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cutting friend
Posted Monday January 28 2008, 8:38 pm
hi, i am 14/f....
and one of my friend's is cutting herself badly, and idk what to do, cause i promise her that i wouldnt tell anyone
but i am really worried about her, cause she is doing it really bad, and me and my other friend really want to help like talk to her about it
cause i have done it before it doesnt help and i know that now, and when i was doing it my other friend help me though it so she knows how to help to. and if we tried to talk to her she changes the subject
what should i do?!?!?!
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flirt alot .
Posted Monday January 28 2008, 5:45 pm
well i have a boyfriend , but everyone says i just have a " flirty " personality . and people say i flirt when i dont even notice it. My boyfriends friends are all really hot but i mean i know where to draw the line at ya know . but i just dont want my boyfriend to get mad , we been dating for almost a year though , but i guess i flirt with alotta peoplE ? people say its just my peppy personality
any advice on how to like stop ? or catch my self
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friend or josh
Posted Monday January 28 2008, 4:38 pm
ok well heres the deal or prob, theres this guy that i like and he likes me back, but today monday 1/28/08 he broke up with his gf and i think that hes going to go out with this chika named amanda but they were suppose to go out but he then decided to stay with his gf wich is now his ex, but like i was saying she was thinking about going out with his borther and fucking him and then rubbing it in josh's face for not going out with her(amanda), and i don't know what to do ,b/c i'm ingaged to this guy but not really we have bine on and off all the time for the past 5 years, and his name is dana and i love him but aparently amanda wants to go back out with him and i don't know if he wants her or me last time it was for his ex kathy who by the...
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Mean Friend
Posted Monday January 28 2008, 3:35 pm
I met this girl named Martha a few months ago, and we instantly got along and became fast friends. Now she considers me to be her best friend. However, the more that I get to know her, the more I begin to not like her personality. At first she was very nice to me, but now she constantly gets an attitude with me. I don't want to be friends with such a mean person because I'm not used to that. Is there a way for us to grow apart, or do I have to stay friends with her and just put up with it?
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how to tell when boys are serious
Posted Monday January 28 2008, 3:04 pm
17 female!
im in 12th grade. and in school, i talk to the hockey boys alot :) i dont know why but im just attracted to them. well i have these two boys nick and ben in two of my classes. they both have girlfriends. in our third hour nicks girlfriend is in our class with us but i dont really talk to them in there but our last hour they are always yelling my last name and stuff. and like today they were like COME HERE! and then i was like what and bens like i have to ask you something. and i was like what? and hes like will you go out with me and i just start laughing and hes like no im serious im like yeah thats why your going out with your girlfriend. and hes like no i dumped her. i know he was joking but then nick is like well if he...
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Friend who lies about being married
Posted Monday January 28 2008, 9:07 am
Ok so I have this friend who I go to the Bar with, and we are both married to Navy guys... our husbands are on different boats hers is a surface ship and mine is on a sub any ways her husbands boat rarely goes out and my husband is gone all the time... We were going to an employee party and we were shopping for gifts to give our secret pal. well i noticed that she didn't have her wedding ring on and i was like wheres your wedding ring? Shes like oh i left it at home because it was bugging me i was like oh ok so she then explained that her ring gets buggy to her a lot and its a really nice ring i mean really pretty but hey thats her.. So we are at the bar and i only had one drink because i'm not really big on getting drunk only every now and...
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Is this wrong?
Posted Monday January 28 2008, 8:39 am
Okay, I needed somewhere to vent this out, and I need advice. So I thought advicenators would be perfect! Sorry if this is long!!
Okay, well, about a year ago this guy was stalking me really badly. He had it baaaad for me, but I would never like him. He hated that, so he started stalking me. He also did crazy stuff, like if he said something to me I didn't like, and I'd tell him to go away he said he would ring my school and say I did all this crap I didn't. He even got so psycho that when he said he was in love with me, and I said I didn't like him like that he said he would ring my mum and tell her I was dating a guy 6 years older than me over the internet (Which I wasn't)
Anyway, it's over now and I'm glad s...
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I thought you were gay?
Posted Monday January 28 2008, 2:20 am
So my best guy friend of two years, who is pretty much feminine in all he does... likes me. I know for a fact that 99% of the people who look at him thinks he's gay. I went to high school with him! I know he likes me because when I was on the phone with him, I put him on hold and pressed mute. Well with my phone, you could hear the person keep talking. He was talking to his mom about how he thought I didn't like him back and he got sad. I just dont know what to do! I dont like him like that, plus I'm waiting for him to come out of the closet. And even if he's not gay, I just dont like him that way. I kind of want to back off for a little bit but dont want to hurt his feelings? I keep telling him, and hinting to him A LOT that were "jus...
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I need to know if my best friend likes me
Posted Monday January 28 2008, 12:14 am
Ok. I have liked my best friend for about 18 months. I had asked her out once and she said she wanted to stay friends. So i let it go. its been about a year since then and whenever we are together, we are either holding hands or hugging or whatever. We had gone on a school field trip and we were together the whole time and we were constantly holding hands or hugging as i mentioned and she gave me kisses on the cheek. She had even fallen asleep on me on the way back. I really don't know if we should stay best friends, or if she likes me and i should ask her out again. please help. any advice is appreciated.
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College Guy
Posted Sunday January 27 2008, 10:52 pm
First off, I wasn't sure where to put this. Sorry if it's in the wrong spot.
I have a boyfriend, we've been dating for almost 3 years. I go to a local community college in my city. I met this guy who attends the same college as me. He asked if he could take me to a local coffee shop after class one day. He's really funny and fun to hang out with.
Is it wrong of me, since I am in a relationship to do that? Or let alone, do I need my boyfriends permission to go have coffee with this friend I met at school?
The last thing I'm trying to do is cheat on my boyfriend. Actually, I wouldn't even consider it that at all.
Eeek. I'm really confused.
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should we go through with it
Posted Sunday January 27 2008, 9:48 pm
I have had this friend who lives in louisiana, who i have never met before. i have known them for going on 6 years and talked with their family and friends and stuff. our long distances friendship is no secret. I was going to have them visit me soon. were both adults (im 18) and i know the risks of meeting him without ever having met him before.. but i need opinions.. what do you think?? any opinions good or bad is VERY appriciated.
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Truthfull.
Posted Sunday January 27 2008, 9:31 pm
OKay, me and my best friend got in this really big fight over the one thing we said we would never fight on, which is BOYS.
Well she has a boyfriend, and I don't and I could careless because this kids a fag. Literally.. he likes it up the poophole! Well when she asks me for ym advice and I tell her yehh he would probably bend over for a man she started telling me how he said he loves her. and how she hasn't said it. And somehow we got in a fight about me being right all the time.
AND I AM!
Is it my fault noo.. and shes telling me to stay out of her relationship hmm well if she didnt place it in my hands I wouldnt have to. but she came to me for help! and I toldher what I thought. and she gets mad at me... well she take...
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Are they jealous of me?
Posted Sunday January 27 2008, 5:00 pm
So my family is the richest by far in my town. My town is small, but we are probably the richest in our county and the counties surrounding us. My Grandpa was a doctor since he was in his late twenties early thirties. He died at the age of 75. All of his money went to us. My mom is an RN and makes good money. My dad is probably the biggest rancher in our state.
Recently a girl's dad in my school (who used to work for us) got an oil rig job. They finnaly got money and I was happy for them. Now they really get to live a little compared to living how they used to. Well she got a new car (mustang) when she turned sixteen. She is a year older than me. I just turned sixteen and I got a Dodge Ram 3500 dually Mega Cab 2008. Her dad saw what...
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Best Friends??
Posted Saturday January 26 2008, 3:26 pm
My supposed best friends are acting like biotches. For science, every quarter we switch partners. We made a plan, me and 1, 2 and 3,then me and 2, 1 and 3, then me and 3....etc.
The night before we switch when i am with 3, she ims me, when my away says: Out dont im, "hey is it okay if i am with my boyfriend for the third quarter? He asked me, and i dont want to turn him down...sorry!" then signed off! THE NERVE! it was the day before we picked partners and i was sick so i wasnt going to be in school. I was mad at her and she imed me, "are you okay? you seemed mad on saturday" I said, "Well you left me stranded the day before we picked partners, yeah im mad." then walked away
DO i have a right to be mad at her? Thanks in advance!
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How To Keep The Friendship Going
Posted Saturday January 26 2008, 5:09 am
Here is the problem I have known this guy most of our lives since 3rd grade now we are in our 20's. We haven't talked since we graduated in 2000 because we lost touch when he joined the Air Force but now I found him on MySpace he his married and has a daughter but here is the real problem I tried to get his cell number so I could give him a call and catch up cause he doesn't go online alot I talked with him a couple times when we were both online but I didn't get a chance to ask him for his number because we didn't talk long enough. Well anyway I asked his wife for his number and she said if he wanted you to have his number he would have given it to you. She also said that she would even give it to me if he wanted her to. But here's what bo...
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My freind want to become more than a friend
Posted Friday January 25 2008, 7:29 pm
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okay,.... I got this old friend that I were like full in love with him once
Now I am single and I happen to find him very atractive but I don't want to go too fast ,...
help me ,..I really want to start something with him but how to go slow ,..what to say and how to act ????
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sweet 16
Posted Friday January 25 2008, 3:27 pm
my sweet 16s coming up and i'm wondering who i should invite i mean like do i invite the friends of my friends who i don't really talk to? or just like everyone in my school or what? i'm totally clueless
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please. =/
Posted Thursday January 24 2008, 9:43 pm
does anyone know a song about either..
saying sorry
best friends drifting apart
you mean so much to me.
anything in that nature please!!
all would be great =]
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she not a friend but a man stille whore!
Posted Thursday January 24 2008, 9:17 pm
ok so me and this girl have been friends for ever!
and every guy i ever liked well she got and i was left with no one ok so i hooked up with this guy and i was really liking him a lot!like i really like him! ok so today i was talking ot my friend and my friend comes up to me and was like hi babe and im like hey and shes like i got a bf and im like who and she said his name!!!!!!!!!!! i was so upset i got home and cried so its like a couple weeks later and im friends with her again(sadly) ok so im like talking to her on my space and im like Dylan wont answer his fone and shes like thats bc hes talking to me and sara im hooking them up and i was like Becca!and shes like oh i forgot you had a thing for him!
i cant stop cr...
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ummmm wtf?
Posted Thursday January 24 2008, 4:44 pm
14/f
ive been best friends with this girl for 4 years. we do everything together. we are on the phone everyday and there are no boundries to what we tell each other.
we entered high school in the fall, and we both met new people and made new friendship, which was expected..but there was definitly something up between us.
then, in october i realized i had a HUGE crush on her. she already knew i was bi but she didnt know who i liked. i tired to not let her know, i knew shed get wierded out.
we grew apart, then together then apart then together and recently we got together and we got alittle tipsy. the other person there knew about my feelings for her, and warned me before that i migh...
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