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life
Posted Thursday December 28 2006, 11:23 pm
all my life I have been judged by so many people. Im a nice person. I dont like being mean to people unless their mean to ME... I alway thought I looked pretty when I looked in a mirror, but sadly, nobody agrees with me. Everyone thinks im ugly! This ass named CJ is spending the night at our house and its only because he's on vacation from California and we have known him since kindergarden.... I was a stupid retarded little girl in Elementry school... I didnt know any better. I was always chasing guys for fun.... and now that we are in High School, I thought I had changed so much from then, but CJ said I havnt changed at all, and just now, I was upstairs watching tv, and Colton started a fight with me about how a chopper was a motercycle a...
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trying to impress
Posted Thursday December 28 2006, 11:54 am
My sister has been trying so hard to impress everyone lately. She isn't even herself anymore, and she hasn't been for almost 2 years (she's 14). She spends days on myspace, facebook, and aim. She's become a typical fake teenaged girl who says "like" and "hilarious" every other word.
How do I deal with her?
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I need yr advice ??
Posted Tuesday December 26 2006, 7:40 pm
It's the first time to contact you but I really need yr advice here specially I need such advice from a mature female. I'm 26 years old from Egypt and I'm in love with a women 25 years my senior. She is from TX. We first met in a chat room and we were very nice to each other. Actually I met her after some emotional troubles and depression I was stuck in before our meet with 12 months or more but after I met this women I really found a life should be lived and she helped me to heal my soul. We know each other since last March 2006 and after 3 months we both felt that chemistry between us and she was the first telling me that she die at me and she loves me (as I think), and I also was feeling the same way. She only has one 23 years old daugth...
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Posted Tuesday December 26 2006, 2:55 pm
I know that this a problem I'm having, but I think that it has more to do with my mom because she keeps sticking words in my mouth. yesturday, she told me that all she wanted for christmas was for me to wear this stupid shirt that i hate more than you can ever imagine. i told her no and i told her that it's silly. i know its really mean and its not true but i told her that i didn't get what i waanted for christmas. and i was just mad at her because i told her i hate that shirt. so, she assumed that i was talking aboout school because i do hate my school. and then we got into a huge fight. today, i have my period and i was crying because i get really bad cramps, and she told me that i was really crying about school. i'm tired of her sticking...
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Mothers and Daughters
Posted Monday December 25 2006, 10:25 pm
I want to know how daughters in regards to their mothers stop overreacting to things their mother says to them? I noticed (and I do it as well) that daughters (mostly the ones in their 20's, 30's and up) feel as if they have to justify themselves to their mothers. How do we stop. Examples: (1) A mother questioning her daughters knowledge; (2) making the daughter feel as if she still isnt mature enough to handle things.
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friends
Posted Monday December 25 2006, 6:22 pm
16/f
okay so theres this girl kayla and me and her are best friends right? well weve always been close with this other girl tiff, but now we've been getting closer with her and i dont know..it doesnt feel like me and kayla are as close anymore... it feels like they dont want to hang out with me as much.. (but maybe thats in my head? and maybe im the one with the problem idk...) but what are some things to .."put a spark back into the friendship?"
anything helps.
thanks.
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cant stand family
Posted Monday December 25 2006, 6:06 pm
Ok i cant stand my family. they make me want to kill myself. First off. my little brother of 11 years old, is a selfish little brat, who crys and crys about everything. and if he doesnt get his way he flips out. my sister of 15 is always pointing out the bad things about me, she is always yelling at me, and always makeing me feel like crap. My older brother of 17 is always beating on everything and needs to take anger mangament classes. My mom is always telling me, how i should feel about things, and yells at me for things i dont even do. Please tell me, what do i do?
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birthday plans.PLEASE HELP
Posted Monday December 25 2006, 4:33 am
my little sister Dana is turning 13 early next month and we don't know how to celebrate it but we want it to be special. she'd do a sleepover but our mom won't allow it. she's thinking of a party but she dosen't know what theme to use. what do you guys suggest? please help. thanks in advanced.
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Family/friends Forcing Opinions
Posted Sunday December 24 2006, 11:29 pm
Ok I dont mind if people (mother, fathers, sisters, brothers, etc) have their own opinions but I dont like them forcing them on someone else (meaning me). Any suggestion(s) on how I not get upset when someone (meaning a family member) does that to me?
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Moms hurting my feelings.
Posted Saturday December 23 2006, 6:18 pm
I'm getting really frustruated with my mom. Everytime I don't get invited to a party or some big event my mom goes off asking me a million questions about why I wasn't invited. She rubs it in more and more that I wasn't invited in the first place. Then when I ask her to stop, she goes off about how dramatic I am and thats probably why I wasn't invited.
What should I do?
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mom's weight
Posted Saturday December 23 2006, 5:18 pm
My mom used to be very thin. Not too thin, but a little below average. Now she's gaining weight. She's a little above average now..and it makes me sad every time I see her eat something because I see it happening. She won't exercise or diet though. She cares, but she doesn't care enough to do anything about it.
Is there any way that I can do anything about this? She is very sensitive and would be offended if I mentioned anything about her weight.
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Christmas Presents
Posted Saturday December 23 2006, 3:41 pm
15/f
For Christmas I was planning on making my parents a clay bowl in my art class at school and giving it to them as a gift. Now we had a school closure for a few days (due to a storm) and I wasn't able to finish the bowl in time even though I've been working on it for weeks.
All I have to give to my parents on Christmas morning is a set of wine glasses (which I got them last year as well but they all broke).
I don't have a job or any money to buy them something else. What can I do? My friends are all giving their parents tons of gifts and things. I feel like I should have tried harder and gotten them more.
What can I do? And should I feel this way?
Thank you
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my first time to the gynecologist
Posted Saturday December 23 2006, 3:13 pm
My mom wants me to visit a gynecologist...but I'm scared...(and I'm only 14!)..
Will my doctor tell my mom that I'm not a virgin??
...I dont want my mom to know yet... because I am too young for it...and she won't trust me!!
Does my mom have to be in the room with me??
And since she wants me to go does this mean she thinks I'm sexually active?(even though I am)
I'm scared...HELP!! thanks.
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Out of it
Posted Saturday December 23 2006, 1:28 pm
I have two brothers, one is in high school and one is in collage, i am in middle school. Because of the large age gap, my brothers are great friends but i am left in the dust. Even when im talking directly at one, if the other one comes in, he completely looses focus of me totalk to him. Most of the time, i'll be talking and then someone will inturupt me without saying im sorry or anything and just continue with what they are saying. When i do that i get in alot of trouble for being"rude". I just dont think its fair that they can be so rude and inconsiterate to me. Can someone please tell me if i am overeacting? I mean they are my brothers and i love them to death, so why cant they love me back?
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my mom is confusing me
Posted Saturday December 23 2006, 12:48 pm
lately my mom's been acting strange. she run's more errands, goes back and forth cleaning the house, and is nervous when she cooks dinner. im so confused! when i ask her whats wrong she doesn't say anything and walks away. what is going on? no, my parents aren't getting a divorce, trust me.
-Patrice
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worried about christmas
Posted Saturday December 23 2006, 12:45 pm
christmas always stresses me out...I have two moms(gay and separated) so me and my older sis who's 16 go back and forth. She spends more time with one mom than the other, but she loves both familys. I stay equal time at both.
anyways, she's really picky although not materialistic or greedy. at christmas I'm worried that the mom who she doesn't live with as much got her some presents she won't like. It's hard because she doesn't spend as much time with her and also doesn't have as much money. So basically what i'm worried about is that my mom will get her feelings hurt because my sister isn't really enthusiastic when she opens her presents, and she'll think she didn't get as good stuff as our other mom.
should i talk t...
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dad problems
Posted Friday December 22 2006, 4:01 pm
well this question isn't really about dad problems more about jail problems. Here's where the story starts, my dad is in jail for a DUI, he didn't go on house arrest well I tried to go see him yesterday at the jail and there are all these regulations and stuff. Like you have to get there an hour early. Anyway we get there and wait in the line for like an hour and get up to the desk and they said that it was all filled up for the rest of the night. It was my grams b-day so she wanted to see him. anyway what should I do if I get put in that position again? Thanks in advance.
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is 30 too old?
Posted Friday December 22 2006, 2:17 pm
I am 15 years old and my grandmother (50) is expecting me to haev kids at 16 but I feel that is too young.i want to have kids at 30 years old but my parents thinks it is old. so can anyone tell me if it is?I really want to enjoy my 20's adn have fun.so thanks for your answers!
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My Father
Posted Wednesday December 20 2006, 8:13 pm
My dad has yelled and cussed since I was born. For example, last night his sister called and I went over to him and I had the phone in my hand. I said, "Dad? Do you want to talk to your sister? Here's the phone." And he ignored me, so I put it down and was walking up the stairs, and he heard his sister leaving a message. He ran over to the phone, turned to me, and yelled, "YOU IDIOT! WHY DIDN'T YOU ANSWER IT?" And I didn't know what to say because I had asked him if he wanted to talk to her, but he didn't answer. I coudn't cry in front of him. I did once and he started screaming at me for it. Do I even have a reason to be upset for him saying that to me? I don't know. Sometimes I feel so stupid for getting upset over thi...
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Oh............... no
Posted Wednesday December 20 2006, 7:01 pm
I love my sister... sooooooo much..
But there is a teensy weensy problem:
She is EXTREMELY flirtatious. I have a loyal boyfriend, thank God, but my best friend, Layne, and her boyfriend, Connor, came over... and...things got a little heated up between my Connor and my sister. Layne and I were watching a movie, but Connor went into the kitchen to make popcorn or something and my sister was there so...
And when Layne and Connor were leaving my house, myy sister came and kissed him good-bye! On the lips! Right in front of Layne!
Is Connor loyal? Or did my sister do this against Connor's will?? Layne is so upset and Connor is mad at ME for some reason. They're both my friends and I don't know what to do....
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