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Birthday Ideas
Posted Thursday March 13 2008, 12:00 pm
My birthday is coming up in april, and it will be my sweet 16 so I'd like to do something special. I was considering either a huge party or a cool trip with my best friends. If anyone had any fun ideas to do for my birthday please let me know :]
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my two best friends one exagerating over nothing
Posted Wednesday March 12 2008, 7:11 pm
my friends is freakin out and crying and she HATES this one guy. me and him were best friends then i started liking him then she started and she was sayin how she has her whole life. she didnt know him. and everything i would do with him as friends shed say oh yea we did that too or shed go up and grab him sayin hiii. he was gettin really pissed about this because he liked me and i liked him and we were best friends. i said i didnt like him (faking it) then she said neither did she. then she turned me and him against each other. me and him HATED eachother did anything to piss eachother off. we became friends again and are best friends again. shes crying sayin how he was such a bitch to her and did all this stuff. he did nothing to her. he d...
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Not a Big Deal
Posted Wednesday March 12 2008, 6:52 pm
Ok, my name is Brenda, and here's the situation (it's a bit complicated, please try to follow along.) Ok, my friend Tracy likes a boy named Chad, and she thinks he likes her too. However, I know he likes my other friend Sandy, and she told me that he asked her out (but she said no because she doesn't like him). Anyway, Tracy was getting so wrapped up in him that I told her "I think he might like Sandy because he keeps asking her out." Well, Tracy went to Sandy and said "Brenda told me what you said about Chad, and I wanted to know, is it true??" Surprisingly, Sandy got so upset at me! She's mad that I told Tracy her business, and she thinks I only used her for information. I'm sorry that I told Tracy, but I don't think ...
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8th grade problems
Posted Wednesday March 12 2008, 4:45 pm
13
female
A little bit about me, I am in my 3rd quarter of 8th grade. There is a named Erica that sits at my lunch table. She is really mean to me. Not to be rude or anything but she is that type of girl that thinks that she is so popular when she really isn't (snobby). She calls me bad names all the time. Lets just say stuff like BIT**, all the time. Her father used to be an important member of the school district so she is a teachers pet. So she goes to the guidance counselor and says that I tried to kick her out of the tableand make fun of her all the time. I did ask her to move out of the table but i do not make fun of her. And the guidance counselor wont believe me.
if you want to know why she doesn't l...
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Stinky
Posted Wednesday March 12 2008, 12:13 pm
I live in the dorms with a roommate at my college. My roommate is wonderful and she's really sweet, BUT she has really bad body odor. I don't know what causes it because she showers everyday and stuff, but she smells just awful and so does her side of the room.
At first, I thought it was just the room we were in, so I bought a bunch of air fresheners and I kept the window open to kind of air out the room. It worked for a little while, but it came back and I think it's because of her. I've noticed she never does laundry other than her work clothes and she never wears socks (like ever) so the smell is possibly coming from her feet.
I cannot move because I've already moved once this year and it would be too much ...
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Is this a real friendship
Posted Tuesday March 11 2008, 6:45 pm
I have a guy friend who has dated my best friend off and on.Her and him still talk like nothing ever happened between them. My guy friend lets call him S, has a weird friendship with me. He acts like he's my best friend when we are on the phone or not around a big crowd. But when we are with a group for example sitting down at lunch together (which is everyday except for when he has lunch detention or is absent he tells me to sit by him) he jokes about me,says bad things about me & talks about things that he knows & everybody else knows isn't true then I end up cussing him out. Then people are like how can you be friends with him & do that stuff. So its like we can only be friends around each other and only each other. Yesterday...
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Lies gone too far.
Posted Tuesday March 11 2008, 4:28 pm
Okay so i have this friend that moved last year...i was happy because she turned out to really mean like once this girl was crying because she found out her boyfriend was cheating on her and i was trying to comfort her and she goes "Did YOUR father ever push you sister down the stairs? MINE DID, THAT is something to be sad about"
The entire school hated her...and we were glad when she left...but she didn't know that. So know she wants to go the same high school as me and most of the people that hate her...and I've been telling them that they don't...now i don't know what to do. If i become enemies with her she will devote her life to making sure i suffer.
HELP!!!!
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trouble getting close to people
Posted Tuesday March 11 2008, 4:00 pm
ok so in the past couple of months ive tried to make friends by talking to them and having a conversation, and its generally working. however, once i find that this person might be considering me as "more than an acquaintance", i like freak out and cant handle the..pressure? like i feel that i wont live up to their standards of what they want me to be. and i know someone's gonna say "dont worry, blah, all you can do is be a friend" but like i have standards for friendship too..number 1, they have to make me laugh. and if a person doesnt make me geniunely laugh, then i feel like im forcing myself to be interested in them and i hate the feeling of..a superficial friendship? idk.
and the more i try to be clo...
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problems..maybe theyre smaller than i make them sound. idk
Posted Tuesday March 11 2008, 3:34 pm
i just feel bad atm..bc ive been noticing that people that i talk to just act awkward..like they feel like shy/awkward while talking to me for some reason. and i cant handle it, like, when i see someone uncomfortable i get really uncomfortable talking to me, the my "awkward sense" just like shoots through the roof. and i dont UNDERSTAND why! even a couple of my teachers are doing it, like my math teacher's eyes always get really watery and she tries not to blink when she talks to me. and my history teacher and english teacher always pull a weird face when they talk to me, or something..and they always seem to like be afraid of talking to me? idk. my language teacher actually got embarassed while talking to me once!! dont even get ...
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should i take it to the next level????
Posted Tuesday March 11 2008, 1:03 pm
should i take it to the next level is my question.
so i have been talking with this guy online and on the phone.we recently just went rollerbladding in a group.i know he likes me and i know he knows that i like him.what do i do? does he ask me or do i ask him? he wants to hang out sometime this week and he is the one that asked .not me.do i say sure we can hang out or not?
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Would YOU?
Posted Tuesday March 11 2008, 12:33 am
Would you consider a guy your friend if after kissing you he just stops talking to you like before
and he just randomly txt messages you only when he needs help or needs something! I wouldnt this happened to me right and Im so mad at this guy and I just wanna like not see him anymore. But this guy is friends with my bro as well and they still talk. ugghh i hate it but i cant do anything or can I??
i dont know what to do I dont wanna be rude and i dont wanna let my bro know we kissed, but i definitely wanna stay away from him as much as possible
any suggestions??
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Making New Friends
Posted Monday March 10 2008, 11:34 pm
hey! well im moving to Kansas and 5 yrs ago i already lived there so my bff is still there and im gonna go visit nxt week tp check things out. im super excited to see her (tho i HATE that im moving!) i will be there for a while and stuff and if i meet her friends (who will hopefully become my friends) and any cute guys what should i do? i know be myself but i mean im usually outgoing but kinda shy with people i dont know. i just never know what to say!!! so what should i do to break the ice? i guess talk about how im moving and where im currently living and like ask hey whats around here to do and stuff but besides that? things for when i meet new people after im here and cant just alway say whats around here? haha thanks!! :)
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making friends
Posted Monday March 10 2008, 8:41 pm
im a really outgoing person. ive had a hard time finding good friends. like i talk to a ton of people in school but none are "good" friends that would make sure i have something to do on the weekend (normally i do but ya know) so how can i get them to be good friends, the ones who you have sleepovers with and tell anything to and get in trouble for talking in class.
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I don't want to be best friends anymore..
Posted Monday March 10 2008, 10:18 am
16/f. there's this girl..and she was my "best friend" since the 8th grade. we're now in the 10th grade. and we've drifted apart. we have no classes together, we never do anything together (once per every three months..we might go to the mall..once..) she never calls me..i never call her. myspace is our only form of communication everyday. along with saying hi and talking for the first 20 minutes of school. we have different groups of friends..and she doesn't get along with mine =| we have completely different interests. and i realize that friends should be different..but we're TOO different. she also gets on my nerves and is very annoying sometimes. along with clingy. (if she's my best friend, no one else can be) she's always 'bor...
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Underneath her smile
Posted Monday March 10 2008, 6:41 am
I have an ex-freind named...well lets call her julie. In elementary school, my best friend deena and i were friends with this girl named julie. Nice girl, was always herself, and we hung out alot out of school. But when we reached high school, me and my best friend went to different ones, and were still best friends. Julie and i went to the same high school, and for the first few months she ingored me, pushed me in the hallway, made fun of me in gym, lied about things. she thought everyone loved her and that she was on top of the world. As time progressed people began to see what she was really like, and started to reject her, now nobody in school likes her, and if they do, they pretend to becuase i was walking behind her "best friend&...
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how do i make it up to her :(
Posted Sunday March 9 2008, 6:58 pm
this weekend i went to a party with my bff and i kinda left her alone to go talk to people... and this idiot drunk guy was yelling at her telling her to get out of the house (he wasn't the host). i obviously feel awful about it and i want to like kill the guy. i mean i should have been there for her. i want to do something nice for her to show her how sorry i am and how much i care.. i know i made a big mistake.
any ideas on how to make it up to her?
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annoying people
Posted Sunday March 9 2008, 2:31 pm
alright so basically theres this girl who is really annoying to me. and she doesnt even do that much that is annoying but for some reason every time she talks i think shes annoying for it, even if shes just asking for the homework or something. dont be mistaken though, she does a lot of annoying things that really ARE annoying.
now im getting so insecure that everything i say comes out as annoying as what the girl says. i know that deep inside, im not really like her, but im still worried. every time i open my mouth i revise what im about to say so i dont sound as annoying as the girl, and its really taking a toll on me. opinions? what should i do?
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Posted Sunday March 9 2008, 12:36 pm
Uhh.. yeah, embarrising question to ask.
My class is throwing a gradyation party. We're all allowed to invite 14 people each. We somehow came to the agreement that half of those people had to be boys, and half girls.
The problem isnt only that I don't have male friends to invite (although thats a huge problem) its that i dont have nearly enough friends.
My solution to this is to pretend that I have a university interview to go to, and miss the whole event. Although I've alreay paid. And I would have to lie to my parents too.
Is there any other way to deal with this? It feels really bad to have to end my highschool years like this.
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My friend
Posted Sunday March 9 2008, 3:00 am
13/f
Well my friend isn't really hanging out with us anymore. Actually we had a pretty big group of friends but its kinda split up now. We have all talked to her but she seems like she has split off now. She hangs out with 3 other friends (they are all our friends) But she keeps saying its really important and we can't know. I mean I get it if its really important. But when I'm with the other half of our group they are all just laughing and stuff. I mean they are not even talking about anything important. She still comes up and gives us hugs but then she goes off. All of us think that except the ones that are with her. The only time she hangs out with is when she has no one else to hang out with. Its stupid and I'm tired of i...
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I have no idea what to do
Posted Saturday March 8 2008, 9:45 pm
i flippin hate my best friend (we are both 15)
but we've been friends forever pretty much--- our friendship pretty much consists of us subtly puttin each other down in like jokes and shit, but I only do it when she starts doing it, so like you no it only continues the vicious cycle haha
no but seriously i cant freaking just not be friends with her
cause like im pretty shy until you get to know me---and no1 really sticks around that long cause they just get bored with me.
and she's got a really "strong" personality, if you know what i mean, and she makes friends really easily cause she's funny( her funiness pretty much comes from insults)
so i have no idea how i should act accordingly
any suggestions??
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