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the exes
Posted Wednesday November 22 2006, 1:37 pm
Ok, my parents are divorced and both remarried. Well my brother asked my step mom and dad to come to our thanksgiving party where all my mom and step dads family will be. I will awkward because my dads around his ex wife and around all of his ex family. They just called and said that they would be here. Now i know i will feel awkward. Also, sometimes when i go see my dad we make little jokes about my mom and all that. Sometimes they are bad and i regret that but can someone please tell me what to do before thanksgiving when they are coming. I am afraid that they will say some of those jokes or do something. Nobody thinks i have anything to worry about so please help!
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my mom and my room
Posted Wednesday November 22 2006, 12:20 pm
ok i'm a little bit of a neat freak because i have to have everything organized. so, my mom is like the total opposite, but she keeps messing up my room after i've organized it, and also she tells me to fix it whenever she makes a mess of it. i have seriously had it! i'm about to put a lock on the door for whenever i go to school because she knows that she's doing it and thats what pisses me off the most. she's like a little girl and i really can't deal with this mess anymore. i've already told her. ?
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I am in a state of depression and am scared of what i might
Posted Wednesday November 22 2006, 2:16 am
I am only 14 and i live in Metairie,LA. i was hit by hurricane Katrina and was sent to lafayette to live with my Aunt with my mom and sister all last year. we have just moved back and am now liveing with my dad again. Since the school year started i have been in a state of depression. It wasnt as bad at first. My sister and i are only 15 months apart. we were very close. Since we now go to the same school i get treated like i am her bitch. but then at home its like we are sisters again. i am to tired to eat, i dont do homework i sleep in all of my classes, and ttruthfuly dont care anymore. i have tried to kill my slef but my friend steped in and got me help. i went and saw a concerlur and that did nothing. i do not fit in with my family. my...
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Enough guilt.
Posted Tuesday November 21 2006, 4:01 pm
So me and my mom are pretty close. We talk about anything to eachother. but it seems like once a month we fight. Everything thats been bugging her builds up until she blows up on me for the stupidest thing. She'll start pulling major guilt trips. Whenever I tell her how I feel and what she does she just gets even more mad. I can never talk to her. She talks about how her life is stressful and all the things shes going through and how her life sucks and she wants to kill herself. Well what am I supposed to do in that situation? She ends up making me feel like I'm a bad daughter and I don't appreciate anything she does. I tell her thank you all the time. Once she said thank you wasn't enough. It drives me crazy. Sometimes she gets so bad she'...
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problem getting pregnant
Posted Tuesday November 21 2006, 3:04 pm
what if i expect periods before 15 days but now i'm having soo much cervical mucus?
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13th birthday
Posted Tuesday November 21 2006, 2:26 pm
im turning 13 on 25th december but i don't know what to do for it, bcoz i was guna go 4 a meal with some close friends and go bowling with family but i want to make ir a birthday to remember, any1 got any ideas????
thanks xxxxx
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Posted Monday November 20 2006, 2:43 pm
Im dating a guy who is cousins with one of my closer friends they talk about me and i know they do, because she feels that we shouldnt date anymore we've been together for almost 2 years (few more months to come) but my bf feels that i've stolen him away from her like i hog him to much & she feels the same way. I dont want them to think that. Im not heartless i think family is important so why'd i want that for them right? i want them to know that i do believe its important that they still do see eachother, I want to write her a letter explaining that i do think its important they hang out, spend time together, u no? So could you help me get started with a letter or tell me some things to put in the letter?
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Divorce
Posted Sunday November 19 2006, 9:21 pm
my parents have just got a divorce and life at home is very hard as dad is moving out, i love him so much and don't want him to go please help
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Who knows
Posted Sunday November 19 2006, 5:55 pm
Well over this past summer, i walked in a lot on my dad watching porn and using a webcam.. wouldnt a webcam be considered cheeting for the most part? Anyways, he's always at work, and he's always at meetings. After i had accidently wakled in on him this summer and gone through the thoughts of omg he might be cheeting on my mom what do i do, he completely changed for awhile. He acted soooooooo soo weird, it was scary. I could honestly say i didnt feel safe around him and i felt like he was hiding something. Well anyways, my mom works nights.. and like 97% of the time those are the nights my dad has outta town meetings. Every year he has a work christmas party and usually the spouses and sometimes family go too..this year it was just the work...
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Grandparents
Posted Sunday November 19 2006, 2:33 pm
15/f. every year for Christmas my family goes crazy trying to think of good christmas presents for my grandparents. they are really hard to buy for, because if you ask them what they want they say that they don't need anything, but we have to get them something. and when we do come up with really good ideas they never even use the presents. so this year i was thinking of making them homemade presents so that they would mean more. but i have no clue what to make. any suggestions would really help! thanks
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I'm scared. They seem so real.
Posted Saturday November 18 2006, 5:54 pm
I have two cousins, a boy who is 12 and a girl who is 14. Their parents wont get a divorce but they hate each other and are both alcoholics and smoke, but refuse to get help. When their dad comes home, which he only does about twice a week, he screams at their mom (Who is usually drunk at the time.) and at my cousins. Normally, he throws and breaks things.
This past week I've been having terrible dreams and waking up sweating in the night. I remember parts of them, but in one of them their dad had just walked in and was already screaming at my aunt and my cousins. He began to get very angry and threw things at my aunt, who was crying. Then he went over to my cousins and started yelling at them. He was hitting them and throwing things...
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jealous
Posted Friday November 17 2006, 10:46 pm
I have a brother who is in college. He is 3 years older than me. We used to be really close, but now he has a girlfriend and I barely get to see him anymore. We used to talk like all night but now all he wants to do is hang out with her. On my birthday we went on vacation and he didnt say happy birthday or anything but the first thing he did was buy his girlfriend a present. Now whenever I see them I just start acting really mean and stuff. I dont mean to, but I just get mad because I used to be able to talk to him so easily. I know im just jealous, but I really wish I could spend more time with him. Is there any way for me to get over my jealousy? Im worried his gf thinks im really rude and stuff. But I honestly dont mean to act that way. Please help!!!
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in a fucking group home
Posted Thursday November 16 2006, 9:02 pm
im in a group home and its an all girls one. im straight but i really am starting to like the girls. if you know what i mean. i wanna touch them all over. i have a bf, but i want one of the girls to join in with me and him. i think that would be fun. so now am i gay?
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How can me and my wife have children?
Posted Thursday November 16 2006, 3:12 am
we've been trying to have children for roughly 4 months now and still no luck. Is there a certain time that its easier to get a woman pregnant? If so, how can me or my wife monitor or find out when this time is?
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My girlfriend wants kids and I dont know what to do
Posted Thursday November 16 2006, 3:00 am
I'm in a bit of an awkward possition. My girlfriend and I have recently been doing some exploration with our bodies and have stopped using condoms all together. A few days ago I found out that she wants to have children and that she doesnt want to wait till we're out of high school. I've also heard rumors from my friends that she's planning something. I want to know if, well, its alright to have children at a young age.
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Posted Thursday November 16 2006, 1:22 am
My boyfriend is getting the magazine Maxim or whatever. I've seen it but it always has pretty ladies on it. I dont want him looking at like a magazine that contains stuff that no girlfriend would want a boyfriend to look at such as naked people and what not. Cuz that just makes me self consious & fight to be even more prettier so i dont feel so ugly & compared to those girls.
Please just give me details on whats in that magazine, it'd be must helpful!!
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why wont they invite us now??
Posted Thursday November 16 2006, 1:02 am
ok well when my father lived with us we would get invite to all family events. now we dont. wat, my and I brothers arent part of my fathers family. wat do you think I should say to him and his family?, because I like my family and hanging out at events. i was going to send an email to all of his family sayng Im sick of this shit and rreally pissed off!!, not getting invited to anything anymore this is rediculuos that his kids dont get invited to anything i dont mean to swear at all but i Just want to show u how mad about not getting invited to anything i am.
sooo wat do u think i should do about this? Is the email is a good idea?
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want to be different
Posted Tuesday November 14 2006, 5:30 pm
i'm not happy with the person I am. I was happy with who I was before I got married but since then I've noticed how like someone close to me I am. The problem? I don't want to be like this person. It's terrible to say but this person is not a good role model, thinking back possibly never has be and when I look at them, I know I don't want to be the same. Weak and afraid and always miserable.
But if I'm already like this person, how can I change? How can I stop becoming something i'm predestined to be? I know it sounds confusing but please help me. I can't talk to this person about it because they would be mortified if they thought I felt this way and they would cry.
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cut wrists
Posted Tuesday November 14 2006, 8:15 am
soooo. this is a horrible thing to say but around halloween time i was very upset with my family problems and i didnt know what to do. so one day i can come and cut my wrist about three times. i cried for days just because what i had did to my self and ive been hiding it since today. its nov. 14 and it still hasnt gone away. i think that it is turning into a scar. im very scared ebcause i dont want to hide it the wrest of my life. someone help.
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tell my mom that sometimes my dad hits me
Posted Saturday November 11 2006, 7:11 pm
I need help telling my mom that sometimes i am abused by my father for the stupidest reasons when she is at work. I feel very shy to tell her and i dont know if i tell her that the effect of me telling her will hurt my families future. i am the 2nd oldest of 4 kids and i am the one that gets hit by my dad the most. the other sumblings rarely are touched. my dad has very vast mood swings and once he ill be very nive nad a few minutes later he is going crazy.
i dont know what to tell my mom about this.
please help me.
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