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best friend trouble
Posted Wednesday February 6 2008, 1:39 pm
I split up with my best friend about a year ago. And only about a week ago he apologized and wants to be friends again but when he was a dickhead he hacked my myspace and email and said loads of bitchy stuff. All of my other friends are fine with him but he didnt do anything to them before. Should I forgive him or keep away?
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Feel more comfortable..?
Posted Wednesday February 6 2008, 10:11 am
OK this may not make sense to all of you, and if so, I'm sorry :P
Well the thing is..I feel more comfortable hanging around with guys than girls. I have an equal amount of guy and girl friends and I'm NOT a tomboy.
An ordinary girl.
But I donno, it's like with guys I'm more relaxed and more outgoing.
But then again, at the same time I have quite low self esteem.
Is there anything wrong with me? The way I feel more relaxed around guys, why is that?
Also what could I do to improve my self esteem?
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ignore me why don't you!
Posted Tuesday February 5 2008, 10:45 pm
I haven't hung out with my friend one on one in a really really long time. she finally says one day dude we haven't hung out in a really long time i miss you! it's like she finds time for everyone else but me.
i want to hang out with her, but should i even give her a chance considering she's been blowing me off so much? i'm not a high matinence friend it just seems like she never has time for me and always uses me when she's bored or other people are busy.
HELP!
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more guys friends
Posted Tuesday February 5 2008, 8:23 pm
okay...
well i have ALOT of "girl" friends
i want some more guys friends..
you know?
i mean not to be like a slut...
but just so im not around too many girls...
thy're too dramatic
any one have any ideas?
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Naked but Caring?
Posted Tuesday February 5 2008, 7:42 pm
I think I may be developing feelings for this guy. I liked him for the first time about march of last year, but got over it because he liked someone else at the time.
Now, I think I like him again but I don't want to admitt it because I don't want to feel crushed again.
Another problem is we don't see each other too often because he lives a good while away from me [about 20 miles or so]. He constantly but mostly jokingly asks for naked pictures of me. I refuse to send pics because i don't think it would be right but hes really caring.
How do I tell him to stop asking for pics AND tell if he likes me as a person not just for my body?
I'm 15/f and hes 17.
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My friend...my crush
Posted Tuesday February 5 2008, 7:23 pm
Well my best friend is popular, and really pretty, but she doesnt think so or just likes to be reassured. She is always like im so ugly, noone likes me, im fat, etc. But the thing is, a lot of guys like her, they think shes pretty, and every time i start to like a guy, they start to like my bff I really started to like this guy, like i would do anything for him. I was planning on telling him and my bff this weekend, but he had always had a thing for my bff. Well the day b4 i was going to tell her, she imed me, "OMG "Chris" (code for guy i like) just told me he liked me!!!"
She didnt know i liked him so i told her, oh cool, and shes like i like another guy but i think i might like "chris" too. I ...
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my friends && this new girl
Posted Tuesday February 5 2008, 4:32 pm
14/f ok so there's this new girl, theresa, right? shes really cool & everything & we hang out a lot. but like she doesnt like one of my friends, sarah. but sarah is like all over theresa it almost looks like she wants to like marry her or something (not really, but you know what i mean) but i dont tell sarah that theresa hates her. theresa told me to but i won't, it's too mean. & theresa & sarah & me sits on the same lunch table since we're friends & then theresa goes to sarah, "ok, stop trying to impress me you are WAYY too annoying i really don't like you. you think you're cool but you're a loser." then she goes, "cmon hailey, let's go, " (im hailey- not giving out real names some people from sc...
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Pregnant
Posted Tuesday February 5 2008, 2:57 pm
Oh well i went out with this girl for three and a half months well we got into a fight about 3 weeks ago and we broke up but being the kind of guy i am we were still going to be friends...so then 3 days ago we went to a basketball game and we made out for a little bit before i took her home however after i drop her off i find out she is going out with someone else so i feel like an ass for helping her cheat but thats just the start of this then sunday during half time of the superbowl game she calls me and says she is Pregnant(now first all we never had sex) So this leads to my questions 1) Should i tell her boyfriend she cheated with me on him? 2) Was i cheated on cause we just broke up 3 weeks ago today, and finally 3) What should i do to...
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friends
Posted Tuesday February 5 2008, 1:31 pm
I want some female friends, however when they see me(am not dat bad @ looks either) i dont find any enthusiasm in them which really puts me off to start of a converstation, how do i cope with it? is it right to talk about sex with them after couple of converstations
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so sensitve [ wrong subject ] .
Posted Monday February 4 2008, 9:17 pm
Well im a very sensitive person . just the littlest , tinyest things can set off my emotions and make me cry , being yelled at , someone say a certain thing to me , just anything . No im not an emo im 99% happy most of the time , its just the smallest things hurt my feelings . How do i control this or , like " not care " so much ?
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giving my brother advice!
Posted Monday February 4 2008, 8:33 pm
well hes not really my brother but we are close friends so he calls me his little sis(he one year older than me)!well he is like the sweetest guy when it comes to his gf!his gf is in all my classes and shes real quiet but nice.he is always spending all this money on her buying her stuff and i really dont think she apprciates it!i mean she plays around with her friend talking about how sexy some of the boys in our school are and stuff.they have been going out for about a year and he says he like loves her and i dont think she feels the same way.he told me about how he told her that it was a 50/50 realatinship and he felt like she wasnt givn her part in the relationship.she said she was trying to work on it but i feel for my brother!he worked...
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whyyyyy are they doing this
Posted Monday February 4 2008, 8:02 pm
a couple of my best friends found out that i was cutting myself and that i was depressed but then i got a therapist and am doing good. but not even like 3 days after they found out they stopped calling me to hangout and they were acting weird. so now they dont call me on weekends and its like were not even friends even more ! im sooo upset because right now i could really use some support and friendship while im going through this. this whole situation with my friends is making my other problems seem worse and its not helping at all! i know you guys are gonna say why would you want friends who do that and i know they arent being good friends but im kinda shy and its hard for me to make new friends. and even if i make new friends i cant g...
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Carolyn.
Posted Monday February 4 2008, 5:51 pm
Carolyn is my Substitute Mother because mine isn't there for anything, yet my real Mother has made it very clear our relationship is SchoolWork and thats it.
Well I know Im not doing good, im just so hyper and social... I need to stop I dont want to hurt peoples feelings by saying I dont want to talk to you right now but I have to because if I dont I'll lose her.
So I'm planning on asking Adam who is hardcore genuis to give em some advice and were firends so I know he will.
I just don't know how easy it will be...
I dont wanna hurt peoples feelings so
Any tips would be rocking.
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trust and committment
Posted Monday February 4 2008, 2:17 pm
Recently I have lost a friendship due to trust issues. Basically the person said I lied, which I honestly do not believe I did. Other people added to the fight even though they were completely wrong and fueled the fire. So I was hanging out with a few friends.. Well my one friend didnt like these friends and when I tried to hang out with both it kinda blew up. The friend who is upset (rather hates me)also says I betrayed her before which I did not, and people can back me up on that. I have explanations and reasons for everything I did and was even the bigger person who apologized. She did not accept, called me fake & a joke and now hates me. How can I prove/show to her that I am trustworthy and want to remain friends? Sorry this was lon...
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Guy I Never Get to See
Posted Monday February 4 2008, 1:16 am
16/f. Normally I'm not the one asking these types of questions... but here we go.
My dad has a friend with a son who is a little bit older than I am (not sure how much exactly). He goes to a different school. Recently, he started a part-time job working for my dad. I used to hang out with him occasionally but haven't seen him in 8 years.
Today I saw him for the first time in a long time (didn't get a chance to talk), and he seems like a really great person that I would like to get to know. Besides that, my dad likes him. I work for my dad a little bit too, but not too terribly often. In other words, I never get to see this guy ever and because we haven't hung out in a really long time I feel like I don't know him that w...
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friends falling apart
Posted Sunday February 3 2008, 8:42 pm
Oka well this is my probblem.My friends and i well we are kinda falling apart, like we dont talk to eachother that much like we use to.And also we havent spend that much times with eachother it just seems like we falling apart.It all started when school started back and we been busy latly with other things and what makes it worst is that we all dont live close to eactother so that makes it hard to just go to each other houses.I just want to know what should i do.How can be become closer like we were before.I really need your help on this!
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how do i know were just friends
Posted Sunday February 3 2008, 4:20 pm
Im 15yrs old female.hes 16 yrs old.
i hav a best guy friend were really close and i wanted to know how can i tell if were just freinds or not.we flirt alot but he says he doesnt want to be in a relationship.he told me last week that he knows so muc about me that it seems like im his girl.but it was over a text so i didnt really know what his emotion was at the time.he asked me onto go to the movies yesterday but my mom said i couldnt go.he never mentioned the word date tho.but weve talked about if we were in a relationship before and he says it might b a good idea.we fight alot but makeup and laugh about it after.i really dont know how this is gonna end or whats gonna happen.
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he's depressed.
Posted Sunday February 3 2008, 4:08 pm
female. age 13.
one of my best friends ever is getting really depressed. and he wont tell me why. all i know is that it's about a person and a place. i really wanna know what's wrong. but he wont tell me.
and i respect his privacy. but everytime i talk to him he sounds all depressed. and it kills me inside to see him hurt. and i have alot of my other friends going through depression. it doesnt help that im getting a razor tomorrow. so i can cut.. again, the bottom line is. i need to know how to figure out how to find out what's wrong, i wanna be there for him. but i cant help him if i dont know what's the matter. i need help on how to find out how to figure out what's wrong. and i really wanna know if i like him as mo...
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talking to him
Posted Sunday February 3 2008, 4:03 pm
I have trouble talking to one of my best friends. I am f/15 and my friend is m/17. We do talk a lot and we get into deep conversations, but it's hard for me to talk to him. Like, when he tells me how he's sad or hurt I don't know what to say back to him. I also have trouble with just regular conversations. I don't know what to say to him. I feel like he already knows everything. He makes me nervous. I like him as more then a friend and he has a girlfriend(who is a b****). She treats him and me like crap and he just can't see it because he thinks he loves her. :( But anyway, he says I need to be more laid back and just talk to him and have fun, but it's just hard for me. Give me any advice you can. Thanks :)
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Obsessed with Enemy
Posted Sunday February 3 2008, 12:53 am
I absolutely hate my ex best friend. But I'm obsessed with her. I've hated her for about a year because she was a terrible person, but I can't help but to peek around her facebook and xanga to see if her life is miserable. Is this normal, because it sure as hell doesn't feel healthy.
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