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she is stalking me


Posted Monday February 19 2007, 6:34 pm

okay i kno it is our mom's job to make sure everything is going okay but my mom watches my every move she even listens in on my phone calls and tracks me on the internet i have caught her reading my diary 5 times in the last 3 years....what do i do? it is driving me nuts!!!!!

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bipolar??


Posted Monday February 19 2007, 11:02 am

my goodness, this lady is like out of control...... i don't even understand her anymore...... like i'm not even kidding, i really don't. ok, like the other day i had my glasses inside my ballet bag, bc i had dance at school and i put them in there during class. well while i'm sleeping in the morning, she barges into my room and goes "where are ur glasses missy..." and she doesn't even talk this way, like i'm not even kidding. she NEVER talks this way, its like she's crazy or something. and i'm like ooooo their in my ballet bag cuz i had dance yesturday and she just passes by my room after getting them... and goes "NO!" like i'm a dog or something. just like that, how you'd talk at your dog if he were chewing on your shoe...

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im turnin gothic i love my friends and hate my family


Posted Sunday February 18 2007, 10:11 pm

my 3 aunts and my mom and evry1 thinks im going gothic~but i dont think i really am atleast not as much as most ppl~i do love black nails and most of my clothes are black~i do hate my life i only have 7 friends~im a girl my friends are 4 other more gothier ppl a prep tht are all girls and my bffs are a guy and a girl who just has ther own styles~i just feel normal when im around friends and i hate being around my family~around my friends they act like nothings different~around my family there always sayin how they hate my clothes and how i act and tellin me to stop doing different things~i love spencers hot topic and clairs~i did want red or purple tips~and every1 thinks im gothic i guess kind but my mom says shed burn my black~i do not wea...

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my sister thinks im doing drugs..


Posted Sunday February 18 2007, 2:07 pm

i hang with ppl who do drugs and i personally have done them before but i quit, now my sister thinks i still do them but i dont...how do i get her to chill?

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mom wants to go. i want to bring heather... (long but desper


Posted Sunday February 18 2007, 1:35 pm

okay well as a christmas gift this past christmas my parents got me christina a. concert tickets... well just recently, heather (24 years old, so my mom approve of her responsibility, really nice, etc) mentioned it would be at TON of fun if we went together.. well im sure my mom intended for me and HER to go together but i brought it up anyways. i said to her "hahah yesterday heather was like 'IT WOULD BE AMAZING IF WE WENT TOGETHER, WOULDNT?!!??! ASK YOUR MOM' shes so funny" and my mom said i could bring her cause they were MY christmas gifts... and she seemed kinda sad but she said she didnt mind...

Wellll, i reallyreallyreally want to bring Heather, but i fell terrible. and plus i know that if my mom goes we'll...

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clothes


Posted Sunday February 18 2007, 11:51 am

My friend Monique has a lot of clothes (which are beatiful). She lives with her mom. And her mom does compliment her a lot (just not every day) on how beatiful Moniques clothes are. This morning Monique was wearing a lime green sweater and her mom told that she loved the sweater. Monique started to wonder why her mother didnt tell her that the sweater she wore yesterday was beautiful. So she asked her mother; why didnt you say my sweater yesterday was beautiful. Her mother said; Monique stop being insecure. It is like if you said to me gee mom you look good today, I wouldnt think you did not think I looked good yesterday; MY QUESTION: DO YOU THINK MONIQUE IS OVERREACTING.

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Need help about sisters


Posted Sunday February 18 2007, 10:57 am

I am worried about my sister doing drugs. How do I know if she is or isn't? or How do I ask her?

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Jail & Court - ever been in this experience?


Posted Sunday February 18 2007, 3:19 am

So, I was driving somewhere I didn't really know and completely lost. I did the whole slow down when you pass the streetsign to make sure it is the street that I want deal.

Cops pulled me over and cited me for driving below the limit (about 10 under) improper turn and improper passing.

Course, you don't drive slow unless you're drunk or old. They didn't have the Breathalyzer in the car and had to take me back to the station.

Then they detained me for two hours trying to figure out how the Breathalyzer machine works.

They impounded my vehicle until Thursday which is the court date.

On the plus side, I wasn't drunk. :D And I got to work on time AND I now know what it...

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I think Im depressed....


Posted Saturday February 17 2007, 11:59 pm

Okay I think im depressed, my brother is and Jason {my other brother} was but wasnt treated cause my mother doenst love him. Okay I hate my life. My parents are horrible. My mother loves my brothers more then me and you cant say its middle child sydrome cause im the YOUNGEST! So ughh. And schools no better but my dad is horribleer then anything. I dont know if we can swear on this but he calls me a stupid little B and jerk and other names like fat and anything and does it all the time. he yells a lot but doesnt hit me so it just sucks to be here..... how can i tell if im depressed? i sleep a lot and eat a lot... i never smile and get mad easily
tell me if you think im depressed and how i can tell if i am

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my mom is an alcoholic


Posted Saturday February 17 2007, 7:36 pm

My mom is like addicted to alcohol. Every weekend, when she is off work, she has like a 12-pack of beer. Some times less; some times more. Even when she is working, on occasion she'll sneak in a few beers before work or after. And she never finds the time to spend time with the family. She makes promises she'll skip a weekend, or a day at least, to do something "as a family" but she ends up getting drunk when she gets home from work on Friday. She breaks my heart so much when she makes promises, then breaks them. I do know alcoholism is [like] a disease that's hard to cure, but is there anything I can do to help her??

She knows the long-term side effects, like liver disease and other problems. She knows she has a pr...

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Parental Issues


Posted Saturday February 17 2007, 6:40 pm

Well I basically hate my dad. :-/
He's always doing thing to just piss me off, and yes I can tell the difference between something that will benefit me and something that's spiteful. Just tips to either A: Help me deal with it. B: Anything else you want to add.

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secondhand smoke


Posted Friday February 16 2007, 7:24 pm

i hate the cigarette smoking that is going on in my house. theres no way to stop it so what can i do for myself
like wearing a gas mask and retreating to my room and opening all the windows?

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are we all falling apart or is it just me?


Posted Friday February 16 2007, 6:29 pm

*= name changed
Intro:
Ten years ago my favorite aunt on my mom's side died in a car crash with her son. My mom had a really hard time dealing with this. Then almost 3-4 years ago my uncle was caught dealing drugs. He was arrested in front of my young cousin and his daughter Trina*. That upset Trina really bad because she has never even been close to much of anything like that. That destroyed my family on my dad's side because then my aunt's husband started to talk crap on my uncle Steve*. My uncle Brett* was a real jerk and he was so mean to his kids. His daughter Kary* became a real slut and started dating my dad's live in working hand Trace*. Kary was 14 at the time and Trace was 24. It was disgusting because they kept it f...

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I hate her


Posted Friday February 16 2007, 5:02 pm

my uncles' girlfriend just totally hates me that's why she is making my family irritate me She doesn't get it she thinks I bother people when all along I just mind my own business and it's people who are ruining their selfs. I hate her. Why would I want to copy other peoples style. She is like one of those annoying girls thinks ugly girls copy their style when they really aren't that interesting. She has brainwashed everyone in every way. I feel like i have no escape from this .

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hard for me


Posted Friday February 16 2007, 4:57 pm

I can't stand it when my mom talks to me. I think she is doing it purposely and I feel hurt and there are other bad feelings I feel. I cannot just tell her about it because she will just get mad. I can't stand it. It's been happening since I was 17. It's hard to describe but it's like she doesn't mind her own business. Like she wants to make me cry all the time. What am I going to do not come out when she is around but what if I need to. I don't get why she does this to me. help it' really hard for me.

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perfect life?


Posted Friday February 16 2007, 11:59 am

okay well all my friends would tell you that i have the perfect life, i get perfect grades in school, i have a great relationship with my family, and up until now ive had no family troubles. this morning i found out that my dad was admitted into a phsyicatric hospital because he said something to his councelor that worried him. he has been having many many problems with his work because he is a cop and i just dont know how to deal with it. i have a competition for dance this weekend and i have never had to deal with anything like this before so its new to me. hes not gonna be there to see me dance like he always is. and i would just like some advice on how to handle this or what to do. thank you so much in advance.

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My friend is having very serious problems please tell me how


Posted Thursday February 15 2007, 10:46 pm

I have a friend that has lived with both of her parents all of her life. They have always had problems and got divorced about a year ago but her mom can't make it on her own so her dad still lives with them. This is hard for my friend because she is just 14 and doesn't understand. Her dad has a problem with alcohol and when he drinks they all fight and she gets mad and says things she doesn't mean. How do I help my friend know that everything is going to be okay?

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scared


Posted Thursday February 15 2007, 11:48 am

My dad is gay and married another man!! AHHHH!! I hate being around because he used to be straight!! AHHHHHHHHH!

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my forgotten bday


Posted Wednesday February 14 2007, 9:55 pm

my dad just relized my birthday was 2 days ago its only me and my dad i ve been talkin about it for a long time and he forgot for 2 days he said he was sorry he relized it when i was crying sayin you didnt remember my bday all my friends called and sang and talked and everything but my DAD didnt i cant get over it he forgot last year too ITS EVEN ON THE CALANDER im cryin i just cant get over it

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Parents are confusing


Posted Wednesday February 14 2007, 1:04 pm

Ok, so yesterday I got my report card for the 2nd marking period. I knew that I didn't do well so I wasn't exactly looking foward to it coming home because my parents are really strict about grades. So I came home and I saw it on the counter. I looked in that direction for a second and thought I saw a C on it. I go in the other room and my dad was like that's bad. My brother then was like what are you talking about. My dad replied nothing. A few minutes later when everyone cleared the room, I decided to go look at it without anyone seeing me. This way I wouldn't get yelled at yet. I went and it was gone. I looked everywhere. I can't find it. It's like my parents are hiding MY grades from ME. I guess I must have done really bad....

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