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Backstabbing
Posted Tuesday February 12 2008, 9:26 pm
Okay, about a week ago. BIG DRAMA happened between me and my 2 closest friends. My 1 friend Abbie told Katie that I was spreading bad rumors about her saying that she was a slut, and has had sex. Which, I never did and I told both of them that. But, Katie dosent believe me. Then, at the lunch table, Katie was whispering to Abbie and our other friends about me. I couldnt stand it, cause they would whisper then look at me and laugh. I seriously wanted to cry. Just when me and Abbie became friends again, Katie told Abbie that I was talking shit bout her. Which, was a lie. Then, today I was reading their comments, and they were talking reallllyyyyy bad about me. It hurt alot. And, it made me really sad, I cried for bout a half an hour. I was so...
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I went down the hill....
Posted Tuesday February 12 2008, 9:11 pm
Okay, back when I was in 6 and 7th grade, I was very popular. But, when I started going through puberty I guess I changed. I just went down the hill. Im still pretty popular, I guess. But, I just not sure what happened.Yeah, this is pretty confusing. But, please give advice about what I can do/should do to get back up to the top.
Thanks !
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Theres this girl
Posted Tuesday February 12 2008, 6:58 pm
Who I sorta like but I wanna become her friend first how should i talk to her cause she hangs out with people I don't but I kind of like her
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Abuse\Running Away. He likes me.
Posted Tuesday February 12 2008, 6:03 pm
14.Female.
My like best guy friends name is Cole, and he is awesome. He always makes me happy and unlike other guys I don't act diffrently around him --at all--. Id eat like a pig infront of him and not care, laugh my normal laugh. It doesn't madder he's just like my BFF Becky. I know she's not gudmental so and he's the sameway. Well the Christmas dance was coming up and he asked if I wanted to go. It was a hardcore What?? Completely unexpected and I said no. And explained to him that I don't like him like that and he was like Ohh. And thank god it didn't effect our relationship.
Well he flirts with me all the time and sadly I do to...[[sucha bitch I KNOW]] But I can't help it I Do Like Him. But the reason is so stupid I wont ...
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crush on therapist
Posted Tuesday February 12 2008, 3:00 pm
this is embarrassing but here it goes...
i have been going to a therapist for a 2 months (im a 25f and he a over 40 m). i cant stop thinking about him because it makes me feel relaxed. i hinted about these feelings in the 3rd session and he said nothing. i hoped that he would discuss it but he didnt.
now a month has passed and ive made my liking of him obvious. last week i couldnt stop noticing his eyes.this week i sent him an email and made the session earlier than usual.
he hinted to me at the last session that he realised that i was confused about my feelings towards him and that if i didnt feel comfortable coming to sessions anymore there would be no hard feelings.
i dont know whether to stop seeing him or...
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ok
Posted Tuesday February 12 2008, 11:55 am
there is this boy i like but he is dating someone but she treats him like ____ i want to get him a rose should i
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party games and decorations!
Posted Monday February 11 2008, 10:56 pm
13/f to be 14 i'm having a dance bday party. I want some good ideas for party games.
also any decoration ideas
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Real friend
Posted Monday February 11 2008, 6:54 pm
would sumbody who was really your friend, ask you what is wrong with you, if u were mad at them or would they just be like "whatever"?
even if you were friends with them for about a month or 2. n you stop talking to them for a reason, if they were really your friend would they ask what's wrong? and if they dont, does that mean they wernt your friend to begin with?
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He used to be a quiet person but when I talked to him he cha
Posted Monday February 11 2008, 3:05 am
Its weird story :D
I sat next to a person lets call him dude :D
He was a type of person who didn't talk a lot so I would usually talk to him. I would tell him in class hey hey dude go tell the class about blah blah and such. I would be like the supportive friend.
Days later he would talk and yeah it was cool.
Then months later it got weird.
Every morning he would tell me hi in class. I don't know it felt weird now. It got annoying and I would like ignore him whenever he talked to me.
example:
We changed seats but when we changed he sat in front of me . When we were watching a movie and taking notes at the same time he would copy and such and ...
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friends and a guy
Posted Sunday February 10 2008, 6:51 pm
Ok so my 2 friends and I went to this party. My one friend named Sam liked this guy a lot. he was cute and she kept on taking picturs of him. Things were going great. But Sam had to leave and so did I. The day after my other friend who was at the party named Chels went up to Sam and said that she danced with the guy. Sam got really mad and told me about it. Then Chels called me and said it was only one dance and someone told her to. I don't know who to believe because Sam sometimes makes things bigger than they really are. Then Chels said she didn'tknow Sam really liked him but it was obvious. I don't know if Chels wanted to make Sam jealous or if it just was a dance. Sam said she was going to spread a rumor saying Chels was pregnant. She ...
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my best friend
Posted Sunday February 10 2008, 5:42 pm
Ok ... this is probably going to sound really insecure of me... but I just need some adivce. What do you do when your best friend is like so much prettier and cooler than you are? My friend is very popular, pretty, smart, every guy likes her, she gets everything she wants...I just hate that I am jealous of her because shes my best friend, but whenver I'm with her... people don't talk to me... they talk to her... guys never pay any attention to me, unless they are asking about her. She is an awesome friend... but a lot of the time she is distracted with other things... because so many people like her. I just want to know how I should deal witht his situation. Thank you for your time!
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Valentine's Day Gift
Posted Sunday February 10 2008, 1:12 pm
I've been going out with my boyfriend for about 1 year and 2 months.. and we were together last year for valentines day and i dont know what to do for him. im thinking a really creative card or something...and what else? he doesnt wear bracelets or stuff like that either.
Here's what ive ALREADY done for him (anytime):
Really cute hardcore cards
-with lots of pictures of us in them
Boxers
Cologne
PEZ (fav candy)
T-shirts: mall and places ive visited
Build-A-Bear
Heart-shaped cookies/snacks
thats all the main stuff.
also i only have like 15 dollars. HELP!
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Roommate can't pay rent
Posted Sunday February 10 2008, 2:35 am
Just under 6 months ago a friend of mine needed a place to stay after breaking up with a live in boyfriend. I offered my home and she moved in. I had just purchased my first home and had bitten off a little more than I could chew in the amount of money the new home cost me in mortgage payments and other associated expenses. After my friend had been there for 3 weeks, I determined that we could reasonably get along as roommates and asked her if she wanted to make the situation more permanent and she agreed to pay one third of my home expenses. I thought I had found the perfect solution to my money problems as her rent would allow me to make my payments without problem and even give me a little extra to pay off some credit card bills. Un...
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My Parents
Posted Saturday February 9 2008, 11:04 pm
Im best friends with this BOY, but my mom and dad dont know. He always wants to hang out, but everything that has to do with a boy my parents think theres like some kind of bf gf relationship. But honestly, were just two freinds who wanna hang out, best friends. Our moms are good friends too, so i dont think there should be a problem. Were planning on hanging out tomorrow after basketball. How do i tell my parents who havent known about this?
Should i make the moms talk?
HELP
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I know how immature this story is going to sound, but...
Posted Saturday February 9 2008, 4:40 pm
Sorry for the length, but thanks in advance to anyone who answers.
Here's some background info: This year, they spilt up the districts for the school that I go to. They sent half of them, which includes three of my best frineds since first grade, to the new school & the other half, which includes me & my other best friend (Nicole) since fifth grade. & at the new school, my best friend since fifth grade's boyfriend, Kyle, is also there. They've been going out for a year & for some reason think they're going to get married. & this whole week, Nicole's been acting sad & refused to tell me why.
So, I came home yesterday & Nicole called me saying that she needed to talk to me. I was all prepared ...
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dont let them hold you down
Posted Saturday February 9 2008, 4:10 pm
what does "hold you down" mean?
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My son!
Posted Saturday February 9 2008, 6:27 am
Hello,
My son is 15 and he's always been a ''rebel''.
Me and my husband are relaxed with him, so if he wants piercings, we let him get them...but we defenetly don't let him drink or smoke.
The other day I found out that he had been having sex with his two year girlfriend. It isn't like our family believes in ''no sex before marriage'' but it was kind of shocking to me because I always though that he would wait until he was (at least) 16.
He has been out a lot lately and yesterday he came home with an eyebrow piercing. I am not against piercings at all, in fact, I love them, but he didn't even tell me that he was going to get one.
It seems to me that he's not communicating with us anymore, and he s...
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friends with benefits?
Posted Saturday February 9 2008, 12:02 am
so i have a very close friend who has made it almost completely clear that he likes me. i don't like him in a potential relationship kind of way, but i wouldn't mind being able to flirt a little to get his best friend a little jealous, who was at one point my "almost lover." but i don't know exactly how to. every time he has the chance to, he'll try and touch my hair, face or hands. are there any subtle ways of responding to it that would lead him to carry it further?
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friend?
Posted Friday February 8 2008, 10:35 pm
this isn't textbook abuse but, my guy friend always has to make it known
that i am stupid, ugly or w/e. he makes it his priority to smack me in the
head you know that "V-8" thing in front of ppl. like he's trying to break
me. I know this isn't that "oooo he likes you" cause he does it to every
girl that he's friends with, except one. sometimes all i wanna do is cry
becuase some of his comments are so rude and mean. i am so sick of it. i
wanna leave and not be friends with him but my bff girl is like "your just
being stupid he isn't that bad" ofcourse shes the one that isn't verbally
abused. what do i do???/ help me.
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Guy Friends
Posted Friday February 8 2008, 9:13 pm
I am 15/f and i this year I started at a new High school. I have made a few girl friends but no one that i spend a lot of time with. I always seem to be hanging out with the guys. At lunch i sit with a table full of guys and one other girl(my best friend who also switched schools). During class when we group up to work on projects I always end up with all guys, one even being my best friends ex. Is this weird? Why do I have such a hard time making friends. I'm not trying to be vain when I say this, but I really am a likeable person. Nice, compassionate, and caring. Is something wrong with me?
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