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isolation from the world
Posted Wednesday May 28 2008, 9:44 pm
Lately I've been feeling more and more isolated from the world. I usually talk to my friends about it, but lately I haven't been getting that feel good feeling I usually get when I talk about it. Also I am one of those people who have no contact with their family whatsoever. That really doesn't help with the problem either. I want to talk to my friends in person, but I can't, because I either don't have enough time to talk with them about it, or I can't even get to the person to ask them about it. Idk, can you help me on this?
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My best friends Girlfriend.
Posted Wednesday May 28 2008, 6:12 pm
Steven is like by best friend and yes he is a guy. No I am not dating him but he's so much more trustworthy then some of the girl-friends I have. Well he is dating a girl named Melissa and she's CRAZY! She gives me deat stare whenever I talk to Steven, and aoids talking to me. Not that Im rushing to be her friend. And then today I accidentailly bumped into her apoligised and she was like "What is your problem?! I know you love my boyfriend but he's mine!" I was like woah now simmer down...
She's really starting to scare me but Steven really likes her and I dont wanna do anything to hurt him but jeez Melissas gunna like shoot me or something!
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My friends house burned down
Posted Wednesday May 28 2008, 5:53 pm
Okay so my friends house burned down this morning. I'm still in shock. I really want to help her through this. She lost everything, except the clothes she's wearing and her cell phone. Now I know this should be common sense, but I need your help. I need to help her out and help her through this. I just dont know how to go about doing so. I'm going to ask her if she wants to spend the weekend at my house or if she wants to hangout. Also she's a huge Jonas Brothers fan so i'm giving her a bunch of mine. I'm just wondering what else I could do. Like obviously i'm going to be there for her if she needs to talk and all but what can I do and how do I go about doing it? Any advice is greatly appreciated. Thanks in advance.
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is she my friend?
Posted Wednesday May 28 2008, 5:16 pm
So there is this girl, she doesnt go to my school, but her and all her girls at school always thought my ex was cute and stuff when i was going out with him. and this girl who i thought was my friend danced with him at a dance after we had broken up, then came and told me about it? and im like okay. and then the next day she apologized over a message and stuff and how it was nothing. and i told her i didnt care because i didnt want to start anything. hurting people is the last thing i'd do and i tend to keep my feelings bottled up inside so no one is hurt and everyones still my friend because thats the kind of person i am. well now i see they have been getting closer, and yeah hes moving in a month or two, but they've been getting awfully c...
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feeling..disrespected? idk
Posted Wednesday May 28 2008, 4:43 pm
16/f/sophomore
im trying to make friends this year but it's so hard! i dont have a "best friend", a person who i think is the coolest person to hang out with ever and who thinks the same about me, like other girls & guys with my grade. thats bc i used to be really shy but now im pretty much over shyness and i want to be social.
i know i should be nice & talkative but i feel like its HARD because i dont want to become one of those people who are so OBVIOUSLY trying to be friends with someone else and spend all their time talking to them when that person doesnt like them. also it seems like veryone already has their own best friends, a crew that they can hang out with at ANYTIME. while i have f...
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guy freind
Posted Wednesday May 28 2008, 3:38 pm
tips showing freindship with out mixing feelings
thanks
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our relationship is going down the drain
Posted Wednesday May 28 2008, 12:04 am
okay so me and my best friend have been best friends for like a year now. we used to be so tight, we never fought or anything. then for spring break she invited me to go to the beach with her, and at that time she didnt no that i had depression and bi-polar problems, and she didnt no that i cut myself. so during it i was having alot of problems and i couldnt control any of my feelings and it was really bad, so the whole time she was always mad at me because i was in a bad mood, but i couldnt tell her anything. so finally we came back from that, and that night i told her of my problems. she took it really hard, but eventually our relationship went back to normal, or so i thought. from then on it seemed like everything was okay, but once in a...
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Rebecca.
Posted Tuesday May 27 2008, 9:58 pm
14\Female.
I stayed back in the sixth grade, and while all my friends continued on with there lives I went in reverse. I made a friend named Becky- who at the time seemed to completely replaced all of my friends that I accumulated over the 7years of my educational life. I am now in the 7th grade and have completly changed. I went from being mean and phyically hurting people and Fstudent to Honor Roll and the last time I hit someone was my first year in 6thgrade. Im extremely proud of my accomplisments, and I can't look at school without Becky now.
Rebeccas' completely changed though, into someone no one likes but her. People are telling her Why are you so mean? Why did you say that? When did you start acting like this?...
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my friends mom
Posted Tuesday May 27 2008, 7:13 pm
my friends mom is having triple bypass surgery because shes a heavy smoker. my friend is tryin to be there for her but shes already told him that its going to be impossible for her to quit. hes torn apart because shes not even willing to quit even if it means her life. i dont know what to say to make him feel better i dont even know if theres anything i can do to help i just feel so bad cause he cares about her so much and she could careless if she died or even saw him graduate
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Start over? yes or no?
Posted Tuesday May 27 2008, 9:08 am
13/f
ok so im the person who posted that question about friend C who called me a B****. She asked me if i wanted to start over with her, you know our friendship. the thing is im scared that if i say yes, then i will have to suffer all her insults and stuff again. i think shes just taking advantage of me, although most of the times shes actually pretty nice and you know friendly, but to be honest ill tell her stuff that obviously are secrets and she tells her cousin nd bro. i dont know what to say really. can somebody help me out by giving me the good and bad stuff if i say yes and no. and then give me your opinion on which i should choose? please be quick, i need the answer by tomorrow!!! thanks so much. and i might seem pretty stu...
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I don't fit in
Posted Tuesday May 27 2008, 1:10 am
20/f
I feel a little old to be asking this sort of question. It's less of a "what do I do?" and more of a "what do you think?" Although, if you have an answer to "what do I do?" please feel free to respond with it.
All my life I've had friends, and friend "groups." My groups are pretty separate - I could never really have every one of my friends hanging out in the same space and not have a few fights break out or general tension in the air. I'm realizing recently that I don't really...fit in...with ANY of my friend "groups." I have a lot of guy friends. They all like girls, working out, and sports...and music, pretty much. I mean, I'm a gym rat and a musician in many ways, but...
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I dont feel like her friend anymore! :(
Posted Monday May 26 2008, 3:18 pm
13/f
Mii friend C, shes hurt me a lot of times, like telling me how im a B**** when i just told her she can be a little messed up sometimes. another time, she told me she didnt want me to be friends with her friends that she knew first. also, shes said stuff to my little brother about how shes just taking advantage of me because im nice like that and im smart(i dont mean to brag but she said that). im really hurt and then she just gets mad at me, i dont think i hurt her because i would never try to hurt a friend. sometimes shes just like that and shes lied to me so much but i dont get why im so nice about anything and i always forgive her. but this time i cant forgive her because i cant take it anymore. please some advice on what i...
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loss
Posted Monday May 26 2008, 2:27 pm
Okay, I guess you could say my best friend and I "broke up."
That sounds stupid, but it's the best description.
It was because of her a guy and I couldn't handle it, and I tried to just get everything out there, but eventually she chose him over me.
Well, we've been best friends since 1st grade, and I got way to attatched, to the point where she was basically my only friend.
So, I tried to ask her if she like wants to be best friends, not that we have to if she says yes, but if she even feels like she misses me I guess.
I didn't get an answer, and I don't know if that was because she's just trying to forget of she means no.
But if she meant no, she s...
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He got someone else prgnant!?
Posted Monday May 26 2008, 11:57 am
Ok, this girl who's in my class is really sweet, and she's been with her boyfriend for about 19 months.
They've had sex a couple of times and she's ok about it.
At a party I saw her boyfriend go off with another girl (my friend was grounded then).
I didn't think much of it until my boyfriend told me 'Why did Sean f*ck Lily??Isn't he with Bella(my friend)??''
A week ago my boyfriend told me that Sean had got Lily pregnant..and the worst thing is that Lily is Bella's cousin!
Should someone tell Bella, since we all know that Sean won't tell her.
I'm worried...
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My best friend broke her promise to stay pure
Posted Monday May 26 2008, 1:35 am
Alright I know I need to talk to her about it, but help me out here. Okay so my friend, we'll call her "B", decided she was going to save herself for marriage. Her mom got her this really nice purity ring for christmas. Then B left it in the girls bathroom at school, so of course it's long gone. So her mom baught her another one. There's only one problem now. It's that she didnt keep her promise. Now she had talked about saving herself for marriage and everything for a while now. Then she goes off and does this, with a guy she met only like 2 weeks ago. Not to mention the fact that he didnt even ask her to be his girlfriend until like a couple days after they had sex. She's just going about like it wasnt even a big deal or anythin...
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My friend likes to pick fights with me (why?)?
Posted Sunday May 25 2008, 10:48 pm
We are both close best friends and we bicker, I mean I have two close friends and we don’t bicker like I do with my friend (lets call her S). There was this time when I wanted to go get sushi for myself, S made a gross look on her face.
“Hey there’s nothing wrong with it, its good”
“S: No it is disgusting”
(My other Friend commented) “I dont like sushi”
S: “See! She doesn’t like it”
(Rolled my eyes) “Okay, I am not forcing you to eating it. I am eating it!”
And
“S: This is a good book I think you will like it you should read it”
“When I have time”
“S: But it’s good”
“I know, but I am not a reader l...
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I dont like my friend anymore.
Posted Sunday May 25 2008, 12:54 pm
13/f My best friend, lets call her A, has really been using me and lying to me. She always apologizes afterwards when things happen between us, and i will always forgive her. Now this time, she tells me i dont know her and that i can be a "bitch" at times. i just told her she can be a little messed up. and now shes taken me off her top on myspace and her scroll box of best friends. so im really pissed off at her and shes said stuff to my brother about how, oh she dont think im that good at spelling and grammar, and how shes never lost an argument(while i know she has), which she says would make her a good lawyer(we both want to be lawyers), and how she doesnt like me because i wont do her homework for her or tell her the answe...
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Friend Advice
Posted Sunday May 25 2008, 2:49 am
I have this friend
lets call her flower
Flower doesn't have a friend that is always by her side
I always see her lonely
But sometimes she "travel" friends
like ex.
one day she will be with these group of friends
then the next etc
Flower is a funny and cool person
I tried to be the friend who she's next to but
I feel shes like a superstar or too awesome for me
And I feel like she isn't comfortable with me I think because she's like a mature friend but then the funny person
I'm more of retardness friend lol
She even told me about how she is everyday at school
I tried to think of ways to...
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i want to know if im a slut
Posted Sunday May 25 2008, 2:35 am
ok, im 14 years old. i have been sexually active with three guys. ive had sex with one 2 times an almost had sex with the third guy hours after i met him. the second guy ive done almost everything with except sex. ive known the guy i had sex with for 3 an a half years, the second guy 2 years an the third guy a couple months now but only hours before the incident. there was supposed to be a fourth guy tonight but i was to confused. did i mention all these guys are my older brothers best friends? the oldest is about 17 an the youngest guy was 15 turning 16. does this mean im a slut? even if i havent had SEX with them all, only one?
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Questioning the Status
Posted Saturday May 24 2008, 11:02 am
Im sorry, this might turn out sort of long and it probably should have gone under the love catagory. Im fourteen, female, a freshman in highschool.
Anywho, I have chronic fatigue syndrome and maybe mild social anxiety or something of the like and Im just starting to get over it so Ive been homebound for the past three months.
And theres this guy. We talk pretty often, on the computer and the telephone and whatnot. It was only the night before last [todays the twentyfourth] that we both confessed to liking each other. Hes moving further up state come the end of summer. But I really want to actually GO OUT, you know? Im not sure if he thinks were a couple or not. Itd be hard especially because we dont see each other much. I trie...
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