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Do I let things flow or do I try to hold on? Posted Wednesday April 23 2008, 7:30 am
Okay, well lately me and my best friend have been drifting apart.
She's been upset with me about protesting something a distant relative believes in, and she didn't tell me until she was ready to basically disown me as a friend. If I would have known I would have honestly given up the thing I was protesting for her.
Anyway, because of how upset she is with me it's been hard to converse with her. I try, but she sort of kills it.
We're still friends, and we hung out yesterday and we were fine, but it's online which really hurts. And we speak online more than real life so it's getting bad.
And just then, heaps of people were asking me why this certain girl who we both hang out with go...
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My husband and I best of friends but!! Posted Wednesday April 23 2008, 2:13 am
My husband (29)(well ok boyfriend) and I (27) 10 years and 2 kids. Are the best of friends, I think thats why this is hard. He works hard for our family 40 hours a week(drywall), but when it comes to things around the house he just gets real lazy in my eyes. Im a stay at home mom he comes home to a clean house food on the table, but when he does not do it I tend to get mad and dont want to hurt his feelings! So i guess my guestion is how to tell him to do it without all the badness behind it?
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Why does she want to know my schedule? Posted Wednesday April 23 2008, 2:02 am
my friend kept asking when i work two months ago, i was working and she text me "when you off of work?" i reply soon i am just closing the store with the crew. she relpy again "so you not off yet?" "no iam not, why do you want to know?" she didnt reply. then the next moring she ask again when i work. i told her then ask her why, she said "just curious" i reply "okay? you kept buggin me when i am off and when i work and you just wondering?!?!" i called her a "stocker" and she said "your point?". Now this moring she ask again! so i ask her why and she was just wondering??? if she wants to do something she should ask me. geezz!! i see her every mondays and wedendays because ...
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poem/lyrics Posted Tuesday April 22 2008, 10:24 pm
do u know any lyrics or poems that explain this
"we argued like we were together
we changed for one another.
we were honest and we lied.
we were open to each other.
we had a guiding hand.
we never failed to be there.
we laughed and we cried.
we loved and we hated.
we put each other first when we say we didn't.
we climbed to the top.
we tried way too hard.
we did all we could."
i know thats a poem in itself.
but im trying not to make it obvious :-X
or can you reword it for me?
im unsure. heh thanks!
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Stupid Best friend i keep wasting my time on Posted Tuesday April 22 2008, 9:46 pm
ok well my ex boyfriend and i have been best friends for a while then dated and just broke up like a week ago because he doesnt have time for a girlfriend. also because im moving in a month and a half. well the thing that practically kills me how can a person not have time to just call their 'best friend'?? like can't they just make some time?? it is so frusterating because we never talk anymore and im LEAVING FOR GOOD SOON so HOW can he not want to talk to me and realize its important? i know he might be trying to deal with me moving but anyone with a brain should know to spend time with someone whos leaving-at least TALK to them!!! please dont tell me hes hurting or something because what the hell im the one leaving my whole life!! should...
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bffless Posted Tuesday April 22 2008, 3:50 pm
i have recently lost my bestfriend and all of my other friends..
i really can't take it anymore, school is torture, getting up in the morning is hell, and just doing things is just miserable..
any advice on what to do??
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Friend's boyfriend lies Posted Tuesday April 22 2008, 10:06 am
My best friend has been dating a guy for almost two months now. Most of her friends, including myself, get a "creep" vibe from him. He comes off as a guy who just wants to get in her pants. Plus, he's really controlling over her. Sometimes I do think he genuinely cares for her but I'm not sold on it.
So, he told her that he'd quit smoking pot when they first started going out, but one day he came to pick her up (she was too drunk to really function).. AND THE DUDE WAS HIGH!!! after he told her he quit smoking! my friend told her about it, and now he hates the girl! For telling on him..
Anyways, I saw him yesterday and he was stoned off his ass again.
My question is: SHOULD I TELL HER OR...
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Posted Monday April 21 2008, 7:35 pm
sometimes my firends say things like "dont tell them i say this promise" and i say yeah promise but then they say somehting like i hate you and i have the urge to ask my friend why she hates me. idk what to do cause then they get mad at me for confronting another friend with info i really needa know
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BESTFRIEND Posted Monday April 21 2008, 7:04 pm
so i have this best friend. she is so great and we do and think everything the same. i LOVE being with her. is it possible to like her TO much? like not in a sexuall way but in like a way that she might get sick of each other way.
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My friends ignore me Posted Monday April 21 2008, 7:04 pm
It happens a few times but this time it made me sad. . . .
okk this is what happened:
we went to this dance right and i have these 3 friends i mostly hang out with and i admire them as my sisters but we aren't blood related though. . . yeahh.
My three friends were dancing but then more friends came and i was backed off and they did nothing. . . i was alone
this happened a few times i felt like i was nothing to them.
when it was over we hang out in front of the school and wait a while until we decided to go home
As usual they formed their own circle thingy
and i was out of it
one time my eldest friend ...
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YOUR GOING OUT WITH KINKY? Posted Monday April 21 2008, 6:43 pm
my friend is talking to this guy, and he is considered kinky, but she is the ultimate good girl, she get on to you for cussing, doesnt mess around with guys etc. so this guy likes her alot, and she doesnt like him as much, but she likes him. im afraid they are going to go out, and she is going to get into ANOTHER bad relationship where the guy pressures her into doing things she doesnt want to do. i've already told her that i dont like that kid, and why.
what should i do to keep from seeing my friend get hurt again?!
im a f/16
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friendship can be so wierd sometimes Posted Monday April 21 2008, 5:19 pm
I recently lost my job and has been job hunting for a while however recently I met this individual who said that he would help me after he was asked by his sister. He is trying to help me get a job and is assisting me with food. The thing about this is that I am not the type of person that forms relationships easily and to my shock this person stated to me that he wanted to sleep with me.I am not interested and frankly I find it very offensive but I dont know what to do.Please help
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someone i "thought" was my friend Posted Sunday April 20 2008, 3:30 pm
i thought that i was good friends with dani but she urged her best friend to sleep with my boyfriend. then lied to me about it and hangs out with my boyfriend and lies to me about that too. now, i find out that she talks bad about me behind my back to anyone that will listen. i dont even know what to say to these people. how should i handle this? i need to stick up for myself, i have spent WAY to many years being walked on.
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Too fast friendship Posted Saturday April 19 2008, 8:52 pm
I met someone at work, and they're really nice but also kinda strange.
So I was talking to them and being nice, and they're just coming on too strong, they asked for my phone number and always ask when I'm working and to phone them to hang out and stuff.
But it's just like too pushy, like she wants me to always have break with her,and phone her and always do stuff. And I hate to sound mean but I kinda don't want to, becuase she weirds me out. I feel as she is like suffocating me but I don't know her, and she does it all being really nice.
Is there anyway to absent out of this friendship, or at least get them to lay off, without saying it to them don't want her hurt feelings.
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Cool way to give money? Posted Saturday April 19 2008, 5:38 pm
I have a guy friend who asked me for money for his birthday this year. I know its a bit impersonal, but its what he wants. anyway, anyone have a cool/creative way to like give to him? thanks.
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the Great Debate Posted Saturday April 19 2008, 1:04 pm
Well here's what I've been debating with myself for the past couple of weeks:
This girl and I briefly were seeing each other last summer. We hung out at least once a week at the end of May through the middle of August last summer. When mid august came around she decided that she was not ready for a relationship so we decided to remain friends. We still hung out, probably about once a month August through November, but still kept in touch on a weekly basis through e-mail. She even hung out with my friends and I in October. The holidays rolled around, so we really couldn't hang out. We tried to get together a
couple of times, but things didn't work out. One day at the end of February I
sent her a text and asked if...
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socializing. Posted Saturday April 19 2008, 10:38 am
15/f
i can perfectly be social with people at school,
even when im only with a friend.
but then when theres a large number of people im going to hang out with, i get very quiet. this is because i don't always know them well and don't want to say something wrong.
what can i do, to be more social around large groups of people?
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Real Friends or Not? Posted Friday April 18 2008, 8:28 pm
Ok, before I start, I'm almost 14 and I'm female.
Well, lately, I've gotten into a lot of fights with some of my friends. They keep saying they're gonna change, but the same stuff starts all over again (ex. Swearing, Negativity, Talking about People, etc.). Earlier this week, someone called me a liar for telling this one guy the truth about him, and both of them don't believe me. I also found out one of the girls who was supposed to be my best friend talked about me behind my back. My closest friend keeps telling me she'll get over her crush who's treated her friends kinda badly, but she just goes back to liking him again. The guy who called me a liar also told her that I was a bad friend who said bad things about her, but I ...
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HS Drama Posted Friday April 18 2008, 6:21 pm
15/f
Things are just spriling out of control right now. I had a group of friends but two of them got into a fight, therefore one of them left to go to another group and the other one is now hanging out with just her boyfriend. The others are just there, but i dont feel as comfortable to hang out with them anymore. They are mostly with themselves now. That just leaves me! I don't have a lot of other friends, other then them. I just came to this High School hardly knowing anyone. What i need advice on is how can i make new friends to hang out at lunchtime and stuff? I am not popular at all..and frankly thats what its all about in high school unfortuntely. I feel so lonely and "lower on the social ladder". Its hard and...
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should i talk to her??? Posted Thursday April 17 2008, 9:47 pm
so my best friend is like all over guys all the time, she flirts with the guys i like and guys that have girlfriends, even though they tell her to stop, she keeps doing it, everyone in school thinks shes a slut. and hates that im friends with her. but shes the only person i can talk to about stuff, she doesnt tell anyone. and today she just got a b/f (who is one of the sweetest guys i know) and i dont want him to get hurt by her.....what should i do?
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