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Friendship
Friendship is a beautiful thing that can get messy sometimes. Ask your question here.


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friends birthday


Posted Monday April 28 2008, 8:58 pm

my friend is turning 15 on cindo de mayo... may 5th. so its next week. im her best friend and im not sure what to get her. im gonna try to make a little slide show thingy with al our pictures but we dont have that many so ill just take a lot with her this weekend and give it to her late...no biggy but not i need like a material thing(s) and i have no clue what to get her cause her bf got her a necklace which she wears everyday. she has 2 rings from her grandparents that she wears everyday and i dont wanna get her earrings cause thats what she got me and i dont wanna like copy her. i want something unique but not weird and i like write her a letter every year so ill have the letter anf the video...
HELP. ps not to pricy but under 50 would be ideal.

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picture comments (this is for anyone!)


Posted Monday April 28 2008, 11:57 am

Hi everyone!!

im getting a little sick of the usual picture comments on myspace and facebook. (you know, "wow u look pretty"... ive said that a million times!

so i was wondering, what are your favorite comments?
just anything cute that youve seen.

Thanks so much!

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My guy friend


Posted Sunday April 27 2008, 8:33 pm

Ok I'm female, and I have this guy friend I really love to talk on the computer to, but when I talk to other people I just don't feel comfortable and it's a really big drag because I really don't know how to communicate with them and it's really weird and awkward. I love talking to him because he can communitcate with me and keep a conversation. I also feel really good when I do talk to him, and it's confusing me what I feel. What do I feel?

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myspace people


Posted Sunday April 27 2008, 6:23 pm

15/female
I don't know what to do really. I met this nice guy through my friend on myspace, and it seems he has a thing for me, and wants to hook up sometime. Well apperantly, he added one of my friends on my top, who can practically get any guy she wants, and she is single now too. And I'm jelous, because i can't get guys that well, like she can. And I don't want her talking to him. What should I do?

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i want to be coool


Posted Sunday April 27 2008, 4:43 pm

i'm 15 girl that's a sophmore in highschoool!
i want to be popular
and i don't want the typical advice like put yourself out there..it does not work or help!

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I don't know what's happening.


Posted Sunday April 27 2008, 8:30 am

This may end up a bit long, I'm going to try and make this as short as possible.

For your information, I live in a country in Europe where the drinking age is 16, I don't live in the states.
Me:15/f Paul:17/m and the others are from 15-18.

A couple of weeks ago me and a whole load of my friends went to a concert, we all got quite drunk and ended up going back to Paul's house. His parent's weren't home so we had some more drinks and watched a couple of movies. Most people paired off and the ones that had boy/girlfriends went home. I ended up hanging around with Paul all night, and we got to know each other way better.
At his house Paul was lying on his couch and I climbed on top of him and started...

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Posted Sunday April 27 2008, 1:02 am

ok well my bf and i broke up because he doesnt have time for a gf and im moving in a little over a month. its been really painful for me and i dont know what to do. i dont really care about dating him anymore but hes my best friend too and we have been best friends for a while. he knows everything about me but now he doesnt even have time to call me-seriously. he never calls and when he( or i) finally calls he is like im really busy i cant talk now sry we can talk later. i dont know what to do and last sunday he was flirting with me A LOT and we ended up kissing a couple times because we still kinda like each other but its really confusing. the thing that i cant handle is i've never had a friend who didnt even have time to talk to me! we go...

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Moving away, but Plan B will work?


Posted Saturday April 26 2008, 10:21 pm

My gf iss moving, and I also like this other girl at school, and she said she likes me. So when my gf moves away, should I get together with the one that I like?

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is it real??


Posted Saturday April 26 2008, 8:54 pm

just yesterday a friend of mine called me and told me some things about me bf. she told me he's cheats on me constantly and names plenty of girls. i was only really upset b/c this isn't the first time i've heard things like this about him. i have talked to him and i called about it b/c the stuff she told me had me pissed. he says its not true of course and doesnt understand why i dont trust him. i told him i dont a while ago b/c of all this stuff going on and he said he trust me. all i need to decide for now is who ima believe b/c i cnt leave him unless i really knw. so who should i believe??


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I dont know what to think


Posted Saturday April 26 2008, 12:56 pm

Well im 15 years old,and im a freshman.
I've got friends,its not like im friendless but it just seems like my friends don't consider me as important as everyone else.
Like they would consider me ,like a third wheel type thing.
And I used to think that i was just seeing things but im not just seeing things.
For example,everyone will be in a talking circle and someone will say something and everyone will listen and then when I say something,it will get completely ignored.
Also,not many people would actually call me and invite me somewhere,i'd kinda have to ask.
I think it's because im not involved in anything amazing like cheerleading or you know.
I also have never had a boyfriend,but im not t...

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i need more FRIENDS


Posted Friday April 25 2008, 7:03 am

Hey im in 9th grade andt his year i just entered the high school.....i came in with a decent amount of friends but because the school is so big and i had no calsses with any of them..we lost touch quickly...my friends moved on to other groups and my other friends who i didnt usually hang out with moved on to groups...and now im left pretty much alone....its not that im anti social or anything cause im pretty welll known...i say hi to pretty much everyone...and im involved a little in activites but next year im doing more.......i seriously havent hung out more then 10 times with anyone this whole year.......is this a 9th grade thing that will pass.....or what should i do....and please dont say GET INVOLVED >>>DO SPORTS>>>BLAH

thanks for anyone who tries

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my best friend is graduating this year


Posted Thursday April 24 2008, 8:52 pm

14/f.
my best friend is a senior and he's graduating this year. im really gonna miss him and i dont want him to leave at all..whenever i think about it i start crying no joke.well im so confused because i can't tell if i like him or not. i already know its pointless because he's graduating this year but i just need to know if i do or not. i can't tell if i like him or if im just really upset that he's leaving and im going to miss him. i love being around him and he always makes me smile and hes just chill and our friendship rocks. all friendships are like that but its just the fact that hes a guy and we can be flirty [but hes like that with everyone] gets me confused.how do i know if i like him or im just going to miss him?

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maybe jelous?


Posted Thursday April 24 2008, 7:30 pm

so i have this friend, and i like him, and we talk so much.
But ya know he is popular and alot of girls like him! I get a little mad and annoyed when he talks to them, like when they call him and stuff. And i do tell him . One time this girl who was like in love with him , and now is again always called him. BUT SHE IS SO FAKE! and he liked her but never admitted it to me..
It bugs me alot how they do this! But i dont want to be controlling.
Im not sure if im jelous or what, but whats going on here?

xoxo Jessicaa[F, 14]

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PMS + drama = nightmare


Posted Thursday April 24 2008, 6:16 pm

13/f

I was unpset at school today. and my best friend wanted to know what was wrong with me. I told her not to worry about it. But she saw that I was really upset. She told me that she would get really mad at me if i didn't tell her what was wrong. I told her that I don't think that her and her boyfriend make a good couple and that i think that she deserves a LOT better. Well she got mad at me and said that i like to start drama for fun. Of course I don't like starting drama. If I would have thought drama was fun I would have told her right off the bat. So what should I do?
Should I be her friend or what?

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i feel as if she is accussing me of something that is not tr


Posted Thursday April 24 2008, 2:06 am

I have this friend that is a very jealous woman over her husband. I am one of her husband's favorite people to talk to, but we have not talked in a very long time because he got a new job halling traliers across the country. I don't have any type of communication with him, but I do get to talk to her all of the time. She is actually more like a mother to me, or I thought. He recently came home for a visit and had dinner with her, some more friends and myself. After dinner she had to go somewhere and he went back home I am assuming, I went off and played with some of my friends and then went and talked to a classmate about some homework. According to my roomate she came up to her and asked her where I was in a angry or worried tone. She has ...

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bff and other guy


Posted Wednesday April 23 2008, 9:36 pm

I really like one of my guy friends. A LOT LOT LOT LOT. Today, I was talking with him on the phone and I told him I liked him and it turns out he likes me to. Well, then he asked me like on a scale of 1-10 how much so I told him and he said he only liked me like a 7. Then he said he liked my bestfriend also, but only like a 3 since they just met a few days ago. I was a little sad to hear this but I shrugged it off because he said he liked me more. I was all happy and then he had to go eat dinner so I called my best friend to tell her the exciting news. She was like "oh that's great i'm so happy for you too! I'm glad you're finally moving on from so and so!".((I had a recent nasty breakup that left me crushed for a while)). Anyway,...

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True friends?


Posted Wednesday April 23 2008, 8:37 pm

This is not a huge deal, I just don't know what to do. I have these two very good friends, Sabrina and Julie. We are pretty close, and all three of us do track together. The thing is, I always feel like a third wheel with them. They are always laughing and joking and I am standing there trying to go along with it, but when I say something they kind of just look at me. They have eachother, cool. Thing is I don't have many friends on track, so without them I am pretty lonely. Whenever one of them is not at practice or whatever, the other one comes and is all chummy with me until the other one is back. It is like I am the friend that is being used when the other is not there. It doesn't seem fair. Today at the meet they left me, so I...

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Trust


Posted Wednesday April 23 2008, 4:08 pm

Is it possible for two people to be 100% honest with each other?I mean,to be able to tell each other EVERYTHING(and I really mean everything),and to trust each other unconditionally? I would really like any opinions on this. Thanks =]

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bffless part 2


Posted Wednesday April 23 2008, 3:55 pm

i asked a question earlier saying i'd lost my best friend and my other friends too, people thought that we got in a fight or somehting..


i just realized that my bestfriend is a bitch and always has been, and she did a little thing that was just the last straw.. my other friends and i just grew apart and some try to talk to me and make me happy again but just nothing seems to work. i've gone to so many psychiatrists in the past and i take anti-depressants and nothing seems to work. i feel hopeless. seriously, the only thing getting me through everyday is my pets and photography..


any other suggestions that jkust might help??

i really need it. i have a good family and seeing my fami...

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Have you ever lost a bestie?


Posted Wednesday April 23 2008, 10:24 am

Well, 1st of all my best friend in the whole world moved WAY far away. And then now me and my other best friends (like 7 of them) are at a war, does that mean that i am not a good friend, because i keep losing all of my friends?

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