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Friendship
Friendship is a beautiful thing that can get messy sometimes. Ask your question here.


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Huh?


Posted Thursday May 8 2008, 11:56 am

My good guy friend, Riley, he turned vegan four years ago.
At first I didn't think it'd last, but it's lasted for 4 years.
I don't have a problem with him being vegan, I think it's perfectly fine, it's his personal choice, but I think he's anorexic.
I know some people may laugh at the fact that a guy's anorexic, but I think it's true.
He used to be ordinary shape, like not fat, not skinny, just..normal.
The other day he came to my house to swim(it was really hot) and when he took off his t-shirt I was shocked!
His ribs were sticking out completely!
I mean, he weighs about 109lbs and I weigh about 128 or something, and I'm not really fat.
I asked him if he's dieting and he said yeah, I'...

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Steven


Posted Wednesday May 7 2008, 9:18 pm

In art class I was PMSing me and Steven got in an arguement, we are kinda friends and he knew I was on my period and wasn't happy but he flipped out. He ended up calling me fat and I was so close to hitting him-it scared me.
I usto do that. Hit without thinking and then regretting it but I stopped that. I dont want to fall back into that habbit of you mess with me ill beat cha up! I dont wanna do that anymore.
Is there anyting you can recommened to make me black those thoughts out when someone says stuff me to because him saying that about ym weight hit me really close to home... and it scared me that I was so close to actualy putting a hand one me.

14\Female.

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My friends have "ditched" me, now what?


Posted Wednesday May 7 2008, 7:45 pm

Okay, I'm so annoyed with my supposed "bff's". I have two of them Josh and Katie. We are all attatched to the hip as most people would say, but latley I've got the sense of otherwise! You see Josh is my cousin, and Katie is just my bff, but since the begging of the year weve been all three friends. But now it's like I'm invisable. They'de rather be together then with me. I feel so depresed, I wanna be with them too! I know that Katie likes Josh but I've got feelings too! I don't know what I Should say or do. HELP!

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Wow.


Posted Wednesday May 7 2008, 6:45 pm

Okay. My Aunt (she's 46, drinks, smokes, single-mom) is putting my 16 year old cousin on Accutane. She claims my cousin has severe acne, but I promise you, she's not even close. She has about one blemish a month. & I've tried telling my aunt how dangerous Accutane is & everything (if you don't know what I mean by dangerous: http://www.natural-acne-treatments.com/accutane-side-effects.), but she won't listen. The problem is, my cousin can't tell her she doesn't want it, because my aunt is usually drunk by the time she gets home from school & my cousin doesn't want to deal with her like that + my aunt would have one of her little 'fits'. I don't know what to do. All I know is that Accutane's dangerous, my cousin does NOT need it, ...

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Disappearinng peopleee


Posted Wednesday May 7 2008, 9:55 am

Okay, I have a HUGE history of social anxiety disorders in my family so none of us are 'people people'. Ya know? My bestfriend of six years just moved to Baltimore. My second bestfriend of three years is moving to Texas. Now, my nearly best guyfriend [of whom im madly in like with, btw] is moving across the state!!! AND he's the only reason that I wouldn't mind failing the ninth grade, just to have a class with him. Any advice? Comfort? Thoughts? I'm miserable here.

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I feel like my friend and I are couples?


Posted Wednesday May 7 2008, 5:13 am


Its hard to explain, I mean we give each other hard times and disagree with one another playfully like kids. But my other friend (Alice) said to us that we are like a odd couple. And I didn’t say anything and neither did she (Lara). So we change the subject. Why didn’t we say anything? My thought was “no comment” in my mind because I do like her I told her last year how I felt but she doesn’t feel the same way. I am a bi- girl. So I didn’t say anthing because I didn’t want to get in to that situation…

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not a true friendd


Posted Tuesday May 6 2008, 10:03 pm

okay i have this friend..we'll call her A. so me and A have been friends for 5 years now and 2 years ago she got really mad and turned all my friends against me for about 6 months. well last year my life was starting to come back together..i got my friends back and it just seemed alot better. well apparently she wasn't done with trying ruin my life. for spring break..which was april 11th for me i took A to myrtle beaCH WITH me adn my family..she was a bitch to me wihle we were there. she treated me like i was absolute shit and it was annoying but since she was the guest i had to be nice..we got home after that week an d we didnt talk as much and then we were working together in spanish class and shes really really dumb in spanish..like alw...

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Lots of friends but loney as ever


Posted Tuesday May 6 2008, 5:58 pm

Pretty much all of my friends exept for two, are treating my like crap. I am a good friend to all of my friends, even friends that aren't that close to me. Like, I'll give them money, advice, take them places and other kind stuff but I feel like I'm being walked all over now. Most of my friends and treatingme so bad I cry everyday just because of that. I can't even stand being around who I used to call my best friend, I see her in school and at work and she makes me want to scream. And another friend or not even a friend, I have 2 classes with her and thats the only times I talk to her, she really made me mad yesterday, I was talking to her about me shaving my toes and she yelled to the whole class "EWW YOU SHAVE YOUR TOES?!" and ...

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idkk about it anymore.


Posted Tuesday May 6 2008, 5:40 pm

okayy I have a BESTFRIEND. She was the second person I met when I moved and Ive been here for two years. I love her to death she is my EVERYTHING and she keeps me outta trouble ALOT. No one could really understand unless you met her. She's the closest thing to a sister as you can get. BUT. for like a month now she hangs out with this girl named Kaitlyn and I honestly hate her. Maybe because she stole my best frin but its more than tht and i dont know and I really dont care. But now my "sister" is acting really fake she acts like Im ivisible and doesnt tell me stuff like she used to. I did tell anyone anything. I am bestfriends with alot of people but I always put her first. I wrote her a page of EVERYTHING I felt about her [[all g...

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going to mexico in 2 weeks!


Posted Tuesday May 6 2008, 12:39 am

so i will be in mexico at the barcelo maya palace resort which looks GORGEOUS! just wondering? has anyone traveled to mexico/have any tips on must sees? i will be near tulum and chichen itza (ancient mayan ruins) which i will definitely be touring.

but any tips on how the mexican citizens are? anyone think i could hire a taxi driver for the day to take us around for like $60?

-dealing with customs at cancun airport. are they friendly?mean? i hear stories of them charging people for "overweight bags" when they really arent

any other tips/advice/experiences/ is appreciated?

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loser


Posted Monday May 5 2008, 9:18 pm

I need to make some friends. I used to have friends last year, but this year (sophmore), I just can't seem to make any or hang out with anyone. I stopped caring about my hair and myspace and facebook...stuff like that. Could that be a reason that people have stopped liking me? I just need to know a way to make friends and stand out from all the people like me. I don't want to be like everyone else and I want the girls that I sometimes hang out with to like me. These girls are the kind that guys think are sooo "hot" and "can't wait til they turn 18." They hang out with skater boys (i'm jealous) and are really really pretty.
My life pretty much just sucks in general :)
But help, if you can!

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Friend with a possible eating disorder


Posted Monday May 5 2008, 4:15 pm

First off sorry if this question is in the worng category
Ok so I think my friend has some type of eating disorder. And i'm really worried. Like a year ago my friends and I noticed that she was too thin and that her clothes weren't fitting her and stuff so we confronted her and she's like yeah i know i have a problem i'm seeing someone about it. And she started getting better.
A few months ago, her father died of cancer. And even before then she started getting skinnier again. She's thinner then sghe was before. she looks like skin and bones. And i know for a fact that her mom is too preoccupied trying to take care of her and her brother by herself to see anything.
What do I do? I don't want her to get mad... all I want is for her to be better again

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umm i kinda like her


Posted Monday May 5 2008, 1:33 pm

well i have this friend that i like but i dont want to tell her that i like her we just have such good chemistry together we've made out a few times before but i dont know what to do anymore.

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My ex boyfriend is in love with me, and i haven't seen him 2


Posted Monday May 5 2008, 4:26 am


i only be out with him for 2 weeks. we never kissed, we never dated, we only sa each other in high school and held hands. i felt like we were just close friends and he was like a puppy dog that doesnt think for him self so i broke it off. he called me late '05 he told me he lives in Hawaii, i live in Califriona. last year he told me he is in love with me. why? he was going to get married but it didnt work out. he said he told her that i was his ex girl friend. she knew he still likes me. i never call him or give any sign of liking him back. i told him i am bi sexual and crushing on a girl that i met in class at college. but he still likes me. why does he waste his time over me? he is at a differnt state WTF!?!?

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Best Friend or Big Bitch?


Posted Sunday May 4 2008, 11:50 pm

okay so ive been thinking that maybe my "best friend" isnt really such a good one
it was hard enough when i didnt really have any reason to not like her(but i did always get really angry an jealous cause every guy we were ever hanging out with that ide show intrest in she would flirt with like no other and end up hooking up with them)

but now im seeing a new but really not new two-faced side of her

it was always there and i just didnt see it

so she lies to me about everything then gets offended that i dont "trust" her even though i have reason too

we both did e but then quit and she lies about it and i eventually find out shes doing it again

...

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friends birthdayy


Posted Sunday May 4 2008, 11:28 pm

my friends birthday is comming up and shes into the word faith and ohm stuff and i still dont know what to get her. shes turning 16

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bitrhday gift for a boyfriend!


Posted Sunday May 4 2008, 11:22 pm

ok. so i have this boyfriend and hes a major stunner.he rides dirtbikes and stunts on motorcycles.he seems to have everything he needs and when i ask what he wants he claims nothing.he is turning 17 and i wanna give him something that he will love and cherish and want forever.i wanna get him something memorable

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In Love with my BFF


Posted Sunday May 4 2008, 5:06 pm

We have been friends since we met in pre-school. We were each other's first friend. We used to hang out all the time. Even though we were so different (I was super-shy and she was more of an outspoken person) we got along better than anyone else. But in school, they put us in classes according to our last name, and we always got separated. In junior high, she started hanging out with the more popular kids, but we were still friends. But then, she stopped hanging out with me, mainly because she was so busy - played about five different sports and dance lessons and babysitting on top of that - because her parents forced her. She hasn't been over to just 'hang out' at my house in about three years. We'll be in high school next year. I've reali...

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do i have a right to be affended? --spelling


Posted Sunday May 4 2008, 2:06 pm

Okay, so i'm Jewish but like I don't go to the temple or like anything. so my friends were talking about religion and had the Jewish religion all wrong so i cleared it up and they were like whats the Jewish bible called and i said i didn't know. and this other girl whos not Jewish goes oh..its called a Torah spellin..so anyway they go well your not a Jew your a fake Jew your no Jew JUNO get it like Jew NO. yeah, well i was just gonna shrug it off but my other friend blew up at them and told them to knock it of and i was like guys just stop but they won't. I'm not that affended but a lot of my family died in consintration camps and there making fun of me for being something that i can't help.

am i right to be a little mad over this?

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11th grade friend


Posted Sunday May 4 2008, 1:56 pm

ok im 14/f and im really good friends with a 11th grader.well hes really hott! and he found a note i wrote about him and now he wont talk to me because hes afraid that people will suspect things and he has a girlfriend what do i do i really want to be his friend again

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