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packing up
Posted Friday January 5 2007, 1:32 am
my mom told me to pack up my things because we will be moving out. So I don't really have much stuff in there so I am confused I feel like I don't know what to do. MY uncle will be coming over to help and she's probably going to be with him and I don't know how I am supposed to be. Help I'm confused I feel like I would just be hanging there waiting for my mom'm help which is what I don't want to happen. How do I get out of this embarrassing situation? Becuase right now I really hate my mom and her attitude towards me.
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my mom
Posted Friday January 5 2007, 12:47 am
I hate her she is more immature than me. She's age 40 something.I swear I just hate her. She hurts my feelings too much but for now I am stuck living with her even though I can move out. I hate it I feel so helpless and irritated. She's an emotional abuser now.I've told her my embarrasing secrets hoping that she would understand and help me but no she just used it to annoy me. I wish I was gone.
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Posted Thursday January 4 2007, 8:31 pm
my mom and older brother constantly tell me how i was a mistake and how i was the worst one and im only here because the condom broke. my mom even said if there was a chance to save my life, and the 2 dogs life, she'd save the dogs. my brother is constantly calling me names, ugly, etc. and when i was younger he used to hit me when my mom went to work. not like little hits, like punching. now he just verbally abuses me. my real dad isnt in my life, the memory of him is fading in my mind considering i only saw him one time. my stepdad is extremely lazy and is annying. i used to just accept what they said to me, and how my brother hit me but i cant anymore. i fight back-ish. i'd rather have my mom hit me than talk to me like that. i kinda edge...
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My Mom
Posted Thursday January 4 2007, 8:27 pm
My mom is punishing me because i got an In danger of failing in math. She told me No Comp. for 2 weeks, I dont really want that so I go on anyway. She caught me on and started cursing about how she doesnt trust me and how I "ripped her heart out" and how I'm disrespecting her, I had plans with my best firend tomorrow which she's making me cancel and she's just mad. I don undestand why she has to be on my back about it, she should just let me be. She talks about how she doesnt want the punishment to get bad, but she's making it bad, no one is forcing her to make things this bad, she's doing it on her own.
What can I do?!
-Jordan
13, Female.
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sex..
Posted Wednesday January 3 2007, 6:06 pm
i want to have sex when is it safe to have sex and i want a baby i want one. But i dont know when is it safe not to have a baby because my boyfriend isnt sure if he likes them.
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Is my aunt being shady?
Posted Wednesday January 3 2007, 11:39 am
i got in touch with my dad last year after 8 years. one of my aunts (she's 28 i'm 18) use to call me all the time and w'e talk. she made me feel special i couldn't wait for the phone to ring! now the other day i called her and she said to call her the next day. i asked her y and she said i'm going to forget. i was bothered by this because she told me that whenever she wnats to tlk to ppl she makes time for them. she took me back and i don't think she should have told me that. i feel that since a year has passed she's acting different. when i first got my cell phone the first few days before it got messed up she never called. she would only say i'm going to call u tomorrow then i'd end up calling her instead and she'd always call her bf on t...
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emotional abuse
Posted Tuesday January 2 2007, 12:36 am
I am hurt that my mother is emotionally abusing me. What can I do since I am really not independent yet. I hate her. She always sounds like she is humiliating me. Makes me so mad. I hate her I hate her I hate her all I do after wards is cry and be scared of her. I would live in a shelter if things doesn not get better I don't think it will get better I'm tired of searching and calling hotlines and they don't really help! SHe never will understand everytime she gets mad at me and she does this thing that I'm am such a dumbass for getting mad at her. I hate her. I was peeing in the toilet and she expects me to talk to her still.
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16 year old nephews birthday
Posted Monday January 1 2007, 3:12 pm
My nephew is turing 16 this month. I was wondering if these gift ideas are ohkay,a dn if you can think of somthing better..
i got him a hoodie that says bowling on it since he bowls for his school, and it has the year he graudates and its really nice; and its somthing diffrent tthat ive never see n him wehre..
also i was considering getting him somthing else.. like.. i don't know. something.. like for his psp but i dont know anything about those.. so ideas would be nice..?
thanks a bundle.
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No money, no food....
Posted Monday January 1 2007, 11:40 am
I need so much help right now.
I'm on maternity leave, and my husband is out of work due to a hand injury. He spent money that he shouldn't have, and now we're broke.
Rent is due today, and I'm several hundred dollars short. The phone bill and electric bill are both overdue. Our fridge is empty except for condiments. My parents have been feeding our daughter, but we both haven't been eating. Our cars have no gas, and we can't afford more.
All the food banks in my area told me they're out of food and vouchers due to the holidays, and they don't know when they'll have more.
Someone please help me. We're hungry and we can't pay our bills.
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i can't just stop my life..
Posted Monday January 1 2007, 2:51 am
basically my sister who is 19 tells on EVERYTHING that i do. if she doesnt like it, she'll find a flaw in it, tell my mom and i'll be banned from something i love...like mcr -- my life depends on them and their music is so moving. i just love them. but my sister said that they were morbid and all the bs and now i can't listen to them. which led to a much bigger mess. but she listens to evanescence with me who talks about bleeding, being raped, dying etc. yet since SHE likes evanescence, she won't say anything about it. so it's pretty much my sitster ALWAYS telling on everything i do if she doesn't like it. i wish that she would just get out fo my business and stop telling on me. i'm 14 by the way. well theres this kid named John who is pret...
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My family is a homophobe..like woah
Posted Monday January 1 2007, 2:45 am
This is really really iffy. My family obviously thinks that: homosexuals are a disgrace and they're ruining the world and that they should die before they spread their "diseas" to other people and I know that's complete bs. I'm in 9th grade and my friends who I'm going to talk about are in 9th and 10th grade. I'm bi and I have about 10 bi friends and 3 gay friends. I can't tell my family the truth about all my friends because they'll say "You are not to associate with them in any way shape or form..stay away from them" etc and I won't be able to hang out with them anymore. My best friend who is gay and I are really close along with my other gay friend. I can't go over to their houses at all alon ebecause my mom thinks th...
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HELP
Posted Monday January 1 2007, 12:15 am
How do I convince my friend Rebecca that her mom does not think she looks drawn any more and she does not have to gain weight. On August 25, 2006 Rebeccas mom said: "Rebecca you look drawn, you look very thin, but you dont have to gain just dont lose." However,on September 2, 2006 her mother said: "Rebecca you look good you no longer look drawn dont forget you havent taken a vacation in 2 years." But Rebecca is still thinking now in January 2007 that her mother thinks that Rebecca looks drawn.
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Friends Relatives and Looks
Posted Sunday December 31 2006, 11:14 pm
This is also for people 30 and above. Do you think your friends, relatives (mothers, father, sisters, brothers, aunts, uncles, etc) remember what you looked like (if you were thin, fat, your hair was frizzy/straight, etc) when you were in your teens, or 20's and above. Or your friends, relatives (mothers, father, sisters, brothers,
aunts, uncles, etc) only know what you look like now. And why do you feel this way.
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controlling my life ( this is long )
Posted Sunday December 31 2006, 10:58 pm
ok seriously my parents are trying to control my life! i hate it! there in there 50's and 50 years ago they didnt really have all the things that teens go through now...what i mean is they didnt have alot of peer presure and all that good stuff (not) anyway they think they know whats its like to be a teenager in this time period..everything they say is like something you would hear in a 50's movie. ive tried telling them they dont know whats going on in teenage world and there like yeah we know more than you think...tonight my best friend for 9 years was haveing a little party and my mom wouldnt let me go because she didnt trust the people there...there like not letting me live my life. there not letting me be a kid. i hate it. so my questi...
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Sick of it.
Posted Sunday December 31 2006, 8:10 pm
I'm sick of being the youngest in the family. I get picked on by my older siblings (well, only my brother, really) and I never get any respect, nor do I get taken seriously. I'm only 15, but my siblings are old enough to drink, so they can go to bars together and all of that, while I'm the one left out. And if I do hang out with them, I always feel out of place. And usually, my brother just makes fun of me (he says he's joking, but it still hurts) whenever I do one little thing wrong. He even said once when he saw me on Advicenators, "You can't give advice, you're only 15!" or something like that. It sucks feeling like an outcast in your own family. What can I do?
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MEXICO!
Posted Sunday December 31 2006, 12:00 pm
Okay, so I havent been on vacation in awhile and last night at a family christmas party, my Uncle told everyone he's inviting all of us to go to MEXICO for his 50th birthday :] I got really excited, but we'd be going March 12-18 which is during school. My spring break isnt until the end of April so my Mom said no. But I really, reallly want to go! How do I convince her we should go? She seems set in her decision.
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how to see someone in jail...
Posted Saturday December 30 2006, 10:22 am
my friend is in jail and i really want to go see him but i have no idea how...my parents would never let me go visit him but i have friends who are 18+. do i need someone to be 18 years or older to go with me? do i need to make an appointment? and how much trouble could i get in if i lied and told the officers i was his sister just to see him?
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baby brother..
Posted Friday December 29 2006, 7:40 pm
13/f
I am always stuck watching my baby brother. He just turned 11 months [today]. I get so freaking stressed out all of the time because of him. I realize that he is just a baby, but you have no idea on how much its breaking me down. I don't even get to hang out with my friends as much as I used to. He bangs on my laptop when I'm sitting on the couch and he even shut off my laptop by picking at my power button and shutting it off while I was typing a paper that took ONE HOUR TO TYPE. I mean, I realize that he's a baby, but he drives me insane. It's not easy when you're 13 years old and just want to enjoy being a teenager. I constantly have to take on responsibilities of a 20 year old by watching him.
I watch h...
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My Lil Bro H8s Me
Posted Friday December 29 2006, 4:23 pm
13/f
my little brother is serously adroable
hes 5 and hes into football and stuff
but he dosent like me. he loves my brother tho!! wat can i do to make him not hate me? like little stuff like playing with him. and what sgouldent i do??
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No Trust!!
Posted Thursday December 28 2006, 11:52 pm
I think my mom doesnt trust me. Everytime I go on the computer she says, "Who are u talking to????" Even if I am just on the web. If I sign off of AIM she thinks I am hiding something from her. She knows that it annoys me, but she does it anyway. What should I do?
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