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Virginity
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Is fingering still virgin?


Posted Thursday November 3 2011, 9:43 pm

I was saving myself untill marriage to have sex which I thought just meant penetration of penis in vagina. I didn't really know about anything else cause I wanted it to be a surprise for me.
Please dont laugh at my agge. I'm in my early 20s. I've only had one boyfriend but he never did anything to me apart from kissing & outside foreplay, which I was fine with.
I was at a temporary job, my supervisor who is 45 liked me & I started to like him back. My parents were against it from the start. So I stayed with my friend for a while & met up with him sometimes. I stayed at his house one night & he knew I wanted to be a virgin untill marriage. But he asked to finger me. I didn't really know what it was so I asked hi...

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How do i explain this to my mom?


Posted Saturday October 29 2011, 7:34 pm

Hi I'm 13/f

Ok first i wanna say that my mom is one of those old fashioned moms and she thinks that tampons "pop your cherry". I strongly disagree with her. so i Googled it, and what do i see? A bunch of girls saying the same thing! So i guess what I'm asking is how do I tell my mom that what she thinks is not true?
Thanks to any answers in advice!

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broken hymen by taking a fall badly?


Posted Friday October 28 2011, 5:58 pm

basically i think i broke my hymen i dont actully know .. i know stupid but like i fell down but kind of awkwardly against a wall all the pressure of the fall went on my hips and when i went to the bathroom i saw a small amount of blood but i wasnt on my period
i tried looking at my special area in the mirror but all i saw was a hole .. no extra bit of skin around it
so like what ya think do you think i dont have one anymore?

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I'm a little nervous about our first time...


Posted Tuesday October 11 2011, 6:36 pm

My boyfriend is my best friend! We've been dating for almost two months but we have been good friends for about six months. We're inseperable and have a strong trust and chemistry with each other. I've only had sex twice, and so has he, but we both feel ready to go to the next step. My boyfriend has always been very patient with me and he is so sweet. I have never felt more comfortable with anyone like I do with him. I'm not very experienced with sex and I'm a little nervous. We're planning to do this on Friday, and we will use protection. I'm just scared I won't be satisfying. I never enjoyed giving oral and I'm very sensitive, and pretty tight... So I don't know if I will please him like I want to. I am so in love with him, as he is with ...

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i think my cherry is popped


Posted Friday October 7 2011, 7:21 am

around 11 , 12 years old , i stuck a finger inside of me , but it didnt hurt . that same night my boyfriend stuck one finger inside of me , it hurt a little & i started to bleed & thats when i first started my period . im 17 now and im still a virgin and ive stuck two fingers inside and it hurted like loosing my virginity , but no blood came out . i stuck a tampon inside on the last day of my period & it didnt hurt as much . was my cherry popped when i was younger ?

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Does every woman bleed when you make her cherry pop?


Posted Thursday October 6 2011, 2:55 pm

does every woman bleed after having their cherry popped?

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Is It ok To Masturbate at 11???


Posted Tuesday September 27 2011, 12:44 pm

Is it ok for an 11 year old girl to masturbate???

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can urine samples detect sex?


Posted Wednesday September 14 2011, 9:32 am

i have a doctors appointment tomarrow and i wanna know if i give a urine sample, can the doctor tell if i had sex, and i did a couple days ago. please help me

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Is there any way to make losing your virginity less painful?


Posted Sunday July 31 2011, 8:30 pm

I want to lose my virginity to my boyfriend. I know all about precautions and such, but my main worry is about how painful it will be.

Is there any way to make it less painful? I don't want to start crying when he's half way in. :O



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How does it feel to have sex??


Posted Saturday July 30 2011, 10:25 pm

Okay so this isn't about me really. I just wanna know what does Sex feel like and how does it affect your relationship.
P.S. I'm borrowing my cousins account and I'm a female 15. About to be 16. Just Curious please answer my questions because I wanna know more about sex before I ever have sex.

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I want to use a vibrator so I can be sure a penis will fit easily my first time


Posted Thursday July 14 2011, 5:59 pm

k so im 16 and still a virgin, i masterbate all the time but only with my fingers...i want to use a vibrator because im scared that when i do it the first time the penis wont fit, so do you recommend i use a vibrator and if i use a vibrator does that mean im not a virgin anymore??? Please help!!

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how can fuck


Posted Friday July 8 2011, 2:28 pm

how can fuck at first time

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Did i pop my cherry?


Posted Thursday June 30 2011, 10:15 pm

So im 13 now but when i was 11 i got my period and ironically we were going to a waterpark that day and my sister suggested putting a tamp up so i wouldnt bleed everywhere, so i tryed and i started crying and really mad like How do you do this??!!?? this stupid thing doesnt go up, wth?! and my mom would be like their are two holes, and shed say make sure you put it in the right hole, and im like wtf? how the f*** do you expect me to put something up my vagina at 11 and know where its supposed to go?! basically freaking out...but anyways now i use them all the time, prbly more than i should but i bleed heavy and i hate wearing thick long pads that feel like diapers :/ sooooo...when the first, first time i did it when i was crying and what n...

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How do you know if you have broken your hymen and were it is?


Posted Tuesday June 28 2011, 8:11 pm

how do you know were your hymen is? How would you find out if you broke it or not?

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Is it bad to finger yourself everyday? What about objects instead of fingers?


Posted Sunday June 26 2011, 10:21 am

Is it bad to finger daily?? and does it harm you if you use objects instead of fingers??

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i got fingered for the first time


Posted Tuesday June 7 2011, 11:24 pm

a few days ago i got fingered for the first time by my friend with benefits, and it hurt!.
but after that, i went to the washroom and this red-ish/brown discharge came out. did my hymen break or is it an infection?

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How do you pop your own cherry


Posted Tuesday May 3 2011, 7:04 pm

I was wondering if it was at all possible to pop my own cherry. I really dislike blood and i don't want to take a chance in bleeding exuberantly when i lose my viginity. Can someone please tell em how to lose my viginity.

Note: i have tried a tampon and a banana and it doesn't really work. so any other ways would be great

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how do i tell my mom


Posted Friday April 29 2011, 8:38 pm

I am a seventeen year old girl and just started fingerin myself after being with my boyfriend for two months. The other day when i was fingering myself, i had popped my own cherry. My mom doesn't know i finger myself let alone that i popped my cherry the other day. I've always been a good girl and its not myself to do there type of things. i think that when i tell her its going to hurt her feeling and she'll be ashame of me. How do i tell her that i popped my cherry and started fingering myself just because of this boyfriend i have now.

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My "Cherry Pops" after 2 years of having sex?


Posted Wednesday April 27 2011, 2:24 pm

i have been having sex for bout a 2yrs now an just bout a couple of days ago me an my boyfriend were having sex an i felt a pop my hymen popped. An i am asking why did it just barely popped? An how long will it bleed for?

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Not my first time... but it hurts?


Posted Thursday April 21 2011, 9:14 pm

Okay so im 16 and i lost my virginity in july last year,(i was 15, he was 18) i had sex with him a couple times then we broke up. he completely used me. Now im dating a new guy. we had sex yesterday for the first time(I used protection everytime). and today i started my period and it kinda hurts down there even to use a tampon.(more then it ever has). Is that normal? is it because i haven't had sex in a while? What should i do? Please help.

P.s. My parents dont know any of this only me and my bestfriend knows. So if i have to go to the doctor for anything how do i without my parents knowing?

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