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my drunk mom
Posted Monday April 23 2007, 7:55 pm
My mom gets drunk at least twice a week, sometimes up to 4 times a week. Today she is drunk. Tomorrow is my 17th birthday, so I got the mail to see if I received anything, and I did, but I hate opening presents early.
I went to the bathroom and when I came out, the envelopes and package had been opened by my mom and she asked if I wanted to open them tonight.
I don't know what to do..I really don't like her right now. Opening my gifts for my birthday is ruined because of her. I've told my mom's parents and her sister about her getting drunk, and they've all talked to her. She won't stop. She says she's getting help every week..it isn't helping.
What do I do about her and my birthday? :(
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stuck in a rutt should i move on
Posted Monday April 23 2007, 12:31 pm
Hi
Everything in my life has built up to a head and im not happy anymore. I moved into a new home before christmas with my son and his father which i was happy about at the time as it was a fresh start for us as a family. we moved in around october last year as since then we have been tormmented by our neighbour its as if she is living with us and our son can hardly play in his own home. To top this all off iv had alot of problems in my job which is very close to where we live and apart from feeling so insecure in my life at this time my relationship does not seam to offer me any comfort as my boyfriend has his own problems and is going through a devorce from a relationship he had years ago he also has children from this relationshi...
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ONline
Posted Monday April 23 2007, 12:41 am
Tonight I joined an online dating service and of the profiles was that this guys first passion is shopping and second is eating out. I told my mom that I do not want a guy who likes to eat. She said that he isnt saying that - he just likes the social end of dining out. And my mom could understand my feelings if the guy weighed 500 pounds but he is fit. MY QUESTION: DO YOU AGREE WITH HER THAT ALL HE LIKES IS THE SOCIAL END OF EATING OUT. (HE ALSO SAID HE LIKES THE FOLLOWING: In my free time, I enjoy: Hanging Out with Friends, Listening to/Playing Music, Shopping, Traveling/Weekend Trips/Adventure Travel I like to go to: Beach, Live Theater, Restaurants)
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I feel really bad..
Posted Sunday April 22 2007, 10:38 pm
I feel horrible, my grandma just passed away earlier today. She wasn't in good condition at all, and was in a hospice bed at her home with an aid and nurse, and my aunt. Anyways we drove up to her house and spent the night at my cousins but we stopped at her house twice to see her when she was still alive. And looking at her brought me to tears because I knew this was it, they couldn't do anything. She couldn't even talk or move or swallow, she had oxygen, her mouth was open and her eyes were half closed. She could hear you though and she was aware of whats going on. And I just was choking on words... the only thing I could manage was "Hi grandma" when I went next to her. I wanted so badly to say I love you... but I didn't. I feel...
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i wanna kill my mom. i hate her soooo much
Posted Sunday April 22 2007, 9:10 pm
ok i absolutely hate my mom. shes so over protective and its annoying me and getting on my last nerves. im 15 years old. and my cousin who is 7 has more freedom than i do. my mother doesnt trust me. and i tell her that and shes liek not thats not it. and im like yes it is. and it jsut goes on. but i know she doesnt trust me and its so annoying. i dont have my own room because she says im not old enough for any privacy. she goes through all of my stuff everyday to see whats going on in my life. its like she has cameras in my room or something. theres this hole in my closet in the corner and i stick my diary in there. and my diary has a lock. and i go to the hole in the corner of my closet (which my mom had no clue we had) and i have a pictur...
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I FUCKING HATE MY PARENTS!!!!
Posted Sunday April 22 2007, 2:52 pm
seriously i hate them right now.
i mean they give me no privacy. they just go 2 my computer and search history. i think that is really disrespectfull. i mean i can't do that with them , so they shouldn't spy on me!
anyway the also looked at my myspace and i've got some pics on there. all of my friends do , but nooooo my parents don't allow me now. (they never new i had myspace so it's not like i broke a rule or something) i'm aloud 2 have myspace , but no pics. i think that's really stupid cuz i settet my myspace private anyways!
so how can i convince my parents 2 have pics on myspace?
AND what can i do about my parents reading everything-> like comments and stuff like that.
i am really disapointed in t...
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child abuse or not?
Posted Sunday April 22 2007, 1:48 pm
you know when children are younger, they're parents hit them, spank them, and use like belts and other objects to set them straight. well how long are they allowed to do that for? when a child turns "what age" is that illegal? thanks
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GIRLZ ONLY QUESTION!!!!!!!!!
Posted Saturday April 21 2007, 10:29 pm
Ok, here's the deal. You see like two weeks ago I was on my period, and now I'm on it agian. I'm a little scared because it's heavier than most of my other ones. I told my mom, and she said that she's going to call the docter. I'm only 13 and my mom told me that it is probally because of my horomones, but I need some more advice than that. Can anyone tell me wants going on?
PLEASE and thank you. ^_^
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Mom and
Posted Saturday April 21 2007, 8:59 pm
This morning my mom was cranky and kept snapping at me to the point we had a a tiff. During the course of the fight she said; I know you ask questions about weight and other things on the computer, these people are not experts, I see what you do; (But she really does not see because I log out when she comes near my computer) And of course she and I went back and forth saying nasty things to one another. (But I like asking and getting advice on Advicenators and other websites like Advicenators and the advice makes me feel better.) SO MY QUESTION: If you were me (or even it happened to you) and someone criticizes the people that you get advice from online how would you handle it? I mean would you ignore, defend it or other (and tell me what the other is)
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mom and dad fighting
Posted Saturday April 21 2007, 4:59 pm
My parents used to get into serious fights long time ago but they stopped and now they're back. I'm the oldest out of my 2 younger siblings and they're really young. We're not aloud to go outside. What can we do?
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my mom...omg please help
Posted Friday April 20 2007, 11:10 pm
15 f
my mom is so mean lately she comes from work and all she wants to do is argue. so lately ive been going out alot with m my friends, that bothers her!! all i do is go to their house i dont do anything bad! she always talks bad to me if i ask her a simple question she would just answer me so roudly. i cant take it anymore! so she always tries to find things to argue with me about. she told me i can never go out with my friends anymore. but seeing that tomorow is saturday my bestfriend invited me to go to her house and her mom also asked me to come. now i know my mom is going to say no. but what can i say or do to convicne her please help. i really wat to go to her house. i really need help. my mom is becoming meaner like every sec...
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Tears
Posted Friday April 20 2007, 9:56 pm
Lately all I want to do is cry. But I can't cry, it's a sign of weakness, right? But I'm not sad, I'm just.....I don't know. Have I held in my tears to long? I never cry when needed, because I don't have a shoulder to cry on(friend). If I cry at school, they will ask me what's wrong, but after I'm done crying they are just going to treat me like crap again, and if I cry at home, well I can't because I have to be a good rolemodle for my autistic brother, I can't just break down and cry! So i have no where to go to cry. What should I do? I don't know if I'll break down at home or school, all I know is that I'm going to have to cry sooner or later.
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How do i convince my dad to let me go places with my friends
Posted Friday April 20 2007, 7:59 pm
Hey um... My dad doesn't let me go anywhere. It's depressing. I've tried convincing him, and that didn't work. All of my friends are allowed to go places, and they are my same age (14) It's not fair that all of my friends have a life and I don't. Their parents let them have freedom. My mom is totally fine with me going places alone with me friends. It's just that my dad's desicion overrules my mom's. I've begged my dad to let me go places with my friends and he won't let me. I'm nearly 15 and I have never been to the movies with my friends. I get so sad and depressed and EVEN SICK being at my house with nothing to do. I't so boring and I've cried many times because I'm so f***ing bored all the time and nobody cares
what can i do?
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Emo?...
Posted Friday April 20 2007, 10:48 am
Background info before I start: (warning: this might be long)
My lil sis = 13
My cousin #1 = 12
My cousin @2 = 10
Those three are really close. When they're together, they're 'the bomb'. My cousins go to a diff. school though. So naturally, the three of them see things differently.
My prob is the following. Today, I was at church and my cousins and lil sis were sitting next to me. I looked at my sis and she was scratching the inner side of her arm (where all the veins and stuff are). I told her to stop 'cause I get uncomforable when I see people scratch themselves. Long story.
Anyway, she kept on doing it till it started to bleed and there was this 'line' on her arm....
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why am i like this?
Posted Friday April 20 2007, 8:34 am
my parents, i love them, btu somteimes they get on my last nerve. when i mean last, i mean last. right now im not doing so well in school, and everytime we get into a fight, that is the first thing they talk about my grades. Sometimes they don't know how stressfull it is nowadays in school, especially how i take an AP class only as a soph. Sometimes i feel like noone understands me. Theyve always been on my case about my grades, and i try to bring them up, but its the pressure i get from them thats making me loose my sanity.Sometimes i think about killing myself, and everytime i do, i get closer and closer. I don't want to, but sometimes i feel like it's the right thing to do. Sometimes i think that by me just leaving, itll make them happie...
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mother
Posted Thursday April 19 2007, 3:47 pm
ok im 15/f and me and my mom like CANNOT get along anymore. i cant take it. shes always yelling at me, she always drinks, she dosnt let me have anyone over anymore. i have a boyfriend and he lives with us now but he wont get a job and i get yelled at for that too. and i dont no what to say to either of them. like my mom is trying to make me get a job too and im too young. what should i doo?
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I can't deal with my mom anymore..
Posted Thursday April 19 2007, 3:34 am
Hey. Well, I'm thirteen, and I've moved back in with my mom 4 years ago [my parent's got divorced, long story]. Just about half a year ago, my mom and I started to really get on eachother's last nerves. It seems like she never approves of anything I do, like wearing 'dark' eyeliner or painting my nails black. I can't even talk to her anymore becuase it's like she's insane or something. She doesn't listen to me, and yells from the conversation's start to finish. She won't even let me like make a deal with her, like I'll wear lighter eyeliner, but the nails stay black. All she does is comment on how I'm too skinny, or 'goth' or how my behavior changes when I'm with different friends, like they influence how I behave, which is NOT true. She al...
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for my older sister's wedding
Posted Wednesday April 18 2007, 10:26 pm
hi!
i'm going to be a bridesmaid in my wedding and i really want to do something special. i might want to sing a song.. what are some good songs that i can sing? i want meaningful lyrics and maybe slow songs..i was thinking maybe i should look up different songs and take different lyrics and try to put them together.
or maybe write a speech but im not sure what to write. so please give me some suggestions..thank
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I think my cousin loves me.
Posted Wednesday April 18 2007, 7:02 pm
Me and my cousin have so much in common and we get along great. But he drops hints that makes me think he wants to be more.
1. He always invites me to party's with his friends and we play spin the bottle. IDK how he does it but he always gets it to land on me.(Which is awkward)
2. Its normal for us to sleepover but I have to sleep in his room and he sometimes comes to the floor to sleep next to (or sometimes on top) of me
3. We are both 16 and IDK what to say to him since we go to the same school, play the same sports, and shop at the same places. It;s weird
NEED GOOD ADVICE PLEASE!!!!
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MOM
Posted Wednesday April 18 2007, 6:45 pm
my mom says i dnt love her but i show it in my own way wat do i do??
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