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Posted Saturday August 21 2004, 1:06 pm

when i was really little, like 4 or so, my babysitters son sat me on his lap and showed me his thing. he told me to touch it and when white stuff started to come out he wanted me to clean it. then he told me to leave his room. well me being young i did what he told me. i didnt kno it was wrong. then i told my mom and she was like dont say anything to anyone. and she didnt do anything about it! i am now gonna turn 14 in october and it has been bugging me since then. it hurts that my mom let me stay there till i was 9! nuthing else ever happened but i mean still. wut could i do to take my mind off of it? i am really happy now and stuff but when i stop and think it just pops in my head and thats the only thing that really stands out in my memoery. i remember it like it was yesterday.

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..EaTinG dIsOrDer


Posted Friday August 20 2004, 8:30 pm

hey..i am g0in thr0 al0t latley..me and my bf have been fighting n0n st0p..and its scaring me..but ne ways..im almost 16..and i weigh 115..i HATE triple numbers..i want the perfect b0dy..my b0yfriend says im beautifull all the time..but thats kinda what b0yfriends r supp0sed t0 d0..i want to get down to 99..i was belimic way back in the day..but i was 0n the f0ne with my friend and i t0ld her i want t0 bec0me an0rexic..she flipped 0ut and hung up..so0oo i was like fine i w0nt d0 that..and last nite i made myself thr0w up t0 see what its like..i kinda s0rta liked it =\..well my bf said if i ever d0 ne thing "physc0" it w0uld be 0ver f0r g00d..and i was w0nderin w0uld he n0tice if i g0t t0 99..and if ne 0ne else w0uld n0tice..well i neEd helP! =(..MaNdiE x0

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getting high


Posted Tuesday August 17 2004, 8:43 pm

i used to cut for 2 years but my ex bf told after i went through a lot and he told so now im getting help...well the other day my friend came over and we were talking about cutting but i stopped so she said "well getting high takes it away like cutting does" so i got high, my friends would kill me if they found out...and theyd probably tell and i dont want that to happen...theyd probably all hate me too and i dont want that to happen cauze i love them all sooo much! but the only person who knows is that girl...help me please, what do i do?

<3 hopeless

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Posted Tuesday August 17 2004, 7:40 pm

I kinda think i am fat .. i am 5'5 and weight a wopping 115 pounds .. is that to much ... trust me i have never made my self trow up or not eat .... do u think i need to loose weight ... i really want to no ur opionin .. i wont get mad at ANY answers .. i was to know the truth .. thanks so much

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Depressed


Posted Tuesday August 17 2004, 6:20 pm

ok well there has been a lot of things going on and i've gotten really depressed. im on medicine for it but it doesnt seem to be working anymore. its like the 5th kind of pill that i've tryed. im always crying and thinking about the bad things but i can't help it. i used to be able to write about it in my poems but now i just kinda can't. i really need help and i dont know what to do. i dont want to cry myself to sleep everynight.
~depressed

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help me plz


Posted Tuesday August 17 2004, 2:20 pm

well you know how when your young alot of pplz have an imaginary friend right well I have one and I'm 14 it keeps telling me what to do to myself and I feel crazy right now it made me take a perk...and I don't know where he is but I'm scared I don't know what to do and I don't want to go see my scary doctor....any suggestions??

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Self put downs


Posted Tuesday August 17 2004, 12:50 pm

all my life i've bin mostely put down about the way i look even if it wasent intentional...so now that i'm older (15) i am starting to get compliments from ppl(guys) but not many but even so i cant take them i always say something that disses myself and i'm staring to think maybe i do look good but when i look in the mirror i just see ugly and its bugs....i'm thinking maybe i just need a guys that will finaly treat me right so i might feel better but i'm not sure. maybe if that happens i will change cuz all the guys i've ever dated put me down in some way or another so that might have something to do with it but i dunno if you can help this problem i am saying THANK YOU!

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Posted Monday August 16 2004, 2:52 pm

ok this is gonna sound sort of weird but lately i feel like i cant control anything really i cant control my heart or the way i look or the way i feel or any of that but i can control how much i eat im 5'6 going into 8 grade and i weigh 102 pounds and i just want to weigh 98 idk why but 2 me thats how i feel i should look so i just stopped eating basicially i mean its 2 and i havent had anything to eat today ill probally eat a little bit but not alot and i always feel like im getting fatter and stuff i just dont want to look like me anymore... i hate the way i look but idk why i feel like this i have the best boyfriend i could ever ask for great friends great family i guess i just feel like i have to be perfect for everyone and i think that...

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depression


Posted Monday August 16 2004, 2:25 am

i feel like i'm going into depression.. my life seems like its getting worse everyday! i lost my b/f recently n nothing seems right! i will NEVER cut tho! but i dont no.. what should i do?

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depression


Posted Monday August 16 2004, 2:23 am

i feel like i'm going into depression! my life seems like its getting worse everydaY!! i will NEVER cut tho! just the thought makes me feel ick! but i dont no wut to do! i lost my b/f recently and i dont no.. i feel like nothing good is happening! what should i do?

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Posted Sunday August 15 2004, 6:56 pm

Ok, I'm 13 and I get really bad depression. I've had it for like over a year now. I forgot what its like to actually have true happiness. And I know most teens go throug this, but mines pretty severe. Like I never want to do anything anymore, I just dont care, I hate life, And most of the time I just feel like dieing. And like ver since I got it, its screwed up my life. I lost all my friends and havent really had any in like a year. It seems easy when people just say "start making new friends" or "find an activity you like doing" or try to be happy or whatever, but its so hard. I don't know what to do about my depression. Please help?

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Posted Saturday August 14 2004, 9:18 pm

i have a friend from school who is petite and very underweight (by society's standards) but she sees herself as "fat" & no matter what anyone tells her she still tries to loose weight. shes only 80 something pounds! shes one of the skinniest people in school, and we're 15... and im scared it might become into an eating disorder. her parents want her to GAIN weight because she's so tiny for her size and can get hurt in sports. what can i possibly do or say to her because i've tried so many times...? (ps her parents are concerned and know about this, and they told ME to talk to her about it because she wont listen to them!)

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Posted Saturday August 14 2004, 1:52 pm

im a cutter. i have scars all up and down my arm. only 2 people know about it. but every time i see my boyfriend i have to cover it up, and make sum sort of excuse. i HATE lying to him! i feel like i should tell him, but i dont want him to think im crazy and dump me! but like.. i cant stop cutting. its always been my way of calming myself down...

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idk whats happening to me


Posted Wednesday August 11 2004, 6:24 pm

I have an oppsetion i have to mow the lawn everyday my parents are really worryed about my problem what should i do?????

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bipolar?


Posted Tuesday August 10 2004, 1:03 pm

whats bipolar mean?

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urination problems


Posted Monday August 9 2004, 9:27 pm

This started a few years ago. When im in a public bathroom with people I don't know, I have problems urinating. Like my whole body tenses up and I just can't. If it's with my buds or something I don't have a problem, but rest areas and fast food bathrooms are horrible, but lately it's gotten worse, like if theres some kind of weird music, or if the bathrooms really dirty, I don't know, I just know that at school I usually slip into the faculty bathroom or use one on the other side of the school that no one really ever uses. Also I had to start doing things like dehydrating myself before long car trips so that i would only have to go like once or never the whole trip. Is there anything I can do without seeing a doctor, and is this some kind of infection, or do I just get nervous sometimes?

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Bipolar


Posted Monday August 9 2004, 8:23 pm

I think I might be bipolar. How can I tell? And can I get tested w/o my parents knowing bout it?

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I need some good advice


Posted Saturday August 7 2004, 12:25 am

does anyone know of a way to get an anti-depressent(i.e. Zoloft©) without going to see a doctor??? I need something along those lines but i can't tell my parents that i need an anti-depressent for certain reasons. My depression used to be just the common teenage cliche of {boredom + no life + no friends + girl troubles = depression}. Earlier this week i realized it was a much more serious problem when i was alone(drunk + depressed) and for some reason got to thinking that i dont want to live anymore.......So i went downstairs, got a knife from the kitchen, went back up to my room and proceeded to stab myself in the wrist numerous times. It bled all over the place for a while and then i turned really pale felt really cold and also a bit nu...

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Sleep Problems


Posted Thursday August 5 2004, 10:14 pm

Ihave areally hard time falling asleep at night night. Iget all nervous about murderer's breaking in, and it really scares me! I know thiz soundz childish, but does anyone have any advice on how to fall asleep quicker and it would help if you had advice on how to be calmer and not think every little noise in the night is someone breaking in.

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How to I cope with cutting


Posted Thursday August 5 2004, 5:30 pm

Hey, I feel really stupid asking this question..But I have been having a hard time trying not to cut myself. I've been trying to find other ways to cop with it and I picked a bad way to to it by taking pills. Does anyone out there know any ways to deal with it? Is there somthing I can do to take it off my mind?? I'm already seeing a theripst and it doesnt help it all. If there is any advice u can give me I would really appreicate it! -Jenny

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