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what is the age to hav a boyfriend, my mom wont let me....
Posted Wednesday April 11 2007, 11:09 pm
stupid
stupid
my mom wont let me hav a boyfriend
and i am fourteen a female
14
14
14
14
pretty lame last yr i went bhinf
her
bac
and had a
boyfrend
it lasted over 6months
it was steady but u
jst 4 my age
and mature
{i say!}
enuf
but she says hav;n a boyfrend is having
is like a SIN
or in dat matter
dat ill b
considered a slut
whore those filthy names
and she punished w/ those names
wen she found i had a boyfriend hurt mor
bcuz she distrust
i aint a bad kid ive matained a 4.0 since 4th and
play sports
and even wen i was w/ him i contr...
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sisters
Posted Wednesday April 11 2007, 10:44 pm
OK so i spend pretty much all of my time at my sister and her boyfriends apartment, but like theres really no where else to go around here. But it think maybe theyre getting sick of me. i dunno i feel like shit. and it makes me not want to go there anymore. but instead of just not i get mad at her.. i duno what should i do.. id die if i didnt leave the house
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SISTERS!!!
Posted Wednesday April 11 2007, 5:16 pm
so i am a teen now and i have 2 lil sisters...i share a ROOM with BOTH of them and i feel like i need my own privacy i've told my mom about this and she said well wait until we get a better home with more rooms..i only have 1 brother (thank god) and every time we move he gets his own room and hes younger thn me....i mean i understand he gets it because hes the only boy but he is about 2 yrs younger thn me and every day i have to put up wit my sisters and cant stand it they are in kindergarten and 2nd grd sum1 please give me sum1 please give me sum advice to get them off my nerves so i dont hurt thm!!!!
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More
Posted Tuesday April 10 2007, 11:11 pm
ADDENDUM: About five minutes ago I asked my mom where are the summer pants (ones I didnt try on and showed her) that looks like Emmett Kelly pants (clown huge pants). She said; I hung them up in the den closet; I told her that the pants are like Emmett Kelly and she said; I know you told me that a lot please stop obsessing;. Her phone rang, she answered it and then came back to me and I said to her; I am only saying this because of the comment you made a couple of weeks ago; She said; that is your problem; I then said to her; well I like loose pants; And my mom said; Ok you like lose pants; SO MY QUESTION: Can I finally stop obsessing and accept the fact that she acknowledges I like loose pants? THIS WAS THE OLD QUESTION I ASKED BEFORE THE ...
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;l fmaily problems
Posted Tuesday April 10 2007, 6:21 pm
my familys split up
i live with my dad.
he always yells at me
when i lvied with my mom
she always yelled at me.
i dont know what to do.
it really hurts hwen i get yelled at
i usually have a massive breakdown
what can i do?
-.-
i cant swear infront of my parents.
or ill just get beaten.
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ANOUNCEMENT!!!!!!
Posted Tuesday April 10 2007, 3:13 pm
IM NOT PREGNANT!!!!!!!!oh yeah and i didnt have sex!!the stupid pregnancy test was wrong!
ok why do all of you think that i had sex willingly i could have been raped......but i am still a virgin just to let you know but i was getting symptoms of pregnancy so i thought i was.....so i took the test twice and it said i was so i asked what to do and i aprriciate all of your answers!!but i went to the docter and she said i wasnt but had no clue why i had the symptoms!and thank you again for supporting me with your answers!!
heres a real question now:
my mother always gets on my nerves how do i stop that?i also asked her to be serious with me but shes always being stupid i hate it!what do i do?
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Always be Fat?
Posted Tuesday April 10 2007, 8:45 am
Yesterday, I went to the mall with my Mom. I found a really cute skirt, and a top. When I tried it on, my mom insisted that "they were too tight." This happens ALL the time when we go shopping. Every time I try something on, my mom says, "No, its too tight" or "I think you need a bigger size," when I really don't. Something could fit just fine, and she would still insist that it is too small.
So the other day, I started crying, because she never likes ANYTHING that I try on. Then she asked me what was wrong, and I said, "Apparently I'm fat!" And she goes, "Oh no, you're not fat. The clothes just run small."
Mind you, I am a pants size 0, and I weigh 88 pounds. W...
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Family Trouble-part 2
Posted Tuesday April 10 2007, 12:00 am
OK, now im pissed off. Now that my mom's trying to get her money back, and it takes 7 hours to get to Rockford,Illinois, and 7 hours to come back. Well, hes saying that hes going to call the police on her and child services, and get my brother and me taken away from her. I swear if my mom doesnt kill him, i am. GRRRRRRRR, what should do about it, Im on my last nerve, i swear. If anyone bothers me at school tommarow, im probally going to punch someone in the face. WILL SOME ONE PLZ HELP ME?!!?!?!?!?!
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13 yr old daughter
Posted Monday April 9 2007, 11:59 pm
my daughter is 13 is she to young to get caught by me kiss with a guy but hes her best friend. shes never had a boyfriend. also she cusses and flips people off and just talks with her friends about sex humping and rapeing just perverted. shes just turned 13 shes shy and gothic which i hate it what should i do for her and all that stuff should she be doing.
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i've had enough of this.
Posted Monday April 9 2007, 10:51 pm
tonight i went to a friend's house for a little while, and my mom couldn't find the house to come pick me up even though i kept telling her how to get there. she kept yelling at me and when she finally got there, she started screaming at me more. when i got in the car she started flipping out telling me i couldn't do this anymore, and i was like "yup." and she turned around and hit me for basically agreeing with her. i didn't even do anything wrong but of course, everything i do is forbidden & dumb.
it's like my brother can do no wrong but when i do something they flip out. when i get home, the argument escalated & i basically told her that if she ever put her hands on me again i'd call the cops on her. i'm ...
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dysfunction
Posted Monday April 9 2007, 4:48 pm
i posted a question asking 'can one person be the cause of a dysfunctional family?' and LagunaBabe directed me to this site: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dysfunctional_family i read the article and immeditally started crying. i know that now, my dysfunctional family is affecting me and the way that i am. but i dont know how to change it. i dont want to end up bad. i only have 2 more years until i can legally move out. while my parents aren't addicted to drugs or alcohol, they are very controlling... i realized that all of these following symptoms from the article are true:
-Conditional love
-Disrespect
-Stifled speech (children not allowed to dissent or question authority)
-Emotional intolerance (fami...
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im 16, not a baby.
Posted Monday April 9 2007, 4:13 pm
sorry its long
Me and my mom have a really good relationship We never fight or anything i love it. But the only thing is i dont think she trusts me and she is really protective. I think its because im the youngest in my whole family, like cousins and nephews and everything. I never lie to her because i dont feel the need to and she knows it(plus if i did she would probably catch me anyway and it would be worse) But my mom never lets me go out and do fun things. She will let me go out locally because i live in a small area. But like if i want to go to concert in the city she wont et me unless there is "adult supervision" She never did that to my sister! Or if i wanna go vist my friend because she lives 4 hours away my mom w...
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husband to be and parents
Posted Monday April 9 2007, 3:47 pm
My parents don['t like husband to be. i love him with all my heart want do i do. do i brake up with him like my parents want me to, or do i say with him????? he was my 1st and i was his. thou I'm only 19 and he is was 23. nothing bad happen. i did not get pregnant. but i always told myself that the guy i have sex with the 1st time i will married. But he has cheated on me with hes bothers girlfriend. lets just say that he want all the way with her. he lets me that he did not like kissing her. i forgave him. but its hard for me to trust him 100%.
SO PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!!!!!
PLEASE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
:(
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CAMP STARLIGHT
Posted Monday April 9 2007, 2:33 pm
I want to go to that camp so badly.. I looked at the camp website and it looks so good! the bad side is that tuition is 8,600 dollars in total. um.. hold up. thats nearly 9,000 dollars!! where is a 13 year old girl supposed to get that kind of money from? i mean my parents arent really that rich.. we arent the kind of family that gets most of their money like inherited from their grandparents.. infact we have to give money to them because they're from cameroon which is in africa so my parents and relatives had to make their way through america by themselves. and we give money to our other family members in africa who werent as fortunate.. and thats good, but then we cant always go on like those vacations that like alot of my friends and etc...
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dysfunctional
Posted Monday April 9 2007, 5:47 am
can one person be the cause of a dysfunctional family?
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Cyberpatrol
Posted Sunday April 8 2007, 10:18 pm
Ok, so my mom installed this internet filter called CyberPatrol. It's really annoying because it won't allow me on way too many sites! It pops up for the most unnecessary reasons!!! usually its for "chat", "glamour and intimate apperal" and "drugs alcohol and tobacco"!!!! I'm a 13 year old girl and this Stupid filter isn't allowing me to Chat with my friends or shop or even allow me on any websites were they even Mention the word cigarettes! Please help me! 1.tell me if you agree with me. 2. I don't want to know how to hack into cyberpatrol, but I want to know how to get my mom to be reasonable with me! Is It because she doesn't trust me? Does she think I'm gonna go on 'adult' websites? PLEASE DO NOT tell me t...
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eversence last summer
Posted Sunday April 8 2007, 9:12 pm
eversence last summer i feel like everything in my life is going wrong.ok first of all i better tell you what happened last summer.my granny got lung cancer at the beginning of last summer.the caner was gone too far to opperate on it so it was like she was just slipping away in front of your eyes.she died at the end of july, july 25th.she went into a coma she was in it for 3 to 4 days.i wasnt at home when she got really sick i was gone on holidays with my cousin.i came home early and rushed to see my granny i didnt realise she was in the coma i just knew she was really sick and on my way in to see her my dad just said to me are you ready to say GOODBYE i got the shock of life when he said it.i just sat on the bed holding her hand staring at...
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my family love to yell at me all the time
Posted Sunday April 8 2007, 8:33 pm
my mom and dad like to yell at me all time, but when it come to my sister and bother they at all, it like every think i do is wrong, every thing i say is wrong. i try 2 make them happy and proud of me,but it seems to fell every time. WHAT DO I DO TO MAKE THEM HAPPY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Posted Sunday April 8 2007, 8:05 pm
Ok well i want to go easter show this thursday and im 14 turning 15 lols and i really want to go but my parents wont let me there to scared to let me go with my bestfriend tey think soem will happen tome ii told them gimie the phone nuthing will haoen just clal me and check up no any advice on ehat ii can say to them please
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Family Trouble
Posted Sunday April 8 2007, 6:23 pm
I need some major help.My family and I are at the end of our rope. My mom broke up with her bf and he took all our money saying that he deserved it because of all the times my mom has borrowed from him. Now we dont have any money to pay the bills or anything. I can't confort my mom, which I usually do, because she says something negetive. Im about to cry with all the problems i have with school, friends, and family. Im up to my neck with problems. This is the first time Ive had a problem like this and couldnt concer(sp) it. Im scared and stressed, what should I do. I need it quickly because, i really am about to cry.
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