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friends
Posted Saturday February 23 2008, 12:35 pm
ok i have a friend and she is my friend somedays but other days shes a really big b***h. i talk bad about her behind her back with another one of my really close friends.
well this friend of mine ahs a boyfriend and he is the one i liked last year, but my friend hated him (last year) and now they're going out. she is so obbsesed with him. and plus before she was dating this guy she was really good friends with this other guy but now shes says tons of crap about him for no reason. i dont understand her. and plus she talks bad about my other friends and me sometimes. but she can be a really good friend. what can i do with her? ignore her or be the best friend i can be?? idk
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my best friend & starting fights.
Posted Friday February 22 2008, 7:35 pm
16/f...my best friend lately has been the cause of many arguments and fights between her, myself, and our other best friend (i'll refer to her as A). however, she doesn't realize this. instead she explains to me that, i don't ever stand up for myself and say anything to A.
for example, we have been off from school this whole past week, and it was suggested that we go to the mall on thursday, which i didn't know about (i had thought they suggested friday). so yesterday evening i go online, and my best friend is online (not A) and seems in a really bad mood when i start talking to her. she explains to me that A didn't call or text her all day about hanging out and never follows through with her plans and is mad. at first when ...
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bragging
Posted Friday February 22 2008, 5:43 pm
ok my birthday is in 2 days and i am really excited about it. So tonight my 2 friends and i are hanging out. they said it will be a little party.just a little get together. but i was telling my one friend H that i was going to wear a pin that said birthday girl on it just to be cute. and she said that would be bragging. i said no it won't because everyone has a birthday and i am happy about mine. and my other friend S had a crown on when it was her birthday and it was 1 day before. and H didn't get mad at that.now she is mad at me and i don't want to go now. Do you really think i was bragging? and how can i tell her that it is not bragging? i need help and fast!
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i need advice
Posted Friday February 22 2008, 11:58 am
i have a friend shes my mate of 7 yrs online pals then we meet face to face 4 yrs ago our familys meet i just want to know i thought friendship was a 2 way thing were u could say we once were like sisters then in the last 2 yrs shes changed and its allways me ringing to check on her n her family and then she always has excuses when i ring there it hurts like hell as she is the only friend i "trusted" and now i feli like im a used rag can anyone understand and help me do i just let friendship go as i cant handle the hurt its like i get kicked in face all time now please can someone help with advice for me im glosing it and i cant stop crying as it hurts me s much
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Keep a friend or not
Posted Friday February 22 2008, 12:45 am
I have this friend A and we have been friends for 2 years and it was her birthday and i asked her if she was having a birthday party and she said no soi said ok. Then the next day i see her handing out invatations to all my friends except for me. Then when I asked ehr about it she said she was handing them out for her friend. Everyday in science she was talking about her "friends" party party and how it was a mall party. And before her birthday she was talking about having a mall party. I never bought it. Turns out she did have a birthday party at the malland didn't invitebut invited our other friend who was only friends with us for 1 month. SHe knows that I know about her party and is treating me different tring to get me to forg...
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Where can i meet people?
Posted Thursday February 21 2008, 11:45 pm
I want to talk to guys my age (14) and be like dirty talk, because i cant get a bf and i get horney sometimes, but i dont want to show my pic. Any websites or things? Thanks.
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opening up
Posted Thursday February 21 2008, 10:10 pm
How do you get a friend to open up to you?
Ive told her im always here for her if she needs someone to talk to and stuff but i just cant get her to break down to me.
Any suggestions?
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Exclusion.
Posted Thursday February 21 2008, 2:52 am
Okay well for a while I've had a group of friends and we've been hanging out.
Then a little while later, I made friends with another girl and introduced her to this group.
We then hung out together a few times and spoke online. For a while we were planning this sleepover and then they had it without me :S At the new girl's house. I just shrugged and let it go. They didn't let me know about it, they hid it from me. I found out though...they still don't know I did though. This was a while ago.
Also one day a few days after that me, new girl and another girl were supposed to hang out. Other girl couldn't come so new girl was like to me 'Oh since she isn't coming I'll hang out with my sister instead'...
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shes dating a jerk
Posted Wednesday February 20 2008, 9:38 pm
my best friend is dating this guy who is terrible to her. they have been off and on for years, but they always break up because he cheats on her all the time, sometimes with several girls at once and/or she is cheating on him. they would break up and my friend would say shes never getting back together with him and that hes a loser and she doesn't know what she sees in him, but a few days later they're back together. he hangs out with our group of friends all the time, he does drugs and drinks, he talks about how he's always in trouble, and every other word is the f word. none of us can stand him, and we tell my friend that she can do so much better [she couldn't possibly do worse], but she always defends him and gets mad at us. she has a h...
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she's my friend, but shes annoying as ****
Posted Wednesday February 20 2008, 6:18 pm
15/sophomore
alright theres this girl who ive been friends with since last year. she was new last yr and i felt bad for her so i talked to her. and now she has new friends & she's fit in i guess.
well the problem is..SHES ANNOYING! (duh haha)
~you can skip this part if you want~
+ she can be kind of obnoxious, & sometimes i feel like she tries too hard to be confident, but idk if she's trying or if thats just the way she is. either way its irritating.
+ also if you get into a convo with her she ONLY TALKS ABOUT HERSELF like omg. i try to hint to her that i want to talk about other things but whenever i do she just stops the conversation. also she isnt a very good listener.<...
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bff's ex
Posted Tuesday February 19 2008, 9:53 pm
one of my best friends just broke up with her boyfriend and they don't get along at all. i've been talking to her alot about it and him so i kinda have both sides of the story. ever since him and i have become pretty good friends and he sorta flirts with me, i don't know if he means to but he definetly does it. when im with him i think i like him a little but when im not i feel terrible because how can i date my best friends ex. especially when shes not cool with it? any advice.
thanks.
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Friend actin' bogous...but i still love her
Posted Tuesday February 19 2008, 9:09 pm
Ok So... I have this friend. Her and I have been friends for like 5-6 years. The thing is...We were like a group of 6, then we narrowed down to a group of 3 for various reasons. I always knew I wasn't her best friend... but I thought that I was at least her next best friend. You know it was always her me and the other girl hanging and talking and helping each other etc. I mean we have been through thick and thin you know what I mean. So her friendship with her best friend...we'll call her L, started getting rough...it was getting rough for like, well since we all started being friends that shit has been rough. Anyway, it went up and down and the progressively got worse. So her and L got into it, and then she stoped talking to me. Slowly at ...
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friends
Posted Tuesday February 19 2008, 8:26 pm
i have friends who don't act like they are really my friends for example one girl told some other people her "secret" then one girl is telling me she is like i can't tell anyone. it's like they don't trust me, i am boring or i wera a scarf for religious reasons,my sis has friends who trust her and she doesn't wear her scarf i had the same problem with me in my last school even though i didn't wear a scarf.I can't also seem to make any friends because i don't hv any thing to talk about and i am kind of shy!
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groups of friends
Posted Monday February 18 2008, 11:42 pm
so jen and i have been friends since like 1st grade, not best friends just friends. then in middle school 6th and 7th grade we didnt really talk but we were still okay friends. 8th grade we had a few classes together and we became good friends. we sat together with morgan kelley and gina and the "lunch crew" had fun. we were all good friends except for jen and gina, jen didnt like gina for stupid reasons and eventually once high school came kelley kinda dropped out from my social life and now recently gina did. morgan doesnt like me but she is best friends with jen. well my best friend is abbie and abbie and i have only been best friends since 6th grade(were freshman now) we did everything together and everyone knew we were bestie...
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My Friend
Posted Monday February 18 2008, 10:44 pm
13/f
My friend who I was extremely close, we are/were best friends. She says she is my best friend. She doesn't show it. I see her about twice a week at church. Except I went over to her house every weekend. She has gotten bossy and just hits me sometimes when she gets mad. I have talked to her about it and she said she was sorry and she didn't realize what she was doing. She is an only child and spoiled too. She is acting like that again and I have stopped hanging around with her now. We haven't hung out in awhile and I am just confused. So any help would be appreciated thanks!
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Birthday ideas?
Posted Monday February 18 2008, 6:46 pm
So its my best friends 17th birthday in about 2 weeks, and we usually do something cute for each other. this year she wrote on my car windows with that paint stuff and tied balloons to it. and last year i sent her a teddy bear with a balloon tied to it in her locker (she goes to another school). so i was wondering if anyone has any cute, more original ideas? thanks :]
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my friend
Posted Monday February 18 2008, 1:37 pm
hi my friend thinks she is pregnant and i dont know what to do or to say to her and she is 1 of my best mates plz help me
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Too much of a nice girl?
Posted Monday February 18 2008, 10:41 am
In life, I like to be polite to everyone. This has become a problem because whenever I hang out with my guy friends. At least one of them starts to like me and think that I like them back. I really try not to act flirty but its getting to the point where I'm losing my guy friends after having to turn them down. Its really bothering me, I miss just being friends with them. What do I do?
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help! friend mad at me... why????????????? PLEASE READ!
Posted Sunday February 17 2008, 11:01 pm
Shes my bestfriend and she hates one of my other friends. My other friend wanted me to spend the night and i dint really want to so i called my bestfriend and she said she didnt care and that i should go then after leave her house and walk to my bestfriends. (they live close to eachother) So i did
and she was really mad when i called her at my friends house and was like "why did you guys block me??? etc" I told her we didnt but she was all biiitchy. Andso she talked to like 2 other friends about us. The part that makes me the most mad is that she didnt trust me?? like that ide block her and that i went to her house even though she said she didnt care!!! And she has spent the night at her house to but i didnt make a big deal...
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torn. so damn torn.
Posted Sunday February 17 2008, 10:36 pm
ok so i have 2 guy friends. and i like both of them a lot. A LOT, A LOT. and they both like me back, allegedly.
and so i really dunno which one to choose. i like them both equally. and i can see myself staying with both of them a real long time.
so how do i choose which one? cuz both seem pretty upset that i cant choose. and they both no that i like both. and im afraid that they are going to gain up on me one day and be all "choose between us, now!"
:(
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