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PANICKING! 10 hot boys!
Posted Saturday April 12 2008, 10:56 am
OK HELP ME, THIS IS RIDICULOUS! Me and my friends are thorwing a party, and we all somehow agreed to invite atleast 10 of our hot male friends.. I dont have any male friends, but felt embarrassed to say so.. (please dont tell me to tell the truth) I JUST NEED TO MAKE 10 FRIENDS FAST, how the heck do i do this? I dont have the money to join a sports club or anything like that, but please im so scared.. i cant think about anything else.. the nervousity for this party is killing me, i wish i could cancel the wohle thing, but its waaay to late.. PLEASE guys PLEASE help me here.. how do i do this? im desperate and scared¨
thanks for any advice!!
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I don't like him/them.
Posted Saturday April 12 2008, 10:49 am
Everytime I get a guy friend they always like me!! I do not like them like that. When they finally tell me they do I'm always honest and tell them I see them just as friends. They sometimes get hurt and distance themselves from me or act funny or mention it to me aall the time. I get guy advice from them, you know?
So here's one:
I haven't talked to Alex for about a year, year and a ahalf because he moved. Well he found me on myspace and called me. We laughed as usual. Then he mentioned how he said I changed and likes my physical appearance. I said thank you of course, then he started asking me relationship questions! (WHAT DO I DO WHEN THEY ASK ME? What's the best thing to say.)
Everytime I tell a guy my ...
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friends or no
Posted Saturday April 12 2008, 10:47 am
I am friends with this girl, and all the time she cancels on me. We will make plans like a week in advance or spur of the moment and everytime it seems like she cancels. She always seems to be able to hang out with other people though. She comes from a low income family but we are good friends and she knows she can ask me for money. It is just getting really annoying how she cancels everytime. should i say something to her?? she obviously thinks this is not a problem and for everyone in the group, we are all getting annoyed. but she will turn around to her other friend and blame it all on us?!?! what should i do.
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Im about to hit this girl
Posted Saturday April 12 2008, 9:28 am
Okay well there is this girl who I used to be like best friends with, up untill last week when i almost hit her in the cafe, but i didnt want to get introuble so i just cursed at her really load the whole 8th grade hurd me yelling, so ya she had blamed me for teling the whole school that she made out with this boy when she is goin out with this other boy, but i didnt she is the one who told the wrong person and that wrong person told the whole person so not my falt, so then she starts crying and i got mad becuase she has told ever friggen secret that i have ever told her and how many time have i cryed its messed up, other than theat she is just not a good friend, after 2 weeks of dateing her BF she had sex, but then he did her and ran,and s...
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how to be more outgoing
Posted Friday April 11 2008, 11:48 pm
I mean sometimes in certain moods I am.. but I hate how some people at school think im shy or quiet.. cause I'm usually not like that at home or with my friends. like sometimes i find it hard to be outgoing.. especially since its the third semester of 8th grade so its hard to just be like "hey whats up" to someone that you've seen everyday but never reallly talked to them. thats like what ya do on the first day of school. thats how i was then, i wanted to get more good friends and fell pretty good about myself a lot. but then soon as cliques developed and stuff.. i mean a lot of my friends are from diff cliques and i never really found one i could really be with forever.. im not even sure if ive found my best friends yet.. even wi...
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Uhh whats happening.
Posted Friday April 11 2008, 8:31 pm
okayyyyyyyyyy;;
so, one of my best friends that ive known ever since the fourthhh graddeee is hanging with one of my ooothhheerr best friends.
like they met from me- how do i explain it.
but they hang out all the time now.
like my fourth grade friend lets call her - Lily- and my other best friend- Mary-
Lily would seem to be more excited when she sees mary.. like lily would be all dull with me.. and voice her opinions with me and sometimes even treat me like crap; but its really normal because she can be a selfish person.
but with lily; she lauughhhs, she goes with whattevver mary wants with out an opinion on it.
Lily lives right across the street from me and...
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another question for those experts
Posted Friday April 11 2008, 8:20 pm
latley, me and my best friend have been drifting apart.
im usually not the jealous type;
actually i really never am
but this time; i have to admit...
i am jealous.
even how much that takes out of me.
my best friend, who i usually hang out with everyday and/or talk on the phone for 3478590 hours, is hanging with another person, someone who ive known ever since the 6th grade- a close friend but not best friend
ANYWAYS
theyve been hanging out alot latley
meaning NO phone calls and deffinatly no attention towards me.
lets call my best friend "Mary"
this has been happening for a week now; and its aggrivating me....
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Jelousy! what to do!!!
Posted Friday April 11 2008, 7:56 am
I really hate being jelous of people...but when one of my friends gets everything: everyone likes her, she gets stright A's, got into the TOP chior, has gone to EVERY top band thing, pretty, outgoing, everything i am not....I don't want to be jelous of her.....
Any ideas on how to make myself feel better around her?(everytime i am around her i feel so inferior and like she could be friends w/ better people)
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WHen Should I walk away?
Posted Friday April 11 2008, 6:27 am
My best friend is going through a lot of crap in his life as far as his family and his dad's drug issues and such (which wouldn't have been a huge deal if his dad wasn't in a coma 3 years ago and is finaly getting his life back, but he's wasting it on druggies and neglecting his son.. plus his mom isn't in his life so hes being raised by grandparents and such because his dad is a mess)
So we were tight but recently he started treating me like $hit! He gives me dirty looks a lot of the time and it hurts like he11! I'm supposidly one of his best friends here. He's being nice to EVERYONE except me. he's being nicer to my good friend Aly than he is to me.
I just feel so hurt that he's taking out his issues on me. He claims...
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Confusing time
Posted Friday April 11 2008, 2:10 am
13/f
I don't know what to do. I have a cut on my wrist but I didn't do it. My friends think I cut myself because I was crying last week and I was absent these last two days of school. The reason I was crying last week was because my aunt died and I was gone because my family went to San Diego. The reason I have a cut on my wrist was because my brother pushed me into this rose cactus thing. I have been covering it up because I don't want other people seeing it and thinking that I do cut myself and I still won't tell my friends. I told two of my friends and they believe me and it doesn't even look that much like a knife or something. I mean but it stinks because its in the perfect spot where it would be if someone did cut thems...
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my friend hates this guy
Posted Thursday April 10 2008, 9:12 pm
my friend hates this guy i like, and he always says stuff to her thats like not really mean but its rude, and idk what to do about it because i dont want to loose her as a friend but then again i dont want to loose him....im sooo confussed???
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an old friend
Posted Thursday April 10 2008, 7:51 pm
heyy there advicenators!
so i know you guys must be SICK of friendship questions about a troubled young woman who has a supposed 'best friend' who obviously treats her like diarrhea in a toilet, but this may be a little bit different... i need a new perspective on this situation. i don't necessarily need a solution that will save my life, i just want your opinion.
i have this amazingg friend, and we met at a social gathering almost 4 years ago. in any case, we met, and it turned out we were both the same age but attended different schools. so we became really good friends and after like a year or two BEST friends. we'd talk like everyday and there were SOO many advantages because she didn't go to my school ...
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jealousy/low self asteem when with friend??
Posted Thursday April 10 2008, 4:58 pm
My best friend is really pretty. Guys are constantly talkiing to her and commenting on her looks. I feel so awkward just standing therewhile all the guys are allhitting on her. I mean--i'm not ugly but they never do anything like that to me. i feel extremely ugly when i'm with her.I feel bad to be saying this,, but what should i do? liek i feel like im jealous of her maybe?? I don't have a low self esteem any other time--it's just with her. I try not to let it get to me--but after a while it does. How do i get guys to pay attention to me too? and what else should i do?
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Am i overreacting??
Posted Thursday April 10 2008, 4:55 pm
My best friend is about to date a guy who was a total asshole to me--i can't stand him. she asked me what i would do if they started dating, andi told her i didn't think we would be near as close because it would hurt to know that she wouldn't stand up for me in a guy i absolutely hate. She thinks this is completely out of line and that a best friend would support her decision. Although i see her point of view, i just think that i COULDNT feel the same way about her--i mean if a guy did that to her i definitely wouldn't date him!! Am i right here?? what should i do?
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How can i ignore my feelings?
Posted Thursday April 10 2008, 10:44 am
I don’t know why this is bothering me, I always think out of the box. I mean I just don’t think of the now and always the future and what if‘s. When I told my friend that I liked her she doesn’t feel the same. Today I remember that I and she were talking about her story she had to write for English class. She was talking about the main character is semi based on her. She said “she needs a guy friend” I ask her “will It be infatuation with the both of them? and i kno that you hate romance stories” she said “short of but it be like her liking him but afraid to be serious with the relationship because what if it doesn’t work out and it will effect there friendship”. I didn’t say anything but change the subject. ...
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Socially Inept?
Posted Wednesday April 9 2008, 11:13 pm
As full of advice as I am, I'm not perfect, and I've lost touch with people my age. I have basically all of 1 friend and I'd like somemore. I don't know where 19 year olds hang out anymore though. I haven;t been friend-hunting since I was 15... any suggestions?
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boy and girl Drama!!!
Posted Wednesday April 9 2008, 4:21 pm
ok,,,,
well
i am going out with this guy named Drew and my best friend Mariah is not friends with him and Mariah and drew both want to spend time with me and that is really hard at school. Mariah is in 3 of my classes and drew is not in any of my classes. Maraih and i have gooten in alot of fights lately cuz she thinks that i am not spending that much time with her. but i am. What should i do???
I feel really Sterched between them.
please help!!!
thanks
Strawberry
14/f
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im such a loner. lol.
Posted Tuesday April 8 2008, 10:43 pm
i basically only had 2 friends a week ago. a guyfriend , Bob. and a girl whose a friend, jane. well jane and i go to the same school. bob doesnt go to our school and i usually went to his house every friday to watch movies and hang out. but he and i both really liked eachother. he had asked me out a few times and i turned him down each time. then he asked me out again last monday and we've been going out ever since. but i asked him if we could still be friends even if we are going out. he said yeah, but its not the same. i want it so badly to be the same. but thats impossible. hes always sitting so close and putting his arm around me and we kiss and stuff. and i know thats what your supposed to do with a bf, but i miss what we used to be. i...
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Best friend vs. Boyfriend
Posted Tuesday April 8 2008, 10:06 pm
Hi I've been dating my boyfriend for 2 and a half years and have been best friends with this girl for 4 and they kinda get along, but i mean they aren't best friends or anything. But my boyfriend one day made her really mad by saying that she cant come eat with us at prom and now she is mad at me because I can't change his mind. I dont know what to do about either of them! Please help!!
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friends
Posted Tuesday April 8 2008, 7:31 pm
i have a really close friendship with two girls at my school. but thats about it. i want other friends. i mean i love my friends to death but i feel like thats all i have when we get in fights or when we just get tired of each other im stuck doing nothing because i have no one. there are some girls that i talk to and its not that they dont like me (not too many people hate me)i dont know what to do to have a better friendship with them.
also when older boys come and talk to me i freeze up.i have to idea what to say, though i would do anything for them to be friends with me. (who doesnt want older more mature boys to be freinds with them) with the freshman boys its not as big of deal though. basically i have no people skills ha. so yea please help me out! thank you in advace
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