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what should i do?
Posted Tuesday March 18 2008, 5:23 pm
im a f/18 and i was wondering what should i do about my cousin/ bestfriend. she basically stole the guy away from me that i liked and now they are going out. neither of them talk to me anymore. And i tried talking to her and she has changed. She even goes to the same school as my other cousin well call her L. And she even treats L like crap too, she wont even drive her to school. But she would rather drive this other kid who is all of a sudden like her bestfriend. she has changed and when i tried to talkt to her the other day, its like she didnt care our friendship or hurting me. and the thing is that besides me and L. she has no other real friends. the three of us used to be soo closee.
what should i do? Pleaseee help!!!
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being myself
Posted Monday March 17 2008, 6:04 pm
so, around ppl my age i'm totally myself and comfortable doing so. but when i meet new, older ppl i always try to make a great impression, and i usually do, but i'm not completely myself. what should i do?
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I Feel Excluded
Posted Monday March 17 2008, 1:56 am
Basically my friends keep going to movies that I would really like to see, on Saturdays. A day that I can't really hang out on because of my job. All of my friends have completely free Fridays, but we never really do anything on Fridays, we end up sitting around the whole day. But then on Saturday, they go see the new cool movie. I have tried confronting them about it and they say that it's just in my head, even though I've been able to provide specific incidents. I stay calm about it when I talk to them because I'm not mad, but for some reason they think that I am pissed. Then they usually say that I'm mean for even bringing this up. And in the end, I usually end up saying something kind of offensive, but not too bad, like "Fine...
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girl of my dreams
Posted Sunday March 16 2008, 9:59 pm
i fell in love with this girl she is everything a guy can imagine. shes my cousins close friend. my cousin and i are really close but we dont talk about these things. me and her friend talked a whole lot and im usually a very shy guy around new people. i was with them but i didnt talk the whole time till all the other kids left other than me her and my cousin. i flirted with her so much but she didnt seem to do much back but she did alot. she was one a sugar hangover haha and my cousin wouldnt tell me what that is. i had her phone and was lookin threw the pictures there was so many emo kind of guys i could tell that about her before i even looked in her phone. she said her parents made her dress normal? to come to our family thing. im the k...
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Friend is sort of dismissing me.
Posted Sunday March 16 2008, 6:53 pm
Recently, my friend's life just got a whole lot better. Everything is "perfect" now. Honestly, it is her year. At first I was jealous, but to be a good friend, her needs definitely go before mine. I'd rather be a good person, and squash my envy, than to lose a good friend.
Anyways, as a result of her "perfect" life, there is nothing to talk about. Nothing at all. We've already talked about all the "sweet" things her boyfriend says to her. The fact that he's going to give her her first kiss on her sixteenth birthday. The fact that her dad is throwing her a killer party. The fact that her grades are awesome, and she's winning so many awards.
There's just nothing to talk about. She do...
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Getting friends
Posted Sunday March 16 2008, 6:15 pm
So I'm going into High School next year
All my friends are going to a Technical High school
They all left me behind
So now I'm going into High School with only a few other people I know from grade school who arent really my 'friends'
Chances are I wont even see them
How can I make new friends?
I'm really shy if I don't know someone
So I don't have the guts to just go up to someone and say hi
But when you get to know me I'm outgoing and just a bubble of energy
But I'm fat...do people like ebing friends with fat girls?
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so confused.
Posted Sunday March 16 2008, 4:19 pm
* be prepared, its kinda long.
ohk, so my best friend, who i have known for about a year and a half, we've been really rocky lately.
let me explain:
she is a VERY clingy person. she will cling to 2-3 people for long periods of time. it annoys the shit outta me, but i live with it. we're friends. ive tried telling her, but whenever i try, she always gets so mad + gets VERY defensive. so wuht should i do about THAT problem?
wait, theres more.
2 weeks ago, she had a movie night, she didnt invite me, + she always does, i didnt do anything to her, i wasnt mad at her or anything, + she invited kids who she barely talked to, which i really didnt undertstand. i texted her ...
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next year
Posted Sunday March 16 2008, 1:44 pm
ok so it is almost the end of my freshmen year in highschoool and i basically have only two friends about a month ago it wasnt like that.. me and my freinds got in a huge fight and now we are basically not friends anymore. i am now freinds with these two girls i love to death the fight wouldnt have been such a big deal if i had other friends to fall back on but i spent most of this year not trying to make new friends but sticking with the ones i had so my question is next year do you think i will be able to make alot of new friends or do u think everyone will already have there own groups i feel like its useless to try to make friends this year because i hate people in my classses and the year is almost over ? do u think i caan start again fresh next year?
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i feel really dumb.
Posted Sunday March 16 2008, 1:03 pm
Never in my life will I do this again.
I'm making a very long story short.
-i needed a ride home from a party
-friend said he could and wanted to hang out anyways
-got n car @ 2am. Said I had 2 b home at 230
-we didn't kno where to go... drove around to big houses n hills
-i said to turn around. He finally did.
>turned off engine.
>grabbed me ( you know when u watch movies and the girl gets raped? Well I always think, 'o why doesn't she jus play it off so he doesn't get mad?' well I did!) tried to kiss me I kissed him back after saying no.
>shoved my hand on his thing through his pants.
>shoved his hand on my private part.
[This stil...
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What Do you Guys Say?
Posted Sunday March 16 2008, 12:24 pm
So, this question is gonna sound really, really stupid but I'm desparate for an answer. I'm a sophmore in high school and about a year ago, I stopped being friends with my best friend and when that happened I didn't have that many friends and still only have a couple. I really wanna start hanging out with people but i just don't know how to ask. I've gone on sites that had examples of what you should say when you are socializing but its all really corny stuff that people my age would never say. This is such a dumb question but when you start hanging out with someone for the first time (not dating, just friendship)how does it all work out? Do you just say, "wanna hang out" and stuff like that? Do you go in groups? Do you call them ...
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My ex
Posted Sunday March 16 2008, 12:05 am
I broke up with my ex-boyfriend because he cheated on me. That was about 5 months ago, and he has a girlfriend now and I have a boyfriend. We are still good friends, despite what he did to me, because we have always been friends, even before we went out. So we still hang out, but always in large groups of people and have a really good time (as friends). But I feel like I'm being disloyal to my boyfriend because my boyfriend really dislikes my ex and does not trust him (although he's never told me he doesn't want my ex and I hanging out). Plus, my ex and I were friends previously, even before my current boyfriend and I met. Should I feel guilty about hanging out with my ex? Hmm.
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happiness
Posted Saturday March 15 2008, 4:45 pm
how can i be a happy person if:
i hate where i live
i dislike every person who lives here
i am a moody person and get annoyed very easily
i go on and off with friends, like ill not like them, except one of them, for a week, then get annoyed with that person, and switch off (etc.)
sometimes i dont like any of them
after broke up with my bf almost 3 months ago, i forgot how to be happy, even though im over him now
i couldnt change friends even if i wanted to. the transition wouldnt be worth it.
please teach me how to be happy. i cant make myself have a better outlook on life. it just doesnt work. ill have happy times, but it doesnt last for long....
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what was he thinking?
Posted Saturday March 15 2008, 4:54 am
okay me and my guy friend was talking and do you get this conversation on IM?
me: come on!!!!!!
me:: haha
him: where?
me: what you mean where?
him: you sad come on
me: HAHAHA
me:ahhahahaa
him: so where are we going?
me: noooo
him: wat?
me: unprivate your myspace
me: haha
me: your so funny too
him:: wer not going anywer?
me: haha
me: no?
him: haha
me: hahaha
him: wat?
him: so yes
him: no?
me:: yes what?
me: what are you talkign about
him:were going somewhere?
him: idk
him: you sad come one then no
me: hahaha
him: then yes
him: ?
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my friends wont stop fighting !!
Posted Friday March 14 2008, 11:01 pm
ok so my exboyfriend (we're still friends) and my bff wont stop fighting. they just dont like each other. my bff always hits him and makes rude remarks on how dark he is...so of course being a normal guy he has to defend his ego...so he says something rude back...and it never stops ! i've already talked to both of them and my bff wont agree to stop and my ex said that he has to say something back. i cant go anywhere with both of them at the same time. i want to be able to go out somewhere with both of them acting like civilized people.
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What Do You Guys Say?
Posted Friday March 14 2008, 9:39 pm
So, this question is gonna sound really, really stupid but I'm desparate for an answer. I'm a sophmore in high school and about a year ago, I stopped being friends with my best friend and when that happened I didn't have that many friends and still only have a couple. I really wanna start hanging out with people but i just don't know how to ask. I've gone on sites that had examples of what you should say when you are socializing but its all really corny stuff that people my age would never say. This is such a dumb question but when you start hanging out with someone for the first time (not dating, just friendship)how does it all work out? Do you just say, "wanna hang out" and stuff like that? Do you go in groups? Do you call them ...
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I have no friends?
Posted Friday March 14 2008, 8:27 pm
okay so i no that sounds worng but here is my story. Okay so i do have friends but a friend it supossed to be someone you trust. well i cant trust anyone. one if my good friends talks stuff behind my back and i no that but she like "controls" one of my other good friends, Sally. Sally is so fun around me but when she gets with the other girl she changes. and it sucks cuase she talks about me to. and i hate it godd. my life sucks right now i cant trust anyone! i need help
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Friend trouble.
Posted Friday March 14 2008, 6:55 pm
I'm a guy and I normally don't have friend troubles, but here it goes..
My best friend has been acting really strange lately; he sort of shuns me now. We talked about it and he said that he was just going through some changes and that it wasn't my fault. He said that we were still best friends but he needed some space. I'm still confused though; if it wasn't my fault, then why do I feel so bad? and how can I approach my friend without being suffocating? This isn't normally a problem for me, but I just want to be as good of a friend as I can be.
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Posted Thursday March 13 2008, 7:47 pm
ok so i had to choose between a sleepover at my bff's house or spending the afternoon with my bf. i dont see either of them often. i chose my bff cause she and i never get to just hang out but i really wanted to hang my boyfriend. i will see him but not really spend a lot of time with him. like one-on-one. i wanted to see him more but i dont want her to feel bad. i love her and she and i never get to hang out. buuut i wont see my bf nxt weekend either and nxt mon. is our 3 month anniversary but i can probably see him nxt thu or sumthing like that. did i make the right choice? i kno i will have fun either way :) thanks
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my life is a mess
Posted Thursday March 13 2008, 7:46 pm
[wrong category..sorry]
16/f. i got a new boyfriend 2 months ago. after that, basically, i've completely lost all touch with my inner self. my grades went down. some friends turned their backs on me. my parents are giving up on me. i feel horrible. i've become an attention seeking whore. but i'm depressed (i've been diagnosed.)
all because of a boyfriend..? there must be something wrong. it's very pathetic to see myself like this. it's like a drug to me now, this male affection/attention. and it's not like i'm putting less effort into my schoolwork. the grades just decline..
i'm sure this is not normal. any advice would be very much appreciated. =|
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What does this mean?
Posted Thursday March 13 2008, 1:40 pm
I'm friends with this guy, and whenever we talk, he's always like making contact with me. Like we were having a conversation this morning in school, and he would have his hand on like my waist.
And then we were messing around, and he just grabbed my hands, and was holding onto them.
Also, randomly he'll just hug me and hold me tight.
Is this a sign of him being interested?
Thanks!
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