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Friendship
Friendship is a beautiful thing that can get messy sometimes. Ask your question here.


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2 (or more) opposing groups of friends.


Posted Saturday February 2 2008, 5:36 pm

16/f sophomore.

hello :D
okay, well here's my problem. i don't have one PARTICULAR group of friends and my friends are all split in different groups. i, myself, am mixed in all of them. so as you can tell, it's very confusing. and well, most of my friends don't get along with eachother and they talk bad about one another. most of them aren't even friends. but i'm their mutual friend, so their problems with eachother pass through me. and i have to side with people. like for group projects and stuff. and i don't know WHO to side with sometimes. what kind of judgement should one use in this case.....like for instance. friend a, friend b and me were going to the library to do some research. they both hate eachother and ta...

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soooo much drama!!!


Posted Saturday February 2 2008, 5:27 pm

omg!!!!so i went with this boy that i really liked for about two months and he broke up with me because he said that he had become mentally unatracted to me!well i still liked him but he said he didnt want to go with me anymore so i was like ok then!well while i was going with him i had became friends with one of his guy friends!i did not like him more than a friend but thats what every one thought!well after we broke up i started liking that friend more than just a friend.well it had been a month since the brake-up and i asked the guy out,he said yes!its been a week and im really happy except for all the drama that has come from it!for some reason people keep saying that i played my ex because now i go with his friend!well this girl asked ...

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being outgoing


Posted Saturday February 2 2008, 3:37 pm

what is to being outgoing person?


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Annoying Friend


Posted Saturday February 2 2008, 11:54 am

I have a few best friends who i know are kind of my "true blue." ya know ? well anyways - theres this other girl and she thinks she's our bff but shes not. she's always buying us presents and trying to impress us, but we're not those kind of people. we love each other for who we are, and shes just trying way too hard and being fake. she's really annoying and won't stop talking to you until you give her the answer she wants. shes a princess at home, but not well liked at school because of her annoying antics. sometimes she'll come out shopping or something, and honsetly, i want to rip my hair out because she just never shuts up.

she means well, but shes just INCREDIBLY annoying and tries way too hard. how do ...

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lonely


Posted Saturday February 2 2008, 10:58 am

I used to always have so many friends and always be going places and hanging out with people but starting this year ,it seems like everyone has boyfriends and girlfriends which keep them busy and i dont have one.
I've got alot of just friends but I don't have alot of good enough friends that would call me to hangout or anything.They are more like just friends that i would talk to online or at school or something like that.My best best friend has a boyfriend now and she barely talks to me at all anymore and so its hard that I dont have her.My other best friend thats a guy,moved away.I have this one guy friend that ive been friends with for about 3 or 4 years and im like in love with him.
We hangout sometimes ,but every time we ...

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my best friend ?


Posted Saturday February 2 2008, 3:13 am

ok i really really hope my friend doesnt see this . . .

ok by the way ! THANK YOU TO EVERYONE WHO ANSWERED THE ADVICED I ASKED BEFORE THIS !!

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ok i have a friend and she is very friendly, crazy, out spoken, LoVes pizza and candy !! like seriously ! and out of no where she'd be all "PIZZA ROLLAS !" or "CANDY !!!" with a very childish voice .

its annoying to me but i can 'bear' it . . . (?

shes is very smart and is easily ticklish and i always hangout with her . . .

this might sound mean but whenever i see her face i just want to SLAP it really badly cuz she annoys me 24/7
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Broken Friendship over stupidity.


Posted Friday February 1 2008, 7:16 pm

13/f

Well, I'm one of those stupid nerdy kids who are obsessed with Japan and anime stuff, so call me anything you like, but I am stuck. Just this year is when my interest began. Well, my best friend hates me now that I like this stuff. She sent me angry emails telling me I am foolish and have no idea what I am speaking of... She hates that I am interested in anime, Japan, making more friends, like perverted things, lemons and other things as such. I don't understand. Why would she be angry at me for this? Well, I asked her and she told me I used to be happy, which I couldn't help but laugh at. Yes, I did get passing grades in 6th grade, but I was depressed. VERY. I tried to shove everyone out of my life. She must think this ...

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left out.


Posted Friday February 1 2008, 4:40 pm

[13 year old FM.]


One time, my friend *Jackie and i went to a party together. When i got there, this boy had his arm around her.Aperantly, they were going out. I didn't know that. So when my dad picked me up, i asked her [when my dad wasnt there] when she and that boy started going out. She said a couple of days ago.
It turns out that my other friends knew it as well, before i did. When it happened to be exact. I dont know why she didn't tell me, do you think she doesnt want to be my friend anymore?

*i didn't use acually names.


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not real friends!


Posted Friday February 1 2008, 1:54 pm

ok so i have been friends with this girl sence she moved her in fifth grade. and i have been frieneds with the other girl since like pre-kay and the sad thing is we got in a fight over the summer and in the middle of the school year we all made up were alll best friends well tahst what i thought but every time i wanna hang out with my best friend the one ive known since 5th grade well she says yeah and the day we are supposed to shes with my other best friend and they never tell me when were supposed to go see a movie they tell me im comeing with them but then they dont call me to tell me what time they are goign an dthen they call me in the movie and say oh we forgot about u sorry i forgive them and now shes like getting on my nerves adn i...

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new friends?


Posted Thursday January 31 2008, 8:50 pm

lately the friends ive been hangin out with for like a year have been gettin on my nerves. i mean like my x best friend is now like the person i most avoid because of how annoyin she has become, or was she always that way and i never noticed till now.all these ppl that i thought id be friends with for like ever, are now very annoying and i jsut dont want to have anything to do with em. i want to go and make new friends but does that make me a bad peron for ditchin em for other ppl?

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girl problems lots of drama


Posted Thursday January 31 2008, 8:05 am

ok so me and my friend rachel have been fightin a
lot but everytime it was her fault she would always want me to apologize to her.well my problem is this monday we were doin a group project in my 4th period class.it was all fine until rachel started to try and control everything that was going on.so she yelled at me because i was talking and when she told me i needed to listen to her i told her NO. she got really mad and threw a tantrum and threw a peace of paper which hit me in the head.I haven't talked to rachel since i am just like not friends with her anymore i just told her well im done with all the drama and stuff.my question is was that the right thing to do ?

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one but not the other


Posted Wednesday January 30 2008, 11:10 pm

ok so i have these friends that ive known since i was 3.well they r twins. i get along better with one of them (who ironicly has the same name as me) and anyway sometimes i feel like i cant talk to her if the other one is around. im going to call the one i get along with,"sister" other one, "buddy". well sister really understands me and buddy doesnt. if i want to talk to sister about something she understands and relates to me. while i feel like buddy just thinks that im being over dramatic or stupid. sister and i are ALOT alike and buddy and i are way different!
i feel like she constanly talks down to me and sister doesnt but she also doesnt stand up for me when buddy does that. HELP PLEASE I DONT KNOW ID BUDDY IS FRIEND OR FOE!

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my friend


Posted Tuesday January 29 2008, 7:00 pm

I have a friend who is going through a tough time at school. She's constantly made fun of and she has anger issues. She shows people someone she's not and doesn't know who to change. I have no idea what advice to give her even though I've been through that but never really cared. She's afraid of herself and doesn't know who to trust besides me. She's afraid she'll do something horrible to herself and she's on the edge of killing herself. I don't know what to say to her. HELP!


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New Friends vs. Old friends with a twist!


Posted Tuesday January 29 2008, 2:09 pm

Me, Jess, and Alexa are best friends. At the beginning of the year Jess and some of her other friends were friends with this group of guys. One of the guys started liking one of Jess's friends, but it didn't work out. So then those guys stopped talking to Jess and her friends all together to avoid the awkwardness. Now me and Alexa are friends with these guys out of a coincidence. Jess is jealous and feels REALLY left out. She's upset because her old guy friends "dumped" her and moved on to me and Alexa. Now they don't acknowledge her at all. But the thing is...these guys call us to hang out all the time and they persue our friendship a lot. Jess is one of my best friends and being friends with these guys is hurting our friendship....

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gossip girl last nights episode..!


Posted Tuesday January 29 2008, 11:44 am

hey sorry if this is under the wrong category. i wasn't sure what to put it under.


does anyone know the song that kept playing when the actors would start talking about their characters on commercial breaks?


i know it said...

"we won't say our goodybye's it wouldnt matter anyways." and repeat with goodbye's.. ugh. i only know that.

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help!


Posted Tuesday January 29 2008, 10:50 am

One of my closest friends has been really moody with me latly well its been going on for a while now and i can never talk to her because she will either look and be like a piece of shit or answer really sarcasticly to make me feel bad, anything i say is wrong. When i dont talk to her and leave her because i no she'll shove it in my fae she wont bother to talk to me then she will complain when i ask her whats wrong. Im the one thats always in the wrong, and i no i havnt done anything wrong to hurt her or anything. Shes fine with everyone else i really dont no what to do iv tryed almost everything, its just making me really depressed and fustrated. She will be fine when shes talking to the guys she acts like a totally different person all hap...

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invite list stessing


Posted Monday January 28 2008, 10:48 pm

ok well im having a sweet 16 in february and well im sortve stressing about the invites because of the fact that not everyone is invited from my school and i dont want the word to get out about the party because then those who werent invited will plan to crash it or talk shitt and i really dont need that stress right now im going through enough already and i just dont know what to do i cant just invite everyone but i dont know how to go about doing this quiet if itll get out eventually ughh some one whos been in my situation please help or tell about what happened after wards

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center of attention.


Posted Monday January 28 2008, 10:28 pm

ok. so. i have a friend. and we're constantly together and i would consider her my "best" friend. but i kinda have a problem with the way she acts. everytime we're out together she acts completely crazy and somehow makes the entire night about her, even if it means embarrassing everyone around her. shes beautiful and many guys want to get with her. but i feel like when we're together i have no chance at meeting people bc shes busy being the center of attention. plus every guys ive seem to meet shes already been with so i feel like i get her sloppy seconds. and i hate it. i dont know what to do. i dont want to quit hanging out with her but i dont want to act completely obnoxious to get peoples attention. what to do?

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i fell for my bestfriend its all screwed up


Posted Monday January 28 2008, 10:07 pm

im falling for my best friend. our friendship is so messed up. we used to like eachother but then we didnt wana loose being friends. we lost it anyway. we still stayed friends no matter how much we fought. we were best friends weve known eachother forever. i wana be best friends again. but i hate him somedays then i love him the next. he is the biggest jerk i no but i still like him as in loving and as friends. i really wana date him if we held on through all this i bet we could if we broke up. ive never had a bf and hes only had a gf in 5th. very sad knowing im almost 14 hes 13. but i dont want anyone but him. :( id die if we lost friendship again. i didnt just fall for him i crashed my heard is shattered. we are total opasites in everysingle way. but idc. what can i do?

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Best friend has unresolved issues with me


Posted Monday January 28 2008, 10:02 pm

I am 34/F. My best friend/cousin told me the other day that she has contemplated not being friends with me anymore because of things I say to her, i.e., I told her I wasn't going to an event because it was boring, and she was offended because it is part of her family tradition and her parents plan it every year. (I had no idea her parents planned it. It is a city-sponsored event.) She also said that when I was little, my mom would talk crap about her family and I would repeat it to them. I don't doubt that this is true, but it happened when I was a kid so I can't remember anything that was said, and neither can my cousin. She just remembers it happening. I teasingly called her a "hoverer," and she was offended because she h...

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