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Friendship
Friendship is a beautiful thing that can get messy sometimes. Ask your question here.


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I want to talk to my friend about my sexualtiy?


Posted Sunday May 4 2008, 1:30 pm


I have already done, I told her I am bi and that I like her. She took it well and of course she doesn’t see me in that way. I felt so uncomfortable because I came out to her and told her I have feeling for her. Which she told me she is sexually confused her; (That was last year). Last week at the ice cream shop, she started to talk to me about her teacher (in college) she told me he came out to the class telling his students he is married to a man and proud of it. She told me in her class the teacher played a movie or show about homosexuality. This made me open up to tell her about movies and shows I watch on logoonline.com a GLBT website. She always watches gay anime, basically what I watch too (which is funny. Never knew that ti...

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Posted Saturday May 3 2008, 11:04 pm

15/f
my friend is getting me so mad. she talks to this kid, who doesn't even live in our city, he lives like a couple towns over or something, and when shes home alone she'll be like, i should invite him over. and the first time she met him she madeout with him a bunch of times and im sure other things that she wont tell me. i hate girls like that. i mean im not weird and prude, but im not a whore either. and im sick of hearing about this guy, hes so ugly and mean. whenever she brings him up, i have to act like a care, and not get mad. what do i do? i dont know how to handle this problem. oh, and theres alot more to it. if your interested in knowing all of it, tell me when you answer this question, and ill send it all to you.

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neighbors gettin on my nerves


Posted Saturday May 3 2008, 6:46 pm

So my next door neighbors moved in less than a year ago, and its been hell. They're forever in my house, and they take things only to not return them or give them back in poor conditions. Its not only clothes, but shoes, chairs, butter, spices, irons, etc. They're perfect freeloaders. I was FED UP, so this morning I argued with the mom (they're 3 girls) and completely cursed her and her 18 year old out. I did apologize over the phone, but when the lady told me to do it in person, I cursed her out some more and clicked on her. I certainly don't regret it, but I feel bad for my mom. We're the completely opposites, she's the soft, loving type who feels bad about hurting people's feelings. I know it sounds pretty mean, but does anyone have any ...

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One of my best friends intimidates me.


Posted Saturday May 3 2008, 9:54 am

16/f. This girl, she's 17. She's more mature and experienced I guess. She does drugs and pretty sure she had sex. I can't really bring myself to hang out with people like that, yet she's still one of my best friends. She intimidates me. I can't talk to her without looking down at the ground and whenever I do start talking to her, I don't make eye contact and I really want to end the conversation. I can't talk to her online either...I get really agitated and nervous. I have no idea why. I can talk to my OTHER friends..just not her. Why is this? I mean, I like her...yet I can't talk or relate with her...

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getting over friendships. [long]


Posted Saturday May 3 2008, 9:43 am

This is long by the way, but I really need help.

Okay, I honestly needed to come here, I'm just so confused and apathetic towards everything.

Firstly, before I begin I'm suffering from depression. Not a small playground type depression, depression as in I'm seeing a counsellor. So what I'm about to tell you is no good to add onto that.

I've lost the little friends I had left tonight. I'm not going to rant on about who's fault it is. I don't even know. I don't know if I'm in the right or wrong, all I know is I don't have friends left.

What happened was we've been on last legs for a while. They've been disagreeing with something I believe in strongly, and although I tried to clear th...

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no more spark.


Posted Friday May 2 2008, 12:27 pm

see, i used to like this guy. he flirted with me, but i didnt think that he woudl ever like me because im way yougner than him. now, hes starting to flirt even more, and starting to tell me that he likes me a bit, and hes deciding about the girlfriend relationship. i never really said anything about girlfriend :S its been pretty weird, for me, lately, because like, he would text me "hey pretty" and stuff like that :S

i just dont like him, and honestly, i plan on telling him on chat, so please tell me what i should say.

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End of a friendship, but what about show tickets?


Posted Friday May 2 2008, 10:12 am

Okay, so tonight I ended a friendship with someone very close to me. I'm crying as I write this.

I'm trying to stay calm, and I'm not going skitzo and trying to get revenge. I'm just trying to accept it, these things are a part of life.

Before I ask my question, please don't say something like "you'll be friends again soon probably" we won't.

We're fighting about religion, and have been for a while. Our friendship has been on the rocks for a while, and this was declared the end.

Basically without going into depth, I'm not allowed to think negative thoughts about a religion she's not even a part in or knows anything about. She told me to stop talking about it and I did, an...

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Confused


Posted Friday May 2 2008, 6:03 am

okay, so i have this friend, i just met her this year. anyway, she doesnt feel good about herself at all and she always things like \"omg, i am soo fat\" and she always says that all the guys like me and dont like her and blah blah blah. i never tease her and i always try to help her but she always disses me and it bothers me. i defend her alot when people tease her but she always goes to my bf ( because their close friends) and she tells him that i am being mean to her. this week was the worse week ever because everytime she saw me and him together holding hands or whatever she would get pissed and she would tell me to stop. i told my bf and he started to see the picture. i havent talked to her for a few days. what should i do????

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My friend was jealous that I met a guy at a party?


Posted Friday May 2 2008, 3:10 am


I was invited to my sister’s house warming party and she was trying to hook me up with this guy she knows. He was cute and nice but nothing clicked between us. I told my best friend about it and she got jealous of him! She told me that if I get a boy friend we won’t be close anymore. I explain to her that I wasn’t interested to this guy and I told her “nothing happen we just talked. I don’t think I am ready for a relationship at the moment.” When I told her that she was all quite she didn’t reply to what I said. I then change the subject about a movie I saw and we talk about that the whole day. Why was she quite? And why she wanted to change the subject? She’s the one who bought it up!


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Friend having an eating disorder?


Posted Thursday May 1 2008, 6:23 pm

Hey, I'm 16 F as well as my friend. I think she has an eating disorder. Today, we went running, and after she was like "that Chiness really filled me up" Which may I add in, was around 12, and she said thats all she ate today. Shes lost a lot of weight, and she doesn't eat really anything at lunch. A PB&J, banana, and some kind of health bar. Ahd she said she eats for breakfast is a bagle(spelling)I don't know if she eats after school, she says she does. Now the funny thing is, shes losing all this weight, but isn't doing anything to burn calories. Like running or anything. Today was the first day she ran in a looooong time. And me and her other friends always "get on her" about what she;s eating. And yesterday she ...

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best friend's crush


Posted Wednesday April 30 2008, 9:31 pm

so my bff has liked this guy for ages, but he's just a friend. i'm the only person that knows and she's sworn me to secrecy. but i just found out through another friend that he has a thing for me. now i dont like him like that and even if i did, i wouldn't pursue it out of respect for my bff. but what i want to know is how do i tell her? do i tell her?
i dont want her to hate me cause i usually get the guys not her. help!

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Im moving


Posted Wednesday April 30 2008, 7:50 pm

Im moving pretty soon to somewhere I have never been.
I dont know anyone there or nothing.
Where I am at now, I have 93205438 friends.
I am really outgoing and I love making new friends.
But my friends that I have now arent moving with me and I dont know what to when my friends arent there with me to make new friends, im really shy when they arent around.

Im going to be a junior at school next year, and im pretty, you know, im your average high school girl. Im really nervous, I hate moving schools and moving to places where I dont know anyone.

Is there any advice for my situation?

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how do you


Posted Wednesday April 30 2008, 5:24 pm

how do you know if someone is your friend?

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shes leaving


Posted Wednesday April 30 2008, 4:08 pm

i have a friend and shes leaving at the end of the year and her bf is my x-boo and i want to go back out with him but i can't wait and we both want to be with each other but , the prob is, is that he broke up with her yesterday but during 5th peroid they got back together, and he was saying in third "oh i'm not going to back out with her after what she did to me" and u know what he did he ent back out with her, and she just has that thing were she says somthing and hes right there but i have the same afect on him that she does. so what should i do?
thanks for your help samantha b

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him, my bf, he's different


Posted Wednesday April 30 2008, 2:39 pm

so i didn't talk to my bf,
but i did talk to him more,
and like, i only wanna dump him more now.
he rides my bus
so see him a hella lot,
but like,
idk .
he's not the same,
and i talked to my ex.
he's gonna wait for me to give him permission to ask me out.
when im not going out with my current...
but yeah
so it's confusing
and i could be cheating on my bf now
but i care about him,
idk why
it's just bc i do.

what should i do about my ex.
i still care about him,
he says ily all the time,
and everything
but i love my bf.
and i don't want that to change.

i want my bf to know how i feel
how do i tell him,


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My mate needs help but won't take it


Posted Wednesday April 30 2008, 11:07 am

Okay, My mate is fifteen and she went to a parety a few months ago and drank too much then slept with a guy from her class.
They were both virgin's before hand but she now recons she could have a sexually transmitted infection... Is that possible?
And also I think she should go to see a doctor for help but she's scared because she is under age for having sex.. Can they do anything like with the law or something if she asks for help? And also if she does have an S.T.I doesn't she have to tell the guy she slept with... how can she do that? help.. I'm worried about her, they can be serious sometimes right? x

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Bestfriend help.


Posted Tuesday April 29 2008, 11:01 am

Well, about three days ago i was talking to one of my closest guy friends on the computer. I had some alcohol before hand, but i wasnt drunk at all. I started saying really mean things to him. Such as "Hes in love with the idea of being in love." And that he says i love you to all his girlfriends. And i didnt mean to be that harsh, but it is all true in a sense. Now, he isnt talking to me at all and says its less agravating this way. Ive never felt so hurt in my life before, i said im sorry and i really mean it. I dont know what else to do. Any adivce? Should i just forget about it and wait for him to come around, or just keep trying to talk to him?

thanks...

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My friend got me a job, but I hate it


Posted Tuesday April 29 2008, 7:43 am

I recently got a job that my friend "but her butt on the line for me" to get,but I dot like it. What should I do?

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My friend and i argue just like my parents?


Posted Tuesday April 29 2008, 1:37 am


playfully argue with each other. my parents will joke and tease one another. i watch what they do and i some times realize that its just like my friend and I play around with each other. that just odd and we are both girls. i get annoyed by it but i like the attention. whats your out take on this?


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love pentagon?


Posted Monday April 28 2008, 9:17 pm

So, there is this guy , T, who I have liked for several months, we are pretty much perfect for each other, but I never made a move because he had a girlfriend ( who was 18) ( he is 15), plus he had recently moved from the east coast to the west (here) so I knew they were going to break it off eventually. Now i still really like him and we are good friends, but I dont want to freak him out because he just broke up with his ex like a week ago, and they have dated for almost 2 years.

But now I suspect our mutual friend to like him too! I never told J that I like T because I thought she would tell him and he was still in a realtionship, so that would kill our friendship. I want to stay friends with J but it would break my heart i...

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