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Virginity
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i am 9 ,i want to have sex . ami big enuf to fit a man yet cani???


Posted Thursday April 21 2011, 8:29 pm

can i have sex
? i am nine years old.


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things that happen during sex


Posted Saturday April 16 2011, 11:55 pm

How do i know if my cherry has popped or not?

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Had premarital sex, now I want to be a virgin again.


Posted Saturday April 9 2011, 1:28 pm

i had a boyfriend for 2 yeras.i broke up with him 2 years ago.now my parents arranegd my marriage with another person. can my husband be able to find that i am not a virgin? is hymenoplasty surgery realy worthless & have side effects? how much cost of this aurgery?in calcutta which hospital do this surgery? please dont tell that "tell him the truth" it is the matter of my parents selfrespect.i dnt want my parents suffer for my fault.

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If I give a guy oral sex am I still a virgin?


Posted Monday February 28 2011, 1:52 pm

I am an 18 year old female who is a virgin. If I give a guy oral sex am I still a virgin?

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cherry never popped?


Posted Wednesday February 16 2011, 12:39 am

Okay, I have been sexually active since I was 15. I've been with two different guys, one was 5 inches, and the other is 8 in a half. I have realized that I have never bleed during sex. I don't think I've had my cherry popped, and Im wondering if its something I should be concerned about?

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He's going away to college... should I give him my virginity?


Posted Sunday February 13 2011, 4:04 pm

ive been with my boyfriend for half a year and i am completely comfortable w him and i could defiinitely see myself losing it to him. the only problem is that i know hes goin to college and if i do it w him then hes just gona leave forever you kno. he wants to still see me in college but i feel like those things never work out. i know if i lose it, realistically, im not gonna necessarily get married to the person i lose my virginity to (and im ok with that), but i want it to be with someone who truly cares about me and i truly care about. so what do you think.. should i do it even if i know things for our future dont look good for the sake of losing it to someone i have strong feelings for&am comfortable with?

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Is it normal to keep bleeding a few days after cherry is popped?


Posted Sunday February 13 2011, 1:31 pm

my 16 yr old bf and i had sex last night for the first time and my cherry was popped so i started bleeding on him. it is now almost 24 hours later and im still bleeding down there with pains in the ovary area. how long does the bleeding last after a cherry has been popped?

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Another Sexually Frustrated Teen


Posted Monday February 7 2011, 1:05 am

I'm an 18 year old female with nothing on my sexual resume. I've never been kissed and the furthest I've gone with a guy is an awkward pat on the back. I am too the point where sex is just about all I can think about. I wanted to wait, and save myself for the right moment. Now all I want (or it really feels like need) is someone to just hold me, touch me, anything. Masturbation can only get you so far. I'm not this girl, I wanted to fall in love and have it mean something, but now I can't wait, I don't want to wait and its literally driving me up the walls. What am I supposed to do with myself, do I just go find the nearest guy and jump into bed with him? I don't want to feel like this anymore. Please.

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i'm sort of a prude


Posted Thursday February 3 2011, 2:42 am

ok. First of all i'm a virgin. I'm 20. I am in college adn i don't mean to sound full of myself but i'm am semi pretty. I am in the best sorority at my school. HOWEVER, I AM SUCH A PRUDE. I can see it/feel, like i get it. I love making out with guys but whenever it goes past that- i kind of freak out, i don't like it, and i get nervous. I don't really understand. I like the IDEA of it, but I don't like the execution. How am I everr going to lose my virginity. I don't really know what to do. help....

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will he know im a virgin?


Posted Tuesday January 18 2011, 2:17 am

my boyfriend doesnt know that im really a virgin and sooner or later we are going to have sex. would he be able to tell im a virgin when he has sex with me for the first time? if so is there anyway i could break my own hymen?

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Can a doctor figure out if somebody masturbates?


Posted Thursday January 6 2011, 4:46 pm

I'm 14/f and I masturbate a few times every week (like IDK 3 or 4 times). Well, I noticed a weird smell from my vagina and told my mom and so she made me an appointment with a doctor to get things looked at. My mom doesn't know I finger myself. Will the doctor be able to tell that I do that? I won't give you TMI but I will say that I know I made myself bigger down there from doing it. So, will the doctor say something to my mom IF he can find out I masturbate? And what do I say to my mom if he tells on me?

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Anal Still a Virgin?


Posted Saturday January 1 2011, 8:00 pm

So if you had anal sex but not actual sex would that still make you a virgin? Also same question with oral. Thanks!

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Does having anal sex make you lose your virginity if you're a gay man?


Posted Saturday January 1 2011, 10:57 am

I'm 15 & gay & a guy. I never done anything w/a girl but like 2 kisses. I been dating this guy for 2 months now & we kiss some times. He asked me last night if I thought about having sex with him. He told me before he's not a virgin. I am in all ways. So if we have sex (anal) then will that make me not a virgin? Cos obviously IM not gonna have sex w/a girl any time.

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How Much Do You Bleed?


Posted Tuesday December 28 2010, 7:36 pm

So my friends and I are Curious, but to scared/embarrassed to ask our moms. How much do you bleed after your "cherry" has been popped? Is it like your period?

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I am a virgin, but I still feel like a slut. HELP


Posted Tuesday December 14 2010, 4:27 pm

I want you to listen and I want you to read this thouroughly please.

I am 19 years old and I am in college. I have always been the good girl. Yeah I've kissed a few guys here and there maybe a makeout session or two. But I never did anything sexual. It wasn't until I got to college. I started seeing all the pretty girls get attention and not me. I consider myself to look okay. I am african american, tall and skinny. But I guess it's not enough for boys.

My freshmen year of college, I didn't do much. Around two boys gave me oral and that was it. Around the summer time before sophmore year, is when the mahem began. There was a boy I would say used me because I really liked him and he claimed he liked me. This i...

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Not a virgin, so why do I bleed during/after intercourse?


Posted Thursday November 11 2010, 3:24 am

19/F

I've had sex 3 times now and the first time, I bled, a lot. But I blew it off as me losing my virginity so it was "normal". The second time, I bled a little bit, but nothing too tragic, so I assumed that meant it was gonna get better as I had sex more often. Well, the third time was a re enactment of the first time. I bled. A lot. What's up with that? Why? Am I gonna have to worry everytime about "Omg, am I gonna bleed this time?" I'm convinced my vagina is defective. lol

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How do I keep my man happy? I am trying to stay a virgin?


Posted Tuesday November 2 2010, 12:03 am

So Im trying to stay a virgin. The guys I dated in high school did not really have a problem with it. We would fool around a lot and I made sure he was happy :)

Well I started college this year and I met a few boys who I of course made out with and Ill admit, even did a little more. Usually when I meet a boy, we will make out and if we have been kissing for a bit, Ill let him grab and suck my tits. I dont do this in public just if we are like in his room or something and no one is gonna walk in. I have really big tits and I just dont wear a bra so its really easy for him to get to them. Most of the time, the guy Im making out with will finger me and play with me and Ill come and it usually ends there.

T...

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Does anal sex make you lose your virginity?


Posted Friday October 29 2010, 11:41 am

Does anal sex make you lose your virginity? Like is there a possibility, that a guy's penis can slip from the anal opening and enter the vagina and like pop your cherry? Or is it impossible since they are completely different openings?
Also when you start doing anal sex, it's usually very small the anus opening, so is it possible that the whole penis can fit inside like it does in the vagina? and does it affect the size of your butt in any way?
Sorry i'm asking too many questions, but I really hope that whoever replies can give me full information and really help me,not brief answers. Thankyou so much.

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Regrets about losing my virginity.


Posted Monday October 25 2010, 12:26 am

20 female..

How do you get over a regret? I made a dumb decision ..I lost my virginity to this guy I thought I liked but then we kind of stopped talking and now he has a girlfriend which just really hit me hard. I didn't regret having sex with him until now ..maybe it's because he got a girlfriend ..I don't know. I've never regretted anything in my life until this. Do I just try to move on from the past?

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How do i know if my cherry is popped?


Posted Saturday October 23 2010, 11:30 pm

How can a girl tell if her cherry has been popped? I'm 13 and I never had sex but I let a guy eat me out a couple of times, been fingered some, and I finger myself a few times a week. This guy asked me last week if my cherry had been popped already and I told him I didn't know because I really don't know. I can't remember if I ever bled after doing anything so yeah. Is there a way to find out if my cherry is popped? And is it good to get your cherry popped when you're young so it doesn't hurt as much?

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