan to continue dating
Posted Thursday October 13 2022, 10:05 pm
I'm in high school and the person I've been dating for a year recently came out as trans. He (formerly she) has begun dressing like a guy, has cut his hair short, and is now using a male name.
He says he still loves me but understands if I no longer want to be involved. I've always thought of myself as straight. But I'm still very much in love too and so I told him that I'm willing to give this a shot.
My parents and a few of my friends seem to think I'm crazy for wanting to remain together. Maybe I am but, like I said, I'm still in love and want to see if we can make this work. Any advice on how to make everyone back off and just accept that this is something I have to do?
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I have an STD. What now?
Posted Sunday September 25 2022, 1:44 am
I am a 24 year old woman. He’s 27. 3 months ago, I rekindled a situationship I had with this guy because I felt like I might have been too hard on him. The reason I left him the first time was because he made me feel violated. We had already been having sex just moments before it happened. He wanted to keep going when I didn’t. I actually had to push his head away. When he realized I was frozen, he was very apologetic and just saw his way out. But, after more thought I decided to give him another chance. Everything has been great for the past 3 months. We went on many frequent lovely romantic adventurous dates and we spent a lot of quality time alone together, over the phone, and with friends. We have had quite a few emotional conversat...
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How do I tell my boyfriend to calm down?
Posted Thursday September 22 2022, 11:49 am
This is about my boyfriend Cameron who is a good person but keeps annoying me. He said he understands I do not want to have sex and he said he will be a virgin with me and not put any pressure on me to have sex. He says the right things but his body is saying something different. Every time we are together he is having constant erections and trying to hide it. It is embarrassing like he is a sex maniac. I do not even have to touch or kiss him for it to happen but even if I just hold his hand or hug him. He gets one every time we cuddle and I have to tell him not to touch himself and he gets mad and says he just adjusting to hide it better. Even when he tries to hide it I can now tell when it is happening because he gets squirmy and n...
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