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My Best Friend: The JERK?
Posted Tuesday June 3 2008, 9:48 pm
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My Best Friend is a JERK!!! At least I think.
My best friend is a guy. We get teased a LOT about it, but whatever. He WAS dating this girl named Destiny. She's in 8th grade (we're in 7th.) She's a little bit of a slut, but I didn't say anything, even though I secretly have a crush on Koby, but whatever... The point is his OTHER best girl friend, Katie, and I saw Destiny dirty dancing and holding hands with a guy OTHER THAN KOBY!!! I was pissed, as you can imagine. Katie was too, so she texted Koby and was like,"Destiny's with another guy." And we took a pic of them holding hands. Koby texted her back,"How am I suppose to believe you? Are you tired of waiting for me to break up with her so you ca...
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my best friend and the guy i like
Posted Tuesday June 3 2008, 3:24 pm
Ok so my best friend has been through a lot this year. a little while ago i was pretty much her only friend then i got her reaquanted with her old friend that moved away who was also a very good friend of mine. now the friend that moved away,becca, has this brother that i really like. and she knows that and is cool with me likeing her brother. when i introduced the other girl sarah to all of them she started liking the brother. and she knows that i have liked him for a while. then this other guy came in and his name is john. he liked me and i kinda liked him but i still like the brother a lot more.and so i didnt know what i should do about my friend because i didnt want a boy to mess up a great friendship and i really want my friend to be h...
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my friends boyfriend is taking over her!
Posted Monday June 2 2008, 6:22 pm
okay well my best friend has a boyfriend and he is a nice kid but she is spending too much time with him. like when i call her and ask her to hang out she will say oh i have to study when really she will be with her boyfriend and it makes me sad. we have used to hang out all the time before this boy came and i love her so much and i really dont want to loose her as a friend. she sometimes even tells me that this boy is cheating on her even when she doesnt know it for sure. then she will text me saying how sorry she is for not being with me as much as she should because "boys come & go but friends stay forever" but as soon and her and her bf are ok again she just goes back to her old ways. it makes me very hurt when she doesn...
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aaaaaah
Posted Monday June 2 2008, 12:04 pm
extremely pathetic but also extremely annoying! There is 9 on us in our group at school, and lately i feel as though know one could really care less wether i was there or not half the time i am just tagging along trying to include myself in the conversation. No one shares there 'gossip' with me or makes conversation with me. I feel like a total outcast it can be embarassing aswell when people are looking at me its like haha she hasnt got anyone to talk to what a loser, our 'group' is quit popular aswell which is annoying. My so caleld best friend dosnt even talk ro me very much anymore is like they all moved on or something they are never themselfs and are always so obsessive other boys and really in love with themself. Shes always mixing ...
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Is this incredibly cheesy?
Posted Sunday June 1 2008, 4:54 pm
Well, since it's the end of my sophomore year and a lot of people are moving away to different schools and whatnot..I decided to write each best best friend a letter describing all the memories and good times/bad times we had this year. It's a really touching letter and I don't know how some of my friends will respond. Should I do it? To show how much I care?
Also..do you think it would be a bad idea to do this for an ex boyfriend that I still care about? (he cares for me too.) but I don't know if it would be the right thing to do and I definitely wouldn't know what to say. But I wanna show him that if there's a chance, we could try again next year (we broke up less than a month ago).
Thank you in advance :))
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curlyy
Posted Saturday May 31 2008, 11:37 pm
So for a dance i did my hair in curls and i really liked it but it took like an hour with a curling iron. I have long brown hair. It is straight but wavy in a few spots. I was wondering how i could get long loose curls in my hair, but like not scrunching it, or taking hours with a curling iron, bc i dont have a curling iron and i hate lots of hairspray. thanks!
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alexa nicolas 101 zoey
Posted Saturday May 31 2008, 7:36 pm
why did nicole [alexa nikolas] leave Zoey 101?
did she and zoey really fight and thats why??
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I feel really hurt by my best friend
Posted Saturday May 31 2008, 2:13 pm
You see my best friend is dating this guy that used to flirt and play around with me a lot last year. I mean he really hurt me but he was stupid and immature, he's a better guy now, or at least i like to think so. He does seem like it. Anyway, my friend asked me at least five times if it was ok with me for her to go out with him and i said sure. And i meant it my feelings are pretty much gone for him. But you see she keeps saying that any day now he's gonna leave her for me. She came up to me a few weeks ago asking me if i still have feelings for him and i said i didn't. I said he just toyed with me last year cause he was immature and then she said all dramatically 'no, he said he loved you.'. and she walked off and i chased her down and to...
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Summer to-do list :)
Posted Saturday May 31 2008, 10:49 am
I'm planning on making this an incredible summer. Any really fun ideas for a Summer to-do list? I'm 15, almost 16, and I'll pretty much do anything for fun. Just looking for a few creative ideas :)
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wat if shes bi?
Posted Friday May 30 2008, 8:10 pm
ok the thing is a friend of mine might be bi. but the thing is, would she act any different if she is? i mean i havent known her for long, and i dont know if she acted differently b4. but a friend of hers and mine as well(she known her 3 years ago) told me she acted different this year. im worried, does it make a difference if a persons not straight? one of my friends told me she had a bi friend and dat she isnt different. well the thing is i dont noe any bi or gay or lesbian people so i dont know. i need advice! please! thank you.
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not getting attached.
Posted Friday May 30 2008, 5:36 pm
ok so apparently im a flirt, which i dont always try to be, but you know. now that it's summer, my best friend [who is also a major flirt] and i have been partyin and just hangin out with lots of different groups of people, especially guys. i dont mind flirtin with them if theyre cool and even keepin in touch via text and myspace and stuff. the problem is if they start to flirt/show interest back, i start thinking ooh he likes me and get attached, and i dont want that! i just wanna be able to flirt around and have fun, no attachments. it's my senior year i dont want anything serious =] how can i achieve that ?
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silly boy
Posted Friday May 30 2008, 5:20 pm
ok. i'm 15 from IL. my friend has the hugest crush on my other friend. but shes so oblivious that she doesn't even realize it. should i tell her, or should i just let the chips fall where they may?
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holding a conversation
Posted Friday May 30 2008, 5:04 pm
I have problems holding conversations with people. I will be talking with someone and they ask me what I want to talk about and nothing pops into my mind..... im scared Im a dull person to talk to. How do people just come up with things to talk about? Im also very shy when Im talking to people face to face like I have problems looking at people in their eyes as well, any suggestions would be greatly apriciated! Thanks ahead of time!
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Goodbye Present For Teacher
Posted Friday May 30 2008, 3:22 pm
Hello,
My question is there is this teacher who has taught me twice and he has been like a really good friend to me and is moving to Australia. He loves to play guitar and i wanted to give him a heart felt gift to say goodbye and let him remember me by. I have made him cards and whatever. My idea was getting him a strap for his guitar, but i thought that it wasnt good enough for a good bye gift, any other thoughts/ideas? Thanks!
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Lost my BFF to a lie.
Posted Friday May 30 2008, 2:31 am
Around 1 year ago, I had a fight with my best friend of four years. Things got awkward between us because she accused me of lying (and I denied it) but she kept believing that I had lied (which technically, I guess I had). It wasn't about anything big, or anything concerning our friendship, but nonetheless its result was colossal.
First we just stopped calling each other (after having talked/texted every single day!) then we started avoiding each other, and then we just stopped acknowledging each others exsistance all together.
About 6 months later she called me, asking me what went wrong with our friendship, we forgave each other and went back to being friends. The thing is - I hadn't missed her during those...
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noo he seems a bit bipolar alright =[
Posted Friday May 30 2008, 1:34 am
If youve read my last question, which I deleted, youd understand my situation a bit better.
But I have a sleep and mood disorder, so I was recently homebound but I keep in contact with my closest guyfriend and thee cutest crush. Oh! Im fourteen female, by the way.
But a heck of a lot has been going on with me and this boy. There was this whole debacle a few months back involving tons of new friends, old friends, threewayIM attacks...and MYSPACE.
A week ago I was able to fess up and say how I felt, but only after he did first. Things have been shaky for this week after.
Hes turning into a bit of a hypocrite, I think. It would help if you knew he was moving upstate within the summer.
Just hours ago on AIM, h...
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telling the truth ruins a friendship!
Posted Thursday May 29 2008, 9:48 pm
so ill start from the beginning. i was at lunch upstairs with mii friends, because itsz pretty boring in the lunchroom. so i wrote on the board, just something random and true but still random and not pointed at any particular person. so then im dont and admiring mii graffiti. veronica comes up to me and asks me whos password i new...i told her the truth...i was dumb to. i told her i knew her password, thinking she trusts me enough not to hack into it and all, and i dont. so then shes like ok wat is it. i tell her and shes just pushing me into the wall but i didnt fight bak because it wouldnt do any good. she tried to make me tell her who told me, but the person who told me her password(dont mistake her, shes mii best friend, the beste...
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Chances
Posted Thursday May 29 2008, 7:06 pm
I'll make this short. I recently tried making a clean break from a guy-friend who's hurt me in the past. I haven't told him exactly why he hurt me, just that he hurt me before and he took it badly.
Now his girlfriend/my best friend wants me to talk it out to him. You know, try and give him a second (well technically third) chance, and discuss what's wrong. She promised that it was my choice if I wanted to, she was just suggesting trying but I really don't know.
He's friends with a lot of my friends, and I don't want to make them think they have to choose. And I haven't told him WHY, so maybe that will help.
But I don't want to be hurt again. What should I do?
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i might lose my best friend
Posted Thursday May 29 2008, 4:47 pm
one of my really good friends and i are in a fight and idk if we're gonna be friends again.he and i have been really good friends since december.a few weeks ago i thought i liked him..so i told him..cause were really good friends so i knew hed be cool with it..and he was..but then i found out that he was talking to this girl about it and he said it was weird now because he thought i was always all over him and always flirting with him..but i dont. and he was just talking crap about me.like we hug each other and tease each other but i do that with all my guy friends.i dont like him like that anymore.when i see him all i feel is friendship. but when i found out he was talking crap about me i got mad.
so the next time i saw him he went ...
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My BEST friend is a lie.
Posted Wednesday May 28 2008, 10:59 pm
My best friend lies to me about everything. ive confronted her about it. and novv she is continuing.. any advice on vvhat i should do?
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