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friend taking liberties
Posted Sunday February 17 2008, 7:10 pm
So I have this friend who I was really good friends with about 2/3 years ago, but about 2 years ago we kinda drifted apart, mainly cos we kinda realised we didnt have that much in common.
Anyway, so we only used to speak once every couple of months if that, and even then it was only to say hi. But now he has broken up with his GF he has started to call me all the time and asking to borrow my car! I lied last time and said it was broken and in the garage but what shall i do if he keeps asking me this? I think its a bit much to be asking these kind of favours to someone you havent hardly spoken to in 2/3 years.
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,e and this guy...oh and her.
Posted Sunday February 17 2008, 6:32 pm
14/f. ok so i have this best guy friend who have a crush on. and he really likes me too. well the other day we started talking but little did i know he's talking to this girl i hate. and it makes me mad b/c he's always saying ily and callingme bby and other stuff...but yet he's doing it o her too.
and on his tops on myspace she's 4th i'm no where on there. i wa son his headline for one day. i wonna say i don't like him anymore and call it off but i like him too much and what if that distroys our friendship?
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secret lover?
Posted Sunday February 17 2008, 5:00 am
my guy friend likes me and i like him too, any subtle ways of flirting? not too much bcs he is still my friend and i don't want to come off too strong and scare him, just a little...
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leaving my BFF
Posted Saturday February 16 2008, 11:55 pm
me and my bestie do everything together. i mean EVERYTHING. we have a group of like 25-30 friends that all hang out together and get together weekends and stuff, but me and her are ALWAYS together outside of that and we sometimes just hang out alone of course when we are feeling less social. but well we've been best friends for 5 years now and we've only been through one bump like 2 years ago and it was just a whatever thing. but we are so attached...i dont know what i am going to do when we go off to college. she is way smarter than me so there is like no way we'd go to the same school. and we talk about it sometimes and it usually endes in our reminising about things and becoming sad. will i be able to make a lot of friends in college ...
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total 360?
Posted Saturday February 16 2008, 2:16 pm
14/f freshman. I kinda want to change my life around.
Im smart [not genius], nice, pretty and have a few close friends.I never really been involved in sports but im working on that this year. Ive already signed up for a sport.
I want to have a bunch of friends. I want a bunch of people to know me. These days it seems like the only way to really be known is to act ditzy and thats not what i want. Also I want to boost up my flirting skills and hottness. What tips you got for me ?
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guys why are they so unforgiving ?
Posted Saturday February 16 2008, 2:04 am
well there this guy well he has a girlfriend and
we sort met on the internet through one of my friends.it all went well until me and him got serious we told each other i love you and everything and one thing i so regret is sendin him pics of my chest . well i kept asking him to break up with his girlfriend and he kept sayin he would soon. but all of a sudden one day he stopped talkin to me.(we live close to each other)anyways i kept texting and callin him because i didn't know what was going on .i was so mad and sad since his gf knew nothing about what we had done and i felt bad i told her everything and whenever i texted him he just told me to leave him alone that he didn't want to talk to me.and im really heart broken and sad over...
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Eating disorder or what ?
Posted Friday February 15 2008, 11:12 pm
I think that my really good friend Abbie has an eating disorder. Here are some of the things I see her doing that are signs of bulimic :
-barely eating anything'
-always going to the bathroom after eating something little
-she wears BIG baggy clothes
-she is dizzy alot
Im pretty sure that she needs help. Ive tried talking to her about it and she says she doesnt have an eating disorder and that she doesnt need help. Im really concerned about her, Ive tried telling her that too but she just gets mad and wont talk to me till I apoligize,
Please help me really fast.
Im accepting any and all advice !!!!
Thank you
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i really don't knoww.
Posted Friday February 15 2008, 9:49 pm
16/f . i have these 2 best friends, love em to deathhh but lately, idunno. they make me in a bad mood or something.
i dont have lots of friends i hang out with besides them. tonite was like the first friday we could all hang out right after school since my one friend was done with track (usually she wouldnt get home till like 5-6) but we didnt even hang out right after school. so i went home, was bored until like 430. oh and the one who didnt have track, was going to her grandparents house at 7, well that is what she said. so like 430 they randomly arrive at my house, we go & eat food, talked, it was nice. we were done by 530ish and decide what we're doing after. but then track friend talks to her mom & they are leavi...
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she is making me miserable
Posted Friday February 15 2008, 9:43 pm
Okay, like 2 weeks ago I was very popular. I was bffl with the most popular person. The only reason I was popular was because of her. We have been friends since kindergarton. But then, this rumor spread out around me. It was that I had been talking mad shit about my bffl. She found out and didnt believe me when I tried to tell her that it was just a rumor and that i never said that. but, she doesnt believe me. Ive tried everything. Now, she is turning basically the whole school against me. I have like 2 friends left. My old friends keep calling and leaving me messages saying that im ugly and i dont have a life. they making me miserable.
at night i just cry, but that didnt get the pain out so ive started snapping hair bands on...
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I am always so jealous and insecure
Posted Friday February 15 2008, 6:44 am
My best friend is so much prettier,smarter,and BETTER than I am. She is so popular she has guys hitting on her ALL THE TIME. She is forever complaining about boys being all flirty with her. I am jealous because she makes the best grades,and she is so beautiful,tall,slim,and such. I'm always jealous of her,and I must show it because she sometimes gets mad at me for it. I get all untalkactive,gloomy,and uncaring when I feel that way, which is so different from my outgoing,active,extrovert,and happy friend. She has the nicest parents,and she has everything.She is friends with everyone. Also,my crush for three years just broke my heart rejecting me by saying, "Eww,gross,not you,you're so ugly and fat." Then,I found out that he liked m...
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Moving on. WARNING: LONG.
Posted Friday February 15 2008, 5:28 am
This is long, but you have to know the full story before you can tell me how to move on.
"Rachel"=Me
"Holly"=Ex best friend
"Billie"=Friend
"Dale"=Guy that tore us apart.
Fake names, obviously.
Okay, so I had this friend for a couple of years. Let's call her..."Holly" but be warned that isn't her real name.
Me and Holly were best friends from about early 2005 until about a month ago. We'd talk everyday, and we got on really well. We had a few 'petty' fights which lasted 5 minutes. It was a pretty good friendship, I'll admit it here but not to everyone else.
About December last year she made friend...
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eating disorder
Posted Thursday February 14 2008, 8:49 pm
My best friend has an eating disorder. Her cousin gave her a list of all the symptoms for an eating disorder. She showed me the list and out of 32 my friend had 26 of them. I was really worried. I asked her how long it has been going on and she said almost 2 years! She said it was getting worse because now she is making herself puke about 3 times a day! She said she knows it is bad and she can't stop. She feels she has to make herself puke. She barely eats too. And when she does she pukes it up. She is going to the doctor tonight but she said she might not tell him. She told me not to tell her dad. What should i do? I really want her to be healthy. Please help me out!
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Posted Thursday February 14 2008, 6:52 pm
ok i have like the awesomest friends in the world and some of them are boys and i guess thats y my mom won't let me but she wont let me go to the movies with any of them and its not that i dont want her there but my mom came with me once and my friends were like what the heck why did you bring your gay mom and stuff like that.
wat should i do?
i really want to spend time with them
they are amazing!
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She really hurt me but now she is hurt
Posted Thursday February 14 2008, 2:16 am
Okay, first. I am 17/f. Last October my best friend,lets call her Katie, stated dating this boy, lets call him Mike. Mike is the biggest jerk in the history of the world and he completely hates me for no reason at all. Since she fell head over heels for him we stopped hanging out and talking since then pretty much, not including the fights every once in awhile. Okay well, so. Supposedly they’re completely in love, although he calls her a slut, treats her horribly, and breaks up with her every other week. Last weekend she found out he is moving this weekend halfway across the country. Messed up, right? So, I really want to talk to her and make sure she is okay because supposedly she hasn’t eaten in days and is like totally depressed. I ...
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Ex Best Friend I miss him!
Posted Thursday February 14 2008, 2:07 am
Basically I was sent a text saying that My best friend didn't want to talk anymore. I was saddened its been about 4-5 months that we have not talked. Funny though because he still wears a shirt i bought him and he is always staring at me. No matter what he looks at me and last semester asked someone how i was doing. Another he told that i did a great job on my project and funny thing i was in his class. i don't know what to do.. he held the door today for me but i used the other door. im confused as to what to do...i wrote him a note but im not sure if i should even bother giving it to him somehow...or sending it via email. whats a girl to do? I miss him and I have frequent panic attacks.
-Lost Apart of My Heart
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awkwardness
Posted Wednesday February 13 2008, 8:48 pm
how do i get rid of it? its becoming easier for me to be myself and stuff but sometimes i feel akward and shy. especially around really outgoing people.. i mean normally im not shy and sometimes i wanna just be myself around people like that but then i get like stiff but i dont want them to think im a boring person its just.. idk like some friends i have they are outgoing and stuff but i met them in outgoing situations.. its hard to like get to know someone in the middle of class.. like im trying to concentrate at work and like "making new friends" while getting some info from a book then putting it on paper like.. its hard to do all that and socialize like im not stressed about my work and stuff. and its a bummer because some of...
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high school, being yourself, self esteem [LONG]
Posted Wednesday February 13 2008, 7:32 pm
15/f
umm so ive been trying to be nicer to people lately, and ive been speaking my mind a lot more recently. however, even though i like the fact that i speak my mind, i dont like the part about how ive been nicer to people. i know crazy right? i feel like im..idk, begging for friends i guess. and this feeling just makes my heart feel kinda heavy with um..regret? regret that i cant just be nice to people and not feel like im begging for friends.. i guess.
and people have been nicer to me lately, even people who i would never expect to be nice [mostly the "semipopular" and "popular" group] and i just feel like..I DONT DESERVE THIS! i dont know why i feel like i dont deserve it. i guess its be...
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best friends no more....or were we ever
Posted Wednesday February 13 2008, 6:08 pm
alright so there is this guy...and welll he was so called my best friend..and i knew he really liked me..and i sorta liked him off and onn..and well..i lead him on at times..but i ALWAYS there for him and everything but there were times when he would get all made at me and i would beg him badly to be my friend and eveuntally be "best friends" again...
but recetnly i went on a cruise and well..did some stuff and i guess he found out..and before i left he called me adn told me tht he liked me alot and aall i did was ingore it..but he was always in the back of my mind..
and so its been like about 2-3 months sine we talked and i finally talked to him..and i was saying how much it really sucks to not know what i did and ...
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Reinventing
Posted Wednesday February 13 2008, 4:51 pm
ok so i am in the 2nd semester of my freshmen year in high school... i Right now i am very shy and am not making too many new friends i think it might be because i dont feel comfortable with my appearance so i am looking foward to sophmore year because inevitably there will be new kids who dont know me in my classes.. i want to reinvent myself and lokk really good next year and be more outgoing. i am afraid that no one will be willing to see me differently Do you think that reinventing myself will work or peoples opinions are set in stone?
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Stalking best friend.
Posted Wednesday February 13 2008, 4:05 pm
I have sorta a problem. I'm 16 male, and my best friend thinks I stalk their myspace. Everyday when I go on, i visit his myspace; I'm actually kinda jealous so I look at the comments that girls post and just read them. he confronted me about it, because he has a tracker.I said to him " no I was just bored and made a lame exuse" I mean Im not a stalker, I guess Im just jealous. So now he deleted me off of myspace and didnt really say anything to me at school today. What can I do? I see him tomorow for a study hall where we can talk. Uhm, I also have an issue where he wants to come over my house, but im kinda ambarrased to show him it because I dont have what he has, and im afriad he'll laugh or make fun of me. Wev'e known each oth...
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