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broken friendships
Posted Friday March 28 2008, 9:51 pm
Well we're in grade 9 and two of my closest friends hate each other to the guts! They have just been confessing about it in the beginning of the year and now it's been pretty rough all around with the hating and the insults when they meet each other in the halls. And the worst part, I'm just a bystander and i don't know what to do. They always talk about each other behind their backs and talk about it to me and I just don't know what to say and sometimes they'll get mad at me for nto agreeing or not saying anything.
What can i do?
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annoying boy.
Posted Friday March 28 2008, 8:38 pm
16/f
theres this guy. hes my new friend. he likes me though. and i dont feel that way about him anymore. i liked him for a few days, but not anymore. anyways, he asked me out and i told him no because my best friend likes him. but now he keeps texting me every night and calling me and asking me to hang out. hes nice, but hes SO ANNOYING. my other guy friends stopped being friends with him because he is just so freaking annoying. i cant stand it anymore. i mean i guess i can be like that sometimes when i like a guy, but usually he likes me back and he doesnt mind that we talk so much. (not to sound cocky or anything, and i also like make sure the guy like texts me first sometimes and stuff like that, i like it when the guy makes the f...
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Talking to guys...
Posted Friday March 28 2008, 7:18 pm
ok so i never have anything to talk about with guys...what should i say/do?? like how do i get a convo going and i never have any idea what they would like to talk about so i just never really say anything to them-please help! just give me some ideas as to what to say and what will start a good conversation and what guys like to talk about (besides girls, sports, and cars cause i kno nothing about those) THANX :)
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i need advice
Posted Friday March 28 2008, 5:40 pm
my name is brandon i used to be emo i carved my friend name in my arm but before i did that she said it would be kool but then she saw it and i asked her not to tell anybody and she did and i got introbule and i hate her now i mean she was my best friend and she betrayed me so should i give up on our friendship or wat
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i cant stand it no longer!
Posted Thursday March 27 2008, 9:14 pm
i cant stand being with my bestfriend anymore we've been close for like 9years now, since forever but she totally pisses me off very so often! like i can never forgive her for throwing things in my face while we were younger, also! she always like the guy i like, last year i told her i like this guy, then she went after him! but he didn't like her, he said she was too weird and not his type, the whole school knows about it, and yeah we have some really good times, but others shes a complete total female dog! i can't stand her gusts! i let her stay at my house after school every day because she lives far away and her mom picks her up at like 8 or 9pm, then a few months ago she told me she can just come and go as she pleases, its her decision...
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eating disorder
Posted Thursday March 27 2008, 4:29 pm
a friend of mine has an eating disorder. its not anorexia or bulimia or anything like that. she eats, but very little. and when she gets stressed out it makes her stomach hurt. and then she makes herself throw up. i have yelled at her about it and stuff because shes lost over 20 pounds since christmas and its totally unhealthy. she claimes she is just fine, but i know thats total bullshit. i really respect our friendship, and i dont want to ruin it by telling someone who could help her. i know it could help her and would really pay off, but i've been in her position. not with eating, but i was cutting and told my so-called friend, and she told her parents and her parents called me parents and it was a mess. and i hated her for it. but i do...
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Problems but not bad
Posted Wednesday March 26 2008, 11:34 pm
so i moved into yorba linda about 7 months ago and have met alot of friends at school cause i am really the kind of hiper and up string person anyways i have a friend on the block and i met a girl named alexis and she told me about a time when her friend started talking like yo and gangster and she thought it was weird but thats how i talk and she doesnt know and i am meeting with her tomorrow to ride bikes but there are boys on the block that i really like and they like me for being hiper and stuff so should i like tell alexis or just act cool around her because she is a really nice girl PLEASE GIVE ME ADVICE!!!!!!!!!
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basktabber Friend!!
Posted Wednesday March 26 2008, 9:18 pm
ok well i have this friend..and at the begging of the year we were really good friends and some howw we got into fites....and it all started when i said that her b.f was a player and she beilved him insted of me ..she got mad at me we didnt talk for months and then she called me up and said im soory...so i forgave her ( dont really ever forgive people when they backstab me) then the second time she siad that i did something on purpose..and i was like no i didnt..and it had to do with a guy...she thought i was trying to steal him but i wasnt..so aguan we got into a fight then she called and i forgave her...because i really loved her alot she was my good friend..but now agian somwthing happend about and lets just say it repapted and we werent...
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Posted Wednesday March 26 2008, 12:43 pm
hi. ok so my problem: i dont know how to be friends with boys.
like i have this one boy i used to be best friends with in Kansas and im moving back there and just got done visiting him and it was great but now idk what to text him about. and i just dont know how to be friends with boys. im only friends with boys if i like them and then we just flirt but i have a boyfriend and everything so i want just some cool guy friends. and this summer (when i move back) hes gonna introduce me to all his friends and i dont know what to talk about with them cause i dont really like sports (or understand them) so i dont know what to do. i dont want to look dumb. please help me! and also sometimes boys tease kinda meanly just cause they are ...
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im a quiet person
Posted Wednesday March 26 2008, 9:34 am
im a very quiet person and im not gonna be the first one to say hi to anybody.... but latley i feel like i want more friends then i have i only two main friends but they also have another set of friends that i dont really connect to and so sometimes i feel left out :( but i dont tell them i just dont talk to them i want more friends that i can hang out with and that will actually talk to me and not use me or lie to me.... so any advice?
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a perfect girl, cont'd
Posted Wednesday March 26 2008, 6:19 am
http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=534630
i don't think you guys understood my question.
i am completely aware of the fact that it's unfair & terrible for me to be mad at a girl who did nothing wrong.
THEREFORE,
AFTER I CAME TO THAT CONCLUSION,
i went to advicenators to find out
HHHHOOOOOWWWWWWW
to stop being mad at her & being jealous of her grades.
not to be retold that it's unfair & terrible.
can someone please help me? i really need help & advice. i cried so long yesterday and i felt so worthless... i need you guys to please help me. she gets perfect grades. i don't want to cry as i type this but i can't help it...
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New School, New friends
Posted Tuesday March 25 2008, 11:45 pm
im moving after school is out this yr and i will be in 10th grade next year. i want to try public school there but have the option of private school. public just seems easier and idk i just want to and i only started private school in the middle of my school year now (9th grade). i dont really think public school is that bad but will it be really hard to make friends? that is my biggest concern. A bunch of the kids will be new too tho because they are tons of new housing developments and the kids keep getting redistricted. so i wont be that cliquey.
i just really want to kno if making new friends will be really tough and tips on making new friends. good friends. friends that will last and arent all two-faced and cliquey and s...
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hey
Posted Tuesday March 25 2008, 11:26 pm
so im a girl. 15.
and lately ive just been way frustrated
and i dont really want to talk to my friends because im frustrated about this boy.
but i really want someone to talk to
its not an intense problem...so none of those hotlines would be great.
just, where could i go if i just wanted to have a conversation with someone??
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fake friends
Posted Tuesday March 25 2008, 8:23 pm
My name’s SAV. Okay so there are these two girls S and H. At school have our own little group of friends, there are 6 girls, we all get along except me, and S and H. S and H are best friends, and they don’t like me and it’s obvious. They talk about me right in front of me. We had some drama at the beginning of the year, so I was like okay I guess we can try to get along now. Well there was thing we all tried out for and they somehow made it and I didn’t so I was sad and started to cry b/c I wanted it badly. And Friday 3/14 is when we found out if we made it or not. Well that same day one of the friends in our group named A, called me to comfort me and stuff. I didn’t pick up immediately b/c I was sad, so I called back later like a...
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protective
Posted Tuesday March 25 2008, 7:33 pm
so earlier this year these girls were really mean to me. they practically ruined the 1st half of the school year. i know not to trust them not because they both arent nice and they've done mean things to other people. now one of my good friends is friends with them. i dont want her to get hurt but if i tell her to be careful around them she will tell them thinking they are friends and they well tell others (school counslor and parents because they love to get me in trouble ) how can i make sure my friend isnt going to behurt by these girls?
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i'm not sure what to do
Posted Tuesday March 25 2008, 4:35 pm
15/f
so i have this guy friend who was saying stuff about my best friend. he really has no reason to hate my friend because honestly she didn't do anything to him, he just started saying stuff to her. i got into a fight with my guy friend last week and now we're not really on speaking terms and it was all started with him saying stuff about my best friend again.
i really don't understand his reasoning for being like that to her, he's really stubborn.
i mean i want to be friends with him again but i don't know what i should say to him. he knows now that he probably should keep his oppinions about my other friend to himself. i hate fighting with people, what should i say to him?
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did i do the right thing?
Posted Tuesday March 25 2008, 11:52 am
Hey i have a frend named Mark, and his best frend told him some girl likes him. So on face book they were talking about him.
So i said "yeah i heard she likes mark" and the insults started flying. Turns out she doesnt/never liked him. I sent him the conversation, and he flipped out. He said i shouldnt have opened my big mouth and he was saying i hate you im done with you and kept telling me to F-off. I just didnt want them to be talking crap about him behind his back without him knowing. cuz were real tight. I tried explaining this to him. But he just doesnt care. what do you think?
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Does he like me???
Posted Tuesday March 25 2008, 1:00 am
Hey 15/F
OK so there is this guy at my school, Sam. He is really nice and I think he is a really good friend but i think he might like me as more than a friend and i dont know what to do. And im like a huge flirt and i flrt sometimes without even knowing. So i think he might think that i like him too. When truly i dont. I really like having him as one of my friends but i know i would date him or anything it'd be to weird. So what do i do?? I still want him as my friend but nothing more than that.
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guy friend
Posted Monday March 24 2008, 10:12 pm
I like this guy who is shy when it comes to girls and weve been friends forever but hes like this all of a sudden. he thinks im scary but who cares i dont wana be like every other girl i stand out haha. He crushed me worse than i ever have been and didn’t realize a thing. He comes back from vacation the last week end of spring break what can I do. I need to do something we went so long with nothing. What can I do or say? he wont go to the mall and says our houses are to akward theres never parties anymore idk were else to go. ANYTHING will help im 14
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guy friend
Posted Monday March 24 2008, 10:01 pm
I like this guy who is shy when it comes to girls and weve been friends forever but hes like this all of a sudden. he thinks im scary but im just not your average girli like to stand out. He crushed me made me fall to a million pieces and didn’t realize a thing. He comes back from vacation the last week end of spring break what can I do. I need to do something we went so long with nothing. he hates the mall and thinks our houses are to akward. What can I do or say were can we go? ANYTHING will help :( im 14
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