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wat to do when violated
Posted Thursday March 8 2007, 8:47 pm
when i was bout 6-8 i was molested by an older boy we moved and i never saw him again then fast forward bout 7 years im living life happy and then i saw him again at the mall and i broke down in the mall bathroom my mom knows bout this and she thinks i need conseling and need to confront him but im rele dont want to
it scared
wat should i do i now have nighmares bout it
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my problem
Posted Thursday March 8 2007, 8:10 pm
i am thinking about moving out from my mom's house soon because i really cannot take her attitude anymore. there is always something coming up with her and i just don't want to deal with it anymore because i am sensitive and i am not the fighter type of person and whenever she is hurt about something she does not like me do she gets all fighty and i loose. sorry if this sounds like not important.
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is my mom crazy?
Posted Thursday March 8 2007, 6:36 pm
Ok so my mother has been really really weird lately. About two years ago next week we lost my brother. She took it really hard but who wouldn't. So anyways she has been acting really rude to me and everyone else. She is sick a lot. She always has lots of advil and tylonel and ibeprofen in her purse. She is always wanting one and she's always always tired. We just went to the doctor and the doctor called our appointment off and when she found out she called the doctor as quick as she could and told them she needed her zanex and some other medicine for her depression. I don't doubt she needs those, but she is always taking something. Is she on drugs? Is she addicted? She is so irretable too. I can't talk to her because she won't listen anyway...
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Grew up w/out Father and now he wants a relationship
Posted Thursday March 8 2007, 12:37 pm
My Mom and Father were divorced when I was 3 yrs. I have 3 other siblings. We never revieved any contact throught our growing up years from out
Father. And just out of the blue he contact each of us and wants to have a relationship. I am hesitent. My Mother pass away 4 years ago. Each of us have had a brief phone conversation with he and to my sister and I he asked us to call him DAD... I was polite and said that I would stick with Sir for now. He has 1 other child that is in his 30's and is on drugs is not in contact with him. My Father has just recently retired at the age of 67. He did say the he was sorry to hear about Mom's death. I have mixed feelings and thats what I need help with.
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racist
Posted Wednesday March 7 2007, 10:41 pm
ok, im 14/f.
my parnets are racist and always have been. my sis and i are the only ones out of 6 people in our family that dates out of our race. my ? is how can i get my mom into getting to know my black bf???? holla at ya snowbunny lata/./.
abby aka Az
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mom and working out
Posted Wednesday March 7 2007, 8:04 pm
My body is used to not eating until around 4:30 -5:00...i have no idea why, but i just am not hungry (i've been like this for probably 3 years). I told my mom i do not eat b-fast or lunch, and she became really concerned. I've been working out lately to get my body in shape for the sole reasoning that there is a track camp in the summer that i need to get in shape for it because there is a ton of running.
I'm comfortable as i am (15/f..5' 7.5"...123 lbs) and do not especially want to lose any weight.
i get the feeling that my mom may think i have some sort of eating disorder which makes me really uncomfortable. (she makes wierd comments) I do eat, but not until late afternoon where i have a snack...
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she bothers me.
Posted Wednesday March 7 2007, 7:21 pm
my uncle's wife thinks i am a bitch that i steal other girls style and make myself look stupid. i am not i don't even buy clothes. she's like in her 20's so she thinks she can just pick on me. i don't steal anyone 's style at all. i don't even like how they dress. i hate her i don't want this happening. i can tell even without her talking to my mom i know she has done something that would make them think like her.
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i hate her
Posted Wednesday March 7 2007, 7:04 pm
I was just heating up food in the microwave what annoyed me is that my mom has to ask. what for of course it's food. she's the one that is always asking me what did you eat? i hate her. gosh i can never hide anything from her and that's what i am doing to not get annoyed of her. it is a big deal anyways for her to do this. can't move out yet though . i feel insulted i feel so stuck with her. i am her daughter she shouldn't be doing this to me. that fucking bitch.
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I Need advice Plz!!
Posted Wednesday March 7 2007, 6:24 pm
My mom just moved back with my stepdad and they are still getting a divorce. We are staying in st. clair shores for the rest of the school year but then we are moving to rochester hills with her bf (if you don;t know thats about an hour away) I don't want to switch schools because i don't want to leave my friends and i am not good at making friends cause i am so shy!!! I keep trying to tell her i don't want to go, but she won't listen !!! What should i do????
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Posted Wednesday March 7 2007, 2:52 pm
my uncle's wife is so annoying. I mean it really got on my nerves that he wants to see what everything in my room looks life. why should she care why does she have to see things. they didn't even really need to use the computer on my room but then they did one time. what an excuse. it's stupid. i don't even like how she smelled when she came in my house.
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overprotective parents
Posted Tuesday March 6 2007, 9:39 pm
do you think it's reasonable for a seventeen-year-old girl to be forbidden to get rides from her friends? i mean, my mom and dad don't let me drive around with my friends. it's not like they're fucking drug dealers or anything, they just don't like it. i try to be empathetic and see things from their point of view, but i don't. i don't argue with them unless i really disagree, and i just don't think it's fair. please tell me if i'm being totally uncooperative in feeling this way. and what can i do to get them to ease up a little? i hate not being able to go anywhere unless they pick me up and drop me off.
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stuck with her
Posted Tuesday March 6 2007, 8:24 pm
whatever I feel so bad. I do not like being ridiculed in anyway and that is what my controlling demanding mom just did to me today. her and her jokes and comments she wants this but it's still not right. why the hell is she acting like this it's tearing me apart. i say something and she repeats it she's always in my face and i cannot stand it I am so annoyed i don't know how to apply for college can't find a job that accepts not so tall people. I want to really move out but i am stuck.
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life
Posted Tuesday March 6 2007, 7:42 pm
my family puts so much pressure on me to do "good". straight a's in school, scholarships for college, healthy friendships. my parents pretty much contol my life.
but the thing that bothers me most is that they treat me and my brother so different. im 16 and hes 18. i know that there is an age difference. but when he ran away at christmas and didnt come back for a week, they now treat him like "the perfect child" if you will. they dont yell at him about his shitty grades. they dont yell at him for skipping work and going to his girlfriends house while her parents are away.
but when i run away in a store, they ground me for a month. wtf is up with that? they threaten all the time to forcefully...
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site suggestion
Posted Tuesday March 6 2007, 7:42 pm
I get mad to the point of crying no one knows what I feel does anyone know a site that could offer help dealing with it?
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feelings
Posted Tuesday March 6 2007, 4:12 pm
When it comes to relationship problems why do mothers always wants to put down their daughters feelings?
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trouble of some sort
Posted Tuesday March 6 2007, 3:49 pm
i can't stand my mom I really think that she is mistreating me. Why I haven't done any thing wrong to her. She is like a bully. ONe time her friend asked me a question then she repeated my answer including how I said it i hate being mimicked. WHat am I going to do about this problem? I don't want to talk to her about it. then they both looked at me when she said I got cake for her. Seriously I am being ruined here. I can't move out yet.
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annoying
Posted Tuesday March 6 2007, 3:26 pm
I hate how things are going for me. I just got told about something that is annoying.
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I don't really know where this question should go but
Posted Tuesday March 6 2007, 12:13 pm
anyways!
I'm 14/f. My problem is that my life is sooooo freakinnng boringg!! I bore myself. We just moved here 3 years ago. Still have no family friends and no relatives. I have 2 best friends from school, but we can never do anything together because we're too young to drive...and our parents are too lazy and don't want to drive all of us anywhere.
I really don't know what to do!! I don't feel like doing something useful...I just want to have a good time for once instead of sitting on the computer for hours...
It seems hopeless. I know what I have to do, to be creative and motivate myself...but there's nothing really motivating in my life right now...
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F/15 guilty feeling
Posted Monday March 5 2007, 10:36 pm
I have wanted this qustion answered for a long time. For some weird reason i always get this bad bad bad guilty feeling if i do soemhting wrong even slighty like skip a problem on my homeowrk ita like wrecking me on the inside. MY mom like trained me to tell her evrything adn when i dont BAM! guilt trip! and it feels THE WORST uyou could ever feel i dont want to have to feel guilty for little things help me
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I need an anwer quick (daddy's girlfriend)
Posted Monday March 5 2007, 6:50 pm
ok my dad has a girlfriend shea pretty were nice clothes all the time but when we go places with her shes loud and cause im skinny i tried on clothes and they were to big she started laughing that aint bad but she make me do stuff for her cause i dont be wanting to eat.So tell me should i like her or not? o yea and shes rude sometimes but she does hair kute and her mom talka about my sis cause shes fat. my dad also gets mad at me cause i dont like her wat should i do?
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