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bestfriend and i crushing and ruining friendship
Posted Monday March 24 2008, 9:22 pm
my friend(i grew up with and best friends on and off) and I liked eachother off and on but never did anything about it-one time he crushed me now i dont trust people and in depression-I cant stay mad at him-were on spring break and hes gone half across the country-weve exting eachother recently which we never have before. hes all i want to talk to and i think about-he worst two possible things to happen right now is loose him as a friend again OR not do anything and then we move-im hurt either way-he says it gets awkward now that he nos I like him back-hes shy when it comes to girls although hes never been shy around me-last time we lost being friends I couldn’t take it my life was hell whats the right way…? In real life hes usually th...
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cheated.
Posted Monday March 24 2008, 8:12 pm
boyfriend cheated on my with my best friend. (now ex best friend)
so on her myspace, she mentions in her about me; my NAME && calls me 2 faced.
and shes the one who effin kissed my boy.
s0o my question is, why should she right my name? for some reason she turned everyone against me "making is my fault or something" I MEAN WTF.
ugh
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My Best-friend and her boyfriend!
Posted Monday March 24 2008, 7:14 pm
Hi I'm 15 and my best friend is in a relationship with a guy that doesnt go to our school, he just met me, and now me and him are friends, now hes adorable and a sweetheart, he is really nice, and I think I might like him, now I cant tell my best friend that I like him or it will crush her, she talks about him nonstop, and I am happy for her that shes in an awesome relationship, but I am extremely jealous and I have never been in a relationship so I feel really bad that she has the best guy I know and I have no one, Sometimes I cry myself to sleep because I feel like no one loves me, and when I first met her boyfriend he gave me a huge hug and I felt special but I know it was just a friendly hug, HELP me please I have no clue what to do!
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Which should I choose?
Posted Monday March 24 2008, 11:16 am
My friend has vouchers for a day spa next weekend and has asked me to go with her. Recently I've had to cancel on her a few times and we've been drifitng apart so we decided it would be a good opportunity to catch up. I said I would but then remembered that my boyfriend was planning on taking me to the same spa for our anniversary in a couple of weeks. I wasn't going to tell my boyfriend that I was going with my friend so as not to ruin it for him but I felt too guilty so I did. He said I could go with my friend and he'd think of something else for our anniversary but I know he's disappointed about it.
Should I go and risk upsetting my boyfriend or let my friend down again?
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Making Friends
Posted Monday March 24 2008, 1:03 am
15/f I really need advice on how to make more friends. I'm kinda shy. I don't know how people make friends and I don't know what to do. I've tried all I could but I'm always nervous about "sounding cool" when i talk to people, I run out of things to say, and it's just very awkward and uncmfotable for me. Everyone's in some kind of clique and i don't fit in anywhere. How can I be better at socializng? How do you make friends?
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what do you do?
Posted Sunday March 23 2008, 11:58 pm
i'm 15/m
what do you do wen the girl you like is your bestfriend and she likes you back but evrey time you ask her out she tell's you no???
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DRAMAAAAAAAAA!!!!!
Posted Sunday March 23 2008, 10:31 pm
there is so much drama between boys and backstabbers and friends at my school!! i just want to stay out of it? any ideas?????
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friend vs. heart
Posted Sunday March 23 2008, 7:41 pm
here is the thing. like any other friendship of a girl and guy. one falls for the others.
in this case.. i fell for my best friend. we were open with each other, so i told him.. i dealt with liking him and i hid at times and lied that i didnt anymore just so it wouldnt mess up the friendship. then i admitted i loved him..he was okay with that, but he had a girlfriend. who he has known for 3 years..and yeah i know he is in love with her, he has been for the last 2 years or so, and has been trying to get with her for the longest time. we ended the friendship so my feelings could disappeared though i told him it wasnt possible for it to all go away like nothing happened, and that i will always have feelings.. so we werent friends for a ...
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a perfect girl
Posted Sunday March 23 2008, 11:15 am
15 / f
i have known this girl since elementary school, and we have been "best friends" (i've had other best friends in between until i realized it's pointless to have just ONE best friend).
i've never really had many classes with her throughout middle school, but this year, my freshman year of high school, she's in virtually all my classes.
now at first, we were both elated! we finally got to see each other more often.
but that soon turned around. by december, i knew that i was ready to burst. it hit me. she was absolutely perfect. but the ONE little tiny thing that just made me scream and caused nights of crying myself to sleep was the fact that: every. single. grad...
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Should I tell my friend about something that happened in the
Posted Sunday March 23 2008, 11:11 am
My friend Sarah broke up with her bf John about one month ago and they only went out for a month or two. Last night I found out that John cheated on Sarah the day before she broke up with him, but even after she broke up with him, he didn't tell her about it. John only told one of his guy friends who told two other girls. Anyway, I found out last night and I don't know if I should tell Sarah about since my friend pointed out, "nothing good can come of telling her." I think thats true, but I also feel like she deserves to know even though they already broke up for other reasons. If it was me, I think I would want to know, and if I did find out later and then found out my friends were hiding that from me, I think I would be pre...
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am i Bi?
Posted Friday March 21 2008, 6:56 pm
(f/16)im straight. i like guys, but penis grosses me out. and theres this girl, i dont kno how i feel about her. am i idolising her, obsesing or just in love? shes bi. has a long distance bf she doesnt care about. and me and her are really good friends. we cuddle. but i still beilive im stright. also my sis is a les so maybe im just thinking this way cuz iv been around her way of living. i dont like vaginas or boobs are any bodyparts. i dont care whats down the persons pants. what should i think?? -Sighned Loveless
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Hotel & London
Posted Friday March 21 2008, 8:00 am
My friend and I want to go to London. Her mom knows. And we need to find a hotel that allows two 15 year olds to stay in them, if the rooms are paid for by some one 18-older. If that is possible.
There will be no 18 year and older person going with us. and we have the money.
So would it be possible for us to go?
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Me and my friends
Posted Friday March 21 2008, 2:03 am
13/f
Ok so I've been hanging out with the same group of friends since I came to this school. They are so awesome. Except I think its all going wrong or something. I mean some people seem like they like me more the the other friends and they one of my closest friends seem to be annoyed with me or something and it hurts. So I am usually a quiet girl but how I really am with my friends I usually am a person who actually does talk. I don't know if I should be that way anymore though. I feel really upset. My other friend I am really annoyed with because she won't stop talking about the guy she likes and he has a girlfriend ect. So I don't show that I get annoyed with people very much either. I am really upset and feel like the gir...
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my friend is evil!
Posted Thursday March 20 2008, 1:52 pm
ive had my best friend since kindergarden and weve always been really close but now that were in high school its kinda change and i know that friend change but some of the things that have happened are kinda ridiculous!
1.one of her ex's was cheating on her and i told her and at first she believed me and then she started believeing him and the other girl and turned it into that i was jealous and was just tryin to break them up and she told everyone this and that i was such a bad friend and then when she finally found out that i was really telling her the truth they broke up but she still told everyone that it was all my fault.
2.like two years ago she dated this guy on adn off for about 3 months and last summer...
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vacation...help!
Posted Wednesday March 19 2008, 7:21 pm
kay so im in Puerto Rico right now and like I'm 14 and I would really like to not be stuck with my bros the whole time..SOO if anyone has any advice on how I can start talking to people around my age and making friends with them that would be great. and please no rude comments or anything I'm just asking for advice
THANK YOUU!<3
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Backstabber!
Posted Wednesday March 19 2008, 4:39 pm
Me and my friend got into a huge fight 2 days ago.And everytime on the bus she is always giving me dirty looks but i give her one back.How can i tell if she is talking behind my back?
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Best Friend?
Posted Wednesday March 19 2008, 3:17 pm
So i have been best freinds with this girl (erika) for 5 years, we have always been close, and we always have fun and i could always go to her for help, and trusted her, and believed she was a realy good friend, well last summer she realy betrayed me over and over again, but i mean we were best freinds and i love her - so i forgave her, because i believe in forgiveness . altthough inever realy felt the same with her( im not a lesbian lol) okay but i use to smoke, get high, and drinnk a few years back, and she didnt smoke, but now i have changed alot , and just stopped smoking, and getting high, and NOW she is geting high ALOT, like everyday and coming to school high and smoking in school, and to be honest i realy dnot like it, its wierd but...
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complication with a best friend
Posted Tuesday March 18 2008, 10:31 pm
so i have a friend. lets call her A. so A and i used to be really close. we would go on vacations together and everything. then she started to steal my clothes and whenever i'd find out she would deny it. i know for a fact that shes taken about 6 shirts. and sometimes i would be at her house and i would see something of mine and ask if it was mine and she said that i left it at her house. and i usually dont even go to her house. anyway, we started doing a sport together. after it ended though she always sat with that group at lunch and basically abandoned me and my friends. then i made a team for a cancer walk but i didnt ask her because we barely talked anymore anyway so i didnt think it would matter. then she found out and got really depr...
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Always there, always put last.
Posted Tuesday March 18 2008, 7:00 pm
This is more of a rant than a question but whatever, I need your opinions anyway.
Do any of you ever get tired of being the "always-there friend"? I don't mean clingy. Like, you're always there for your friends-- whenever they have a problem, need someone to talk to, to hang out with, whatever, you're always there for them. And I'm fine with that. But whenever I make a really good friend, they find a better one, more fun, more something, whatever, and hang out with them, until the new best friend either makes a new best friend themself or can't make plans on a weekend, THEN I'm called. Usually they get tired of the new friend in a few months, maybe a little longer, and come back to me, realizing eventually that I'm...
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my bff and her boyfriend
Posted Tuesday March 18 2008, 5:23 pm
okay so one of my best friends has an abusive boyfriend but she thinks it is ok. me and my other bff have tried talking to her about devonte (her boyfriend), but everytime they break up they get back together. he punches her and calls her names sometimes and hes always trying to take her stuff and look through it. how do i convince her to break-up with him for good this time. (just in case you want to know, a lot of guys think she is the prettiest [black] girl in the WHOLE school--devonte is-not to be rude- butt ugly,in nice terms)
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