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i pretend to be happy when im really miserable..
Posted Tuesday May 13 2008, 9:53 pm
well im the definition of "loner" i only have about 3 or 4 friends in this whole world. my boyfriend used to be my best friend, but he cant be my friend anymore because everything has changed since we started dating. im really happy with him, but i miss our friendship. i have another close friend, Nona, but she has so many friends besides me and shes always busy so im left alone. My boyfriend lives 20 minutes away and im not driving yet, so we only see eachother on fridays. and my other 1 or 2 friends i only talk to every now and again. like maybe once or twice a month. so they are more aquantince(sp) then anything. i always say that im happy where i am because i dont like being surrounded by people because im uptaining closterpho...
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my best friend has changed
Posted Tuesday May 13 2008, 9:35 pm
i beg your pardon if this is too long
well, i'm 16 and my best friend is 16 and we're both girls. at the beginning of the year, she was this innocent girl. never cursing (perhaps because of her muslim religion) no boys (same), good grades, good writer. everything was fine. we got pretty close. I then noticed her apparent obsession with herself. how she would look in the mirror so attentively and stare at herself and go "i'm sooo gorgeous"..i dont have a problem with that but it did seem like she had a narcissistic problem. she grew cocky over the next couple of months and all of a sudden..this new version of my friend..more cockier, confident..badder..appears. and i dont like it. she begins neglecting school work to text a...
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Do I go or not?
Posted Tuesday May 13 2008, 8:08 pm
Okay.
Well I attend these protests that usually happen once a month. A girl I'm supposed to be friends with strongly disagrees with what I'm protesting against, and instead of just agreeing to disagree and try to never discuss it, she never lets go and bitches at me all the time about it, and says I don't know my facts. When I hit back and send her mountains and mountains of facts, she can't defend herself and then just does some more bitching.
Anyway, these protests have gotten in the way of our friendship. Not because of me, I always dodge the subject. As I said, she's the one who makes a big deal out of it.
Anyway, she only asks to hang out on protest days. Obviously so I don't attend these pr...
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Violent Drunk Brother.
Posted Tuesday May 13 2008, 4:53 pm
Saturday night, a couple of my friends were hanging out in my basement celebrating a friends birthday. We couldn't throw it at her house because her parents were away for Mothers Day. Well were all laughing and playing videogames when my oldest brother Scott came home early from where ever he was, he came down stairs completely drunk and swearing at up saying everyone has to leave because he's going to bed. [[His room is downstairs]] And he started going off about how he owns down here because he pays rent and everything. My Dad was gone and Jason was over Natashas so I was like Scott shut up you came home early you can wait because you deffietly don't own down here! Well Scott ended up picking me up by my hair and like throwing me on the g...
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My best friend is lying to me about my boyfriend.
Posted Tuesday May 13 2008, 3:08 pm
me and my best friend have been friends for a while we do everything together but here lately she has been telling me that my boyfriend was making out with his ex girlfriend and that he was cheating on me and when i ask him about it and my other friends they tell me that they havnt ever seen him kiss another girl and that he would never cheat on me but because of what my best friend it caused me and my boyfriend to break up so i dont know what to do any more.
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Why did she sound strict?
Posted Tuesday May 13 2008, 12:02 pm
I saw a guy holding a bag for his girlfriend I thought it was lazy for the girl to not do it your self. And I am a girl. When I said it out load "why is he holding her bag?" my friend said "because it is an act of kindness!!" she said strict and firm to me while glaring at me? Why? It’s like she saying "you don’t do that!" but we not a couple.
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Bitchy girl in class
Posted Tuesday May 13 2008, 4:56 am
Let's call her Courtney. Well, Courtney's being such a bitch to me lately. She's my supposedly or used-to-be "friend" even though we were never really close. Anyway, I get this feeling she's trying to leave me out. If she's nice to me, I get a feeling that she's using me, which I bet she is. You see, she's my partner in Science. Today, at this academy that two of my other friends go to, she led us to this three-seat place and motioned for my other friends to sit there. A week ago, at a four-seat place, I almost sat next to her, but she was all " no no no, I want to tell Krista something,so sit next to Jenny." Even when we were taking pictures today, when Miss. Salinaek took us to this photo booth, she took sticker photo...
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apology poem
Posted Monday May 12 2008, 8:11 pm
i wanna do a poem of apology to anything
like my friend or mom
what should i do or say like any rhyming techniques?
can anyone writ one i kinda me a brief rough draft short i kinda need it by tomroow
please and thanks
an apology poem.
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friend
Posted Monday May 12 2008, 5:01 pm
ok so i have this friend her name is lizsandra. her recent boyfriend dumped her and he didnt tell her why he just said he wanted to be friends with her.so today at school she was in the girls bathroom making she was making herself through up and shes thinking of commmiting susicide what advice should i give her?
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A conflict between two friends.
Posted Sunday May 11 2008, 7:52 pm
Hey, I am 13/female. One day during lunch, my friends Rachel and Mandy had an argument. WEll it went like this: Another of my friends Sonia told Mandy to shut up because Mandy said Rachel and another friend Veronica sucked at dancing and singing. She was just joking and I can tell, but I dont think that Sonia realized it. So then Mandy got mad and went to sit by herself. Rachel went by and I didnt go because I was too afraid. I thought she got it all under control, but then me and another friend Carmen went back there and asked her if she wanted to join us. She said no. Then we asked her if she was okay, and she was like no. And then she burst out in tears. \
Afterschool, Rachel sent Mandy an email apologizing at first ...
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there's something wrong with me.
Posted Sunday May 11 2008, 7:09 pm
i'm not a nice person. dont give me advice like "omg just lyk act nice." yeah i think ive tried that before thanks.
so yesterday i went shopping all day with my mom. it was so much fun and i enjoyed it a lot. but then later that night her boyfriend came over, watched a movie with her, and slept over. so then the next day is mothers day (today) and im like "mom c'mon its mothers day. i dont want to spend mothers day with my mother and her boyfriend. i just want to spend it with my mother." actually i dont think i said that. it was more "why cant he leave" but whatever.
anyways she said thatd "itd be rude to say he cant come to brunch with us" so i unwillingly went to mothers day b...
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BFFL.. yeah right.
Posted Sunday May 11 2008, 6:21 pm
jamie has been my best friend for the past 4 years. we have another friend gabby who we were pretty close to. gabby always though of it was the 3 of us but we were closer with each other than we were with her. as time went on we got into our share of fights because she felt we excluded her and such. at the beginning of this year about 7 of us including gabby, jamie, and i formed a little group. we were all pretty close. we would have sleep overs almost every weekend and pretty much only hung out with someone from our group or our group of guys we chilled with. pretty soon one person from the group was gone. gabby had never really been considered very pretty but she started hanging out with these weird looking guys who she soon enough brough...
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This Girl
Posted Sunday May 11 2008, 5:44 pm
ok so the other day I was hanging out with some mates. this girl i kinda like was with us and i was going to the shop and asked who wants to come with and every body said no but she wanted to come so we went off to the shop and we was talking and she told me one of her biggest secrets. so later we all went back to somebody's house my mate and his gf were kissing under the bed covers my other mate was laying down with another girl and i was on the pc now the girl i like was all alone just sitting there so i talked to her for a bit and my mate who was kissing his gf and my other mate kept saying you 2 go and have sex or some thing me and her are a little shy so we both ignored them. so this is where I need the help do you think my mates think...
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no one likes me cos i'm shy
Posted Sunday May 11 2008, 3:08 pm
Ok, 13 / F / UK.
I go to a Private School and i guess i know everyone in my year/grade to have all of them as friends. But i'm soo shy it's untrue! they always talk to eachother but never me unless they want to borrow my mirror or something like that. I never get invited anywhere these days, i can't remeber the last time i was invited to some ones house or into town to shop. I feel left out at school all the time. i try to be myself but they think that 'myself' is weird, well they don't say that but they react in that way. i just want to be Individual. Have my own fashion sense, not copying the other girls fashion sense, but my own individual fashion sense.
Does any one have any ideas of how to get more friends and be invite...
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friends ditch you on purpose
Posted Saturday May 10 2008, 7:20 pm
Well i ask my friend to hang out everyweekend but everytime i ask her she says soething like "i have to babysit or i have to clean?" and like i really think she doesnt wanna hang out with me but the next day she can hang out with anyone and i dont get it?
(female, 14)
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ex friend
Posted Saturday May 10 2008, 12:35 pm
so for junior year Mandy came to my high school. She is known as a slut but our school is really chill so everyone was eager for her arrival. me and mandy became really close. shared secrets and instantlyclicked. she was knwn to be a social climber but i ignroed that. then she became friends with the prettiest girl in my grade, Rose (who is also best friends with the hot seniors) and kind of stopped talking to be an my friends. but wtrv we were still friends. then i heard she hooked up with this senior. she never told me about it so i called ehr and kind of hinted it out of her. she got mad that i didnt straght out tlel her but wtvr. then we had a lseep over. that sat night there was a senior party. i am not friends with the seniors but she...
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I feel left out
Posted Saturday May 10 2008, 12:06 pm
Okay so I have 2 bffs, Kenzie and Bri. Bri and I have been friends since 4th grade, Im in 6th now. All of us are. Kenzie & I just met this year.. but anyway
well we all had this major fight for a really stupid reason and it really effected our relationship, even after words. Kenzie and Bri were never mad at eachother, so their relationship didnt suffer, just the one with me. They were all ganging up on me and stuff, and it was really annoying.
Well now they ALWAYS have plans together, and I feel left out.. It is really upsetting me and Ive tried telling them how I felt, but they just say "Well maybe you should make plans FIRST" But that is hard to do, considering they always have plans. And then o...
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Ok my best friend is dating this guy i kinda have history wi
Posted Friday May 9 2008, 3:01 pm
Ok my best friend is dating this guy i knew before she did. Last year him and I hung out a lot and we had this intense energy between us like sparks. We fought a lot but it was the type of fighting you see in movies when the girl and the guy get into a completely heated debate and then attacked each other like animals. We never officially went out but the energy is still between us in a way. We still fight like that but obviously without the shock ending. My friend feels really uncomfortable with me still talking to him but says it wouldn't be fair if i just avoided him though i've offered time and time again. She thinks she's being paranoid and keeps saying that he told her he once loved me but now he loves her more. I try to comfort her b...
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How to get over an old hate?
Posted Friday May 9 2008, 5:19 am
First off, I'm a 25 year old male. A few years back, my first girlfriend and I broke up and remained friends. She started dating this guy who was a manipulative con artist. I called him on it, he told her I was trying to get back with her, and she broke off our friendship and threatened me if I ever spoke to her again.
In the end he did con her, and she still treats me like a stalker and threatening person. This would be easy to get over if I just didn't keep running into her and her clique.
How do I finally just get over the issue? I've long given up on making anything of this broken bond, and just want to stop letting this girl's existance bother me whenever I run into her.
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My friend said something very embarrassing?
Posted Thursday May 8 2008, 2:14 pm
(Story short) last year told BFF (Lara) I am bi and I have a crush on her. She is unsure of sexuality and not like me in that way. Lara and I are great friends hang out a lot and have fun together. We argue playfully and disagree on things. We push each others buttons and have a laugh. But then our friend came up and said that we are like an odd couple. I shut my mouth and ignore what she just said as so did Lara. Why did we stay quite?
i am a girl...
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