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Friendship
Friendship is a beautiful thing that can get messy sometimes. Ask your question here.


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WOW WHAT ARE BESTEST FRIENDS FOR RIGHT?!?!


Posted Thursday April 17 2008, 9:22 pm

omg me and this girl almost got in a fight one day and i told me so called "friends" then today i was like about to fight her but i didnt. and then i get a call like an hour later my so called "best friend" was like come up to our school and i was hanging with my soccer buddy (shes like my bestest friend also) and i went up there and the girl i was about to fight was up there and my friends were like shes up here, fight her and i was like no im not just going to fight her and my so called "best friend" was like over by her talking to her and stuff. then one of my friends came up to the school like 2 hours later and no one was there but the guys playing basketball, soccer, and lacross. so my friend came over and...

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Posted Thursday April 17 2008, 3:56 pm

For some reason when I'm with my best friend, I can't help but be extremely self-conscious. It feels like she is better than me in every way! She has a curvy body, big butt, bigger boobs, better hair and a prettier face. And even though she basically copies what I wear, she still looks better — even in my own clothes! It seems like I'm in a competition where I'm trying to look as pretty as she does. Is there anything I can do to feel better about myself?

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uncomfortable situation with a guy.


Posted Wednesday April 16 2008, 10:29 pm

14/f. theres this guy in one of my classes who like always says random stuff to me like "i love your ears" and "can i touch your eyebrows". and "i love you ____ (my name)" all stuff like that. hes this like really laid back i guess "cool", asian kid. and the problem is that it leaves be confused. like idk whether hes just joking, or he means it and hes just trying to be my friend. cause i dont want to be like agreeing to it when he was just kidding but i dont want to be cold and lose a friend.. but i really have no idea so it bugs me and i try to avoid him so he doesnt say stuff like that. like idk how to respond so im usually like.. "okay." but what else could i say? i mean how can i tell w...

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bored with my guyfriend!


Posted Wednesday April 16 2008, 9:37 pm

http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=536839

any ideasss? please note: i don't have...

- video games
- a trampoline
- a finished basement
- an interesting home in general

and i didn't really want to go somewhere else .. i wanted to hang out with him at one of our houses but he can't do it

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Trouble with a friend


Posted Wednesday April 16 2008, 5:53 pm

My best friend has been going through a lot of trouble involving her family. the problem is even though i know she is going through lot she keeps saying she will talk to me about it but doesn't. we are really close and i don't know how to help her. recenlty she has started flaking out on classes. how can i help her out?

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feeling lonley =(


Posted Wednesday April 16 2008, 11:25 am

ok so i started the school year by going back to 6th form at my school, i chose art photography and design. i am in a class of girls, theres 9 girls and me... at first i thought this wont be bad at all i'll actually get on with something and have a chat at the same time because i know them all. well yeh it did sorta for a while, now i'm feeling lonley in that class because i have no one to connect with theres no guys i can talk to about the stuff i like. theres one girl who comes close to this but she only has one lesson every couple of days. like yesterday they were all on about sex (which is normall conversation for them lol) and they were all talkin about how they didnt like the way "a mans you know what" looked as they put. so...

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My friend is BEING AN IDIOT.


Posted Wednesday April 16 2008, 6:11 am

OKAY.

Well my friend likes this guy who is sort of playing around with her. Somedays he'll flirt with her, somedays he'll be normal, somedays he'll ignore her. He hasn't really shown any interest in her, he does flirt but I think it's just a casual thing.

Anyway, we (We being all her friends) think what he's doing is wrong, no matter how he feels about her.

One day, one of our friends was like "oh my god, you can do so much better. seriously, you're so much better than him. what he's doing isn't right"

Then my friend who I'm asking about/likes the boy spent the whole weekend bitching about my friend, saying it was her descision to like him or not and my other friend doesn...

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best friends for never?


Posted Tuesday April 15 2008, 10:30 pm

lauren and i have been best friends since 6th grade, now were freshman. we always have had major fights over stupid things that last a while or not long at all. well weve been good for a while now, not much fighting but shes like never satisfied with her froup of friends, like we have one group thats like our normal friends that she has over her house. then in school, she has to be the center of attention and is like friends with like everyone and now people are talking i think. shes gone from britt in 6th grade, to me, (big fight, during the fight) mel, then me, then now sarah and nicole and now back to me. as best friends. i feel hurt because i dont know why she does that and i dont want to leave her because when we are at our best its a...

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What to do?


Posted Tuesday April 15 2008, 10:04 pm

So, me & this girl just started being friends again sometime around the end of February. Well, we're sort of getting closer & hanging out more often. But when she comes over, I never have any idea of what to do, but I don't want us to just sit there, you know? & she's spending the night this weekend. So, any ideas of what we can do?

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angry


Posted Tuesday April 15 2008, 8:05 pm

okay, i have no idea where to put this question so i'll just put it here. okay, well i'm ALWAYS angry, or mad. i don't know why. its ruining my relationship with my friends and family. i can't help it its like if the slightest thing is happening i'll like freak out. i hate it. i say what i want when i want. i tell people what i feel when i feel about it..i can't help it. councling won't work...i've tried that...but should i try agian? i mean, i have NO idea why i act like this. and for the most time i don't think i'm that bad but others do. i really want to change. you know be a better person all around. get a better life. part of this is because like there are 3 kids in the family i'm the middle and least favorite. i try REALLY hard in sch...

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hanging out with my guyfriend alone!


Posted Tuesday April 15 2008, 7:40 pm

15f

i have this guyfriend and he's a year older than me and he wanted to hang out with me over spring break. he doesn't want to hang out at his house, and my house is REALLY REALLY REALLY boring. does someone have some ideas?

also -- i know we can hang somewhere else, but it's not like as fun in public places. we don't have anything going on but i've never hung out with him beforee and i'm worried he's gonna comeover and be like, "so... now what..." and i don't want to be in that position.

can someone help us think of something to do or ANYTHINGGG? my basement isn't finished and board games are dumb. i wouldn't know what movie to rent and i wouldn't want my parents walking into the...

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best friend's boyfriend is using her...I think


Posted Tuesday April 15 2008, 6:02 pm

Ok, So this is kindof confusing. First off, My best friend in the worl is...well she's not as "attractive" as most people. I know that sounds mean, but I have to say it. Anyways, my best friend finally got herself a boyfriend about a month ago and she was soooo happy. He was a grade older then us and really hot. I was extremely happy for her. Anyway, this guy "John" [her bf then] has a best friend named "brad". Well, my best friend broke up with "john" about 3 weeks ago. I knew Brad because we all just sortof hangout after school. Alex, my best friend, tells me see suspects brad likes me. So I'm like "ok, but what if he likes you, and that's why he still hangs out with us?" and she still tho...

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closure


Posted Tuesday April 15 2008, 3:42 pm

I liked my best friend for over an year now. In July I fell in love..Febuary we ended the friendship to agreement we needed a change, we needed to figure things out, and to give me time to let go. Over time we could be friends again, so after 3 1/2 weeks we became friends again. It lasted 2 1/2 weeks, we discovered we weren't meant to be friends. So we are done. I didn't feel any pain or emotion in the last 1 1/2 weeks that this happened. Wednesday I got a slap in the face, and realized I may have hurted him more than he had hurted me, and that hurt. But as of tonight, I found it extreme painful that the chances of getting a 3rd chance at being friends are 1 out of 1000...I have only known him 15 months, but we became really close, I was ab...

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If she isnt interrested...then why...?


Posted Tuesday April 15 2008, 1:57 am

If she isnt interrested...then why...?
did she say this to me when i told her i met a guy at a party.

"I dont know if is should be happy or pissed"
and
"I guess time will tell for the both of us"

i told her how i felt but she doesnt like me in that way, and i ask her if she was jealous and she said yes, but isnt into me more than a friend.

i dont get it?
i am a bisexual female


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i wanna throw the party of the year but i need help


Posted Monday April 14 2008, 4:12 pm

okay so im graduating from middle school this year and i really want an AMAZING party :) i havent even asked my mom yet but shes gonna wanna know what my plans for the party are. i really hope she says yes and im expecting 20-30 people that are gonna be invited. i want something fun to do and i wanna do something like a water ballon fight or spray those silly string things but those are small things and want to do something else to do...i have decoration and food covered but what i need are the activties for 14 year olds to do...i no it sounds young but still we like to have fun :)

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deepest darkest secrets


Posted Monday April 14 2008, 12:11 am

Ok so last night mine and my sister's best friend spent the night and we decided we would write down all of our deepest darkest secrets that we havent even told each other or anyone about then we would read each others and when my friend read my list i felt so incredibly releived like a huge weight had been lifted off my shoulder and now i feel like i can tell her anything and talk to her about anything but that scares me alot for some reason just knowing that if something happened she'd know and i guess just the fact that she knows pretty much everything about me now it kind of scares me ok well it scares me to death but i thought doing the whole read each others deepest darkest secerts would bring us closer i thought it'd be good for us k...

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friendship


Posted Sunday April 13 2008, 6:12 am

okay hi there My question is my bf and I had bn friends for like six years when a couple weeks ago we got into this big arguement about her friends who acted real bad towards me you know like ignorin me etc and when I told her about this we got into a big arguement and decided to call it quits I guess what Im askin is how do I get over a friendship which was more like a sister hood???
any help is apreciated!!
lxx

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This is odd...?


Posted Sunday April 13 2008, 12:12 am


Me and my group of friends were at a fast food place out side. we were having a blast by doing truth or dare but didnt do the dares because we chickien out. anyways...one of my friends dare me to kiss a guy who walks pass me i laughed and said no and one of my friends Alice shouted out "ha yeah right!" in a serious tone....um okay why she say that?
she knows i am bisexual and that i liked her but she isnt that way.

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Kind of Mean


Posted Saturday April 12 2008, 9:01 pm

Hey. I need some advice. I appear to be very aloof and tend to get attitudes with people easily, even if its not them I'm mad at. When i talk to people, it sounds like i dont care. I dont even make eye contact with people. BUT, so far nobody's complained about these things (unless they do it behind my back) and its important to be yourself, right? sometimes i try to hide this side of me because i'm worried that people will think i'm mean, but at the same time, thats who i am. what should i do? thanks

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summer camp


Posted Saturday April 12 2008, 12:33 pm

i satarted at a youth group after i went to camp for a weekend in the winter for them, and i really love it and all of the people there. i don't really have any close friends though just people i flirt with or hang out with when i go.it's really fun and there is also a summer camp. i had so much fun at the winter camp it was them ost amazing weekend of my life. and if i'm ever upset i think that i NEED to go back to that because it was perfect. so i obviously want to go to summer camp, but the only problem is my 1 close friend that introduced me to this youth group and introduced me to a lot of people there can't go to the camp because she is going to the beach the same week. i don't want to go to summer camp alone because that has always b...

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