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new friends
Posted Monday March 3 2008, 6:42 am
My friends do the exact same thing every single day its so annoying.
I need new friends, they tell me to shuttup all the time, and theyre nice and all, but so preidctable it just gets boring, im the only spice to our group. Now i have other friends...but itll be weird if i just waltz right up to them and their friends you know? But i dont just want these people, i want friends from all over the place!
how do i do that without seeming desperate and without throwing my current friends in the dust?
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i feel so akward.....
Posted Monday March 3 2008, 1:37 am
15/f.... i have this friend who i met in the september of 2007 in gym class. it was like an instant friendship and we got along so well. we never faught or anything, the only difference we had was that she was a year older than me but it was not even a big deal. we joked and could talk for forever. then out of nowhere a few weeks ago an akwardness started between us everytime we spoke and it was obvious. our conversation would run dry within a few minutes. i try to keep the conversation going but i don't know, it seems like something about me is bugging her or like she always has something on her mind. i dont know what to do because she's a real good friend of mine but i can't even talk to her anymore without feeling like a stranger...i need to know what to do.
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friends?
Posted Sunday March 2 2008, 11:19 pm
ok so ive known this guy named mike for about two years now. When we met we constantly flirted ect. and became really good friends. I thought things were going great but was devastated when i noticed after a while he got a girl friend. I didnt care he had a girlfriend because i know we both connected and cared for eachother so i acted as if she didnt exsist. He would constantly invite me places but my mom wouldnt let me go so i lead him on and never showed up. =/ I didnt want to tell him it was because of my mom i didnt go. After some time i guess he got fed up. We slowly stopped talking. I recently im'ed him and said i missed talking to him. which i really do. Before i signed off i told him that i wish he wouldnt be a stranger anymore. Th...
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Everyones falling apart
Posted Sunday March 2 2008, 7:17 pm
So im in my last year of middle school and as you can imagine everyone cant wait to get out. Not only are people itching to leave but there also trying to find new friends...groups are separating and i don't no were to go...some friends hate over ones and everyone has become people i barely even recognize. I dot want to get swiped away in this gossipy situation but then what else is there to do? People are separating and i new this would happen but now that its here im confused on my place.
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I don't know if I should forgive him.
Posted Sunday March 2 2008, 3:54 am
My boyfriend's friend kept poking fun at my boyfriend. It's really complicated, but to make it simple. Boyfriend didn't believe me about something, friend kept making fun of something that I did over a year ago even when I corrected him not so long after it had happened, then he made fun of me because I kept avoiding telling him off. I just didn't want to be a bitch about it.
But then I got tired of my boyfriend lecturing me about not defending him when I did. He just didn't believe me.
So I sent his friend an email. I insulted him, told him to knock it off, and made fun of his own disorder!
It just really hurt me to find out his friend kept making fun of him AND he was doing it on purpose to ...
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how tos ...
Posted Saturday March 1 2008, 6:31 pm
how can i get a guy to fall for me and to ask me out
but the problem is ive been single for so long that i dont know how to get back in the game and another thing is once i know a guy likes me i stop liking them so how can i change that
i dont know what to do because im to scared to get back in the game you know ??
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Depression and Stereotyping
Posted Saturday March 1 2008, 5:25 pm
13/m
Ive had depression for about a year and i have reached my breaking point. I constantly feel that my place in this world should be filled by a more worthy individual. I'm always paranoid and stressed even over the most insignificant things. I take medication but it isn't working that well. Mt school situation isn't much better. I'm constantly hassled for my appearance and the lack of male friends i have. I have trust issues as well which would fall with paranoid. Any advice helps on the subject..... thank you.
-Dakota
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Me and this guy are JUST friends
Posted Saturday March 1 2008, 11:03 am
I really need help! Me and this guy, lets call him X, are like buds, but everyone teases me, especially this one guy, lets call him B, about us being in love! it is driving me crazy!!!!!!! This guy,B, ALWAYS teases me and says,"hey, why dont you go to X?" Where is X? Why dont you go to him!" it is soo annoying i want to PUNCH HIM IN THE FACE. LITERALLY.(I cant though, school would get me in troulbe, ahaha.) anyways, I need something to get guy B off of my back!
PS
But... I really have a strong feeling that guy X like likes me.
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??
Posted Friday February 29 2008, 11:55 pm
this one kid in my science class, his dad died. what do i say, or do? i dont know him well. but i feel incredibly bad. i dont really want to make him a card. i think hugs are bettter. but do you think thatd be tottaly weird if i like hug him? like i just say i'm really sorry, and just kinda hug him. because i dk, if that happened to me, i think id just want to be hugged. uhm? what do you think i should do?
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Me And My Best Friends Are At An All Out War.
Posted Friday February 29 2008, 10:36 am
I have a boyfriend. Me and him have this notebook that we pass back and forth and when anyone askes to see it we always so no. Well, my friends went off on me saying that i was a fake friend, and then she claims that she tells me everything when she tells me nothing at all, well, then she gets all of my other friends mad at me and keeps pretnding like she's innocent, but she's far from it. I have a really REALLY big secret that i could tell everyonethat could really hurt her. I don't Know if I am better off without her as a friend, or not, or if i should tell her big secret. Please Help Me!
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BEST friend or should i say soon to be EX best friend?
Posted Friday February 29 2008, 3:48 am
alright so here's the deal; my best friend and i have been best friend's for about two year's
i have two best friend's & she never minded until now; i mean we hang out ALOT! i'd say i hang out with them the same- anyways's she has this "NEW" friend who i may can't stand one bit :/ she's 12 year's old; & were 15, i dont know it's like she is changeing on me like she never call's me & when i call her she's like UGH CAN I CALL YOU BACK & she never calls me back & the other day i had a big prob & i wanted to run to her about & she was just like oh. dang- LIKE WTF? & it isnt like to with her "NEW" friend & i wanted to hang out with her on friday but she said she couldnt chill then c...
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hate girls
Posted Wednesday February 27 2008, 7:56 pm
i hate girls and i wanna tell my friends that i hate girls but i don't want them getting the idea that i hate my friends so how should i word this?
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My best friend Pregnant what should i do?
Posted Wednesday February 27 2008, 10:43 am
Well i have two best friends and well made a small click Called ABC im A my moved away friend is B and C is my other best friend. and well B told C that she was moving a while back and she never told me. she told C and C told me to say good bye when she came and was ?!?!? okay.. then one of my other friend told me that she was tranfering..... :\ so that was one concern about our freindship. Well B told me a couple times she was pregnant while laughing so i didnt believe her. and well she txted C saying that she was pregnant for reals no joke.
Is she my friend even if she prefer to tells everyone else before me? or am i just flipping out bc she left? well what do i tell my friend about her being pregnant? when she has a loser boyfri...
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best friends birthday!!
Posted Tuesday February 26 2008, 11:32 pm
hi! ok so i need ur help!
my friend eli, her birthdays in a few weeks.
march 8th to be exact.
and i wnna get her a present. but like, a gag gift.
shes like, very sweet.
and shes so silly!!
she always wears black. black sweatshirts, black eyeliner. black converse.
shes like the anti-pink.
and im like the anti-black. haha
she hates barbies/girly girls.
she wore Black on valentines day!!
u cant do that. anyway, any ideas on what to get her? somthing thatll make her laugh. but somthing she can use. not somthing that will end up in the back of her closet.
thanx so much!!
xoxo,
L
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talking to popular people
Posted Tuesday February 26 2008, 10:15 pm
sometimes like i know i'll get along with a lot of them but like i get nervous and sometimes say stupid things i didnt mean. idk why cause im ok being independent and stuff and i find its easier for me to be more like myself around people who are shyer than me a lot..or other outgoing people that ive known for a while. like its easy to be totally like myself with new people, but as time goes on like its hard to be all fresh like that and just start being myself after i start to like become shy.. when i hate being that way cause im usually not like that around family and close friends. like on myspace there are some cool new people i talk to sometimes and like.. ok first of all how can i just drop this whole thing of looking at people based ...
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am i wrong
Posted Tuesday February 26 2008, 9:43 pm
ok am i wrong to want the truth from people? for the last 4 months people have been weird to me. im kindof not hanging out with my friends as much and not talking to them as much and stuff like that but they dont say anything about it, when i can tell that they are talking about me behind my back. they look at me with that look like they are thinking "fuck you" in their head at me, but i wish they would just TELL ME HOW THEY REALLY FEEL. whenever i see them they just make awkward small talk with me and if i bring up something cool that happened to me or something they dont comment and they are just like "oh. wow i just love this weather." because god forbid they state their opinion.
my friends have this t...
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to report or not to report?
Posted Tuesday February 26 2008, 8:18 pm
My friend (used to be best friend) that i've known since 6th grade, (in 11th now) just picked up smoking weed and thinks shes the coolest person in the world, but really she has no idea what shes doing.
and shes doing some pretty stupid crap. like driving while high, doing donuts and getting flat tires-- going to class high, growing it, and trying to get her friends who are starting to really dislike her into it. not to mention she doesnt know what kind shes smoking. what if its laced with iono salvia?
Shes hurting herself and her family and her friends. She got kicked out of the band program (which was her favorite but now weed is) and shes just going downhill. i wouldnt get so worried if it was some...
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Why?
Posted Tuesday February 26 2008, 7:04 pm
Me and a friend that I had been best friends with since third grade were in a huge fight for a year, & just yesterday we apologized to each other. We're friends again, but something doesn't feel right. I still feel guilty/nervous about something, but I can't figure out what it is. It's like I want to be her friend, but I'm scared to? I don't know. How can I stop feeling like this?
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really a friend or not.
Posted Tuesday February 26 2008, 6:33 pm
there's a taken guy(gabe)i've been talking to and he gives me the greatest feeling in the world.
but he asks me some personal stuff and i answer and i feel like we're friends and then i just think in the back of my mind that he's just using me. i've been going through something really hard and he said no matter what he'd be there and he's glad we started talking. and even one night he told me that i was a great girl and would make some really lucky guy really happy!
what the heeeck??
he says he'll never like another girl b/c of his girlfriend...i'm not sure i believe that..
he just.. gives me this feeling.
anything will do =)
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GR
Posted Tuesday February 26 2008, 11:02 am
My best friend who i have been ignoring for 3 days because of her telling me to fuck off for no pasific reason and generally being a moody cow towards me blaming it on her stomache condition which is apparently due to her hormones, even though she is fine with everyone else, its her birthday tomorrow and i dont no wether to talk to her or not just because its her birthday, i bought her a ticket to see my sister at uni which was quite expensive but she just dosnt seem to appreciate anything i do for her,i was considering asking someone else to go with me but now iv told her i have to let her come with me parents said so aswell. If i talk to her tomorow and tell her what her pressie is then shes basically just won and got her own way again, a...
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